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Girlee:
Yeah! I just don't want to be the reason you both are fighting with words.
I won't overthink the "I love you" and about the hug, he's only wishing.

Thanks again for looking out for me. Your kind is rare!

dustydee:
Apply to universities with less competition. They are mainly in the North. Then if you do not get your preferred course, don't worry. Go for what ever you are given. You will figure out the rest later..
I wish you the best.

Girlee:
You're right. It's the bitter truth!
Thanks for letting me know this

Girlee:
I'm just an eighteen years old female child who would be turning nineteen in Five months time.
I'm a little girl with the brains of a wise old man.
I'm a counselor, motivational speaker, inspirational writer and an upcoming writer.
Nobody knows me as "Girlee"; not even me. I know that's stupid. I just had to come up with this "Girlee" I really don't fancy.
For some reasons I still can't decipher, I couldn't create an account here with my actual "social media" name (still my real name though).
I've counselled the married, singles and those in courtship. I've motivated so many and inspired a whole lot on the planet and things turned out great for them. But the thing is: who will and can counsel the counselor?

Tonight, I'm broken as I've never been before.
I've sat for jamb thrice now and in all, I scored above 200.
Why didn't I gain admission?

Continuation...

Girlee:
I'm just an eighteen years old female child who would be turning nineteen in Five months time.
I'm a little girl with the brains of a wise old man.
I'm a counselor, motivational speaker, inspirational writer and an upcoming writer.
Nobody knows me as "Girlee"; not even me. I know that's stupid. I just had to come up with this "Girlee" I really don't fancy.
For some reasons I still can't decipher, I couldn't create an account here with my actual "social media" name (still my real name though).
I've counselled the married, singles and those in courtship. I've motivated so many and inspired a whole lot on the planet and things turned out great for them. But the thing is: who will and can counsel the counselor?

Tonight, I'm broken as I've never been before.
I've sat for jamb thrice now and in all, I scored above 200.
Why didn't I gain admission?

Continuation...

Evolutionlove:
Op one Customer don show.

More to Come. Them don hear 18 Years Old. Their Mustache don Stand

Go check your DM. Some of them will be shy to reach out to you on here.

Girlee:
Yeah! Thanks to good people like you out here, I'm done with the thoughts of running away from home.
I won't.
Thanks a lot! I really appreciate your edifying words 🙏

My mum is fine! She's managing her husband and loves him but prays he changes soon enough.

Girlee:
He's a salary earner (a mobile police officer), he doesn't live with us and comes only to visit. Usually,when he comes, he brings already washed clothes he'd wear for the 3-4 days he will be staying.
I've taught in schools, worked as a home lesson teacher, and worked as a waitress just so I can support him. I've been doing these things since I was 16. He never appreciates. Most of these jobs I had to quit because he felt I was earning millions and stop taking responsibility in the house. It got to the point where my mum would ask for feeding money and he'd tell her to ask me for my salary. Salary of how much?
My first teaching salary was 10k, the second, I taught 4 subjects and was paid 12k, as an home lesson teacher, I taught 4 students in my house and was getting 1k every two weeks from each of them. My mum stopped me from being their teacher. She said the children made too much noise and crowded the house; and lastly, when i worked as a waitress, I was paid 20k.
I worked just so I could buy myself sanitries, pay church levy, recharge my phone and buy new clothes.
No one does these things for me.
I got the beating of my life last year. What was my crime? I asked daddy to give my five hundred naira for sanitary pad and what I got was "abeg! I nor get! Ask your mama". I got angry because I was on my period and secondly because he was spending so much money in fencing the house and I only asked for five hundred naira. My mum would give if she has and I know that. She spoils us even if it's just 2k she has. I wish God had blessed her Instead.

He's hard to please.
One day, my mum served him food with one piece of meat, he called it "prisoners food". The next day, she served him with two and his remark was: "Na so una dey waste food for the house". My mum attempted to remove one since he complained but he didn't allow her.

Failure2019:
Look for a guy that'll sponsor you in uni



There are tons of guys that'll sponsor a girl in uni especially if she's doing nursing


Or start doing dropshipping or affiliate marketing

Evolutionlove:
Op one Customer don show.

More to Come. Them don hear 18 Years Old. Their Mustache don Stand

Go check your DM. Some of them will be shy to reach out to you on here.

Girlee:
I'm just not in the mood so I won't be telling much stories...

Last year, depression almost killed me if not for the saving grace of God.
I wrote jamb, scored 225. Took delta state university's post utme form and scored 68. I wasn't admitted.
As I so much didn't want to stay at home for another year, I called my dad and asked him to send me money for a change of institute, he declined.
He was like "abeg! Wait for another year, I nor get shi shi". Yeah, I know he's not a literate but I expected that he knew the value of education but he doesn't.

I cried my eyes out for months and had to take up a job as a waitress so i could afford this year's jamb reg fee.
I took jamb again and scored 212. All glory to God because I never prepared. I worked from 8am till 10pm and sometimes till 11pm. My boss then even turned me to a dish washer.
Salary was 20k. 20k that my dad can pay me monthly but he was okay with that.

Okay...
I'm broke and jobless now because I want to prepare well for my upcoming Uniben's post utme.
I asked him for just 2,500 to buy past question but this was his reply:
"2,500 for wetin? I nor get oo. E be like you go relax and try again next year or just wait make you mature then you marry".

I shouted at him until I lost my voice, I cried and I'm like God why??

Evolutionlove:
Okay.

