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Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Cassandraloius: 4:38pm On Jul 28, 2023
It depends
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Trustmea: 4:38pm On Jul 28, 2023
flexxyworld:
Jealous is a sign of insecurity. The proof of Love is simply “giving”.

So giving is only proof of love to you wawu
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Elistho(m): 4:38pm On Jul 28, 2023
Jealousy is a friend to passionate love.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:38pm On Jul 28, 2023
there is JEALOUSY and JEALOUSY....a lil jealousy is healthy, being jealous for no damn reason OR being jealous to the point where you want to hurt someone is toxic. also many people confuse being jealous with being ENVIOUS!!!

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Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Divoc19(f): 4:38pm On Jul 28, 2023
Lack of Trust
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Probz(m): 4:39pm On Jul 28, 2023
It can be both. Sometimes jealousy’s off-putting and love Just isn’t enough to sustain a relationship.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by EnterpriseMan: 4:43pm On Jul 28, 2023
flexxyworld:
Jealous is a sign of insecurity. The proof of Love is simply “giving”.
Giving what
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by sholay2011(m): 4:45pm On Jul 28, 2023
Jealousy is a sense of ownership (not necessarily love)/insecurity at times; suspicion is lack of trust.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Jewessgratitud3: 4:46pm On Jul 28, 2023
It's both. Once you start getting jealous , you'll end up being too possessive ( because of the love so you don't want anyone to have or be around them) and this will definitely lead to lack of trust because you'll have that feeling they might be giving someone else the attention meant for only you and so you'll always want to check your partners every move, who they are with and where they are when they are not with you. So its both.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by deltateam: 4:48pm On Jul 28, 2023
DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...

Jealousy is human nature. Baba God even say him na jealous God so wetin again?

Besides one's partner can encourage jealousy by the way he or she carries herself including having besties of opposite sex.

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Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by deltateam: 4:50pm On Jul 28, 2023
flexxyworld:
Jealous is a sign of insecurity. The proof of Love is simply “giving”.

So God is insecure? It means you expect your spouse to consider your feelings in relationship with others usually of opposite sex but they are insensitive.

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Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Pedro334(m): 4:51pm On Jul 28, 2023
to me it is not lack of trust rather na love , not even emotional glitches as some will make it look like, .. na real love de get time to be jealous, it is a natural thing to happen but we should not allow the above mentioned subject to control our emotion negatively , jealousy is for people who are real, fake people can never be jealous , they hate instead ,, meanwhile , relationship just as name implies do carry a lot on board ..
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by BeigJawnson(m): 4:51pm On Jul 28, 2023
DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...

Lack of trust is lack of trust.... Jealousy is a sign of love... Nothing else. But going extreme is envy

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Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by lomprico(m): 4:51pm On Jul 28, 2023
DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...
Love
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by deewhone(f): 4:53pm On Jul 28, 2023
𝑾𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒆 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 ❤, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒋𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒐𝒖𝒔𝒚

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Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Funflipper: 4:55pm On Jul 28, 2023
DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...

Your not y'all.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by DataAlchemist: 5:02pm On Jul 28, 2023
Jealousy isn't insecurities, it's a feeling just like love, anxiety, hatred, pride, anger. it's something beyond human's control, it's something that happens subconsciously..it's totally normal for jealousy to creep in when you notice something shady about your partner. The way you handle it is now based on your maturity level and the initial trust you have for your partner.
But just like other emotions like anger and love, we shouldn't be consumed in it...
Everybody has a feeling of jealousy in them(just like how everybody is liable to get angry), but you shouldn't settle for one who is consumed by his/her jealousy.
But unlike anger, it can be helped and control by being faithful and transparent in the relationship..so before you accuse your partner of being a jealous type, make sure you are not the one triggering the jealousy in them.

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Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Godmind2022(m): 5:06pm On Jul 28, 2023
DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...


Proof of a faulty marriage foundation devoid of godly mutual trust.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by PoliteActivist: 5:10pm On Jul 28, 2023
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Jealousy is lack of trust in ourselves.
When we're insecure about our relationships and our appeal to our partner, their attraction to us, then we feel jealousy.
Because that casual interaction with another person might be the start of them ultimately leaving.

Jealousy comes out of a lack of trust; lack of trust in the process of life, in your partner, in yourself.
Lack of trust breeds insecurity, which creates jealousy; we stifle these feelings because they are uncomfortable.

We Rise. [/quote]

[quote author=IyaTola:
Jealousy has absolutely nothing to do with love. nothing whatsoever. it is stifling, oppressive, and potentially abusive. it is a gigantic red flag in a relationship. if you are with a partner who feels jealous of the other people in your life, get out now. don’t expect the jealous behaviour to change. It probably won’t. If you are the jealous party, please seek professional treatment to address whatever underlying issues are fuelling your jealousy. you don’t own your partner. you don't have any right to control what they do, or who they do it with. Even if they are cheating on you. That is their right. The only right you have — the ONLY right you have — is to choose to leave the relationship if you don’t approve of your partners actions. but controlling their behaviour is not an option for you.

