Ijelenwanyioma:

You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again

This is how you listen to bad advices and later complain when things backfire. Why don't you focus on your work and the upbringing of your children.

Whatever your husband has belongs to you and your children eventually. Don't try to look for issues that do not exist.

Ijelenwanyioma:

You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again

you have three children for him ..if he hates you that much according to your assumptions will he omit his children from the property.....since you are a millionaire u can get your own land if land is your problem and if he wants to get another wife you can't still stop him ...the best you can do is divorce him ..so stop worrying yourself and continue to look after your husband and the wonderful children you gave him

Ijelenwanyioma:

You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again

I bought a plot of last month my wife is the one with the document I do not put her name there she do not complain

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

Women? Wetin you wan carry land do? If you are a loving wife and mother, why are you worried. The children will still take control.

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

You sound like you have an evil motives towards him and you desperately want to inherit the properties.

If I was in his shoes, I would become wary of you...cos I don't know if you are hoping to see your hubby gone so you can take over his properties and live the life with other men.

Normally every man's belongings is automatically his wifes'..so I don't know why you have to be too vocal over your name missing in his properties. If the man is gone tomorrow, the children owns the properties which automatically makes them yours.

Una greed too much

Kobojunkie:
First of all, I didn't bring up any thing about inheritance. Second, we all know well that what you describe is nowhere the norm or common in Nigeria. So better die this completely. OP's husband is able to transfer his assets to others long before issue of inheritance comes up so no point.

Well, I don't know where you're from, but it's not a norm where I'm from. I haven't heard of anyone dragging properties of his kinsman or brother that are situated outside of the village. I've only seen that in Nollywood.

ceejayluv:
■ Well, I don't know where you're from, but it's not a norm where I'm from. I haven't heard of anyone dragging properties of his kinsman or brother that are situated outside of the village. I've only seen that in Nollywood.

If Nollywood is your only source as far as that then clearly you don't know your Nigeria at all.

P.s. I haven't seen a nollywood movie since about 1998.

Tfinal:
if you are me then u would have kill urself. I worked so hard to build a supermarket and he claimed it, I paid 9m out of 10m for a landed property and he still claim it and his even accusing me of being jealous and petty.

NO! That's extreme. What does he give you then. I know you care about him but he shouldn't take you for a fool to step on.

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

Your name can’t be included. It is either Mr this or Mrs this, you can’t have Mr and Mrs this on a landed property

The woman has a right to raise eyebrows,since they are legally married,mind you marriage is a joint venture not a separatist one. Obvious i would conclude that they didnt sincerely love themselves right from day one. if not such should not occur if the marriage is really built on a foundation of love. Am surprised about the hate pill rendered on the woman and the female gender overall by Nigerian men. if it were the woman who bought a land and built a house with her name,she would be condemned with unspeakable names. As has been the case when a woman did that even with her sole money.Since it has now come to that the woman should also build a house in her own name. it is a plus for the children then as they would access to multiple properties and rate both parents high.

You too, buy your make up box and don't include his name in the receipt

Kooldon:
Madam pls how much did you add to his money in the purchase of this land?

Good question. She has been reading too much rubbish on the internet and is interfering with her sense if reasoning.

Ijelenwanyioma:

He bought it with his money. I didn't contribute to it and even when I offered to give him at least a million (just want my money to be part of it) he said I shouldn't worry

Madam you really need to calm down. Even the things he own before marring you are still yours.

This marriage of a thing is actually scaring the hell out of me already. Calling your husband "this man" has already shown how bad you are as a person. There's even nothing like Mr. & Mrs. When purchasing a landed property madam you should know that, except you want him to put your name instead of his.

JealousCobra:



Can you imagine from the bolded, the man knew whom he has as a wife 😎

No decorum.

I quite I agree with the legally married. Entitlement syndrome.

FreeStuffsNG:
Never mind. A Lagos court has already decided on this kind of issue. You both own it. If he dare try to sell it or transfer the ownership without your consent, it is the buyer/beneficiary who will lose his/her money.
Read up on that case https://www.nairaland.com/7708832/lagos-court-grants-wives-equal
He is ignorant of your part ownership of it so just keep watching him. It's not yet time to let him know. For now, let peace reign in your home. Don't let it tear down your heart and home. Just let it go. You already won.
Check my signature for free stuffs!

