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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Emperormartin(m): 6:36pm On Jun 24, 2023
Illegal1:


omoh.......u said it all bro
And some people are attacking me
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by occfx: 6:37pm On Jun 24, 2023
Landowner101:
I am also like you and I am happy like that. Peace of mind is priceless

I like my peace of mind too much... I just need enough money to balance

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Illegal1(m): 6:50pm On Jun 24, 2023
Emperormartin:
And some people are attacking me
omoh..........don't blame them bro,every body with his/her opinion..

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Aklee4994(m): 6:54pm On Jun 24, 2023
labake1:



Who be that?
he’s a inter tech expert on this forum I think πŸ’­
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Aarenasbaba(m): 6:55pm On Jun 24, 2023
Such person can easily get to depression
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Blackskinman007(m): 6:56pm On Jun 24, 2023
hardon1:
Poster is a stark introvert
My younger bro have that personality... It has pros cons though

Cons
1. They love to do things on thier own and fins it difficult to ask for help. But as humans we all need help at one time or the other

2. You won't know if they are in difficulty unless you ask. If an introvert tells you he/she is having backache, don't take it lightly, just know that the back is finished cos they don't complain easily

3. Their reserve nature is taken as pride: if an introvert didn't greet you in the morning, don't take it to heart because it doesn't mean they don't wish you well. Just don't just feel like saying good morning. If u keep them malice cause of that, na u go tire

4. Some of them have anger issues


Pros
1. They don't promise and fail: whey they promise you something, be rest assured they will do it. If them dey owe u and promise to pay certain date, they will certainly do it to avoid too much talk. They hate too much talk. If it's a gift they promise, don't disturb them too much . They will fulfill.

Likewise if you hurt them and they promise to deal with you. They will fulfill it too whether tomorrow or 10 yrs time

2. Like someone said here, they hardly have friends. But when they do, they go all out to support thier friends

3. They are masters of surprise: if you have and introverted bf or gf. Dem go surprise u tire



Please,,tell Mama chioma to give you 5 bottles of your favorite drink...
You describe me so well...
πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘Š

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by delishpot: 7:03pm On Jun 24, 2023
labake1:


I am like that, life of an introvert wink
The only friends I have, are my parents and siblings
After reading all sort of books and I couldn't change, I accepted myself that way.
Besides its a peaceful life

Lucky you, your parents are still alive and siblings got your back. Some of us can't boast of such blessing.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by labake1(f): 7:05pm On Jun 24, 2023
Aklee4994:
he’s a inter tech expert on this forum I think πŸ’­


Nice to know slawomir
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Aklee4994(m): 7:12pm On Jun 24, 2023
labake1:



Nice to know slawomir
I think you’ve trace him...because he has even said his own way of life as same as yours here on this thread page 1or 2


I like his personality but not all his words
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Honeydenz(f): 7:20pm On Jun 24, 2023
Myer:

It's a blessing not to keep many friends. Many friends means many influences- mostly negative.
But it's not good not to have any friend.

It might help if you gave your age or range.

There's time and season for everything in life;
There's a time you will need to learn to love yourself.
There's a time you will need to learn to love others.

It is when you gain mastery of these that you can learn to love others as you love yourself.

It is important however to first, learn to love God.
God will teach you how to love Him, love yourself and you neighbour.

Every season is a blessing when you understand the season you're in.
Introvert or extrovert should simply be different phases, I believe we are meant to be ambiverts.

Please see God as your first in every thing and truly life starts making sense to you. He created you, no one else can explain you to you better than your Creator/Father.

Know this and be blessed.
Proverbs 18:24
One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
Very correct. Friends can be of positive help like assisting u in getting a job opening, same way friends can teach u how to spoke or how to do runs as a lady, but expect more of negative influence than positive cos a typical Nigerian will lead you to do things that would lower ur chances of succeeding in life than actually making it cos of our competitive nature. A typical black man don't want u to do better than him or her so what's d need of keeping friends. Many friends are just too manipulative n opportunistic and nowadays they don't even hide it anymore

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Favourjoy12(f): 7:34pm On Jun 24, 2023
Squirrel1:
It seems you are am introvert. Well don't beat yourself too much. Try as much as you can to use that time you spend indoors to create yourself into a knowledgeble beast... While you find yourself something to do online.

Note, it won't be EASY.. they'll be time when the devil will make you watch porn and jerk off.... But in it all, don't give up and keep trying to become a better version of yourself.

Go to PDfdrive. Com and find yourself some nice books to read. It's literally free!


