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scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

I GO ARREST THAT GUY IF IT IS ME. YOU CALLED MY WIFE AND YOU ARE HER EX.....YOU DEY CRAZY OR WETIN

GO0DHardDick:
Damn!

The girl obviously still want the ex Dick. She still wished for the ex to bang her hence the reason she can never block him . If when she does, she'll still unblock him. Nigeria girls don't joke with pricks esp an ex prick. as for the Simp husband, I have nothing to say to him.

This is exactly why every Sane man MUST marry a pure virgin

oil dey ur head
Virgin all the way

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

tell that ur mumu friend to warn his wife and let her block his num
Chaiii my wife ex call her and I know
Na war go happen

PECON1:
is this person really a man, when u marry,u will understand better

When YOU marry, you will understand. An ex is not a virus. Breaking up with a man.or woman does not equate to enemity.. if you break up amicably, you can remain friends and communicate. An ex can be a director somewhere that can gelp you further in life. Not everyone is ready to be naked at any instant because they dated someone before. If Otedola/Dangote was your wife's ex, you will not talk to him if he says hello. Myopic minds think with their private part. An ex is a human being. no big deal.

masseratti:
What's the fuss about ex not talking again or calling each other.. What If they parted ways on mutual consent and still friends, so I cant call or talk to my female friends who were my ex again because we dated at one point in time? Many people have insecurity problem, yeah I understand that part of some people using it has a way to get back in but jeez.. It's somehow just blocking ppl who are genuinely Ur friends because you married, it sucks.

don't mind d myopic humans who cannot bear to know an ex is no big deal.

Una too get problem for relationship matter

If your ex was that good , you both should've gotten married to each other

This thing called relationship is very easy being with the right person but you guys are the ones making it difficult for you by not allowing what's in the past remain in the past ..

Are you guys not tired of this economy coupled with relationship palavar again , omo una mental health dey strong

All these men wey dey chook head inside complicated matter. Na him select her, make he enjoy.

bitingcool:
don't mind d myopic humans who cannot bear to know an ex is no big deal.

i really don't understand people in that aspect, cos we dated and parted ways should not mean we should be enemies or something, I really don't understand tho, plus in a way I get the point some ex can be very toxic or might just want sex, some just revenge, if I know you any ex that is that bad I seize any communication with her, but an ex that we still normal friends and she is married there should not be any big deal having "normal" conversation or normal calls.

Henadih:
On this I differ because I still call my ex even thought she is married and I am also married. No string attached. were both class mate in the higher institution. we almost got married but I could not handle the relationship very well because she was my very first girl. But I really cherish our relationship then. She was an honest and loyal person. I have even visited her in her home when I paid a visit to my uncle who lives in same axis with them. I was of great help to her when she wanted some document in and office. So it depends on who the ex is and the guys.
Its all about trust and character of the persons.

Everyone is not the same. I even tell her to her face that she is the best wife I did not marry.
But it ends there. She is a very responsible lady that I will not even think not to talk of try anything. Of I'm not even interested in anything.
We have become just good friends.

You're just emotionally cheating on your wife.

One day, it will graduate to sexual cheating.

phemmyfour:
Okafor's law loading....

Okafor's Law, according to the Urban Dictionary, “states that once a Congo has been shined once (C 1 ), it can always be shined (C ∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times

Mathematically, C1 • P = C ∞

This okafor's law is it a novel or what?

UNCOMPLETED TASKS?

😁😁😁😁

phemmyfour:
Okafor's law loading....

Okafor's Law, according to the Urban Dictionary, “states that once a Congo has been shined once (C 1 ), it can always be shined (C ∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times

Mathematically, C1 • P = C ∞

ahnie:
I beg to disagree with you....when a woman gets married she changes her simcards,I did and it was not some big deal.all I did was copied the numbers of those that are important.

A wise wife knows the best thing to do if you wanna stay long in her marriage is to change her simcard as soon as she gets married.

Change your simcard because of what? You bin dey do hookup with the old sim

malvisguy212:
tell your friend to call his ex , and see how the wife will react.....or plan with a friend pretending to be your ex and tell your wife " my ex want to speak to you" just see how she will react.

Na only you get sense. Others just dey yan dust for here.

