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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Felaincarnated: 12:06am On Jun 13, 2023
I dey break my own bottle, pack and dispose
superCleanworks:

marking of boundaries is very important. once you cross that line just keep living your life and forgive yourself because I will not even remember your name.

you automatically turn to an empty bottle to me.
Guys what do you do when the bottle is empty?

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Felaincarnated: 12:19am On Jun 13, 2023
E get elasticity meter o
victme1:
Cheat but don't be caught.
It is the knowing that is bad and damaging.
Morover the thing no the read Meter.



Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Afokesco(m): 12:28am On Jun 13, 2023
Evestar200:
Several Times

When I was in school, I was dating one guy, we met in Warri when he was living with his parents, so one day when I was in school, he called me to come to Ughelli because my school is 30 minutes drive. to his place. I went there and found him in a new apartment and I asked if he has rent a house but he said his friend was the one that rented the house. I knew it was a lie because each time visited him I couldn't find any other person's properties apart from his inside the house so I didn't bother to talk about it again.

After a few months, I visited and saw women's nightwear in the house and I refuse to confront him because I know he will lie, so that day he told me he want to travel so he took me to the park where I will get transport to my school. After he left me, I saw him at another park close to the one I am with another girl who came to visit him from Anambra grin grin grin.

All these while have been suspecting him because he used to talk about the Anambra girl and one in Bayelsa and he is married to the one in Bayelsa now.

He chatted me up one day after he got married and I told him I don't have anything to do with married men.

The second one is a chronic liar and scammer, I was lucky he only get away with my 200k and my new Camon 16 of over 100k then.

Anyway, I am very careful with men and relationships nowadays because I am always unlucky when it comes to one and maybe that's the reason I have been lucky in getting a job on time to Carter for my needs instead of depending on men.
I live in warri let's hook up
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Evestar200(f): 12:43am On Jun 13, 2023
Afokesco:
I live in warri let's hook up
Lol

This World is a small place, Afoke, you are my departmental person from Despo grin grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Mikel99(m): 12:45am On Jun 13, 2023
I feel so depressed reading about the high rate of relationship failure in this country. It is like this country has made a pact with failure. Failure in all areas of life. Relationship, resources management, governance, education. Mention any specific area where this country has excelled in.
Anyway, I am happy for being a Muslim because stories of relationship breakdown are hardly heard from Muslims. In fact, Muslim girls are the most faithful. You will hardly find any leaked sex videos of Muslim girls on the net. Most are Christian girl names like Amaka, Stephanie, joy, Rebecca, Gifty and so on.
However, I am as single as the Sun.

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Mikel99(m): 1:10am On Jun 13, 2023
. I feel so sad and inferior when I hear about fellow men share their intimate encounters with the opposite sex. I do question my life sometimes.
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by KingLion007(m): 1:17am On Jun 13, 2023
nedekid:
Most people cheat. It is those that have not been caught that are innocent. Know this and have peace. The issue is let your cheater not be too much ie a serial one.
Married women sef, newly married and old one. Those that work in offices. Omo, forget. If you are a young man with girlfriend In present day Nigeria, your gf probably has a sugar daddy banging her, funding her. When she marries you most likely it continues. I have seen those after 2 kids sef still disturbing sugar daddy that was poking her before. Sending nudes etc.
I wonder how young men will cope these days.
And that's why I dnt trust any gurl.. can't even marry now.. maybe baby Mama wil b Ok for me cuz I ain't no trust bruh

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Speedy001(m): 1:21am On Jun 13, 2023
Evestar200:
Several Times

When I was in school, I was dating one guy, we met in Warri when he was living with his parents, so one day when I was in school, he called me to come to Ughelli because my school is 30 minutes drive. to his place. I went there and found him in a new apartment and I asked if he has rent a house but he said his friend was the one that rented the house. I knew it was a lie because each time visited him I couldn't find any other person's properties apart from his inside the house so I didn't bother to talk about it again.

After a few months, I visited and saw women's nightwear in the house and I refuse to confront him because I know he will lie, so that day he told me he want to travel so he took me to the park where I will get transport to my school. After he left me, I saw him at another park close to the one I am with another girl who came to visit him from Anambra grin grin grin.

All these while have been suspecting him because he used to talk about the Anambra girl and one in Bayelsa and he is married to the one in Bayelsa now.

He chatted me up one day after he got married and I told him I don't have anything to do with married men.

The second one is a chronic liar and scammer, I was lucky he only get away with my 200k and my new Camon 16 of over 100k then.