" Been alone is comfort and feeling alone is a disaster "

Pls how can someone download books from that pdfdrive.com

I need to download some books there pls
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Squirrel1(m): 7:39pm On Jun 24, 2023
Favourjoy12:


Pls how can someone download books from that pdfdrive.com

I need to download some books there pls
just search the name of anybook u want and proceed to download. Less than 4 mb 😊
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by labake1(f): 7:57pm On Jun 24, 2023
Aklee4994:
I think you’ve trace him...because he has even said his own way of life as same as yours here on this thread page 1or 2


I like his personality but not all his words


Lol, "not all his words" got me laughing. He might not be like that in person.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by PrinzEleju: 8:12pm On Jun 24, 2023
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
You Just like me
Especially now that there so many fake people trying to come close as friends...but one annoying thing about me if you can break my wall as a boy or girl and become my friend then you are going to enjoy me cause I willl move mountains for you...some of my very few niggars can attest to that in Benin city

Ogbeni op probably have gadgets indoors also

For me I can sit in front of this table for days without knowing

Especially if alcohol and weed is also available

In addition to fresh, clean & wet pu$$Β₯πŸ˜πŸ˜‹
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by DBraveT(m): 9:02pm On Jun 24, 2023
Omo the thing no easy for me as well..not my fault,i put the blames on my parent base on how we were brought up..
To keep friends na just headache
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by makaveli902: 9:31pm On Jun 24, 2023
9jvirgin:
You're not alone. I have lived in Indianapolis for 7 years, all the people I have as friends are people I encouraged to move to Indiana. As soon as they get their greencard they quickly detach from me. As I speak I do not have ONE friend in the whole city. Some friends just need your help, they don't need you. Stay calm. When you're gloriously blessed, they keep coming back. Thank God.

Please encourage me to move to Indiana and I will be your friend for life

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Holluwahgbenga(m): 9:56pm On Jun 24, 2023
You don't need them...they are fake, they show you love when you are up, but will disappear when you are down (fake love) the only real ones are your family.


Nothing is wrong with you ✌️

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Alexprech: 10:03pm On Jun 24, 2023
hardon1:
Poster is a stark introvert
My younger bro have that personality... It has pros cons though

Cons
1. They love to do things on thier own and fins it difficult to ask for help. But as humans we all need help at one time or the other

2. You won't know if they are in difficulty unless you ask. If an introvert tells you he/she is having backache, don't take it lightly, just know that the back is finished cos they don't complain easily

3. Their reserve nature is taken as pride: if an introvert didn't greet you in the morning, don't take it to heart because it doesn't mean they don't wish you well. Just don't just feel like saying good morning. If u keep them malice cause of that, na u go tire

4. Some of them have anger issues


Pros
1. They don't promise and fail: whey they promise you something, be rest assured they will do it. If them dey owe u and promise to pay certain date, they will certainly do it to avoid too much talk. They hate too much talk. If it's a gift they promise, don't disturb them too much . They will fulfill.

Likewise if you hurt them and they promise to deal with you. They will fulfill it too whether tomorrow or 10 yrs time

2. Like someone said here, they hardly have friends. But when they do, they go all out to support thier friends

3. They are masters of surprise: if you have and introverted bf or gf. Dem go surprise u tire


yo are 100% right

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Alexprech: 10:22pm On Jun 24, 2023
Blackskinman007:


Please,,tell Mama chioma to give you 5 bottles of your favorite drink...
You describe me so well...
πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘Š
Na true oo.....a full description of me...especially that number 3 for the first part. During my school days they talk say my pride too much, just because say I no dey do wetin others dey do.

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by lekjons(m): 10:52pm On Jun 24, 2023
hardon1:
Poster is a stark introvert
My younger bro have that personality... It has pros cons though

Cons
1. They love to do things on thier own and fins it difficult to ask for help. But as humans we all need help at one time or the other

2. You won't know if they are in difficulty unless you ask. If an introvert tells you he/she is having backache, don't take it lightly, just know that the back is finished cos they don't complain easily

3. Their reserve nature is taken as pride: if an introvert didn't greet you in the morning, don't take it to heart because it doesn't mean they don't wish you well. Just don't just feel like saying good morning. If u keep them malice cause of that, na u go tire

4. Some of them have anger issues


Pros
1. They don't promise and fail: whey they promise you something, be rest assured they will do it. If them dey owe u and promise to pay certain date, they will certainly do it to avoid too much talk. They hate too much talk. If it's a gift they promise, don't disturb them too much . They will fulfill.

