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DenreleDave:


Many reasons....

1. Some women married early and they see young girls of recent days having fun.. So they indulge in what those young ladies does.

2. The economy is bad and many husbands can fulfil their marital duty financially, their wives in turn seek alternative.

3. Some woman are no longer attractive to their women after children, they go for fresh young ladies.

4. Most ladies are not ready to work, they will do anything for money

DenreleDave:


Many reasons....

1. Some women married early and they see young girls of recent days having fun.. So they indulge in what those young ladies does.

2. The economy is bad and many husbands can fulfil their marital duty financially, their wives in turn seek alternative.

3. Some woman are no longer attractive to their women after children, they go for fresh young ladies.

4. Most ladies are not ready to work, they will do anything for money

saphiere:
4. Men are polygamous by nature.

ideamonster:
It's because runs girls have increased. And it's now easier to cheat with instagram, mobile money, uber and airbnb.

For example, in this video: Secrets your girls keep: watch how undergraduate girls codedly admit to seducing married men. Listen to them talk about sex parties in Lekki, lactating mothers still doing hookups and why you can never satisfy hookup girls and their patronisers sexually.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc

How will your marriage last under these conditions. Would you as a man be able to resist their charms?

a word is enough for any woman who wants to keep her man. Your selection is very important

Emperormartin:
You're right. That no 2 is spot on.

My married friend introduced me to a WhatsApp group of married people between the ages of 35-45...

Their only business in that Whatsapp group is talk about sex, sex and sex and how to hook up and have sex among one another. These are married women and men with kids.

I'm not married but I have to remove myself from the group because it's kinda painting me bad image of marriage institution.

The last straw why I left the group is when they were organizing orgies in one Hotel in our area. The orgies will start from Friday evening and throughout the weekend... I was man matched with some married women in their early 40's... I ran!!!

I've to delete myself from that group. I'm not a saint either but this kind of sin is beyond me

Emperormartin:
You're right. That no 2 is spot on.

My married friend introduced me to a WhatsApp group of married people between the ages of 35-45...

Their only business in that Whatsapp group is talk about sex, sex and sex and how to hook up and have sex among one another. These are married women and men with kids.

I'm not married but I have to remove myself from the group because it's kinda painting me bad image of marriage institution.

The last straw why I left the group is when they were organizing orgies in one Hotel in our area. The orgies will start from Friday evening and throughout the weekend... I was man matched with some married women in their early 40's... I ran!!!



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I've to delete myself from that group. I'm not a saint either but this kind of sin is beyond me

briggster:
Please can you add me to the group?

saphiere:
4. Men are polygamous by nature.

DenreleDave:


Many reasons....

1. Some women married early and they see young girls of recent days having fun.. So they indulge in what those young ladies does.

2. The economy is bad and many husbands can fulfil their marital duty financially, their wives in turn seek alternatives.

3. Some women are no longer attractive to their men after children, they go for fresh young ladies.

4. Most ladies are not ready to work, they will do anything for money

Moniya4Real:
Believe me bro, I have heard about such things severally but never believed it could be true. Pls, send me a link or whatever of the group… just curious though but I just want to be sure cos I trust my chastity

placeofallure:
The reasons are inexhaustible. Your reason 3 now for example. I know a man who is cheating on a woman way older than his wife. He's not gaining anything financially from her o. What do we call that? People are just cheats!

postmann:
The legendary Shaq fu!

I'll respond soon enough.

layzie:
These reasons are simply vague and vain. Not drawn from research or experience but just from ur imagination. I can bet u re not married and that u didn't interview any married/cheating woman/man to come up with these unconvincing reasons.

Emperormartin:
You're right. That no 2 is spot on.

My married friend introduced me to a WhatsApp group of married people between the ages of 35-45...

Their only business in that Whatsapp group is talk about sex, sex and sex and how to hook up and have sex among one another. These are married women and men with kids.

