Chidiugwu1990:




Hahahahaha... Nigerian women were the real devil we have been talking about naw abi you don 4get??

SOME NIGERIA WOMEN**

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Finally Tinubu Government has favoured you and your family .please dont kill an innocent child in the name of abortion, If you do not want to marry your side chick, rent a house for her somewhere , take care of the pregnancy after child birth everybody goes his or her way. If she is the one that would take of the child then you need to place her on allowance for child support.

Dyfynezz12:
No keeh ur self,even Abraham, when sara no fit give am pikin him carry side chick wey born for am.
If u have dy resources take care of both and have 2 kids or mayb 3.last last ur wife go understand nd she go dy alright.

No be the side chick children dey disturb world peace till today?🤣🤣

Both of them are not pregnant for you

The same men here hailing you are same men who would want a woman to stick with her man during hard time. Shame!

It's unfortunate that at the young age of 35 and just 4years into marriage you couldn't uphold you vows "for better for worse".

You've hurt your wife deeply and she'll most likely never forgive you, even if she says so...

After everything you went tru with your wife, it wouldn't be fair if you manipulate her into aborting her pregnancy.

Years ago, you never knew you could have Babies but now blessed with potential 3 gifts.

Bro, I'd say keep them all.

Don't fret. Make your wife and gf comfortable. Try to be there for every one of them

Nothing new under the sun. When your wife gives birth, you'll gather family to inform her.

Life goes on.

Do not terminate any Babies. I repeat, do not terminate any.

Iamzik:


No be the side chick children dey disturb world peace till today?🤣🤣

Lol😂😂, but na God want am like that

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Bros, please keep the pregancy of both women.
Na God's gift.
Your wife would understand and act accordingly.

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant

after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

YOU NEED SUPPORT TO COMMIT MURDER ?
ABEG ABORTION IS NOT AN OPTION. KEEP THE BABIES, YOU DON'T REALLY LOVE UR WIFE BY GOING OUT TO SLEEP AROUND.

When you follow people dey sing"everything na double double" you no no

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Can you pray to have a daughter like your girlfriend?

My advice is arbort your wife and the girlfriend.

Wey rey

I think asking for advice now is a bit late. Why can't you seek our advice before impregnating your side chicks

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

This is a bit complex as life is at stake, catholicism doesn't allow for abortion & I support that motion even though im not perfect. But, I'll advise you intimate your wife after she gives birth. Atleast you now 3 persons to take care of you when you grow old plus you've to enlarge your imagination to go beyond been able to feed but been able to be a better boyfriend/Husband and soon to be father. E no easy, but I wish you All the best man... life's complex. Your normal can't be someone else's. Just do you and accept whatever comes next.

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage,

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Which supplement did she take?

candygist:


After they both give birth. Run a DNA test on both of them to know if you are the actual father of the kids. No dey famz yourself

Literally the best comment. I hope you don't skip this particular one OP.

Congratulations man...
Consult your elders... Follow the wisdom of your elders... Polygamy isn't a bad thing. Sometimes, not all who are polygamist today went into polygamy with eyes wide open. Since it's your destiny, embrace it because you love them both.

I would love to know the supplements your wife took.. my wife is also having PCOS and this is our eight year in marriage, no kids

Concerning your current dilemma, I wont advice an abortion, wait for your wife to put to bed after which you can tell her but disconnect from the side chick and take care of your babies...

The truth will truly hurt your wife, but you coming out of clean will make the difference

candygist:


After they both give birth. Run a DNA test on both of them to know if you are the actual father of the kids. No dey famz yourself

@ eglobalcafe

I co-sign that paragraph.

The creole adage, "woman wen dey find pikin no dey wear pant sleep" is a warning.

I'm as happy as a clam for her, but women who have trouble conceiving for years do not have the luxury of abiding by moral constructs. Confirm the kids are yours.

I'm pro-choice, so I have no qualms advising you to abort. Never pose a question about abortion on a Nigerian public forum. The hypocrites will ALWAYS tell the inquirer to keep the pregnancy. As far as virtue signals go, it is the most transparent. China aborted 400 million fetuses during the one-child policy period.

You can get your side chick pregnant again if your wife served you breakfast.

Lastly, and as politely as I can, you're an assh*le for doing this to your wife. Perhaps informing her beforehand would have shattered her, but this is asinine. That had to be said.

-Lord

Men.

