Philosopher1979:


I have my money allready. In fact im a lecturer.
I dont even need pussy. I work hard 24 hours a day.
Im working on a lot of things.
I don't know why u are insulting me.

We don't quote IT.

You didn't observe no one responded to his rants?

Let IT be

Karlifate:
Advance level of see-finish

🤣🤣🤣🤣

That's not the most painful part bro.

Did you see his Twitter moniker? He used my NL name to spew such disgusting simp rubbish.


How can you call yourself lumynous and behave like Scooby-Doo?😡😡😡😡

MetalJigsaw:
Brothers, every morning when you wake up thank God for showing you this thread... Because simping is a disease.

Another simp in the cards:

"Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on.

I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.

According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.

She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.

I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle).

I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.

The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..

Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible).

She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....

Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar."

if she can't respect your wish of not talking to that guy, when you get married, she won't even respect you.

Just tell her to a stop to it, period. If she refuse, move on. It's that simple. There are girls out there who are more willing and submissive who will stay with you and respect you.

luminouz:


That's not the most painful part bro.

Did you his Twitter moniker? He used my NL name to spew such disgusting simp rubbish.


How can you call yourself lumynous and behave like Scooby-Doo?😡😡😡😡

😂😂😂😂😂

Smartb0y:

Alpha seyi🤣

I love seeing simps suffer cuz when you advice them, they'll brush your opinion aside.

This made me laugh.

Blessed is that woman that won't try to bring drama near me else she'll remember me forever.

Never thought they never want to bring the drama to you.
The thing is they see you as no nonsense guy therefore they don't bother to bring to you.
The same with me is only once i have engage in drama with a girl after her, any girl that try to bring they automatically shut off the frame themselves.
Ain't get for nonsense.

obontami:


Your biťch is fúcking that boy.

Hope you know I was just quoting someone

orchin:


Spending on you doesn't mean anything, u don't have to reward her for that.
As for marrying her, it's up to you once you can accept the consequences..
It's been said many times on this thread never to save a damaged hoe....
And how sure are you she only had one guy in her life before you, or aborted once?
Why the guy she aborted for not marrying her?

This is just the reply I would have given. Kudos

Likeplaylikepla:


So how can I improve my game with women. Just asking Man. Please don't tell me 'go n make money' ... because I've seen guys I make money than shagging hot babes.

Sorry bro... if you want to improve your game with women, money is actually useful, in a way. Uhmm, but not in the way you think.

Anyways, we'll get to that now.

Every guy wants an amazing woman... That beautiful, sexy and sweet girl that has all the amazing qualities you’ve ever dreamt and fantasized about.. We believe that once we meet the woman, everything will simply fall in place.

But here is the bitter truth: the most effective way to find that amazing woman is to actually become an "amazing man"

You may think it is a very harsh thing to say. You may cry, gnash your teeth and get all agitated over it. But that’s just the fucking truth.

For a woman, all it takes to be amazing is to look beautiful and very sexy...and she'll be highly valued and sorted after by men.

But this is different for men. For you to be truly amazing with women, you need to improve these 3 aspect of your life:
#1 have an amazing lifestyle/world
#2 be an amazing intiator
#3 be an amazing communicator

Only few guys perfectly has all the 3 aspect...The vast majority of guys are only average or above average in maybe one or more of these aspect, and this reflect in their interactions with women.

Having an amazing lifestyle is where money can be useful in a way. Because with money you can fund an amazing lifestyle. Remember, when you're asking a woman out, you basically asking her to join your world. No woman wants to be part of a boring and dull world...

The average nice guy knows his world is boring and shitty, so he tries to look for a girlfriend to make her the light of his dull world. And that's why women run away from him....because she's also looking for light. She's looking for a man who already has light in his world.

The average woman don't want be the light of a man's world...but rather she want to join a world and lifestyle that is already shining and amazing.

*Drops Mic*

Ok, wait. I'm not done.

*Picks Mic*

Having an amazing lifestyle/world is not enough.

For example, let's meet a guy with an amazing lifestyle...But lack the other two aspects: he isn't an amazing initiator or communicator. He might get lots of chosen signals from women but he won't initiate conversations with them, instead he would wait for the women to initiate conversations with him first. The woman that manage to come to him will realize that his lifestyle is actually amazing but his personality isn't awesome or striking, so she's not really fascinated by him...so she only be with him to benefit from his amazing life, she manipulate and exploit him. She will see him as maga.
When she's done with him, she dump him or if she's married to him, she ask for divorce so she can get half of his properties.