I'd call my ex too and ask my wife to speak with her. If my wife acts funny, that's when I can start my madness. In fact, I'd allow devil to use me anyhow he wishes to scatter that marriage. But if she talks to my own ex wella and acts cool afterwards, then we are good...just that me sef go dey use my brain 100% for the relationship, because it's obvious that I'm under the same roof with a madwoman

I swear to God,I’m a 26 years old guy,and this is what is happening right now In my marriage,my wife is 25 years and I got married to her in 2021 cos I impregnated her,the bastard ex did not call her when she was still in pregnancy o,I think the guy is her current boyfriend before she met me after she finished school but they were still dating before she met me and she told me that she is not dating him anymore cos it was back in her school times and she finished school in 2019 and the school is in Ijebu ode while her parent house is in Ota here in Ogun state,the worst past is that I was forced to do court wedding with her by her mom and I did cos of the love I have for her.
Now the bastard ex did not call her through her 9 months in pregnancy o,immediately she delivered like this,they start to talk on phone again,we fight like crazy as in like crazy that I don’t want all this shit,you are married and if you know you still want to be with him you should just go back to him,I’ve packed her things out more than 6 times since we got married cos of this bastard ex,I reported her to her mom we fought and fought every time because of this guy,I changed her SIM cards,I deleted her social accounts and imagine after few months she got the guys number back,I don’t know how but I checked her phone and she has renamed the guys name to another name and all the call logs it’s when I’m not at home,during my work days that’s when they will talk before I get back home,I was hurt again and tired,we fought again and pack her things so she can go back to the guy,her family begged me and we settled again,I changed her phone and after few months again,she has renamed it to another name lol,I get to know cos I have been noticing her in the house,hiding of phone while chatting and other stuffs,I just collected her phone and she did not know that I have saved that guy number on my phone since then,I dialed it and it brings another name lol,now I’m so tired and she begged me but I listened and I can’t be able to love her anymore,I don’t trust her anymore so I just pack her things out and send her back to her family,cos anytime I see her im always mad,make I no go kill somebody pikin,her load is still outside right now as im typing since last week Monday,she just took few of her clothes and her child’s and left for thier house,please is it my fault that I don’t trust her any more?
I still love her and want her back but something is telling me it won’t end well,I’m not even sure if I’m the father of the child cos love entered my head and turned me to a fool,I’m alone at home now sad and depressed.note ,she no Dey suffer o I’m taking care of her in the best way that I can,I don’t think there is any honest ladies out there anymore.(matured people advice will be appreciated,thanks )

It either her husband is weak or he is planning something dangerous to address it.

scoobyblogspot:
Can the man call her ex and warn her never to call her wife again?

Such warning should go to the wife and not the ex...The root cause of the problem is the wife and not the ex but the husband can only extend such warning to the ex if he refuse to heed to the wife's warnings.

The ex keeps calling because she keeps picking

Her village people have contracted the ex for the job of calling her.

Johnnyposh:
I swear to God,I’m a 26 years old guy,and this is what is happening right now In my marriage,my wife is 25 years and I got married to her in 2021 cos I impregnated her,the bastard ex did not call her when she was still in pregnancy o,I think the guy is her current boyfriend before she met me after she finished school but they were still dating before she met me and she told me that she is not dating him anymore cos it was back in her school times and she finished school in 2019 and the school is in Ijebu ode while her parent house is in Ota here in Ogun state,the worst past is that I was forced to do court wedding with her by her mom and I did cos of the love I have for her.
Now the bastard ex did not call her through her 9 months in pregnancy o,immediately she delivered like this,they start to talk on phone again,we fight like crazy as in like crazy that I don’t want all this shit,you are married and if you know you still want to be with him you should just go back to him,I’ve packed her things out more than 6 times since we got married cos of this bastard ex,I reported her to her mom we fought and fought every time because of this guy,I changed her SIM cards,I deleted her social accounts and imagine after few months she got the guys number back,I don’t know how but I checked her phone and she has renamed the guys name to another name and all the call logs it’s when I’m not at home,during my work days that’s when they will talk before I get back home,I was hurt again and tired,we fought again and pack her things so she can go back to the guy,her family begged me and we settled again,I changed her phone and after few months again,she has renamed it to another name lol,I get to know cos I have been noticing her in the house,hiding of phone while chatting and other stuffs,I just collected her phone and she did not know that I have saved that guy number on my phone since then,I dialed it and it brings another name lol,now I’m so tired and she begged me but I listened and I can’t be able to love her anymore,I don’t trust her anymore so I just pack her things out and send her back to her family,cos anytime I see her im always mad,make I no go kill somebody pikin,her load is still outside right now as im typing since last week Monday,she just took few of her clothes and her child’s and left for thier house,please is it my fault that I don’t trust her any more?
I still love her and want her back but something is telling me it won’t end well,I’m not even sure if I’m the father of the child cos love entered my head and turned me to a fool,I’m alone at home now sad and depressed.note ,she no Dey suffer o I’m taking care of her in the best way that I can,I don’t think there is any honest ladies out there anymore.(matured people advice will be appreciated,thanks )

Calm down, stop looking for clues, stop busting her phone and learn to trust her. If you must accuse her again you must find complete evidence that makes your claim 100% true, because guys like you will say they caught her 50 times when mostly you just saw something and jumped to hasty conclusions.

