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I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by siofra(op): 7:21am On Aug 05, 2023
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by qtguru(m): 7:22am On Aug 05, 2023
siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️
You will not be a second wife, you will have your own husband. It's not as rosy as you think.
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by Wilson300: 7:25am On Aug 05, 2023
Guys should do well to ignore this thread as the op is a renowned clout chaser
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by Nobody: 7:25am On Aug 05, 2023
If you ever think of being a second wife then make sure he's a billionaire. Do your maths and solve long-term situations and arrive at an accurate answer. If he's a billionaire do well to give him children that'll inherit a reasonable amount of his wealth, polygamy is a game for women and the best player smile at the end of the match (when the husband dies).
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by blazepascal(m): 7:36am On Aug 05, 2023
You don't really know what you want.
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by helinues: 7:47am On Aug 05, 2023
My husband must be rich

He must have different cars

He must open a big business for me, build a big house and buy me a car

If indeed you want all this wishes to come to pass, then you can't be less that Alhaji 4th wife. No 2 ways
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by caesymore(m): 7:55am On Aug 05, 2023
Boom Dig_it!!!

And what do you have to offer the Man apart from your over used pussy which he can get anywhere ,see her mouth full of senseless demand.
SMH.
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by Amarisco(f): 7:56am On Aug 05, 2023
siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️
This just sounds like a mistress, not a wife in a polygamous home
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by Vinnie2000(m): 8:23am On Aug 05, 2023
OP, Nothing wrong with you.🙂

ALL LADIES have the Instincts of SHARING Men.
3,4 Ladies can Fcvk one man and will not complain as long he gives each money and Attention. smiley

Dat's why When I see our Naija Girls Criticizing Davido and Yul Edochie,
I always wonder. 😕 huh

because, Many of them have Dated or are currently dating a Married man.😏
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by GlorifiedTunde(m): 8:49am On Aug 05, 2023
siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️
Second wife or mistress? undecided
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by ravensckar(m): 8:56am On Aug 05, 2023
Only a lady who knows she can never amount to anything in life will post something as infantile as this. Becoming a second wife to a billionaire? Like seriously? huh huh What's stopping you too from aspiring for your own billions? Most rich women that I know are not even under any man (in the name of marriage). They had their kids, took full custody and never changed their name to any man's name. They pay their own bills and are living large. The real feminists not some evening newspapers who will scream 'men are scum whilst secretly praying to end up as a second or third wife to billionaires'.

I'm not sorry to say OP; 'you suffer from the greatest poverty of sense'. Marriage is not a poverty alleviation programme, go and hustle for your own money. angry angry
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by madscientist88(m): 9:16am On Aug 05, 2023
most ladies who wish to end up with rich men end alone, because they are not hard working therefore unattractive,men of value are attracted to creative and hardworking innovative women, ignoring this post would've been as easy as a blink,but some how i find your pathetic delusions quite fascinating.
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by WeirdAlien: 9:19am On Aug 05, 2023
OP. Your brain needs military intervention.
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by Sonnobax15(m): 9:37am On Aug 05, 2023
grin
Na today I confirm why all your previous relationships no dey exceed lintel level..
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by siofra(op): 10:16am On Aug 05, 2023
qtguru:
You will not be a second wife, you will have your own husband. It's not as rosy as you think.
Hmm. This is what my cousin told me. It's not like I'm falling in love with him. And I'll still have side boyfriends. He will have to agree to it
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by siofra(op): 10:18am On Aug 05, 2023
IconicR:
If you ever think of being a second wife then make sure he's a billionaire. Do your maths and solve long-term situations and arrive at an accurate answer. If he's a billionaire do well to give him children that'll inherit a reasonable amount of his wealth, polygamy is a game for women and the best player smile at the end of the match (when the husband dies).
Good one. But I don't think I'd like to play that game. I won't even want to meet his other wives.
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by Nobody: 10:24am On Aug 05, 2023
siofra:
Good one. But I don't think I'd like to play that game. I won't even want to meet his other wives.
😂 just be the last wife and enjoy your baby girl life. Shade Okoya and Regina Daniels are perfect example, these are the women I'll take marital advise from.

Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by siofra(op): 10:57am On Aug 05, 2023
caesymore:
Boom Dig_it!!!

And what do you have to offer the Man apart from your over used pussy which he can get anywhere ,see her mouth full of senseless demand.
SMH.
What is his useless money that I cannot get from another manhuh

Mtchewwww!
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by siofra(op): 11:01am On Aug 05, 2023
ravensckar:
Only a lady who knows she can never amount to anything in life will post something as infantile as this. Becoming a second wife to a billionaire? Like seriously? huh huh What's stopping you too from aspiring for your own billions? Most rich women that I know are not even under any man (in the name of marriage). They had their kids, took full custody and never changed their name to any man's name. They pay their own bills and are living large. The real feminists not some evening newspapers who will scream 'men are scum whilst secretly praying to end up as a second or third wife to billionaires'.

I'm not sorry to say OP; 'you suffer from the greatest poverty of sense'. Marriage is not a poverty alleviation programme, go and hustle for your own money. angry angry
This is how retàrds open their mouth and spew scum. No wonder they say men are scum.

Did I say anywhere on this forum or in this write-up that I don't have my own ambitions and aspirations.

In fact don't you know that, wanting to marry a billionaire is a job and aspiration on its own?

Is this a Nollywood movie? Do you think broke girls marry billionaireshuh

Stop making a fool of yourself undecided
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by siofra(op): 11:02am On Aug 05, 2023
Sonnobax15:
grin
Na today I confirm why all your previous relationships no dey exceed lintel level..
How do you know about my previous relationshipshuh
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by Bakrabas: 11:35am On Aug 05, 2023
siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.



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I've questions for you

Are your parent rich like (Late Harry Akande)?

Do you attend Havard University?

Are you a genius in your profession?

At what age did you make your 1st ₦50M?

Can you still conceive?

Are you still a Virgin I mean tear rubber that even a finger hasn't never pass through the engine room?

Are your melons never being touched before?

Have you ever bought a piece of block let a alone an apartment before?

If all your answers are Yes... Then, you deserves to marry the 🐦 bird of your feathers, you deserves a super Rich billionaire

Then if your answers are no.... You equally need to marry the guy of your category


Do not underrate yourself that until you marry a rich or millionaire before you make it in life

You're the architect of your own fortune/misfortune not any Rich husband
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by xtivin(m): 12:14pm On Aug 05, 2023
siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️
Stop playing!!!
Rules are not needed this days... Many better girls are on ground that doesn't give rules like you low budget Kim wannabe... undecided
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by WORLDPEACE(m): 12:30pm On Aug 05, 2023
siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️
Go to YouTube. Search for Kevin Samuels. He helps women get the kind of men they qualify for. He helps them qualify for who they desire.
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by oluseyiforjesus(m): 1:02pm On Aug 05, 2023
U are confused
U don't want to be 1st meaning u can't share ur hubby with anyone but u want to share with somebody.......
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by Nahunger(m): 1:02pm On Aug 05, 2023
grin
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by TOPCRUISE(m): 1:02pm On Aug 05, 2023
They are all out to snatch another woman's husband.
Though when current newspapers are gradually turning to evening newspapers terms and conditions will begin to change small, small. huh
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by chris20000: 1:02pm On Aug 05, 2023
What women don't understand is that you want a man who has many options because women go for the same type of men. Rich men who makes Six figure income which unfortunately are just one percent of the men's population.

So you are already at disadvantage because he's the one to pick you not the other way around.

Now the question is will he want you

Meanwhile

Kanayo O Kanayo Nnanyi Sacrifice have something to say

Kanayo O Kanayo - The Only Juju I Know Is Jesus Christ.

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Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by Nahunger(m): 1:02pm On Aug 05, 2023
grin
Evening Newspaper o'clock
It is well
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by ahnie: 1:03pm On Aug 05, 2023
This thread go dey lit pass ESPN
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by LONEWOLFJOHN: 1:04pm On Aug 05, 2023
Wilson300:
Guys should do well to ignore this thread as the op is a renowned clout chaser
Op is a hookup professor.
Re: I Don't Mind Being A Second Wife (opinion) by jendhorlee(m): 1:05pm On Aug 05, 2023
siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)

I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️
Goodluck
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