Sad...

Anyways, making money and building an amazing lifestyle doesn't have a finishing line. And this is something every guy is already working towards in one or the other. You are waking up every morning and hustling because you want to be able to create amazing lifestyle for yourself.

So what about being an amazing initiator and commicator?

Being an amazing intiator is about having the ability or confidence to intiate conversation with a woman you like. At the core, this is one problem with most nice guys. The nice guy see a cute girl sitting or standing close to him, he does nothing. Instead he just admire her, stare at her and fantasizes about being in a sweet romantic relationship with her...

Being an amazing commicator is the ability to express yourself effectively, connect with her and engaging her attention. This is one skill most legit players have.

Many times you lose out on women because you either lack the confidence to intiate conversation with a woman you like or you lack the ability converse with a woman and engage her attention and emotions.

I have met a guy who doesn't have the ability initiate conversation with a lady but he has great conversational skills. He rarely initiate conversations with women, but when an interested woman bump into him by mistake, he will capitalize on the opportunity to connect with her and make her his woman.

But I've met many guys who are an amazing intiators. He can intiate conversation with a woman as long as she's sitting or standing close to him. But eventually his interaction with the woman will gradually fade out and she lose interest in him. This is because he lacks good conversational skills and has the inability to engaged her emotions. He only gets lucky when he meet a girl that is determine to be with him regarless of the shitty personality or poor conversational skills.

To solve his problem the red pill community prescribe, "you need to have good game"

But Like I said, game doesn't exist... Game is kinda like a fairy tale concepts.

I talked about it here.. please read it, if you haven't.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1940#121479857

What I endorse is having preparedness and learning to build sexual comfortableness... because that is what legitimately get you girls. If you want to learn more about it, check my signature or profile or my whatever.

MetalJigsaw:
Hope you know I was just quoting someone

My bad I guess.

Philosopher1979:


I have my money allready. In fact im a lecturer.
I dont even need pussy. I work hard 24 hours a day.
Im working on a lot of things.
I don't know why u are insulting me.

he's a notorious troll on this forum bro.
Ignore him

SMH 🤦‍♂️.. I hope this is just clout, coz wtf 😂

Al Pacino, 83 and his girlfriend, 29 welcomed a baby boy. DNA was done and the baby is truly his.

...

Women cannot bill me because I don't give them attention.

heartofcity12:
SMH 🤦‍♂️.. I hope this is just clout, coz wtf 😂

She is not for the streets and she dey ask for half plot of land and weekly salary?

She is not only for the streets, she is for the fuqin galaxy😡😡😡😡

heartofcity12:
...

Lmaooo...

Mumu just have thought she loved him when he had money. If we dey advise am that time, he'd think we are haters....

Now, he is about to experience hot breakfast on top joblessness. Then, he will learn women don't give two shiits about your past, or future just the mudafucking PRESENT.

Dexter08:
Dear men,

Never ever mistake the beauty of a woman for innocence.

That she is the finest thing you have ever seen or that she rival Katrina Kaif in beauty does not tell that she is innocuous.

There was a time in my life that I was sure ladies do not visit the loo. given how wonderfully they are made.

Growing up, Disney and others also helped accentuate and portrayed that they are this gentle soul, innocuous and cherubic beings.

But reality would show that this lot are sharper than blade, wiser than serpent, cunnier than fox and that if you don't meet a particular standard, they won't think twice before discarding you.

Many of us here found the redpill because of their ruthless nature.

Mistake is accidentally falling that glass cup; mistake is recharging your line with ten thousand naira instead of a thousand naira you had in mind; mistake is stepping on someone's shoe.

What mistake isn't, is taking the beauty of a woman for innocence.

Dear men, you are permitted to make mistakes in your daily life, but never ever mistake the beauty of a woman for innocence.

Too real.

Too good.

Too apt.

Too much quality.

Had a chat with an oG yesterday and he was just summing it with Men have no business Falling in Love.


He deals in Female merchandise and said the stories he could tell me, will leave me too shaken.

