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Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:06pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
meobizy: I posted my experience madam, I for once don't bash women, go through my profile you will see threads where people have been advising me to run, it was a living hell for me, but I don't really blame her, I believe she doesn't know that she have this disorder. 3 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Dexy4yah(m): 5:07pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Saintinoo:You just defined my ex girlfriend. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:08pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
othermen: No sir, it is more than a disagreement, only guys are ladies who have experienced a narcissistic abuse can explain to you better, read up and see peoples experience |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Dsimmer: 5:08pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Narcissists are attention seekers who love to seek attention and love controlling others to give them attention. They can use anything to be in control and can go as far as blackmailing you and playing the victim when you want to let go. Saw a narcissistic situationship on live TV. The situationship of Yemi cregx and the Kobosi vulture he was saddled with. Attention seeking pity card playing toxic blackmailer. Heck, she forced herself on Yemi in his bed while crying for pity despite Yemi telling her that he didn't want to be boxed but she wouldn't leave Yemi's bed alone. She chased away the several other girls who indicated interest in Yemi and had wanted Yemi boxed to her ugly toxic ass whereas her hypocritical toxic ass would flirt around for her usual attention validation while she always cried for pity whenever she saw other girls with Yemi and had even promised to disqualify herself if she saw Yemi with another girl in his bed. She had even wanted to sabotage Yemi's friendship with the guys like she did with the girls interested in him. A toxic vulture clown! 6 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:11pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
18wheeler: That is what you think until you meet one, I was thinking I was a simp, but you know why I am not a simp? Because we keep having problem, Narcissists need someone they can control and get attention from, if I was a simp, we would never had have problems. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:13pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Captain0823: Fortunately for me, she gave silent treatment, I decided to leave, left for some months, and those were her most terrible moments. |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by poshestmina(f): 5:14pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Saintinoo: No good person deserves such a partner . Glad you left with your life and sanity in place. Cut off ALL and every means of her coming back ,take your time to heal and move on. Best regards. vickydevoka: Might be true ,but then ,he was and will remain the last of his kind I let Into my space or life. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by poshestmina(f): 5:15pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
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Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:17pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
BobbieZion: Haha, seems you were also almost destroyed by her, I can say I was destroyed because she made me always go back to beg her after feeding me with silent treatment. Beb will wrong me, when I get upset, she will give silent treatment until I apologize. To me I have found a wife, was busy planning marriage, I made her my priority, everything was about her needs, career and family. 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Yep I dated one, at first he gave this controlling vibes and demanding respect, while saying I'm not up to per on some things, when I point out any fault of his, he won't accept his mistakes, but will immediately apologise for "Peace to reign", the very next minute he will repeat same mistakes again then tell me to get used to it, he likes to talk about himself alot, but turn deaf ear to anything that has to do with me, when I noticed this traits the first 3 months of dating, I felt it might be a one off thing, then it started reoccurring everytime, eventually I excused myself from the relationship by ignoring him, it wasn't easy but I was determined to end it, after 3 months of silence he chatted me up one day and said he couldn't believe I'll ever ghost him, I ignored that chat till date. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:20pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Moniya4Real: Mine was a virgin, I was busy keeping her virginity in the name of I have found a wife. Truly she was a Virgin, because I confirmed. But she has the mentality that I and not her father should take care of her, mind you, she is not a small girl. 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:22pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
REVOLUTION2018:I am still trying to recover.... |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by irumole1975: 5:23pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Stop sharing top secrets like this on a public forum |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:28pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: You are right about emotional weakness and fear, mine had all these traits, but I kept assuring her that I will always protect her. I did everything to show her true love and protection, maybe it got into her head. Ignoring her is like starting a war, she gets depressed when ignored. Like I ignored her for some months when she won't accept that she was wrong, and when I thought about everything and decided to get back, she exploded and started avoiding me, I k ow I took away that supply for months, probably she got a new supply. 5 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 5:29pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Jovialjune1:you deserve a medal .they hate to be ignored.just ignore them,ghost them,walk away. 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:30pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