But why do you keep calling her side chicken 🍗? 😁

talented321:
Ok
1. I blame u and i don't blame u.
2.four years is not easy' u also tried as man
3. If u sense the two pregnancies will cost u a big problem' then talk to ur girlfriend since it is two week old'' if she will consider abortion, explain things to her.
4. You are a man' the mistake has been done'' u can accept the two responsibilities since u said u are capable, explain things to ur wife'' u tried even if u disappoint her in the last.
5. You can marry the side chicken since it is accepted by law'' becauseu U sound like person that don't want to loose any of them, the way u emphasizes how u love the side chicken.
6. Three kids for this Tinubu shege'' no wahala everywhere good
7. ''With My Precious Loud'' while T Dollar keep the vibe going
FACE UR FEARS

Ok i am sorry''[quote author=ibinaboonline post=124727395]But why do you keep calling her side chicken

😁😁😁

talented321:
Ok i am sorry''

I feel for you poster, you made a mistake it's not the end of the world, if I were in your shoes I would handle it like this.

1. Repent, ask God for forgiveness and make up your mind not to go outside your marriage again
2. Find a true spiritual leader you can talk to e.g. a True Pastor both you and your wife respect, tell him/her what happened so he can counsel you with spiritual insight/ wisdom, i believe he will want you to break up with your girlfriend and also tell your wife{pls note wisdom must be applied in telling your wife based on the type of person she is, so she doesn't have miscarage or mental breakdown, etc.}.)
3. Break up with your Girlfriend but let her know you will support and take care of the child, but you and her can no more be together
4. At the right time tell your wife based on the approach that the pastor gives you, you might need some other people to help you break the news to her/ calm her down maybe the Pastor can help or another other mature person you know.
5. Do not partake in abortion, if you do you will be going from frying pan to fire, you will have blood on your hands and i feel very strongly you might lose the children your wife is carrying(speaking based on revelation)
6. Live a holy life going forward (surrender your life totally to Jesus and bring up the 3 kids this way), this is the only way good can come out of this situation, your wife will learn to trust you again, your children will get along in the long run and all things will go on to work together for your good based on the fact that you surrender your life to Christ.

Hope this helps, if don't know a true pastor and you need one, i can recommend a few to you.

I've lived a rough life style as well in the past and God has turned my life around so i know what it means to be where you are now.

God bless you and help you in Jesus Name Amen. feel free to reach out if you need further guidance.

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Abort one pregnancy and the other disappears. You think its ordinary that both are pregnant same time.

Every side chics are always happy being a single mum
So enjoy your marriage with your soon to be iya ibeji wife..

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Your wife will never forgive you in this life even if she says she has forgiven you. Just know this first of all

Secondly, make sure you don't fail in life financially, otherwise you'll suffer in old age

Thirdly, make sure you educate the children from your wife and girlfriend. Make sure they get good education or good vocational training and always be in their lives and care for them. They'll be the ones to shield you from the scorn of both women when you're getting old.

If you like live reckless life...waste your money and youth away and become a failure... abandon any of the children... You'll know the meaning of suffer in old age. All the best

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Your thinking is small
Those without children, who do you think is taking care of them?

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Make I first insult you. God go punish you wella if you abort any pregnancy. I am totally against abortion, especially for your case.
My advise: Wait till both women have delivered the babies. After that, wait some more. When it is appropriate, tell your wife the truth. There is no point hiding it because it will haunt you if you do.
You can find a place for the other woman and take care of her adequately. Never abandon a woman who has a child for you. If you dare, you dare the gods.
Do well to do things right and experience joy in the aftermath. Good luck!

Let her abort the baby. Even as I no de really support abortion but the problem ahead of this two way family is way too much.

If after dealing with the kids your wife give you first and you decide that you want another bloodline then adopt a child, but if you want endless headache then have a child outside wedlock, that will be the beginning of your end. Ki day note.

Bros what has happen has happen....let all the women give birth to their children.....and let them breath

This is why it's so good to be a Christian who has the fear of God.

So in all your analysis, you didn't factor God anywhere.
You rather allowed the devil to solve maths on your head with the analysis of who will take care of you when you grow old.

Sir let me ask you,what is your assurance your children will live long enough to take care of you in old age? You see,you can't play God neither can you do without Him. He is God.

Your so called wisdom at its best is absolute foolishness before God.

I don't even want to dwell on the matter at hand. What I want to tell you is, stop playing God in your life and surrender your life to Jesus.

Don't abort any baby. Be plane to your wife over the side chick pregnancy which was circumstantial. Take care of both women. If your wife reactions becomes hostile when you break the news don't make case with her as it will be normal for her to do that as human. If she persist and would want you dump the side chick resist her vehemently for such attempt by you will make the baby in the side chick womb to be "angry" which will bring misfortunes to you immediately he or she is born. Your destiny is at stake at this moment. In fact this is your trial period after which your greatness starts if you overcome this trial with much wisdom. You will be announced among men! Am sorry to drop this one. Your wife may likely (I used the word may because I am not God) not give you another baby after these twins because the problem of her inability to conceive after your marriage is spiritual. Bro. You have to marry the side chick later if you need more kids. Bye for now!