I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible

Your soul isn't there. The sex is rushed and no soulish buildup before you guys touched down. If you want to keep her, you need to first discover yourselves. Abstain from sex and attend to other aspects of your relations. If you both draw closer after a while, then your emotions would both grow. Otherwise let her goz you're not into her at all sexually at least

Wodu89:
Your soul isn't there. The sex is rushed and no soulish buildup before you guys touched down. If you want to keep her, you need to first discover yourselves. Abstain from sex and attend to other aspects of your relations. If you both draw closer after a while, then your emotions would both grow. Otherwise let her goz you're not into her at all sexually at least

Bro I should let her know that am not into her sexually?? Lols no be trouble I dey find like that so... Imagine telling you babe that you're not attracted to her sexually. You go talk who you come dey attracted to.

Am actually trying the abstainance but reasons to cover up for the abstainance is what am looking for. Last time I used sickness and office stress, even at that she was still pissed, she kept reminding me it's been 2 weeks we had sex...

Softboy001:


Bro I should let her know that am not into her sexually?? Lols no be trouble I dey find like that so... Imagine telling you babe that you're not attracted to her sexually. You go talk who you come dey attracted to.

Am actually trying the abstainance but reasons to cover up for the abstainance is what am looking for. Last time I used sickness and office stress, even at that she was still pissed, she kept reminding me it's been 2 weeks we had sex...

Lol. Go and tell her and see if she doesn't know already. She knows but waiting to hear it from you

It is right she knows before it travels far biko

Catch her cheating.
Watch how Ahmadu pounds her silly and she's screaming Jesus then let's see if the interest won't return.

Show your gf this comment.

Dude, you are very well wedded to your soapy that taking on another satisfier does not seem to appeal to you, so I suggest you stick with your wife soapy instead of thinking you are the sort of person who can marry more than one wife. Not every one can, so no shame.

Another option is you divorce soapy, but I'm told that's near impossible for soapy lovers to do.

Ds life no balance.
Me wey my wife dey suffer me with sex; u dey get sex offer u dey decline.

Porn don deal with you boss. stay away from real porn. slowly drift away, watch handheld cams.. with non-actors as participants. Avoid soapy for a week. wen d rush builds up, quench it on babe.. repeat...

Bro abeg answer this question mesef no fellow soapier

Soapy no day shrink your divk?

this is one of the devastating effects of addiction to pornography and masturbation...

you would feel something for the women in the scenes, but won't feel anything when it comes to real women because you've programmed your brain to be only attrcated to what it sees on screen.. it's just like smoking...

you better stop or try to reduce it as much as possible or you'll be on the path of no return...

Lust is different from love

Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible

You have to stop with the masturbation, because it diminishes your libido, and gives you an illusion not to love any girl, no matter how beautiful she might look.

Masturbation is the number killer of joy, love and likeness of the human feeling towards the opposite sex.

@Softboy001
Find her Assistant BoyFriend to help out, just my 2cents

Same here. Married omotola type and craving to have a stand with Genevieve type for once.
I'm sick

Oooppps.
And the love must have been probably based on infatuation, not real love.

Real love never fades.

Then Leave Your Girlfriend

You and your girlfriend relationship is 1month old and u are disturbing us . Focus ur attention on more pressing matters in life .

.

Wàhálà

Leave am na

Repent of your sins.

After taking the car for a test drive now you'e looking for an excuse not to buy it abi?

Damnnn niggar

Maybe she is not facially beautiful

Move on and quit you don’t need the attention you seek for

Promo sale

then marry her

You don't chop am finish,another food don dey hungry you na why.

After all the bedroom acrobatics her puscy now has a sour taste to you.

Don't worry we understand

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Case closed..

Don’t waste her time. Let her move on..

I’m just like you. I’m attracted to slim girls with petty breast & not too much Ass.. I no dey bother any girls that doesn’t fit in at all..

It’s no problem! But ensure you don’t turn Dj Khalid oo - don’t hold her down

Ball then...

It happens, do the right thing for you and her and end the relationship peacefully right now.

After serious knacking
Guys if una no dey fear God anymore, fear Satan na