Examples: A lady comes to buy something she will call three (3) homeboys who will finance her buys.

Once, a lady in his shop selected N60k worth of goods, showed me the same where he had tucked them, believe she paid N20k of course not her funds, then said "which Man I go go rub head now!"? And she was damm serious!

Say Barnies go buy clothes, strip down to change their clothes, and test the clothes but will go stark naked, mess a bit or chill until he can see them, so dem go fit pay kind for clothes!

These women are 💯 looking out for their best interest and are not stupid.

Orpazpjr:


Too real.

Too good.

Too apt.

Too much quality.

Had a chat with an oG yesterday and he was just summing it with Men have no business Falling in love.


He deals in females merchandise and said the stories he could and will give me will leave me too shook.

Examples: A lady comes to buy something she will call three (3) homeboys who will finance her buys.

A lady selected N60k worth of goods, showed me same where he had tucked them, believe she paid N20k of course not her funds,then said "which Man I go go rub head now!"? And she was Damm serious!

Say Barnies go buy clothes, strip down to change their clothes and test the clothes but will go stark naked, mess Abit or chill until he can see them, so dem go fit pay kind for clothes!


These women are 💯 looking out for their best interest and are not stupid.

All these ones small. Let okada riders gist you about women innate nature and sexscapades and you go vex lose your appetite

Dabronze:
Yea! You right
One of the Rule of bad boys is :- DON'T GIVE F**K ABOUT HER FEELINGS JUST MAKE YOUR WAY WITH HER

Trying to be worried about a her feelings can make you go simping with her

The guy kiss her grap the a$$ like he owns it in public badboy mentality putting her feelings in consideration is BETA mindset .

I Think that dude knows she's mad but doesn't care.

Karlifate:
✍️...
Become a high value man through purpose, not just game.


Men spend half their lives seeking tactics to attract women, while disregarding their core responsibility at the cost of it.

The need to fulfill lust has become so strong, that a mans apex value has become nothing but sex.
🔗
🔗
Having a purpose greater than women.

A purpose has the capacity to make a man develop attractive traits as a weapon disguised as consequence.
When you select a path towards abundance, you by default will encounter resistance.

You will be forced to contend with obstacles, that either break you or force you to elevate & overcome them.

This is hardship, where attractive traits are forged.

For you to overcome resistance, it will require you to kill parts of yourself too complacent to handle the brutal forces encountered.

You will fail, get back up, then fail again, etc...

Every time you get back up, you shed the undesirable parts of yourself.

You will be forced to become more determined, more aggressive.

You will become more cunning & leverage means to reach your end.

You will become intolerant of anything & anyone that conflicts with your apex value.

You won't have to play hard to get.

You will be hard to get.

💯

💯
💯🔥👑

luminouz:

All these ones small. Let okada riders gist you about women innate nature and sexscapades and you go vex lose your appetite

True talk.

These days na stories I just wan de hear, I no too de shock except say na one wey just pass wetin Man Don hear before, because it aids in desensitizing one from that naive state of their capabilities.

The point be say, e get time wey like person point out, person go de reason weda dem de shit but now if you still de dat head space, wire go shock you.

Kozil2:


Move on, that's the only thing you should do. She is not the only female existing in your area?? There are other females like her, choose from any of them and move on with your life. Persistence is the major cause of simping.

"Move on" is one sentence that people coming here for advice dread alot because of their financial or emotional investment in their crush/ lover.

This is why abundance mentality is very essential in intergender relationships.

I don't think that dude will "move on" so easily.

MetalJigsaw:
"Move on" is one sentence that people coming here for advice dread alot because of their financial or emotional investment in their crush/ lover.

This is why abundance mentality is very essential in intergender relationships.

I don't think that dude will "move on" so easily.

The truth is that most of them deep down they already know the answer/solution to their problems. They already know what they are supposed to do.

They just want someone to help them validate the fantasies they still believe in.

jayAjoku:
When You Fûck her Raw you Open Yourself Up for Games .

She can tell you she’s pregnant and then use this to fleece you For Cash. You can claim you Didn’t cum in her all you want
(“Assuming you didn’t 🤔”)

She will use the argument of precum Against you, One way or another you’ll not have a strong stance to deny her claims and if you have no proof of her infidelity you could be potentially in For a Long Ride. It has happened to me in the past , I have seen it happen to people.

