If you're tired of one channel change it... Do it with sense not insults or .... U know the rest.

But if the relationship is sweet everyday .. boy there can't be room for another human cos u go busy

[quote author=ebubeson post=124733862]Many men cheat, many women cheat.. Even some that have not cheated may have low resistance level if opportunities come.
So why the rise in infidelity in Marriages..
(1) Many sexual partners before marriage. How can you sleep with different people, do group sex, have different sex positions in your youthful days, and expect to have a sane sexual mind with just one partner in marriage? How can you be addicted to prostitutes and expect to be faithful when you marry? How can you be doing hookup and having nympo urge, and expect to be normal in marriage? Is it so easy?? Don't be carried away when people say "It was my past, I am changed"... Even guys and ladies still go back to EX to have sex..

(2) Social Media: Exposure to social media, such as hookup sites and other chatting and dating platforms has contributed in infidelity in marriages.. So a married person can do complete arrangement for adultery online before meeting the person physically..

(3) Lack of Contentment: When some guys want big hips, breasts etc over good character of their wives, and some ladies want big manhood, flashy or expensive things etc over responsible husband that is providing for them.




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You guys are blowing this infidelity issue out of proportion. It doesn't actually happen as it is being perceived

layzie:


These reasons are simply vague and vain. Not drawn from research or experience but just from ur imagination. I can bet u re not married and that u didn't interview any married/cheating woman/man to come up with these unconvincing reasons.

Lolz

There are many reasons oooo

layzie:


These reasons are simply vague and vain. Not drawn from research or experience but just from ur imagination. I can bet u re not married and that u didn't interview any married/cheating woman/man to come up with these unconvincing reasons.

You don't need to be married or carry out research to know the basic cause of infidelity. If you observe what happens around your environment you can also drop few points like this.

Till the end of time...
Somethings will never change not matter what.

Porn. Simple.

BadMaster:

I don't want to insult you, but only an idiotic fool would believe otherwise

Which one brings insult in this matter? He stated his opinion, you should respond in agreement or otherwise.

layzie:


These reasons are simply vague and vain. Not drawn from research or experience but just from ur imagination. I can bet u re not married and that u didn't interview any married/cheating woman/man to come up with these unconvincing reasons.

U no get the gist well well,
Person wey sabi chop pupuru and egusi soup. You come tell am say na amala n gbegiri will now be his favourite. Omo him go manage am, but when the desire for his main favourite come him head, and there is means to satisfy it. The guy no go look back o.

I know a guy that is cheating on his wife till date, but the woman no know even know. Na good guy naturally but his sexual desires the wife no fit give am.

50% of marriages are due to societal pressure rather than love...

Sex is so free now, people can hardly stay faithful to their partners.

End time.
Lower moral standards and values e.g baby daddy, baby mama, homosexuality,oloshoism, nudity etc.

Well I think it's...

Emmm it should be...


Infact let me just read comments and gerrarahia .

Am not qualified to comment.

Don't ask me why because even me I don't know.

Thank you

A social media

B improved communication devices

C culture clash.. Western indoctrination... Feminism.. Etc

D its not increasing... Its only getting more reported and easier to track.

GorgeousAF:
Lack of commitment!!!!
You woo a lady,u marry her and all of a sudden you stop doing the things that made her fall in love with you,no effort at all whatsoever..you reduce d calls to zero,no care,no affection..... especially if she has kids for you then you think that's where her life ends...some men need to do better..na just fear of God if not!!!!!

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DenreleDave:


Many reasons....

1. Some women married early and they see young girls of recent days having fun.. So they indulge in what those young ladies does.

2. The economy is bad and many husbands can fulfil their marital duty financially, their wives in turn seek alternative.

3. Some woman are no longer attractive to their women after children, they go for fresh young ladies.

4. Most ladies are not ready to work, they will do anything for money

Your no. 1 is spot on

My first sugar mummy was because of this. She was silently jealousing her first daughter of 20yrs of getting admirers everywhere. She has to tell me her mind that she wanna experience it...

ideamonster:
It's because runsgirls have increased. And it's now easier to cheat with instagram, mobile money, uber and airbnb.

For example, in this video: Secrets your girls keep: watch how undergraduate girls codedly admit to seducing married men. Listen to them talk about sex parties in Lekki, lactating mothers still doing hookups and why you can never satisfy hookup girls and their patronisers sexually.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc

How will your marriage last under these conditions. Would you as a man be able to resist their charms?

a word is enough for any woman who wants to keep her man. Your selection is very important

hilarious

DenreleDave:


Many reasons....

1. Some women married early and they see young girls of recent days having fun.. So they indulge in what those young ladies does.

2. The economy is bad and many husbands can fulfil their marital duty financially, their wives in turn seek alternative.

3. Some woman are no longer attractive to their women after children, they go for fresh young ladies.

4. Most ladies are not ready to work, they will do anything for money

Kindly explain the emboldened.