achimendy: I know for sure that I am strong of a man emotionally than you. What do you think simping is? Try get into a serious relationship with them and see. |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 5:33pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Cloudflare: You didn't date a narcissist, you probably date one of these Nigeria girls, date a covert narc and see the story. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Toks2008(m): 5:34pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Saintinoo: Ladies who exhibit these traits usually love so deeply. Unfortunately, their men should just tolerate their narcissism 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Igboid: 5:48pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Cloudflare: You sound like a Narcissist male. I bet you are. |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by bepositive11: 5:53pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
COOL10: Toxic people attract each other. If you keep attracting toxic people, you need to take a look at yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Moniya4Real(m): 6:04pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Same with my ex-girlfriend, even though she works as well.(a caterer and wasn’t doing badly) Saintinoo: |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by bepositive11: 6:09pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
helinues: How does friendship grow into a relationship? |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by helinues: 6:19pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
bepositive11: Friendship is the process of getting to know more about each other's, likes and dislikes, do's and dont's.. |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by fatboyslym007: 6:30pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
If you marry one or in a relationship with one... Get the HELL OUTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Nehyooh(m): 7:22pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
poshestmina:You messed up as well, once the first hitting or beating happened, a lady must think twice with her head and not some sort of stupid love she has for the guy. Woman beaters are nothing but an animal. Meanwhile, it's not only men that are toxic, some ladies are toxic as well hope you know that? I'm a living witness.....I ran from that your gender 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Vivvvy1(f): 7:23pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
I'm still trying to heal. Worst experience I have got my whole life. I get confused and still wonder why he chose me. I didn't get closure . If you notice any trait,get the h*ll out,they will emotionally finish you 7 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Denko2721987(m): 7:30pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
You won't even get a chance to try any of your narcissist BS stunts on me to begin with becos by BS detector would pick from far away and my BS counter mechanisms would shot it down with you immediately. I can only ever try to deal with such a person if she is worth in other social aspects, accepts that she has that problem and willing to work to change. 4 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Denko2721987(m): 7:32pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Rexie96: Like WTF?? How the hell would u be infecting someone like that?? |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by hanymasahun: 8:05pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
We are in the same train. I hate nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by goldust777: 8:31pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
A female covert narcissist the most dangerous category of narcissist is the worst person a man can date worse marry and have kids with,they will pretend to be someone else they are not for years only to remove this fake pretensive mask suddenly especially in marriage and your left with a pure demonic evil woman,If you're the church going type you will think she was possessed by a demon and wasting your time taking her to pastors for deliverance.what you don't understand is she is actually the demon in human form ready to destroy your life totally and make your life hell on earth before you think of visiting as a sinner if you're married to a female covert narcissist please run for your life don't stay in it for the kids.if you're alive and not destroyed in a marriage to a female covert narcissist you can stay alive for your kids.Abeg run o 9 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by DonroxyII: 8:40pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
irumole1975:The Problem with African & Backwardness Is Hoarding Knowledges..... That's was Why Your Forefathers Were Incarcerated..... Left for Africans we wouldn't have YouTube, Tiktoks & Internet because the Knowledges would have been hoarded by those who knew the drills .... Many Old Grannies Died with lot of Secrets of the Worlds living their Children to Start from Where Their Parents Started Instead of Building from Where they Ended... We Dont have a Progressive Forward Moving Nation But a Retrogressive Nation Because Where Other Nations are Starting From Where their Ancestors Stops to Moves Forward, Africa do not even have the Clue to Build Keke Napep Because Of Hoarding, Hoarding & Competitions Instead of Collaborations .... To Move Forward, There Must Be Exchanges ! All info must be shared because it's quite obvious your parents nor family can't teach you everything.. Street is Cruel to Learn Lessons, You will simply learn the harder ways ! 10 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by phemmyfour: 8:41pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Saintinoo:No 2 is disgusting. Never apologize to a woman when she's wrong. She will continue to blackmail you emotionally. Be a man in your relationship and stop being a SIMP 5 Likes |
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