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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Emdebby2: 4:46pm On Jul 18, 2023

Calling your husband "this man" is a turn off.

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by jmoore(m): 4:46pm On Jul 18, 2023

emmanuelewumi:

I will advise you to retaliate, buy a property and don't include your husband's name in the title documents of the property

How is it retaliation? Is it a war? You guys are funny. The phone she bought, did she include her husband name in the receipt?

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Karlifate: 4:47pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ursino:
How much did you contribute to the purchase of the said lands?

😂😂

She didn't even bother to mention how the husband has been treating her & the kids well.

But came here to be dragging ownership.

A sensible person would've figured out that this woman is just trying to stir up drama where there's none.

When you make a woman too comfortable, she stirs up drama out of nowhere.💯

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ppogba: 4:47pm On Jul 18, 2023

bukkysam:
Nairaland resemble your husband family house?

Thank you for keeping it short and simple.

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by DrAda(f): 4:47pm On Jul 18, 2023

I dont let this bother me. Rather it motivates me to work harder to have my own investments.

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Emma1Oj(m): 4:47pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:

He bought it with his money. I didn't contribute to it and even when I offered to give him at least a million (just want my money to be part of it) he said I shouldn't worry

"This man"?? Your husband already knew how dangerous and claiming you can be reason why he reject your donation. Your husband "this man" I can imagine what that man is going through.

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:48pm On Jul 18, 2023

jmoore:
■ How is it retaliation? Is it a war? You guys are funny. The phone she bought, did she include her husband name in the receipt?

Is a phone an asset? undecided

Is Data subscription an asset? undecided

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Chigold101(m): 4:48pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

Ị feel very sorry for your husband.
I just hope you won't wake up one day and kill him for nothing.

You don't even have a single respect for him...
Mtcheeeew

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by aktolly54(m): 4:48pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:

You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again

You don't know what God has given you. God gave you 3sons, those son are attached to you than their father and will definitely be on your side in the future (male children love their mother more than their father). Your husband won't do that by marry another woman out there but assuming you said you got 3 daughter,no heir then I can agree with you that your husband will definitely marry another woman just to have a male gender too

Go calm down and enjoy your marriage, no need to panick. You might have your own solid source of income too and if you need husband support ask him and don't venture into business that will make you lose your own money , all in the hope of making more money.

Find business with less risk and little profit, something that at least your capital will still be intact even if there is no profit

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Maobichek: 4:48pm On Jul 18, 2023

negaiyke:

From experience, I know that whenever a woman wants to report an issue, she will only tell the part that would draw peoples sympathy...

Look you're an Igbo lady (I guess from your profile name caption).. Any Igbo man knows that you must always add your wife's name to properties, if not, when you gone, in-laws would flex muscles and leave your wife and kids nothing.

Since your case is different, I believe that maybe:
1. You have taught him a lesson from a previous case of joint ownership of properties (maybe you guys bought a car or any items together before that he now regrets doing).
2. You have done same to him before now (you bought something without carrying him along)... you may deny here but in your heart you should know.
3. You may be warming up to people that scares him (say maybe a troublesome in-laws or friends) as such Oga wants to play safe

My recommendation:
1. Land or properties title can be changed or updated any time, just work to build back your husband's trust.
2. Stop or keep away from whatever gave him that scare of including you to his common wealth.

Any Igbo man knows that you must always add your wife's name to properties, if not, when you gone, in-laws would flex muscles and leave your wife and kids nothing.

Good evening, i copied the above part of your comment because it's a blatant lie. There are some part of Igbo that practice matriarchy and others practice patriarchy. My family, my village and many other villages that i know don't drag property with the widow of their late brother.

My uncle married from Ogun state and he is late, his properties in Lagos, Abuja,Aba, PH are all in the care of his wife, even his house in our village. Please stop generalizing, thank you.

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ppogba: 4:49pm On Jul 18, 2023

Emdebby2:
Calling your husband "this man" is a turn off.

Bringing an issue that could potentially send her out of her marriage should be a bigger turn off.

Married kids!

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kobicove(m): 4:49pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

Did you contribute part of the money used in buying the land?

If not then you have no right to insist that your name be included in the property documents!

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by pharmaking: 4:50pm On Jul 18, 2023

What always make women think their husbands will die before them.

Any woman that wishes me premature death, na me and her mama go bury am.Meaning she will go before me and even her parents.

Aunty, go and hussle your own money and buy your own properties too.

Forget for better for worse.Most women are just in marriages for the sake of poverty alleviation.

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by 07kjb: 4:52pm On Jul 18, 2023

youngreva:

Most of them don’t love their husbands always on the watch on how to outsmart the men in their lives
Marry an Igbo woman at your own peril

Stop saying rubbish my elder sister bought a land here in IMO STATE with her hard earned money with her husbands name...a CALABAR MAN FOR THAT MATTER

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Karlifate: 4:52pm On Jul 18, 2023

ppogba:
I did not bother to read the epistle.
All I can say is, if indeed you are truly married and decides to bring your marital issue for public discussion on Nairaland, just go and return your marriage certificate because you are not qualified.