Mr. Lawyer, Lagos laws have no effect on another state, except it is a decision of a Federal Court

nikkygal:


So how did you resolve this? Is your name on the land documents at all? Or is it only his name?

What of the supermarket? How have you been able to manage it going forward with him claiming it as his?

still on his name. I left the supermarket for him and extended family.

Tfinal:
■ still on his name. I left the supermarket for him and extended family.

Are you a billionaire?

Mayflowa:


NO! That's extreme. What does he give you then. I know you care about him but he shouldn't take you for a fool to step on.

foolish me though everything is for our children, so I ignore all the red light

Kobojunkie:
Are you a billionaire?

just a woman that likes to hussle and create a comfortable home for my kids just as my parents did for me.

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

He is right, you want to smoke him and take the land.

A case was recently determined that the Mr and Mrs document on land document is irrelevant

How will a man with children not used his children name on a landed property document?
Madam I am sorry , begin to loo for something else

Madam relax ur mind
Ur husband is on point

Invest4growth:
A case was recently determined that the Mr and Mrs document on land document is irrelevant

What state is that? And can we get more information on the case?

Tfinal:
still on his name. I left the supermarket for him and extended family.

Oh dear! I'm so sorry and this must be so distressing for you. You see this men ehn, a lot of them are users. Once they see that their wife gathers assets, they become greedy and want to sit on it.

Are you still in the marriage? I salute your courage and I believe as a strong hardworking woman to have hustled to acquire all these, God will reward you in multiple folds. The mindset and focus you have is still in place for you to do and achieve even more. Success is the best revenge!

How does a woman remain happy in this type of marriage when the husband has 'kolobi-ed' all his wife's assets? And I'm sure he will still be lying to his family members and 3rd parties that he owns it.

Just face your children and keep yourself happy. Buy new properties in your name and your kids and make sure he doesn't see your 1 Naira again.

Stay strong.....

nikkygal:


Oh dear! I'm so sorry and this must be so distressing for you. You see this men ehn, a lot of them are users. Once they see that their wife gathers assets, they become greedy and want to sit on it.

Are you still in the marriage? I salute your courage and I believe as a strong hardworking woman to have hustled to acquire all these, God will reward you in multiple folds. The mindset and focus you have is still in place for you to do and achieve even more. Success is the best revenge!

How does a woman remain happy in this type of marriage when the husband has 'kolobi-ed' all his wife's assets? And I'm sure he will still be lying to his family members and 3rd parties that he owns it.

Just face your children and keep yourself happy. Buy new properties in your name and your kids and make sure he doesn't see your 1 Naira again.

Stay strong.....

I regret everything.

Ijelenwanyioma:

You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again

Ma'am don't kill your self, this man mean no harm, I bought one acre of land with my name and the documents are in the house and my wife is not raising any dust, EXCEPT if there's a crack on the wall of your family already, hence no need for concern...

Jeezuzpick:


Hmmmm......if you bought the land together now, I would say there's a problem.

You said HE bought the land. And you want your name in the documents. Because it's land, ba? Do you ask for same when he buys a phone? What of when he buys a pair of shoes?

Anyway, since he's decided not to include your name, you should calm down and buy your own, if you can.

The attitude in most marriages is the wife telling the husband "what's mine is mine, what's yours is ours". Women need to stop this.

The man should have the right to will whatever he wants to whomever he likes, in his will.

This is why wills exist. People own their stuff and give it to whomever they damned well wish after they die

Just be a good wife and stop this act of yours. It makes men paranoid.

You have said it all.

Ijelenwanyioma:

But you know a million naira can't buy land in any good location. Thanks for your contribution anyway

Come to ifo Ogun state and I'll show you nice lands in good environment with that your 1m

GO0DHardDick:


She's troll. Go and check her other Post and she newly registered her account this year just for the main purpose of trolling

thanks man

Women, you guys worry alot,
you where here when Hakim wife wants to claim his property and the news spread everywhere on internet,
don't u think your husband does want you be betrayed him
so he is trying to play smart