You have a point BUT it takes enormous maturity indeed to not be jealous when you truly romantically "love" someone. You'll tend to overreact towards anyone or anything that portends any danger at all to your relationship. Which is why romantic love itself is irrational, a form of madness

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Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by jeromestarks: 5:11pm On Jul 28, 2023
IyaTola:
Jealousy has absolutely nothing to do with love. nothing whatsoever. it is stifling, oppressive, and potentially abusive. it is a gigantic red flag in a relationship. if you are with a partner who feels jealous of the other people in your life, get out now. don’t expect the jealous behaviour to change. It probably won’t. If you are the jealous party, please seek professional treatment to address whatever underlying issues are fuelling your jealousy. you don’t own your partner. you don't have any right to control what they do, or who they do it with. Even if they are cheating on you. That is their right. The only right you have — the ONLY right you have — is to choose to leave the relationship if you don’t approve of your partners actions. but controlling their behaviour is not an option for you.
Are you married?
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Thomasankara(m): 5:12pm On Jul 28, 2023
[/color]proof of sound judgement[color=#770077]
DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Thomasankara(m): 5:15pm On Jul 28, 2023
[/color]check the meaning of jealousy and I believe you will modify your comment[color=#770077]
IyaTola:
Jealousy has absolutely nothing to do with love. nothing whatsoever. it is stifling, oppressive, and potentially abusive. it is a gigantic red flag in a relationship. if you are with a partner who feels jealous of the other people in your life, get out now. don’t expect the jealous behaviour to change. It probably won’t. If you are the jealous party, please seek professional treatment to address whatever underlying issues are fuelling your jealousy. you don’t own your partner. you don't have any right to control what they do, or who they do it with. Even if they are cheating on you. That is their right. The only right you have — the ONLY right you have — is to choose to leave the relationship if you don’t approve of your partners actions. but controlling their behaviour is not an option for you.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by Thomasankara(m): 5:19pm On Jul 28, 2023
[/color]wait till a random guy taps your wife's arse and you confront your wife,then she uses reverse psychology on you by saying are you jealous?😆😆😆[color=#770077]
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by DECENTBWOY: 5:22pm On Jul 28, 2023
Funflipper:


Your not y'all.
What are you even saying..?? angry
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by MJluv(f): 5:27pm On Jul 28, 2023
IyaTola:
Jealousy has absolutely nothing to do with love. nothing whatsoever. it is stifling, oppressive, and potentially abusive. it is a gigantic red flag in a relationship. if you are with a partner who feels jealous of the other people in your life, get out now. don’t expect the jealous behaviour to change. It probably won’t. If you are the jealous party, please seek professional treatment to address whatever underlying issues are fuelling your jealousy. you don’t own your partner. you don't have any right to control what they do, or who they do it with. Even if they are cheating on you. That is their right. The only right you have — the ONLY right you have — is to choose to leave the relationship if you don’t approve of your partners actions. but controlling their behaviour is not an option for you.
word!

But then jealousy is a human inclination just like breathing. I dare say: no human is above jealousy. Learning to control one's feelings and reactions maybe key to suppressing jealousy. The operative word here is "maybe".

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Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by davidtuzy(m): 5:28pm On Jul 28, 2023
°°°° Jealousy is a Proof Of Dangerous/Excessive LOVE

While Insecurity is a Proof Of Lack of Trust

So therefore: Jealousy Can Never be a Proof of Lack of Trust
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by jeromestarks: 5:30pm On Jul 28, 2023
No matter how you skin it, jealousy is a sign of love.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by HEBEI: 5:31pm On Jul 28, 2023
A partner that doesn't love you would never ever be jealous of you.

I am only jealous when I am in good terms with my partner.

The moment she makes me angry, I wouldn't care who she meets with.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by isabi2lof: 5:46pm On Jul 28, 2023
Jealous of what exactly undecided
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by GOSPELTRUTH31: 5:50pm On Jul 28, 2023
A bit of it is part of love
This part guides you into sacrificing more to make them comfortable and not having any reason to go astray

But to much of it is not only lack of trust but a psychological and medically wrong.

Way Too much of everything is wrong

Love needs Maturity.
Love is not yet love if you prevent someone from making their own choice
Love is not yet love if you influence people to be with you.

In love you support whatever choice anyone as to make

That's why God is the master of love
He allows you to make your choice but makes you see reasons why you need him

That's what we mortals need to learn from
Stop forcing people
Love has freedom

Allow people make their choice and let time teach them a lesson.

Only a fools allows jealousy dominate his snese of reasoning.

In love their should be room for forgiveness.

Too much of jealousy doesn't create room for forgiveness.


If you control people through jealousy sooner you will be living with Robots.

Stop allowing jealousy interfere
Let people choose who they want to be with and live with the consequences of their choice.

A healthy jealousy is liek a pitch of a salt
But too much of it will make a food poison.
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by LivingSage: 5:50pm On Jul 28, 2023
To me as a person, it's proof of love.

If I can't trust you, I wouldn't stress myself in the first place
Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by GenderMix: 5:51pm On Jul 28, 2023
DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...

It is neither. Jealousy is a sign of mental illness with a touch of witchcraft

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