FahBuLous:
They now realise that they (women) have nothing to offer apart from here overused, stretched, rotten, smelly and stinking pussy, just like that of jennyclay and prettygirl200

Sanguine:



So does it mean in the "10 freaking years" you don't practice all these things you listed out? 🤔

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Jossyfine:


At times we are limited by finances and really weighed down by family responsibilities.

Meeeen it’s not easy atal.

Sanguine:



Thank you🤗🤗🤗

Oh wow. You know, as much as I know marriage is good and beautiful (for those that are doing it right), I don't even envy anybody. Each one with his own cross that he's carrying.

It is well ma.
Sending you love from here. ❤️❤️❤️
The Lord provides all that you need and much more, and strengthen you in every ramification.

Mindlog:


Then in their later years when their children are grown and left the house, those people outside are long gone, same men would accuse the wives they ignored in their youth of now ignoring them in their old age as their wives have divested emotionally.

frozen70:




While she is still faithful and looking forward to being with him and Stay close to him at home, he is busy avoiding her because he got a big fish outside

By the time she discovers that he is not giving her the attention she wants, she will face her directions towards the children who will never ignore her and find solace in them

By the time the man is getting old, he starts coming close to the wife, meanwhile she is already done with him but still living with him

That's when the man will become lonely while he is married to his wife

You can only harvest what you sow that's what this life will offer you

NoToPile:





You both have solid points.

EriMma1:


What of in a situation where the woman doesn't nag or do any of those things you pointed out, yet the man still prefers to hang out with friends for the most of the day, coming back only when he needs to eat or go to bed.

See, I feel it's a case of greed and lack of affection on the men's side. If you don't have affection for your wife, it will be difficult to stay with her and that is why I don't want arrangee church marriage where the church feels bro and sis are getting old therefore they should get married whether the affection is there or not.

EriMma1:


What of in a situation where the woman doesn't nag or do any of those things you pointed out, yet the man still prefers to hang out with friends for the most of the day, coming back only when he needs to eat or go to bed.

See, I feel it's a case of greed and lack of affection on the men's side. If you don't have affection for your wife, it will be difficult to stay with her and that is why I don't want arrangee church marriage where the church feels bro and sis are getting old therefore they should get married whether the affection is there or not.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Jman06:
Because women go out of shape once married due to excessive eating and laziness that hinder them from exercising and keeping fit.

Before you know it they become potbellied, oversized and unattractive. So it is natural for the man to lose interest in her.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Jman06:
Because women go out of shape once married due to excessive eating and laziness that hinder them from exercising and keeping fit.

Before you know it they become potbellied, oversized and unattractive. So it is natural for the man to lose interest in her.

Its not easy to eat only Egusi soup for 15years or eat only fried rice and chicken for 15years.

Jman06:
Most women become unattractive once married. That's why married men cheat.

Imagine seeing one hippopotamus with oversized grandma panties everyday. The man is bound to lose interest in her. If not for children and what the society would say, most married men would chase their wives away after few years of marriage.

EriMma1:


You're sure this is the reason? I doubt.

I think after a while, men lose their appetite for their wives and desire something fresh and new especially ones that seem hard to get. It's just a thing with the men. This is the reason I'm not ready to be tied to one man who will get tired and want to explore other options . Chai!

EriMma1:


Prayers? These ones are pastors o

Na two by two the man need.

EriMma1:


I want to believe this the cause because one day the woman approached me and said I should make the cream I'm using for her saying she wants her color to come out. I was shocked cos I felt she's dark and don't know which color she wants to come out again. Or is it because the man is always jokingly calling me girlfriend... I don't know but I suspected she was feeling less attractive or what? Hmmm....