Anyway, I am very careful with men and relationships nowadays because I am always unlucky when it comes to one and maybe that's the reason I have been lucky in getting a job on time to Carter for my needs instead of depending on men.

Please can we talk (emayakboniface1@gmail.com)
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by KingLion007(m): 1:23am On Jun 13, 2023
Newbielearner:


How bro?
You wan hack your babes Whatsapp abi.. guyman why not focus on your life and bang as many pussy as you can coz wetin u go see for their DM u no go fit withstand oooo... She might even bang ur friends.. So no need to cloned on their Whatsapp.. just play along bruh!

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by b0rn2fuck(m): 1:25am On Jun 13, 2023
SolarEngr:
Omo I don read so tey, I don taya angry
I am a SOLAR ENGR, you can check my thread(The first one), if you like what you see, send a dm.

solar no be for small boys, how many watts loads 1kv fit power
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Mikel99(m): 1:28am On Jun 13, 2023
The fact that fewer women compared to men are viewing this topic shows how unfaithful the female gender can be. If it were other matters, their comments would have flooded this topic like swarm of bees.

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by KingLion007(m): 1:29am On Jun 13, 2023
Evestar200:
Lol

This World is a small place, Afoke, you are my departmental person from Despo grin grin
Afoke e sure for you na
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by johnaruson(m): 2:00am On Jun 13, 2023
Unless your village don't have showers, shower cap is a must in every home with a shower, Incase you have a visitor.
Hamachi:
angry
When the baby that they used to call me was automatically changed to Ms Hamachi. ..Na then I realize say dem don relegate me



When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place. He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place. I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps. I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by johnaruson(m): 2:26am On Jun 13, 2023
I suspected my fiancee before she traveled back to school, so I took a guy's number from her phone and later called the guy one midnight, pretending to be a boyfriend to my fiancee's cousin and asked him to give my girl phone that we have emergency at home, then i heard him calling my fiancee by her name trying to wake her up saying take phone your cousin is online. Immediately she said: Hello, what happened at home?" I heard her voice and cut the call.

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by goodmike7: 2:48am On Jun 13, 2023
Freelancerr:
You cheat on me?

I will know.

No two ways about it, if you keep wondering where your partners is, omo! There's a problem ooo.

Better you miss your partner, but if you wonder where he/she is at, what he /she is doing.
Omo! Trust go de far away ooo.

If I start wondering about my partner in a relationship. I clone there WhatsApp and read their conversation to know who dey speak with, so I go know who I de date. No stories.

Before I marry an enemy.

I can teach anyone here how to clone anyone WhatsApp and read their message directly on your phone.

Check my number on my signature and WhatsApp me.

NB: hold 1k for my drink oo. Before we start

phone or laptop
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Basiljoe: 5:10am On Jun 13, 2023
N3TRAL:
I've never been cheated on.

However, I know a colleague in school who was runs girl.

Every weekend fancy cars drove to pick her at her hostel. Married men, low level politicians, fast lane niggas... Name them.

We were at a group meeting one evening, she received call from her friend that her "real" boyfriend was at a barbeque stand with another girl.

The girl cursed her boyfriend out throughout that night as she couldn't continue with the group meeting because she genuinely felt cheated on or pretended to be hurt in an authentic way. The girl in question is an elite call girl.

I felt for the guy who almost cried that night while explaining that the girl she was with at the barbeque joint was his colleague.




A cheat will be very cautious with their partner and accuse them of the slightest move. It's reverse psychology.

The more she's bothered about whether you're cheating, the more she's likely to cheat on you.
Interesting....
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by nymphomaniac(m): 5:28am On Jun 13, 2023
Evestar200:
Lol

This World is a small place, Afoke, you are my departmental person from Despo grin grin
happy birthday
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by vickybee007(m): 5:41am On Jun 13, 2023
My own case is different, the lady I trusted with my whole life actually used jazz on me and at the same time, cheated with different guys even with the herbalist that helped her with the love jazz.
Nobody will ever believe this girl even talks to guys with her super cool behaviors....
God just helped me to get proofs of all her spiritual stuffs she did against me and all the nacking times with them...
It's painful, but I'm good now .