If you can't trust her and respect her, go for a divorce, because you are very jittery from your write up. You're not okay mentally right now. If you can't handle it, let her go or you might end up killing her.

In life once ur ex get married or go into another relationship..leave him/her move on.. don't be the devil n also as man/woman if you're still in love with ur ex don't go into another relationship..

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bitingcool:
When YOU marry, you will understand. An ex is not a virus. Breaking up with a man.or woman does not equate to enemity.. if you break up amicably, you can remain friends and communicate. An ex can be a director somewhere that can gelp you further in life. Not everyone is ready to be naked at any instant because they dated someone before. If Otedola/Dangote was your wife's ex, you will not talk to him if he says hello. Myopic minds think with their private part. An ex is a human being. no big deal.

Infact, if you find Otedola and ur wife on ur matrimonial bed, u will still applaud him, afterall, they worshipping God of money in ur family.

Don't be too quick to judge. There might be a reason the ex is still able to communicate with the wife and husband freely without any negative confrontation. Maybe they broke up on a mutual terms, maybe the ex is no longer in the country and have been of assistance to the newly wedded couple, maybe the ex and husband are related, maybe the wife and ex shares joint custody of something the husband is aware of, maybe the ex even introduced the husband to the wife because they couldn't get married due to some personal reasons, maybe they're low-key into swinging or open relationship, maybe the husband even suggested to speak with this particular ex to rectify something because I'm sure the wife must have had several exes before marrying Maybe, Maybe, Maybe.

Not all relationships must lead to marriage and some people are mature enough to know that. You can break up with someone mutually without any bad blood or the willingness to sleep with them again it's all part of growing up. I'm still friends with all my exes and if Dem invite me come their marriage I might go there, drop gift and chop rice unless I sense jealousy from the husband then I cut all ties with them to avoid story that touch. Life no suppose hard na we just dey make everything complicated.

Fiscus105:
Infact, if you find Otedola and ur wife on ur matrimonial bed, u will still applaud him, afterall, they worshipping God of money in ur family.

you took my statement out of context. it's not about money. are you not someone's ex? do you not have any relevance you can offer to someone else based on them knowing you? that is where I took my context from. like I said poor minds think with their genitals. When I see Otedola I'm thinking of how I can glean from his knowledge, not jump into bed with him. Not everyone is bound by their scrotum sack.

RedChiefPriest:
I married you and you're picking up your ex number? E be like the next thing you will pick up is your load and call uber to pick you up to your father's house.

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bitingcool:
you took my statement out of context. it's not about money. are you not someone's ex? do you not have any relevance you can offer to someone else based on them knowing you? that is where I took my context from. like I said poor minds think with their genitals. When I see Otedola I'm thinking of how I can glean from his knowledge, not jump into bed with him. Not everyone is bound by their scrotum sack.

Let me tell u bitter truth, experiences shown that, ex is more of curse than blessings. I have Married for years, dittos for all my friends that we grew up together.

If ur wife or girlfriend opens communication to ex, there is highly possibility they renew their old affair, infact, the exes that seperated without fight are even more vulnerable to fall.

I pray u dnt fall prey before ur eyes clear.

Ere kini aja ba ekun se

Amayabor1:
The ex knew what he did when he called the husband to congratulate him. It was really not a congratulation, it was just a way of telling the man that he has had the woman before sexually and as long as both ex and wife can still communicate, sex is bound to happen between them.

How can your friend even accept a call from his wife's ex? Some men are too dumb!

Your friend is a weak man and I dislike weak men!

I am thinking how the call went.

Hello sir, CONGRATULATIONS OOOOOOOO

I & THE OTHER EXES WILL STIL FUG YOUR WIFE WHEN YOU NOT AROUND OOOOO

IconicR:
I don't even blame the ex but the wife that keeps entertaining calls from a so called ex. The husband must be a weak man to have received call from wife's ex, he just sold his manhood to the wife's ex, he's a vegetable and i wholeheartedly donate him to redpillers. Nonsense

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha 😂🤣😂😂🤣😂😂

Nasri100:
I am thinking how the call went.

Hello sir, CONGRATULATIONS OOOOOOOO

I & THE OTHER EXES WILL STIL FUG YOUR WIFE WHEN YOU NOT AROUND OOOOO

Am speechless.... its clear she is still with the other guy but hold on. The guys may also be using charm on her considering the many times you have warned her. Talk to your pastor and pray for her . i really dont like nebo getting to settle issues or family