Especially not on trivial issues that's caused by low self-esteem, personal insecurity & the need to stir up drama.

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by wales4real(m): 4:53pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

Madam, that's part of the ways of identifying stupid and ingrate women.
A man would toil day and night to fend for the family and the reward they give him is lack of appreciation and playing the victim card. 99% of men would never expect you to think in that direction, especially when you have kids together. Men are wired to provide a cover for their wife and kids but women like you would always listen to wrong advisers, including spiritual advisers.
I will advise you to watch the people you move with, they will push you to break your home by yourself. They will mislead you even into adultery if this is not happening already.

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kcdojoto(m): 4:53pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

You dey craze, you give am money to buy am?
Women are always thinking of what they gain not what they will contribute

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by SweetDipBenny(m): 4:54pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

Ur plans will not work grin

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by 222Martins(m): 4:54pm On Jul 18, 2023

ppogba:

Some of you should be taking your your ignorance mixed with stupidity to your village square so that the accolades you crave will not elude you.

Who told you that it is corporate law that Otudeko is using to outsmart Ecobank?

Do you know the details of the Otudeko/ Ecobank case or you are just forming C Ronaldo from the little pieces you pick in the media?

Perhaps, it will be right to assume that nobody knows anything about corporate law in the whole of Ecobank legal department.

I am not surprised. This is Nairaland.

The information is public. The Barbbbicann Company being disputed about is incorporated under his Children's name, so technically and legally, he has nothing to with the company even though he controls it.

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Jetman2018: 4:55pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:

You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again

Of a truth! He doesn't have any intention of remarrying another woman. You have to be godly and don't allow ur flesh or worldly advise to ruin ur marriage. What belongs to him belongs to you, why worry? Your worry will cause u more harm than good.

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by jmoore(m): 4:55pm On Jul 18, 2023

Kobojunkie:
Is a phone an asset? Is Data subscription an asset?

Did she contribute a kobo to the purchase of the land?

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by GorillaApp(m): 4:56pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:

You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again

I will respond because you come from the east. He has no ulterior plan. Over 90% of men will put their name exclusively the total money comes from them. It doesn't mean he has plans to kick you out later.
Cool down

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by chris51(f): 4:56pm On Jul 18, 2023

Please relax my dear. God gave you three sons and you are talking about wanting your name to be on land purchased by your husband.
The land belongs to him the children and the entire. If you have no ulterior motives you should not be bothered.

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by chris51(f): 4:56pm On Jul 18, 2023

chris51:
Please relax my dear. God gave you three sons and you are talking about wanting your name to be on land purchased by your husband.
The land belongs to him the children and the entire. If you have no ulterior motives you should not be bothered.

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by yusufmurry: 4:56pm On Jul 18, 2023

CLATHRIN:

Make him shaa write will, that is the most important for me. As a man, he has to write a will that includes you and his kids.

As I dey, I no fit marry person wey I no fit trust to write her name for will even if say na one plot of land I get.

Even if he writes the will and did not include her, heaven will never fall. All of you African ladies(Nigeria) have too many expectations in marriage due to your insecurity and fear of the unknown.

Put up a good attitude and minimize over-expectations in marriage/relationship. You have kids. Thank God for that

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by YelloweWest: 4:57pm On Jul 18, 2023

Omihanifa:

You are being petty
Why are you so bothered that the land documents didn't carry your name or mr& Mrs?

You think say we men never wise up?

She's nit overreacting pls. They are married with children and what belongs to him, belongs to her as well!

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by miketayo(m): 4:58pm On Jul 18, 2023

SHiNJA4RMDWEST:

I fear women from those side walahi

No wonder most Igbo women are widows and feminists..

Esp when she is from Anambra ...

Anambra girls have the best character amongst the South East ladies

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by YelloweWest: 4:58pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ladies, never put your life in a hold to raise children WITHOUT FINANCIAL SECURITY.

That land belongs to your husband not you madam.

Hustle and gets yours!

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by scoobyblogspot(m): 4:59pm On Jul 18, 2023

Na wa ooooo.

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by youngreva(m): 5:01pm On Jul 18, 2023

07kjb:

Stop saying rubbish my elder sister bought a land here in IMO STATE with her hard earned money with her husbands name...a CALABAR MAN FOR THAT MATTER

Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kobojunkie: 5:03pm On Jul 18, 2023

jmoore:
■ Did she contribute a kobo to the purchase of the land?

So marriage is afterall a business agreement where each partner buys entitlement through financial contributions made in the union? undecided

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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ChybuzzDD(m): 5:03pm On Jul 18, 2023

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

I do the same too sometimes.
That means you don get 2 people to beat be that

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