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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by koyeni(m): 4:30pm On Jun 14, 2023
akanfe30:

I agree with you but don't leave out the unnecessary shift of attention by women when children arrive. At that point, some men go astray.

You raised a very strong point....but the female gender àlways take delight to spite men and blame men for their marital woes....we just keep quiet and look at them

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by whizzler: 4:31pm On Jun 14, 2023
diogo23:

Shut up and say what you know , I wonder how unmarried people know what married people is going through
😂🤣😂🤣😂
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by KaptainAfrika: 4:32pm On Jun 14, 2023
F*cking the same p*ssy gets boring...
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by SonofGod231: 4:32pm On Jun 14, 2023
Generally speaking Westernised women are the best...Being around somebody who is innovation,strong, independent,assertive and perfect all the time.One who is sure of who they are,strong in themselves and also not afraid to let their spouse explore and have fun of his but being with a woman who is policing and insecured would just make guy man old pretty faster...Most times na fragile and empty ladies no dey gree man to just move outside collect fresh air.
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by yemmit90: 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2023
Jman06:
They should keep fit and shed all the fats. Do everything to avoid having potbellies.

There are sexy outfits that can be worn to turn a man's head. They should avoid granny panties and wear sexy lingeries. Above all, they should understand their man's sexual fantasies and take advantage of that.

Lolz, forget no amount of beauty and sexy body can make you not to lose interest in someone you are seeing everyday of your life.

Humans and men in particular are not wired to live with one woman all their lives, a woman can't sexually satisfy a man for the rest of his life. Reason you see most men with beautiful wives still cheating with women below their wives standards.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by eepeepook: 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2023
No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.
This was what they all said at one point in their lives. Look at them today.

Nothing stays new forever. As humans, we grow tired of everything. It's why I don't believe in the concept of everlasting enjoyment or suffering in the afterlife. Person go everly tire for routine.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by 4KNGOATS(m): 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2023
Jman06:
Most women become unattractive once married. That's why married men cheat.

Imagine seeing one hippopotamus with oversized grandma panties everyday. The man is bound to lose interest in her. If not for children and what the society would say, most married men would chase their wives away after few years of marriage.
grin grin bros u're a joker most women changes shape after delivery that's undoubtable some of our mum's are living example so that word hippopotamus is insultive

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by PDJT: 4:36pm On Jun 14, 2023
OZIOGU1:
It depends not all men, my marriage will be 10yrs in August blessed with 4kids 2boys and 2girls I am 36yrs and she is 31yrs and I can tell you that, I always want to be with my wife same from her too, one important thing women should learn is communication in their marriage, talk to your husband and ask questions in the most polite manner, age difference matters too, women should also learn to package themselves and wear what will turn the man on,

Most importantly pray and seek Gods guidance, May Allah be with us all Amin

-Ten years marriage, and you already have 4 kids? You don't Television? grin
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by showlove911(m): 4:37pm On Jun 14, 2023
Because....
True love is based on choice not need. Do you need your wife or choose your wife? The 2nd one is the one that truly matters. Choice matters over need!

Again, its instinctual of human not to exert the same energy when they feel they hv arrived at their cravings.

It is so much simpler to bury reality than it is to dispose of dreams.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by whizzler: 4:37pm On Jun 14, 2023
frozen70:


Any couple you find in this categories are actually living as flat mates and not husband and wife

Though men wants to taste what other women have out there and once they get it especially the ones that are ready to give him hot hot, the one at home becomes less relevant to him

While she is still faithful and looking forward to being with him and Stay close to him at home, he is busy avoiding her because he got a big fish outside

By the time she discovers that he is not giving her the attention she wants, she will face her directions towards the children who will never ignore her and find solace in them

By the time the man is getting old, he starts coming close to the wife, meanwhile she is already done with him but still living with him

That's when the man will become lonely while he is married to his wife

You can only harvest what you sow that's what this life will offer you

I agree with ur last assertions, they make sense
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by lawkenoz(m): 4:37pm On Jun 14, 2023
Agunesinjaweola:

Brilliant idea 👍
As long as Men ensure to have a good financial plan as a backup at old age, you don't have to beg any women that abandon you for her kids.
This is the only way to make yourself happy.
Otherwise, women will abandon you to spend holiday abroad with your children with the excuses of helping to help care of the grandchildren while you await money transfer from abroad. Men should invest wisely and don't ever rely on your children at old age as most of our rich bosses have failed in this area.

Very apt, e get one very rich man from my place who is exactly like this. Intact he always looks forward to the wife travelling abroad to go visit the kids, he is already enjoying his retirement. Once the wife hears from the spy gateman she kept at the house that one small baby dey with oga, she go use speed teleport dey come back Naija.

The man don jejely build another house for owerri where he dey go jolly when she travels. Anytime I'm in the east and he hears I'm around he calls me to come stay with him for a while. The man is enjoying his old age to the maximum.
Just get money leave all the stories these women here dey cap. Funny enough he doesn't even care if his wife has a small boy servicing her, at that age few things bother the chairman. He's 82 now and just balling waiting for his clock to run out. He has cooks, care giver and everything he needs for his age.
Nah poor man dey worry if wife go dey around or not for him old age.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by HonestJOE: 4:37pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.