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Kellyson1: 5:49am On Jun 13, 2023
nazicartel:
Did you forgive or leave the relationship?
she log in her fb in my phone and I got a call that time , she forgot to log out . I got home in the evening I open my fb na her own I see, Omo when I see all the things my gf dey do , I almost melt dating 3 guys at once and I'm the third guy . Fear girls o.i can't trust a girl again

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by ChybuzzDD(m): 6:00am On Jun 13, 2023
Mikel99:
I feel so depressed reading about the high rate of relationship failure in this country. It is like this country has made a pact with failure. Failure in all areas of life. Relationship, resources management, governance, education. Mention any specific area where this country has excelled in.
Anyway, I am happy for being a Muslim because stories of relationship breakdown are hardly heard from Muslims. In fact, Muslim girls are the most faithful. You will hardly find any leaked sex videos of Muslim girls on the net. Most are Christian girl names like Amaka, Stephanie, joy, Rebecca, Gifty and so on.
However, I am as single as the Sun.

Their religion made them slaves to their men.

Islam has little/no regard for women and they(women) knew and have accepted it.
There's nothing to be boastful about slavery

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by IgbosNIGHTMARE: 6:03am On Jun 13, 2023
Jovialjune1:
Was checking out something on his laptop, and WhatsApp messages kept popping up, guy man forgot he connected his WhatsApp messages to his laptop, I saw things, crazy things, well I'm married now so his loss.
Can you swear with your life and future that throughout your relationship with him, he was the only one you slept with?
If your answer is no, then it's your loss whether he's married now or not too. And the most unfortunate one will be the one that married you because he married a serial cheat...

Na una go get the highest bodycount, na una go still dey accuse men of cheating...

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by tete7000(m): 6:06am On Jun 13, 2023
The question I have always been asking is "Can someone you are not married to cheat on you?" What will be the legal ground upon which the cheating is established?" Everyone having premarital sex maybe cheating on their destiny. Only those who flout their marital vows cheat, there can be cheating in an open relationship].
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by IgbosNIGHTMARE: 6:19am On Jun 13, 2023
tete7000:
The question I have always been asking is "Can someone you are not married to cheat on you?" What will be the legal ground upon which the cheating is established?" Everyone having premarital sex maybe cheating on their destiny. Only those who flout their marital vows cheat, there can be cheating in an open relationship].
See senselessness question.
You'll only think like this when you're an unrepentant cheat. For your mind, you're just playing games, whereas, you're only destroying yourself. The funny thing is, you'll meat your match and energy and by the time shît gets real and someone cheats on you in the most painful and demeaning way, you go get sense last last.

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Eagba(m): 6:23am On Jun 13, 2023
johnaruson:
I suspected my fiancee before she traveled back to school, so I took a guy's number from her phone and later called the guy one midnight, pretending to be a boyfriend to my fiancee's cousin and asked him to give my girl phone that we have emergency at home, then i heard him calling my fiancee by her name trying to wake her up saying take phone your cousin is online. Immediately she said: Hello, what happened at home?" I heard her voice and cut the call.
You no supposed cut the call. So continue with her defense and how you take dumb her

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by SpockFederation: 7:09am On Jun 13, 2023
I'm very Psychic.

I feel it in the air.

As long as I have Emotional connection with the cheater, I'll definately know it happened.


https://zodiacpsycho.com/venus-quincunx-jupiter/


.

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Justkatty(f): 7:11am On Jun 13, 2023
[quote author=Abolodje post=123756308]
But I will never hurt you baby if you were mine. [/quote You're doing well
Do not hurt her
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by tete7000(m): 7:15am On Jun 13, 2023
IgbosNIGHTMARE:

See senselessness question.
You'll only think like this when you're an unrepentant cheat. For your mind, you're just playing games, whereas, you're only destroying yourself. The funny thing is, you'll meat your match and energy and by the time shît gets real and someone cheats on you in the most painful and demeaning way, you go get sense last last.

The way and manner you wrote depicts who is senseless between you and I. You are too daft, inalienable to learning. Dindinrin, irankiran.
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Freelancerr(m): 7:31am On Jun 13, 2023
goodmike7:


phone or laptop
Both.
Check my number on my signature
Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Sholmakem(f): 7:33am On Jun 13, 2023
He might be right about the shower cap because shower cap is one of the free gift given to lodgers in a standard hotel . you should have calm down to have more more evidence against him .
Hamachi:
angry
When the baby that they used to call me was automatically changed to Ms Hamachi. ..Na then I realize say dem don relegate me



When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place. He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place. I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps. I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.

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Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Caleycash(m): 7:37am On Jun 13, 2023
Hamachi:
angry
When the baby that they used to call me was automatically changed to Ms Hamachi. ..Na then I realize say dem don relegate me



When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place. He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place. I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps. I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.
You met him with nothing does that mean your presence gave him something!?, I no too dey understand una with dis kind mentality

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