Start Olosho Work like all your Mates are currently doing and stop posting stvpid sob stories on here. Nonsense.

odunH:
You don kolo o😁😁which kain talk be this, person wan help naau😊

Girlee:
I asked him for just 2,500 to buy past question but this was his reply:
"2,500 for wetin? I nor get oo. E be like you go relax and try again next year or just wait make you mature then you marry".

Girlee:
I'm just not in the mood so I won't be telling much stories...

Last year, depression almost killed me if not for the saving grace of God.
I wrote jamb, scored 225. Took delta state university's post utme form and scored 68. I wasn't admitted.
As I so much didn't want to stay at home for another year, I called my dad and asked him to send me money for a change of institute, he declined.
He was like "abeg! Wait for another year, I nor get shi shi". Yeah, I know he's not a literate but I expected that he knew the value of education but he doesn't.

I cried my eyes out for months and had to take up a job as a waitress so i could afford this year's jamb reg fee.
I took jamb again and scored 212. All glory to God because I never prepared. I worked from 8am till 10pm and sometimes till 11pm. My boss then even turned me to a dish washer.
Salary was 20k. 20k that my dad can pay me monthly but he was okay with that.

Okay...
I'm broke and jobless now because I want to prepare well for my upcoming Uniben's post utme.
I asked him for just 2,500 to buy past question but this was his reply:
"2,500 for wetin? I nor get oo. E be like you go relax and try again next year or just wait make you mature then you marry".

I shouted at him until I lost my voice, I cried and I'm like God why??

Girlee:
I'll put this into consideration. Thanks a lot, I appreciate 🙏

Girlee:
[I'm pained!
I just want to know "how people run away from home".
I know I've got nowhere to go to and no one to run to but all I can think of right now is how I must leave this house, the negative vibes, the toxicity and hate.

My dad bought so many bags of cement, trips of sand to build his house. How much did I ask for?

I can't do what my mates are doing in the street because I just can't. If not, I just might have been one of those underaged prostitutes or thieves.
God has so much helped me because I've thought of so many crazy things to do but Christ in me won't allow it.

I want to be free abeg!
How do I run away from home?😩

Girlee:
I'm just an eighteen years old female child who would be turning nineteen in Five months time.
I'm a little girl with the brains of a wise old man.
I'm a counselor, motivational speaker, inspirational writer and an upcoming writer.
Nobody knows me as "Girlee"; not even me. I know that's stupid. I just had to come up with this "Girlee" I really don't fancy.
For some reasons I still can't decipher, I couldn't create an account here with my actual "social media" name (still my real name though).
I've counselled the married, singles and those in courtship. I've motivated so many and inspired a whole lot on the planet and things turned out great for them. But the thing is: who will and can counsel the counselor?

Tonight, I'm broken as I've never been before.
I've sat for jamb thrice now and in all, I scored above 200.
Why didn't I gain admission?

First of all drop that mindset that you know soon much. Again Jamb and university or any other high institution aren't all you can do, think of other things you can learn outside the formal school environments like university, polytechnic, collage of education etc. There are things like IT training, fashion $ beauty and many other skills and trades you can venture in. Jamb and university can come later, but you need to be busy doing a reasonable thing now

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Tadeus:
Please don't, you too young for that. Marketing job or secretary job in pH it real won't pay your bills instead lear digital skill.

Please calm down, and put in more pressure to secure admission. Some people will volunteer to help you here but lots of them are after to have sex with you. Don't take their offer. Talk to your dad, let him know what you are going through. Was your dad aware that your are depressed? If I may ask, were is your mum?

Girlee:
[I'm pained!
I just want to know "how people run away from home".
I know I've got nowhere to go to and no one to run to but all I can think of right now is how I must leave this house, the negative vibes, the toxicity and hate.

My dad bought so many bags of cement, trips of sand to build his house. How much did I ask for?

I can't do what my mates are doing in the street because I just can't. If not, I just might have been one of those underaged prostitutes or thieves.
God has so much helped me because I've thought of so many crazy things to do but Christ in me won't allow it.

I want to be free abeg!
How do I run away from home?😩

Lat1ene:
You are welcome my sister

See you at the top

You should also get a mentor, who have face and handle similar problems and is now in school

professore:
have you tried churches? They help.

OBTOREPA:
Is well with you, pray with proverbs 21:1. To turn the heart of your father. Don't ever defile yourself for any Reason, remain humble to your parents no matter what. God is faithful.

Ruskov:
The guy will sponsor her , and not want to see the colour of her undies? Low minded Guys of nowadays that see all girls as prostitutes? What are you even saying sef?

Imagine someone giving her advice , and the only thing he could say is start olosho work. This will tell you the calibre of monsters we have in the name of guys.

My advice is , if she can have patience and do tech , UI /UX and have some cash she can raise or this drop shipping, the best for her. As for her and guys , make them no ruin her life for her abeg. She still get bright future ahead.

Girlee:
Thanks a lot!
So many angels reaching out to me😭... I'm so emotional right now. I never thought I would get people talking to me with love. I just wanted to let my story out. Thanks!!!
I love you all🌹

Etiyin:
I will advise you not to leave your current place of residence. Most of these people here offering their help might not do anything for you in the end. Stay in your parent house and prepare for your exams. You’re still young and don't be too hard on yourself. In addition, some of these people telling you to leave your comfort zone in other to make it in life. I want to tell you categorically that it might not really work in some situations. I left my comfort zone when I had gathered most of the skills I needed to make it outside my comfort zone and it paid off. Stay in your state and develop skills. You don’t leave your comfort zone when you’re not ready. I wish you all the best in your exams.