[You right bro. You never really sure if the other party is on the same wave length as you are. Better not to force things. Kindly reply to my email, best regards .quote author=9jvirgin post=124004631]You're not alone. I have lived in Indianapolis for 7 years, all the people I have as friends are people I encouraged to move to Indiana. As soon as they get their greencard they quickly detach from me. As I speak I do not have ONE friend in the whole city. Some friends just need your help, they don't need you. Stay calm. When you're gloriously blessed, they keep coming back. Thank God.[/quote]

I'll rather be friendless than be with freNENEMIES a.k.a friendly enemies,
a.k.a friendlyfoes,
aka fair weather friends

Frenemies. Friends indeed .
Sometimes we just have to give people the benefit of the doubt.

Anything Nigerian, if its possible i rather stay far from it. Like friends. Make trouble no find person

Brushstrokes20:
I'll rather be friendless than be with freNENEMIES a.k.a friendly enemies,
a.k.a friendlyfoes,
aka fair weather friends

SeriouslySense:
Frenemies. Friends indeed .
Sometimes we just have to give people the benefit of the doubt.

Sure! But the more I give them the benefits of the doubt, the more harm they unleashed on me!

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

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It means you are an introvert. So you need to practice something if not even your wife will not find it easy

Focus on yourself, gain wisdom and skills, build on your future and only make friends with people that help you grow.


For instance i had one Nigerian friend, like that, although i support him, but he was smart, he was talented and i learnt a lot of skills from him.


Good friends are what matters, not the number of friends.

For now, i am interested in friends who know engineering and science or produce so i can learn from them and who have good values.
Thats the good thing, at least when you are learning something, even if you will not gain directly maybe about history, culture, engineering or some skillsets. You will grow in knowledge, unlike if you are on your own.

Brushstrokes20:

Sure! But the more I give them the benefits of the doubt, the more harm they unleashed on me!

You lacked Social and Emotional Intelligence.

You are different. I am outgoing, I don’t just like having friends anymore since I knew most of the friends I had back then were only my friends for some benefits.

My problem is I now see every Guy that comes to associate with me as someone who wants something from me. It is too bad that bad friends actually did lot of damage to me. I had worst experiences about friends. Many are just betrayals, some sort of always benefiting from you.

I gave all for friends and always there to help but when it’s mine turn I can’t find someone standing for me.

I go out alone and just enjoy myself the way I want. I have learnt a lots about Guys especially the Guys that comes to associate with you when they see you enjoying yourself outside. When they come to me for a drink or something else I just give them and I don’t keep contacts.

You can’t possibly have genuine friends the way our society has changed. Now it is dog eat dog on the streets.

SeriouslySense:
Focus on yourself, gain wisdom and skills, build on your future and only make friends with people that help you grow.


For instance i had one Nigerian friend, like that, although i support him, but he was smart, he was talented and i learnt a lot of skills from him.


Good friends are what matters, not the number of friends.

For now, i am interested in friends who know engineering and science or produce so i can learn from them and who have good values.

Cool!... I'm incredibly a multi talented artist / artiste and my crafts has largely rendered me an Introvert, but then, no man is an ISLAND! .... Hence the exploration of my social life but I'm always disappointed. Most humans are toxic / terrible!
Despite all the assistance I rendered to them, they still turned around to backbite me.
If I could turn back the hands of time,
I'll UN-MEET some treacherous folks.

Unfortunately people are self centered. Sometimes i look at myself too, that i am self centered. Life goes on.

Dminister:
You are different. I am outgoing, I don’t just like having friends anymore since I knew most of the friends I had back then were only my friends for some benefits.

My problem is I now see every Guy that comes to associate with me as someone who wants something from me. It is too bad that bad friends actually did lot of damage to me. I had worst experiences about friends. Many are just betrayals, some sort of always benefiting from you.

I gave all for friends and always there to help but when it’s mine turn I can’t find someone standing for me.

I go out alone and just enjoy myself the way I want. I have learnt a lots about Guys especially the Guys that comes to associate with you when they see you enjoying yourself outside. When they come to me for a drink or something else I just give them and I don’t keep contacts.

You can’t possibly have genuine friends the way our society has changed. Now it is dog eat dog on the streets.

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

At times it is good to be alone rather than associating with friends that are unreliable and that would give you issues. The lesser you socialize, the lesser your issues with people, the more peace of mind you have and the lesser your expenses.

