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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by OloyeVIII: 1:44pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
labake1: You still looking for "The One"! that movie be old girl... Jet Li's gotta be jetlagged by now.. |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Laple0541(m): 1:44pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Any friend you find it hard to keep you don’t deserve such fellow as a friend. Just be yourself, you will maintain real friends when you come across them. 4 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by King3urna(m): 1:44pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
I find it more harder |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by labake1(f): 1:44pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
UnusualEmissary: That's nice, there is joy in being alone. I wonder how my marriage life will be, I am even praying for a calm man because I can't deal with a talkative. 6 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by underpinna: 1:44pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
labake1: My only issue is that I don't have a girl friend if not, I like the introvert way of life. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by OloyeVIII: 1:45pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
labake1:What season of Gossip Girl are we on? |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by peacefulhome(f): 1:45pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ronaldo723: This is me. I have accepted how God created me and am not ashamed to say it. Don't force your self. Just in my own case, quarrel or fight is not involved , all I knew is that . The connection is not longer there after some time. So gradually, I disconnect from them . And before you say Jesus is lord, I forget anything that has to do with each person involved. 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by labake1(f): 1:46pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
underpinna: No rush because there is always a somebody for everybody. Single life is good |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by cowmanager2000: 1:46pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Its not a must to have friends by the way; What's d essence of having friends if it will lead to a 'ruin and if you must have, its by choice not by force .. it must be tailored towards a 'goal' acquittance is ok and that might be enough. Otherwise; live sooo [personal opinion not good enough by the way] 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by EMMARNUEL: 1:47pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ronaldo723:Oga stop stressing yourself over nothing. Nothing is wrong with you, i am exactly like that, i find it very hard to even make friends, talk more of keeping them and i can also stay indoors for days alone, i am a fullstack introverted person and i see nothing wrong with it, it helps me stay out of trouble and stupid familiarities.. I love my life this way. So don't stress, you are very okay, not everyone were meant to be all outdoor and socially active.. Our type is rare and unique. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Grateful123: 1:47pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
[quote author=Emperormartin post=124004632]You lacked social exposure when you were growing. You parents caged you and consigned you to themselves and Your siblings thinking they were doing you good but they've finally destroyed your social life. It's not your fault but your parents fault You just have to live with it and then fathom a way to train up your ne xt generation [/quote You don't have many likes but you have just given a clear hints to his problem 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by labake1(f): 1:47pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
OloyeVIII: We just exceeded season 20 Guys shouldn't be gossiping |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by FavouredBiano(m): 1:48pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Emperormartin: And how did you come to this very hasty and insulting conclusion? The way people talk as if they know all that goes on in another person's life, is quite baffling. It is not a must that we should have an opinion on everything posted on the internet. If you don't have anything meaningful to say, stay calm. 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Horlardorjah(m): 1:48pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ralph117: Exactly, we need friends. We just need the quality ones and in small number/fraction. In my career path, u get projects mostly based on connects n referrals. I withdrew into my shell at some point and it had its own effect on my career so I'm set to bust up places now 4 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by bizhop01: 1:49pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
What profit a man with 1000 friends that add no value in his life instead they reduced him along with pain 99% of Nigerians are hypocrite 3 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by OloyeVIII: 1:50pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
UnusualEmissary: ..ever thought of rowing a kayak in a sand dune? |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by HayB100(m): 1:50pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Your social life aint dead bro, and nothing is wrong wit you, there are too many fake people for streets now, your just dey save yourself from harm and unnecessary drama. I be like you too, I live my indoor life 💯✌️ 5 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Whoknow: 1:51pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Emperormartin:That's is truth when you up with over protective parents that is bound to happen. Especially when you are introvert by nature it always good introvert grow up with freedom because naturally they are discipline enough on themselves. 4 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Emperormartin:This is an example of a lousy take. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by OloyeVIII: 1:51pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
labake1:Yeah! Rumour Has It.. |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Emperormartin(m): 1:56pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
FavouredBiano:It is that don't have anything meaningful to say as I've given the op a clear hint of his problem. I even offered an advise to him at the end I don't know why my comment is paining you this much Are you the op Or Are you equally losing ur friends on slightest provocation? |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by vickydevoka(m): 1:56pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
labake1:Me way keep all the friends but not achieve anything from them. I be like buhari now, I belong to everyone and I belong to no one 5 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by imohimoh12: 1:58pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
You are not alone 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Microwhy: 2:00pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Life of introverts is sometimes funny and difficult. Aside my wife and kids who understand me and I can instruct them to get busy so that I can get my privacy but any other additional outsider is a trouble for me. I wish I can send my wife sister away. I'm extremely disoriented and disorganise. They see me getting busy doing all sort of work from going and coming from work place to doing all sort of DIY but we introvert knows that reading research and thinking and staying quietly alone is our thing and not the too much physical engagements. @OP you have to firstly and truly eithernyour introvert or not. Secondly, you have to choose which side you want to belong i.e introvert that mingle which are always quiet and last to talk in most gathering. Thirdly, you have to honestly ask yourself who's fault whenever things goes south with your friend. If you're always at fault, you have to work on your bad attitude. 4 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by myk2mic: 2:01pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
9jvirgin: Just out of curiosity, is it easier to work as an undocumented immigrant and easy to quickly get ur papers in Indianapolis. |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Winterex: 2:01pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead [/quote] Be my friend whatapp me ....09156048990 |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Ynix(m): 2:03pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
9jvirgin:At this point of technological advancement you don't need friends so much, now you can have online pals with whom you can meet periodically |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
labake1: Well, there are downsides too But of course, there's joy So you live alone too? |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by dmgr(m): 2:07pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Bullman: 😂😂😂 Your own case pass my own oo At least me I get best man sha. 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by NairaMaster1(m): 2:09pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ronaldo723: Get a training on emotional intelligence. Try not to be a perfectionist. Admit your faults and be magnanimous. 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Mimiwems2(f): 2:09pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Make Jesus your friend and you wont regret it Also join healthy clubs, Christian programs for youth by Gbile Akanni. I was like this. Even now where i am. I dont have friends yet but i try to make myself happy. 1 Like |
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