Strap up Boys You not only protect your Yourself from diseases you also protect yourself from false accusations.

how wish Davido saw this

Dear men,

Just this evening a member in a group where I belong sent a Youtube link of this programme he participated titled Love Hunt or something.

Erm, let say the video left a sour taste in the mouth.

One thing I do know is that my ancestors before me didn't fight wars, endured famine, tilled the soil for me to put myself in a spot where ladies with prolly over 20 body counts would have to pick me from a pallete of guys; pass sniding remarks; and show contemptimple histronics.

The program was so bad that even the winner of the said show this week was not spared. One could perceived the disgust, see the superlicious gestures and sense the disappointment of the said ladies.

Dear men, nothing beats self respect and dignity. Even if you don't meet society standard all rounder I beg thee this day never go on tv shows where ladies that have been d#ckmatized, used and dumped have to choose from a number of men on who they intend to start a relationship with.

Bro it is a dumb move!!

No matter what anyone says, you are the price!!!

Even offline, dear men you do not deserve to be ridiculed like that. No man simp or redpliller deserves to be treated like what I saw today in that show.

Everyday one fears for the future of men in this generation. Smh.

rumenase:
how wish Davido saw this

Me Too bro

AOMINE IN DA HOUZEEE, WATS POPPING IN DA HOUSE. WOW YOU GUYS REALLY KEPT THIS SHIT GOING NOW I AM BACK, JUST WANTED TO DROP THIS NUGGET I LEARNT FROM REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE, EVEN IF YOU HAVE MONEY, WHEN DEALING WITH GIRLS DONT LEAD WITH IT TOO MUCH IT WILL ONLY MAKE YOU LOOK MORE LIKE A MAGA, INSTEAD TRY TO MAKE A FOCUS MORE ON YOU, DRESS WELL ,GET FIT, NICE HAIR,TAKE CARE OF YOUR SKIN, BE CONFIDENT, TEASE HER AND BE FLEXIBLE, IF SHE IS NOT INTERESTED BOUNCE, YOU JUST SAVED A LOT OF MONEY ON A BITCH WHO WASNT INTERESTED, BUT I PROMISE YOU WILL SEE THE ONE THAT IS INTERESTED CUZ EVEN ALL THIS ONES THAT ARE SAYIN YOU MUST BUY ME G WAGON HAS ONE YEYE BOY FUCKING THEM FOR ALMOST NO COST

heartofcity12:
SMH 🤦‍♂️.. I hope this is just clout, coz wtf 😂

heart of city my Gee it been a while, appreciate the good work you are doing

Yemi4love:
Bosses in the house, I would need an advice on this....


Met this lady in November last year. She told me her guy just broke up with her and was still trying to heal. We became friends till late December and we started dating. She told me prior to the start of our relationship that she had an abortion for her ex guy. It really didn't bother me because I don't have interest in marrying her, and she has always been the one asking for us to date before we finally started dating.

She was the one that first messaged me on Facebook, so I was just thinking of how to knack and probably keep her company pending the time she gets another guy. But she has been very clingy ever since we started. She is a good girl. She helps in paying my house rent, bringing foodstuffs, buying clothes and shoes for me, spent like 70k on my birthday, and all, and I can't even say I've spent up to 5k on her since we met. And she has spent more than 400k so far.

I would have had a change of mind about marrying her, cus she's 25 while I'm 30, but it seems the abortion she had then tampered with her womb, we're both not sure but I already advice her to visit the hospital for tests.

Do you think I should continue with her or just break-up with her?

Once you confirm she is fertile baba proceed and give her belle first because the lady don get experience so she no go dey misbehave trust me.

orchin:


Spending on you doesn't mean anything, u don't have to reward her for that.
As for marrying her, it's up to you once you can accept the consequences..
It's been said many times on this thread never to save a damaged hoe....
And how sure are you she only had one guy in her life before you, or aborted once?
Why the guy she aborted for not marrying her?

We really need to mind the way we give advise.
Let not be as wicked as heartless person.
We know women hardly spend their money on men and if they do they must have been in fall in love or see the man potential beside we men too do spend money on whom we want to.
So having pregnant abort mean a woman is a hoe.
You and i don't know she is hoe unless the poster is very sure to say she is.
Your advice is cold honestly.