I'm not married but I have to remove myself from the group because it's kinda painting me bad image of marriage institution.

The last straw why I left the group is when they were organizing orgies in one Hotel in our area. The orgies will start from Friday evening and throughout the weekend... I was man matched with some married women in their early 40's... I ran!!!

I've to delete myself from that group. I'm not a saint either but this kind of sin is beyond me

ebubeson:
Many men cheat, many women cheat but the pple with.. Even some that have not cheated may have low resistance level if opportunities come.
So why the rise in infidelity in Marriages..
(1) Many sexual partners before marriage. How can you sleep with different people, do group sex, have different sex positions in your youthful days, and expect to have a sane sexual mind with just one partner in marriage? How can you be addicted to prostitutes and expect to be faithful when you marry? How can you be doing hookup and having nympo urge, and expect to be normal in marriage? Is it so easy?? Don't be carried away when people say "It was my past, I am changed"... Even guys and ladies still go back to EX to have sex..

(2) Social Media: Exposure to social media, such as hookup sites and other chatting and dating platforms has contributed in infidelity in marriages.. So a married person can do complete arrangement for adultery online before meeting the person physically..

(3) Lack of Contentment: When some guys want big hips, breasts etc over good character of their wives, and some ladies want big manhood, flashy or expensive things etc over responsible husband that is providing for them.

GorgeousAF:
Lack of commitment!!!!
You woo a lady,u marry her and all of a sudden you stop doing the things that made her fall in love with you,no effort at all whatsoever..you reduce d calls to zero,no care,no affection..... especially if she has kids for you then you think that's where her life ends...some men need to do better..na just fear of God if not!!!!!

SmilingImabong:

Maybe Hiv go give am wetin him wife no fit give am if him no stop.
Remember from condom to skin to skin when him meet his spec.
For the sake of his children's future tell him to stop
No gain Instead it brings tears and pain we have seen this countless times in most families, so advice yourself
Hiv Aids is real
Na who alive dey enjoy wetin him work for

highchief1:
visit the nearest morgue close to u take a chat with the attendant and find out how many ppl are der for hiv.BP kills more than hiv u stl Dey reason like goat?

SmilingImabong:

Hiv Aids no dey show for face
Your brain is as small as that of a mosquito
I don't need to visit a mogue before taking necessary precautions.

Haircomb:
My friend whose marriage is less than 1 year got cheated on by her husband. The lady got pregnant for him. The marriage is dead now.

Emperormartin:
Hmmm lol... I've deleted that Whatsapp for long in my mobile phone

GorgeousAF:
Lack of commitment!!!!
You woo a lady,u marry her and all of a sudden you stop doing the things that made her fall in love with you,no effort at all whatsoever..you reduce d calls to zero,no care,no affection..... especially if she has kids for you then you think that's where her life ends...some men need to do better..na just fear of God if not!!!!!

GorgeousAF:
Lack of commitment!!!!
You woo a lady,u marry her and all of a sudden you stop doing the things that made her fall in love with you,no effort at all whatsoever..you reduce d calls to zero,no care,no affection..... especially if she has kids for you then you think that's where her life ends...some men need to do better..na just fear of God if not!!!!!

Moniya4Real:
Believe me bro, I have heard about such things severally but never believed it could be true. Pls, send me a link or whatever of the group… just curious though but I just want to be sure cos I trust my chastity

highchief1:
hey u come Dey threaten us join?

Moniya4Real:
👍 you deleted it. But …. It’s really sounds crazy though

DenreleDave:


Many reasons....

1. Some women married early and they see young girls of recent days having fun.. So they indulge in what those young ladies does.

2. The economy is bad and many husbands can fulfil their marital duty financially, their wives in turn seek alternative.

3. Some women are no longer attractive to their men after children, they go for fresh young ladies.

4. Most ladies are not ready to work, they will do anything for money

Mayeldah:
Cheating dey ya eye, na just the right opportunity you dey wait for