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I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Ronaldo723(op): 1:09pm On Jun 24, 2023
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Candidlady: 1:12pm On Jun 24, 2023
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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
You Just like me
Especially now that there so many fake people trying to come close as friends...but one annoying thing about me if you can break my wall as a boy or girl and become my friend then you are going to enjoy me cause I willl move mountains for you...some of my very few niggars can attest to that in Benin city

Ogbeni op probably have gadgets indoors also

For me I can sit in front of this table for days without knowing

Especially if alcohol and weed is also available

Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by labake1(f): 1:16pm On Jun 24, 2023
Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead
I am like that, life of an introvert wink
The only friends I have, are my parents and siblings
After reading all sort of books and I couldn't change, I accepted myself that way.
Besides its a peaceful life
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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by 9jvirgin(m): 1:19pm On Jun 24, 2023
You're not alone. I have lived in Indianapolis for 7 years, all the people I have as friends are people I encouraged to move to Indiana. As soon as they get their greencard they quickly detach from me. As I speak I do not have ONE friend in the whole city. Some friends just need your help, they don't need you. Stay calm. When you're gloriously blessed, they keep coming back. Thank God.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Emperormartin(m): 1:19pm On Jun 24, 2023
You lacked social exposure when you were growing.

You parents caged you and consigned you to themselves and Your siblings thinking they were doing you good but they've finally destroyed your social life.

It's not your fault but your parents fault

You just have to live with it and then fathom a way to train up your next generation
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by CandidAdmin(m): 1:19pm On Jun 24, 2023
You should tell us the reason why you can't keep friends so as to help more.
Is the fault from you or from them?
At least give an example
Food for thought - There are a lot of fake friends, so watch out.

Check my siggy!
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by YourNextLevel(m): 1:19pm On Jun 24, 2023
Tolerance , endurance, love

Look into these words.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Squirrel1(m):
It seems you are an introvert. Well don't beat yourself too much. Try as much as you can to use that time you spend indoors to create yourself into a knowledgeble beast... While you find yourself something to do online.

Note, it won't be EASY.. they'll be time when the devil will make you watch porn and jerk off.... But in it all, don't give up and keep trying to become a better version of yourself.

Go to PDfdrive. Com and find yourself some nice books to read. It's literally free!


" Been alone is comfort and feeling alone is a disaster "
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by toluleke(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
If you can stay alone and be happy then it fine.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Todaymedia: 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
labake1:
I am like that, life of an introvert wink
The only friends I have, are my parents and siblings
After reading all sort of books and I couldn't change, I accepted myself that way.
Besides its a peaceful life
The best!

No drama’s
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Greenishland(f): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
grin

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by headboyprince(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
iam exactly like that too... shocked
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Lance008(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead
Nothing is wrong with you
The only friend u need are your business friends
Am exactly like you
When I was young I taught something was wrong but now I discovered my attitude actually save me from a lot of rubbish
No harm minding ur business
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by dahgifted(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
Introverted life is the best.... you won't pass your boundaries and nothing like see finish.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Poske95(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
It's hard because you don't find friends.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Kenelekan: 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
Explain further. How was ur childhood like?
Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by HyconMojo(m): 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2023
I don't keep friends either , I find it very hard trusting human beings. The ones I had been keeping, where are they today? Betrayals, backstabbing, hypocrisy. The only true friend you can make is money, it makes old enemies become new friends, you just have to be careful.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by talented321: 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2023
No need making friends,
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by DeeBaDan: 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2023
Nice
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by lovebird65(m): 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2023
I want to be like you!!!! I'm Just opposite of you and it has caused me alot negatively
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by VeeInsider: 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2023
1. You read too much meaning into things.

Work on this.

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Dclique(m): 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2023
There is nothing wrong with you. You’re fine.

Most people are just fake and bunch of opportunists. You probably have zero tolerance for such people thats why you kick them out.

Find a social activity you love, go out, have fun. You will meet new people. Just be careful of who you get close to.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by SoftP(m): 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2023
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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by kernniejay(m): 1:22pm On Jun 24, 2023
Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me

I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around

Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead
You don't need too many friends. If it's only two quality friends you have that add value to your life, you are good to go. The only friend I always see around Aliko Dangote is either Femi Otedollar or Bill Gates.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jun 24, 2023
labake1:
I am like that, life of an introvert wink
The only friends I have, are my parents and siblings
After reading all sort of books and I couldn't change, I accepted myself that way.
Besides its a peaceful life
So you don't have a man/husband too?
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by DonTattaglia: 1:22pm On Jun 24, 2023
Ok, noted.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Khastro(m): 1:22pm On Jun 24, 2023
Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead
Don't be hard on yourself.
Start by joining associations close to you: hikers, religious groups, sport or gym.
Above all, be polite to everyone you meet, not shy.
Also, social media hangouts help.
Be active on the WhatsApp groups you're in.
Little by little you'll be better
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by OloyeVIII: 1:22pm On Jun 24, 2023
A Friend with Weed, is a Friend Indeed..
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Landowner101(m): 1:22pm On Jun 24, 2023
I am also like you and I am happy like that. Peace of mind is priceless
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