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My Wife And Side Chic by eglobalcafe: 4:37pm On Jul 27, 2023
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by talented321: 4:39pm On Jul 27, 2023
Ok
1. I blame u and i don't blame u.
2.four years is not easy' u also tried as man
3. If u sense the two pregnancies will cost u a big problem' then talk to ur girlfriend since it is two week old'' if she will consider abortion, explain things to her.
4. You are a man' the mistake has been done'' u can accept the two responsibilities since u said u are capable, explain things to ur wife'' u tried even if u disappoint her in the last.
5. You can marry the side chicken since it is accepted by law'' becauseu U sound like person that don't want to loose any of them, the way u emphasizes how u love the side chicken.
6. Three kids for this Tinubu shege'' no wahala everywhere good
7. ''With My Precious Loud'' while T Dollar keep the vibe going
FACE UR FEARS

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Proserpina: 4:48pm On Jul 27, 2023

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by MEGA4BILLION(m): 5:09pm On Jul 27, 2023
Life is essentially a series of problems. The solution to one problem is merely the creation of the next.

Protect and keep your family intact then wait for next episode of problem; family first.

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Sonnobax15(m): 5:09pm On Jul 27, 2023
lipsrsealed
The truth is that if you had kept your third leg intact, under your trousers,you wouldn't be in a situation like this which is likely between the devil and the deep blue sea...

Well,I'm not and I'll never be an advocate of abortion...But since you said you're financially capable,why don't you just chest and finish the whole problem you started yourself........But be rest assured, wahala go dey cuz your wife wouldn't want to take it lightly, especially with you and your side chick....

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by eglobalcafe: 5:43pm On Jul 27, 2023
No be every problem money they solve oh, even if am financially okay the wahala alone is not easy.

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by austine4real(m): 5:49pm On Jul 27, 2023
grin grin

Oga no abort any belle o


Anything can happen that's life for, make ur side chic dey far away from ur family and manage the situation till after 2yrs before u tell ur wife anything

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Dyfynezz12(m): 6:13pm On Jul 27, 2023
No keeh ur self,even Abraham, when sara no fit give am pikin him carry side chick wey born for am.
If u have dy resources take care of both and have 2 kids or mayb 3.last last ur wife go understand nd she go dy alright.

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Abolodje: 7:09pm On Jul 27, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?
Just leave both of them alone and run, start up another life and family elsewhere maybe life will be fair to you this time around.

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by candygist: 7:20pm On Jul 27, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

After they both give birth. Run a DNA test on both of them to know if you are the actual father of the kids. No dey famz yourself

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Treepower2000: 7:53pm On Jul 27, 2023
Let the women deliver their babies. You don't know what God planned for you.
You don't know who will raise your family tomorrow.
Murder is not an option. You can not correct a mistake by committing a greater one.

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Dimaya: 8:55pm On Jul 27, 2023
Re: My Wife And Side Chic by zed7: 9:04pm On Jul 27, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?
You don't have elders in your family? Take this tale to the eldest man in your family and ask for his advice. My regards to your imaginary wife and chic.

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Dogalmighty17: 9:46pm On Jul 27, 2023
You said we should not insult you. I will not.
However, I just heard your governor installed a new transformer in your street. Please you are advised to go and hug it.

I have met some dumb people in my life. But what kind of dumb person gives his wife fertility enhancing drugs and still goes to sleep with his side chick as backup? You slept with your side chick unprotected. Were you expecting her to give birth to a plasma TV?

You will keep both pregnancies. They are your kids. Show responsibility. Man the u(f)ck up. Your wife may not even be able to give birth again. Take your side chick pregnancy as a bonus.

Other men have done worse. You don't have a problem.

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by lamanda(m): 10:09pm On Jul 27, 2023
You're a realist...I love your advice; that is exactly what he ought to do

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by westlius(m): 11:25pm On Jul 27, 2023
My dear don't abort the belle from ur gf oo
Make two of them born
I get my reason

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by 22o62021: 5:42am On Jul 28, 2023
What if you abort the pregnancy and your wife gets a miscarriage at 7 months

Reason am.

Oga make them born am

Nollywood tales

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by MarketDispatch: 7:37am On Jul 28, 2023
Okay
Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Foodqueen(f): 9:26am On Jul 28, 2023
Talk to your wife. Tell her everything.

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by frozen70(f): 10:12am On Jul 28, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Hello,
Just relax and enjoy the multiple gifts that is coming to you

Pls don't abort your girlfriend pregnancy because you needed it while you were sleeping with her

What if your wife wasn't pregnant yet and your girlfriend is already pregnant, will you want to terminate that pregnancy ?

Now your wife is pregnant along with your girlfriend
Welcome both pregnancy's and start planning how to look after those kids

As it is now, your girlfriend will be a single mother
Untill she decides to get married to another man, that's when you may have custody of the child and be partially free from her

But till then she and the baby belongs to you
If you wish you can now keep her as a mistress

Back to your wife, keep the secret away from her till she gives birth, then you can inform her
If you inform her now, she may get emotional and loose the pregnancy, that will be very divastating to both of you

Time will heal all this wound

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Abee79(m): 10:25am On Jul 28, 2023
May God give your side chick triplets smiley

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Ulunne777(f): 12:36pm On Jul 28, 2023
Foodqueen:
Talk to your wife. Tell her everything.

For me this isn't the right time to tell her anything that'd will raise her bp and threaten that pregnancy.
It's a high risk pregnancy and she needs all the peace to get through it.

As for side chick,I can't say but pls let your woman not hear of your evil exploitd till she delivers.thank you.
After she can decide to leave your ass or not

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Highways: 2:07pm On Jul 28, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?


Don't abort any baby ooo.... Relocate outside, work hard and be sending each other money.... Try do DNA for your side chick too, e get why

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Kobicove(m): 2:25pm On Jul 28, 2023
Congratulations in advance. grin

Keep both pregnancies

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Baronthecelebri: 3:00pm On Jul 28, 2023
Go on with the both pregnancy.

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by eglobalcafe: 4:40pm On Jul 28, 2023
Thanks guys
Re: My Wife And Side Chic by jamalnation(m): 4:43pm On Jul 28, 2023
ok
Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Divoc19(f): 4:44pm On Jul 28, 2023
eglobalcafe

Inform your wife about your girlfriend.
Keep your two women in different locations and you will live long.
Re: My Wife And Side Chic by MANNABBQGRILLS: 4:44pm On Jul 28, 2023
.....so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now

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Re: My Wife And Side Chic by oolala866: 4:45pm On Jul 28, 2023
Lol. This is funny
Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Houseontherock1: 4:46pm On Jul 28, 2023
Let her have the baby; tell your wife about it. Accept the child but let her be

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