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Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by nextstep(m): 11:33pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
AlphaHakimi: This is one of the more eloquent responses on this thread that clearly explains the underlying reason for polygamy, and why it's seen in a bad light by those it doesn't favor. I was stating that basically those with the financial means will make the rules about who can "cheat" - or be in poly-amorous relationships; and that it would be hard for most women to gain that advantage. Some character just bleated out "wrong!" in a kneejerk response, so I'm glad to see some people can still put their thoughts to words sensibly. |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by movid(m): 3:42am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Not all men cheat. Some men do that at times 'cos of home. |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Kipaji: 4:27am On Aug 02, 2023 |
meobizy: Your comment caught my attention. Why do you think there hasn't been any growth? |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by lordnkem000(m): 4:56am On Aug 02, 2023 |
talented321:Bros I jus love u abeg, see as u just meticulously arrange am tell her, u be man o |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by meobizy(f): 4:59am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Kipaji:Spend four years here and you will understand. |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by adebayo987: 7:33am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Charx122:Na you be females! I am a proud father and I will be the first in Nigeria that won't collect a dime on the heads of my two beautiful daughters. Nothing like traditional marriage. It's straight to court and the alter of God. Finish! I've already called a meeting in my family, approached my chiefs and relatives to address the issue. I made it very clear that I'm agitating for gender equality. So, that's my personal decision. I didn't bring my daughters into this world to mortgage them to some men. I've written my will and the four of them (2 males & 2 females) all share my properties totally equal. Watch out, my story will go viral once my daughters get married. |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Tzar(m): 7:39am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Well, it is because men have a primal, evolutionary and innate NEED to spread their genes / increase the chances of the continuity of their genes. This need pushes them to mate with several females to increase the odds and vary the genetic mix of their offsprings. This need is ingrained in our lizard brain and cannot be controlled in spite of what modernity wants to have us believe. Only recently did modern humans make mating recreational. At an evolutionary level human mated to procreate and create continuity in existence. This does not eliminate that prehistoric and genetic part of males to want to spread and increase the chances of the survival and continuity of their genes. If not for great leaps in modern medicine and human well being, to survive, it makes sense to sow your wild oats everywhere. But today to make the gene pool of your offsprings rich, you should mate with different females from various backgrounds. Also note that men and women are not the same. Our fat, chromosome, bone density, lung capacity, hormonal mix and many other things make us different. Therefore, men and women don’t rationalize things the same way. This is why women can never understand why men think this way. Just like men can’t understand why women think in some ways. blessingnenye: |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by adebayo987: 7:42am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Timetravel88:Those women are happy that way. Most of them get married to younger African or foreign men because they need someone to assist them in doing chores and running errands due to their age. Everyone came into this world alone and will go back alone. Marriage is not an achievement as no one will award you for getting married. One gets married to either have children, get sexually satisfied, or to get a companion. It's here in Africa that we see marriage as a big achievement and people who hasn't gotten married are failures or the likes. Lmao! Really African mentality. |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Freemasonry: 8:05am On Aug 02, 2023 |
I think it's more prevalent in Africa due to our age-long traditions of patriarchy and polygamy. |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by sihamey: 8:10am On Aug 02, 2023 |
That the definition of “THIS IS MENS WORLD “ if only you understand that phrase |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Charx122: 9:12am On Aug 02, 2023 |
adebayo987: Good for you sir! Amen o! I hope I will be invited for this occasion. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by foronye: 9:23am On Aug 02, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick: Apart from the above, man is a seed (Children) owner, he can decide to share seed with a woman or women as the original God's commandment of multiplication of seed (Children) was given to him. Remember the Ribs of woman was taken from man to create woman. Naturally, woman is limited while man is not - study monthly woman flow and aging diminishing theory at 50 woman is gone but man can start. |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Bigseven(m): 1:29pm On Aug 02, 2023 |
This is way beyond making comments here. A single person cheats for fantasies but in marriage is way bigger than what one can comprehend. So let’s just say married people cheat because of different reasons. Some their wife’s hidden habits which they didn’t know about during courtship, others are influenced by friends as a norm, some lack peace within themselves. But all these are not justifiable because las las there’s a price you pay. So let’s try not to cheat on em. 😆 |
Re: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Timetravel88: 12:55pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
adebayo987: As we get older we crave companionship, that is one of the satisfaction derived from marriage. |
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