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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by drimzsmoke(m): 11:37am On Jul 31, 2023
Silentgroper:
BI's

My preferred choice of partner these days. Dnt ask me why..

Lolz....I'm presently dating 1 myself, I go just see her status for whatsapp sometimes and I'll be shaking head. Most gen Z females are messed up in the head

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by drimzsmoke(m): 11:42am On Jul 31, 2023
Scamburster:

Reason for your dp?

She's been using that DP since 2016. I wanted to tell her last night that if she actually believed that quote on her DP, she will keep experiencing ghosting

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 11:51am On Jul 31, 2023
E get one statement wey one girl wey I dey date that time make wey sweet my belle,she broke up with a msg.i no reply..I kuku move on.after some months,she came back begging with style and she said..so you couldn't even fight for the relationship.i said how..she say I for plead and beg her to come back.she say my mind too strong and am a sadist.laugh wan kill me that day

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Silentgroper(m): 1:43pm On Jul 31, 2023
drimzsmoke:


Lolz....I'm presently dating 1 myself, I go just see her status for whatsapp sometimes and I'll be shaking head. Most gen Z females are messed up in the head
It's crazy tho..

They get freaky much...

i wont say any further cause one of em could be lurking around waiting for me to spill.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by blesskewe(f): 2:32pm On Jul 31, 2023
GO0DHardDick:


Las las you'll still go back and he'll knack you. that's the power of ghosting. It's psychologically power! Only real men understands this. It's fun to ghost a girl and then return back to chop her kpekus. In fact, men who knows their Worth use the "ghosting game" alot, it makes a girl wonder what you're up to, where and what she did wrong etc! Girls love guys can't get easily. They love guys who can toy and break their hearts to piece. They love guys who can make them cry and make their hearts skips. This is why the ghosting mode is important. Scarcity makes ones valuable. Being available all time brings see finish.

Ghosting a girl makes one to avoid see finish. It is better to ghost her now and return back later to continue chopping her kpekus than for her to completely "see you finish". See finish no good. It brings disrespect. If girl don see guy finish nothing go ever make her allow that guy chop her kpekus again.

When a girl ghost a guy, be rest assured that she has since found a new guy who's chopping her kpekus and she's now dating him. 💯


See as you day yarn rubbish

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by pansophist(m): 1:28am On Aug 01, 2023
If a person ghost you, accept their death, pay your condolence in prayers, and move on. Please don't go and resurrect the dead, you are not Jesus Christ. Live your life to the fullest.

Resist the temptation to find out from the person why the ghosting, it is not necessary. If they want your presence in their life, ghosting will not be their action.

This life no hard, e just get formulas like maths. Understand the formula, so you can live with dignity and do not bother yourself with inconsequentialities.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Warlord2014(m): 5:59am On Aug 01, 2023
blessingnenye:
Have you been ghosted by a partner? Such feelings can inflict an untold pain in any individual. It is so devastating. Your relationship was awesome, you can hardly go a day without checking up on each other. Your communication was so effective in such that the absence might signal anxiety and self imposed fear.

She started replying me with sir each time we are chatting, whenever I try being romantic on call she will turn it to a joke, these were unusual behaviors , because we used to be romantic lovers.

I informed her that I will be relocating to a different state, yet she was unbothered.

Decided to go and visit her at school before moving out of town, but she gave an excuse that she won't be available till the next weekend.

I stopped chatting and calling, and she did the same too.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Dyfynezz12(m): 1:36pm On Aug 01, 2023
Dimaya:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.


More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrXVbs-1fhA

Now ask yourself if that's not what happened. If a woman ghosts you, 100% there's someone else.

My advice: Cut your losses and move on.
True Bro! Cut ur losses and move on.
Unfortunately some guys don't like letting go

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Silentgroper(m): 3:26pm On Aug 01, 2023
GO0DHardDick:


Unfortunately she can't do this. It is the guy that will suck her dry instead. You still don't understand the power of ghosting. Ghosting is powerful! It is emotionally devastating. I have ghosted lots of girls before so I know what I'm saying. Especially when she's already emotionally attached to you. U can't dry him so relax. You'll be the one feeling self pity and emotionally down for yourself! And you probably can't stop thinking about him. So drying him is out of the equation


Bro .. you sound like you would soon start a movement abt this ghosting stuff

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Bornboy4: 3:40pm On Aug 01, 2023
And you still goatishly opened your k-kegs for am to deposit all the waste im collect with im gbola inside you? shocked
blesskewe:
This happened to me of recent, he ghosted me for 3months.....
Just this week, he just came up
Wanting to continue the relationship

Without Explanation
Ntn
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by GoodRocks: 4:13pm On Aug 01, 2023
Silentgroper:


Bro .. you sound like you would soon start a movement abt this ghosting stuff

😁😁😁

grin I do that alot bro and I can tell you it's devastating and Damn fun 😂 the girl go nearly run mad esp when she's already emotionally attached to you. grin Omo thousands of questions will Keep ringing of her head as to what she did wrong. The day you go mistakenly call her or chat her up, Omo she'll be the happiest person on earth. The thing is you can always chop her kpekus any day anytime twice on Tuesday evening. Ghosting is powerful aswear! The most important weapon a man has over a woman is ATTENTION!

Be the first to always ghost and dump girls, then relax and watch them do the chasing 😂 themselves

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by blesskewe(f): 4:41pm On Aug 01, 2023
Bornboy4:
And you still goatishly opened your k-kegs for am to deposit all the waste im collect with im gbola inside you? shocked

Don't be stupid abeg
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by JustPowerApps(m): 5:33pm On Aug 01, 2023
She ghosted me for a yr plus, replied my last dm after a year and some months, ghosted me again for another 8 months cheesy She was coming and going like Nigerian electricity.

At the time of this drama, I was chilling with another girl. Soldier go soldier come, barracko no dey shake.

In loving memory of Dagrin. Rest in power chief.
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by bigcee(m): 7:42pm On Aug 01, 2023
JustPowerApps:
She ghosted me for a yr plus, replied my last dm after a year and some months, ghosted me again for another 8 months cheesy She was coming and going like Nigerian electricity.

At the time of this drama, I was chilling with another girl. Soldier go soldier come, barracko no dey shake.

In loving memory of Dagrin. Rest in power chief.
I swear you be mumu if you no block the useless girl. Try dey value yourself.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by bigcee(m): 7:44pm On Aug 01, 2023
GO0DHardDick:


grin I do that alot bro and I can tell you it's devastating and Damn fun 😂 the girl go nearly run mad esp when she's already emotionally attached to you. grin Omo thousands of questions will Keep ringing of her head as to what she did wrong. The day you go mistakenly call her or chat her up, Omo she'll be the happiest person on earth. The thing is you can always chop her kpekus any day anytime twice on Tuesday evening. Ghosting is powerful aswear! The most important weapon a man has over a woman is ATTENTION!

Be the first to always ghost and dump girls, then relax and watch them do the chasing 😂 themselves
Na one cheap manipulative tactics you just dey use on the mumu girl. No go dey think say na masculinity be that o.
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by GoodRocks: 7:49pm On Aug 01, 2023
bigcee:

Na one cheap manipulative tactics you just dey use on the mumu girl. No go dey think say na masculinity be that o.

U won't understand bro grin
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Ihedinuwa69(m): 2:05pm On Aug 04, 2023
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