IconicR:
Oya say something na, see as he's laughing abi this trap catch you? 😂

Catch me ke lol.....I am Mr Inno

Because there are no penalty for whoever cheats.
In Islam a fornicator is meant to be flogged publicly if he or she is not married.while a married adulterer should be stoned to death.

If we follow the rules of Allah (the most exalted ),we won't be crying of breakfast today.

Just the truth'' some married women are becoming too cheap this days

Savedday2:
Because, all 9ja girls are ashawo by nature both the ones forming GF or church girl/wife. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe/wife doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo.

I always pitied the married guys, when I see their wives doing ashawo up and down without them knowing.

franchasofficia:
Catch me ke lol.....I am Mr Inno

My nairaland Tuface innocent idibia 😂😂😂😂

obinrinrere:
Because there are no penalty for whoever cheats.
In Islam a fornicator is meant to be flogged publicly if he or she is not married.while a married adulterer should be stoned to death.

If we follow the rules of Allah (the most exalted ),we won't be crying of breakfast today.

Yet they say, Islam is a religion of peace.

Where is the mercy in the religion if you go by such draconian rules?

Meanwhile, who will escape such hammer if it's implemented? Even the fonder of the religion committed it severally during his time on earth.

Because Behind Every Successful Man There is a Woman, So As a Man If You Need More Success, Go For More Women

obinrinrere:
Because there are no penalty for whoever cheats.
In Islam a fornicator is meant to be flogged publicly if he or she is not married.while a married adulterer should be stoned to death.

If we follow the rules of Allah (the most exalted ),we won't be crying of breakfast today.

I wish I can like your post countless times

You spill pure truth.

E be like say na to marry two or more women , give each one of them their own house inside my compound.

Devil's mindset and impatient

IconicR:
My nairaland Tuface innocent idibia 😂😂😂😂

No oh, Tuface ke, mba I no be Tuface oh abeg

ebubeson:
Many men cheat, many women cheat.. Even some that have not cheated may have low resistance level if opportunities come.
So why the rise in infidelity in Marriages..
(1) Many sexual partners before marriage. How can you sleep with different people, do group sex, have different sex positions in your youthful days, and expect to have a sane sexual mind with just one partner in marriage? How can you be addicted to prostitutes and expect to be faithful when you marry? How can you be doing hookup and having nympo urge, and expect to be normal in marriage? Is it so easy?? Don't be carried away when people say "It was my past, I am changed"... Even guys and ladies still go back to EX to have sex..

(2) Social Media: Exposure to social media, such as hookup sites and other chatting and dating platforms has contributed in infidelity in marriages.. So a married person can do complete arrangement for adultery online before meeting the person physically..

(3) Lack of Contentment: When some guys want big hips, breasts etc over good character of their wives, and some ladies want big manhood, flashy or expensive things etc over responsible husband that is providing for them.

Men face a lot of temptation from the opposite sex. Even bible says:

Isaiah 4:1

 In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”

In this kind of situation,what do you expect a man to do?

Una dey also forget one thing hahahahaha
One of the main reason is Corruption and hardship in Nigeria and worldwide which leads to Hunger and lack.
A hookup girl believes in the power of puna to survive even married woman who's husband's can't afford the daily nessecities for the day.
If a married man does sugar mommy to feed his family and a married woman does sugar daddy and olosho or what ever they call it becuz of the online sites and dating app which makes it easy now.
government have failed it's citizens for decades with deciet and you think couples will be faithful I laugh
We have dedicated couples too who no matter the hardship they can't cheat cuz they know the concequenses of there action which could cause the future of the generation to suffer due to illnesses that arise for there act. Hiv/Aids is real don't play with your life and that of your future generations and families members emotions .
Stop adultery and fornication
So that our younger generations can have peace of mind
Wife scarce these days due to how it easy now to knack.
Knack on delivery packages these days forgetting the concequenses.
A lot are ophans ,widows,widowers childless etc today because of the high rates of immoralities.

Jesus is coming soon, Repent and be saved

God bless Nigeria and all Nairalanders
Joy is coming..........

With Jesus,you can live a chaste life. The op described me in his narrative but having embraced Jesus,my taste buds and inclinations were subdued and changed. He can do it for you. Am a living witness 9years and not looking back .

Also people marry for wrong reasons only to realize that they have no connection with their spouses
E.g who is financially ready

Emperormartin:
You're right. That no 2 is spot on.

My married friend introduced me to a WhatsApp group of married people between the ages of 35-45...

Their only business in that Whatsapp group is talk about sex, sex and sex and how to hook up and have sex among one another. These are married women and men with kids.

I'm not married but I have to remove myself from the group because it's kinda painting me bad image of marriage institution.

The last straw why I left the group is when they were organizing orgies in one Hotel in our area. The orgies will start from Friday evening and throughout the weekend... I was man matched with some married women in their early 40's... I ran!!!

I've to delete myself from that group. I'm not a saint either but this kind of sin is beyond me

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