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

Op, You’re an introvert just like me. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. I used to be worried about not having friends, and I ended up forcing myself into relationships that ended up hurting me terribly. Now, I focus on developing myself. Though I have one or two people that I confide in.
The truth is that we really need people around us to be our support system as we go through life.
I will advice you try to have to have two or three persons that have your best interest at heart and that you can confide in.

Less friends, less bullshiiiit

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

Man know thyself. Check your character and make personal assessments. What is your friendship for?
When you do this simple things you'll not have issues again

Squirrel1:
It seems you are am introvert. Well don't beat yourself too much. Try as much as you can to use that time you spend indoors to create yourself into a knowledgeble beast... While you find yourself something to do online.

Note, it won't be EASY.. they'll be time when the devil will make you watch porn and jerk off.... But in it all, don't give up and keep trying to become a better version of yourself.

Go to PDfdrive. Com and find yourself some nice books to read. It's literally free!


" Been alone is comfort and feeling alone is a disaster "

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Op, there's nothing wrong with you. I can stay indoor for a month if I don't have anything doing outside. I only have one friend which is like 21 years older than me I used to seek advice from him whenever I'm having issue That's all.

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hope you took your med today?

labake1:



I am interested but I haven't met the one.
I based in Benin City

So you’re sharing same state with a keyboard warrior AKA slawomir.

Oshin56:
Op, there's nothing wrong with you. I can stay indoor for a month if I don't have anything doing outside. I only have one friend which is like 21 years older than me I used to seek advice from him whenever I'm having issue That's all.

That’s exactly what make me not to have more friends growing up because I always found myself around those who are older than me and they always found pleasure keeping me as a friend also...


Sometime I just chill and observe human behaviors like someone watching a wildlife documentaries nothing move or surprise me about you being human.I found peace not talking to anyone and also my best time is being alone😎✅

It is widely accepted knowledge that on average you will only have 5 true friends over a lifetime, excluding family.

The others are acquaintances, hangers on, fair weather opportunists and rip off merchants.

All of you that are like that, you should come together and be friends with yourself.

U are always online.
U sure sey u get somtin doing

U are just too useless online.
A lady faa...!!!

Candidlady:

Emperormartin:
You lacked social exposure when you were growing.

You parents caged you and consigned you to themselves and Your siblings thinking they were doing you good but they've finally destroyed your social life.

It's not your fault but your parents fault

You just have to live with it and then fathom a way to train up your next generation

I think this is exactly what happened to me. though mom is not at fault cos i grew up in a very very not so speak-able area. coupled with the fact that i have an instinct for bad habits. with a weed dealership at our backyard, one or two bad boy getting killed on almost a weekly basis, it was chaos mehn.
I can look back at the people in our area and say she saved my life. but then, the norms is i'm alone. and any effort to undo that is doesn't last weeks before i return to the norms.

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

You are 100% normal. Maybe you are someone that can't stomach shits especially from friends who are meant to conduct themselves well.
Me na via biz. I hate it when friends and families disrespect my biz. So I dey fight them Wella as much as I want.

Aklee4994:
So you’re sharing same state with a keyboard warrior AKA slawomir.

Who be that?

You’re a Nairalander. This isn’t news.

No time for frds and I don't need them cuz they only become your frd when you have money they can leech.
I flex myself whenever I want, celebrate my birthday with my family and do my thing.
Life is more peaceful without frds

Bullman:



You are not alone..
Sometimes I wonder who will attend my wedding ,
Probably people from my wife's family n her friends.
Even best man las las I go rent the guy.
Then again I have peace , I'm not rich
But I'm very far from broke.

Bro I don think thing tire

remsonik:
This is me, I don't socialize. Never been to a bar or club. I don't go to programs I am not invited except church program. I don't visit friends of opposite gender.

I've come to realise that christianity will make people become introverts. You can't drink, can't smoke, can't do all the things that make people socialites....

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

You're better off with a computer or a dog than 99% of humans

Goodluck finding that 1%

CaptMarvel:
All of you that are like that, you should come together and be friends with yourself.

You say make introverts become friends with themselves? Na who go first talk? I think introverts should try and make friends with extroverts. It'll make them more open.

Emperormartin:
You lacked social exposure when you were growing.

You parents caged you and consigned you to themselves and Your siblings thinking they were doing you good but they've finally destroyed your social life.

It's not your fault but your parents fault

You just have to live with it and then fathom a way to train up your next generation

omoh.......u said it all bro