See them... Na them. Very hard mannered. Always talking tough. Your type will easily break your home for the slightest of any foul reason.
Tuehhhh, spit...
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Enemyofpeace: 4:37pm On Jun 14, 2023
Too much familiarity breeds consent









Please how do you spell imosional? As in I am very imosional? I want to use it in a very imosional letter that I'm writing to Mynd44
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by irianan: 4:39pm On Jun 14, 2023
Because they were never really in love with each other.
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by superCleanworks(m): 4:40pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I noticed this in one couple.

and you are here speaking general like you did a survey for 2,000 married people.
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Emeka71(m): 4:41pm On Jun 14, 2023
Jman06:
Because women go out of shape once married due to excessive eating and laziness that hinder them from exercising and keeping fit.

Before you know it they become potbellied, oversized and unattractive. So it is natural for the man to lose interest in her.
So right.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by jaxxy(m): 4:41pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.


Let's see ur pix b4 u start claiming no man born of woman should try this or that with u. Do u think its by mouth?

if a woman doesn't keep her self looking good and give her man peace of mind he will be running from ur wahala like this poor pastor.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by nass4real: 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

there are certain set of people like that,I won't mention,but in other way round if there is no money,men losses confidence, gathering of husband and wife and other relatives call for money spending.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Blitzking: 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

If you stress me during relationship and I mistakenly marry you I go loose interest no cap

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by superCleanworks(m): 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2023
4KNGOATS:

grin grin bros u're a joker most women changes shape after delivery that's undoubtable some of our mum's are living example so that word hippopotamus is insultive

Don't mind him. talking like his own mother is Heidi Klum or Kim Kardashian
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by PDJT: 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2023
-Miss OP, one woman is not enough for most capable African men. I personally, have two wives and they keep me busy. The younger (second wife) always intellectually stimulates me, and if not for her pleading I would have divorced my first wife, like I mentioned on this forum last year December. But we are cool now, they both enjoy the 3some now and again. Other days, I see them separately.

-My advice to young men, plan to marry more than one wife. E get why.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by AntiZikist: 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.


Because,man can not survive on bread alone.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by alizma: 4:43pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Just wait for your own turn and then run it the way you want. From all you said, you didn't mention that any of the ladies reported to you. So what happened to minding your business?
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by olaodun: 4:43pm On Jun 14, 2023
u are right but in many cases na woman causes thethe issue man is tired

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Harpos2(m): 4:43pm On Jun 14, 2023
Most times
Familiarity

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by maasoap(m): 4:44pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.


If my kids (males and females) don't learn anything from the way their mum and me related everyday, that means dem be "omo ale" be dat. The days we don't rough play is not many, it is a must.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by FirstCounsel(m): 4:45pm On Jun 14, 2023
Jman06:
Most women become unattractive once married. That's why married men cheat.

Imagine seeing one hippopotamus with oversized grandma panties everyday. The man is bound to lose interest in her. If not for children and what the society would say, most married men would chase their wives away after few years of marriage.
What? cheesy grin grin

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by izubext007: 4:45pm On Jun 14, 2023
i have been married for the past 9 years , and my dear wife is still fresh in my eyes

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by mcprince32(m): 4:46pm On Jun 14, 2023
Late last night my wife woke me up with a question" Why are you men heartless and wicked" I|was confused. How, what have I done? She started telling me of her neighbor whose husband got another girl pregnant. I listened with Keen interest. After all said, I sympathized with the woman. And wify resumed,
Enraged, furious,
I'm just saying my own now bc any man who try that rubush with me will not go scot free. I will disable him. Even the girl will regret her actions for life.
I asked, are you suspecting me?
Or did she tell you I did it with her husband?
Did the girl tell you something about me?
She said No ooo .
I'm just saying my own.
I just don't want wahala.
I then asked for permission.
Can I now continue with my sleep?
She endorsed it.
Then I came out of that confrontation a Victor.
The end of my episode.

If you're married, there are life time episodes of such.
Deal with it by love and understanding
Thanks

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Staru1(m): 4:48pm On Jun 14, 2023
character and understanding is the reasons ,quote me anywhere,quote anything you want,i will tell u any of either where it fall too.
most time ,ladies reactions and later acceptance will left you to rethink again
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Glory2DLamb(m): 4:52pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:


I want to believe this the cause because one day the woman approached me and said I should make the cream I'm using for her saying she wants her color to come out. I was shocked cos I felt she's dark and don't know which color she wants to come out again. Or is it because the man is always jokingly calling me girlfriend... I don't know but I suspected she was feeling less attractive or what? Hmmm....

You are, clearly, the problem in this marriage. Stop moonlighting them.
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by OZIOGU1: 4:52pm On Jun 14, 2023
Yes, I earn handsomely, I married early and I am done having kids, so what next training them through good schools, most young men like me make mistakes and is very costly at the end...

She teaches and our total combined income for a month is like 7digits, so why wait? Mind u I married her when I was earnig 19k salary in 2013

-Ten years marriage, and you already have 4 kids? You don't Television? grin[/quote]

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