Likewise if you hurt them and they promise to deal with you. They will fulfill it too whether tomorrow or 10 yrs time

2. Like someone said here, they hardly have friends. But when they do, they go all out to support thier friends

3. They are masters of surprise: if you have and introverted bf or gf. Dem go surprise u tire



Is that you, brother?πŸ₯Ί

You know me too well

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Asswipemod: 10:57pm On Jun 24, 2023
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
You Just like me
Especially now that there so many fake people trying to come close as friends...but one annoying thing about me if you can break my wall as a boy or girl and become my friend then you are going to enjoy me cause I willl move mountains for you...some of my very few niggars can attest to that in Benin city

Ogbeni op probably have gadgets indoors also

For me I can sit in front of this table for days without knowing

Especially if alcohol and weed is also available

Damnn niggar, isorite. Your liver and lungs de go small small, unlike subsidy that went FIAM!!πŸ˜›πŸ˜›

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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Albertone(m): 11:08pm On Jun 24, 2023
Sholmakem:
I thought it's only me o , My social life is so poor .
I only make friends online, I've not attended up to five parties in my whole life .
My neighbors Always greet me welcome sister, how was your journey anytime we see .

You're trying with what I'm seeing on your picture o.
I'm pitying you because it looks like it will be inconveniencing you.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by jarmy: 11:37pm On Jun 24, 2023
I can be your friend
labake1:


I am like that, life of an introvert wink
The only friends I have, are my parents and siblings
After reading all sort of books and I couldn't change, I accepted myself that way.
Besides its a peaceful life
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Myer(m): 5:42am On Jun 25, 2023
Honeydenz:

Very correct. Friends can be of positive help like assisting u in getting a job opening, same way friends can teach u how to spoke or how to do runs as a lady, but expect more of negative influence than positive cos a typical Nigerian will lead you to do things that would lower ur chances of succeeding in life than actually making it cos of our competitive nature. A typical black man don't want u to do better than him or her so what's d need of keeping friends. Many friends are just too manipulative n opportunistic and nowadays they don't even hide it anymore

Well said.
God help us all.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by mediclife1987(m): 6:21am On Jun 25, 2023
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
You Just like me
Especially now that there so many fake people trying to come close as friends...but one annoying thing about me if you can break my wall as a boy or girl and become my friend then you are going to enjoy me cause I willl move mountains for you...some of my very few niggars can attest to that in Benin city

Ogbeni op probably have gadgets indoors also

For me I can sit in front of this table for days without knowing

Especially if alcohol and weed is also available



Kontinuu, dem go soon carry you come see us for that hospital opposite Tejuosho market.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by mediclife1987(m): 6:23am On Jun 25, 2023
labake1:


I am like that, life of an introvert wink
The only friends I have, are my parents and siblings
After reading all sort of books and I couldn't change, I accepted myself that way.
Besides its a peaceful life

Hmmm, and most people would think we're psychos, as they currently think in my office work...
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by DatNiggaDaz: 7:03am On Jun 25, 2023
Asswipemod:


Damnn niggar, isorite. Your liver and lungs de go small small, unlike subsidy that went FIAM!!πŸ˜›πŸ˜›
Emilokan disillusionist you don Land dey form tough creature. Coward. grin grin
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by coputa(m): 7:25am On Jun 25, 2023
Friends are like shadows,they are with you at sunrise and disappear at sunset. Your best friend is your worse enemy.

Only tennagers keep friends,but as they mature they see the danger in it, and run out of it,that is if they come out alive.

The best life is lived with your family, they are all you've got,

All the rest are counterfeits.
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by hansomb: 7:25am On Jun 25, 2023
Squirrel1:
hope you took your med today?
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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by hansomb: 7:25am On Jun 25, 2023
Squirrel1:
hope you took your med today?
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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by hansomb: 7:31am On Jun 25, 2023
Squirrel1:
just search the name of anybook u want and proceed to download. Less than 4 mb 😊
qwertyuiopasdfghjklzxcvbnmmnbvcxzlkjhgfdsapoiuytrewq
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by munphildusky: 7:40am On Jun 25, 2023
First of all, nothing is wrong with you. It's your nature which you have to accept.

Second of all, you're not alone in this. We are the same. I can even stay indoors more than two weeks and have my peace of mind.

Here and there are fake people that pose as friends, once they get what they want, off they zoom.

My brother be you and enjoy your life, it's your peace.

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