madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.

Oil dey your head. Nothing to add.

Weak erection and diabetes at 35 is not a common thing. Don't normalize it. Lot of Nigerians marry around this age.

ednut1:
Can you keep up with the sexual needs of that young woman At 35 most Nigerian men already have high blood pressure, weak erection, diabetes, pot belle etc . If she cheats inside the marriage you will still complain. Marriage is not sustained by youth too. So i can never understand men’s obsession with younger women

stevups:


When I was making millions, I rushed go married my beautiful 23 years old girl... Omo when we chopped the money finish together... I almost committed suicide. If not because I'm street wise..

An intelligent woman will make you realize you need to manage your expenses and make more.
An unintelligent one will want you to keep spending and lavishing till it expends.

Ladech:
Weak erection and diabetes at 35 is not a common thing. Don't normalize it. Lot of Nigerians marry around this age.

if you have any friend who is a pharmacist ask him or her

spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

Perfect, just make sure she loves you more than you love her and give her bele while she goes through school. Plan her life for her the way it will suit both of you in the long run. Get her to learn and become an entrepreneur, if possible set up the the business for her. Con is if you go broke without fixing her, she may think the grass would have been greener if she didn't marry you. That's the worst case scenario you would face.

Fiscus105:




Oga , marriage comes with heavy responsibility, if u loose job unexpectedly and still expect wife to be loyal with you 100%,. It's only a mad woman will do that ok.


Dont use ur own yardstick to justify every other woman.

You dnt want to leave ur kids to hussle........indeed, be expecting manner ok.it would soon fall.

I randomly told all the ladies in circle that I lost my job, whereas I didn't. Guess what? They all deserted me. N'a there I know say wàhálà dey with this generation of ladies of ours

madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.

LOL, yes you have the experience

spyroet:
she's very beautiful and caring

This is why you want to marry her? Or is there something else you forgot to mention?

1stSonOfLucifer:

I randomly told all the ladies in circle that I lost my job, whereas I didn't. Guess what? They all deserted me. N'a there I know say wàhálà dey with this generation of ladies of ours

If random ladies told you that ,they lost their wombs,.....how many of them will you take to the altar?

Effect of tight p*na .. Don't be carried away by tight kitten, older ladies can be frustrating at times not to talk of the younger ones . Marriage does not revolve round a tight p*ssy

madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.

Thanks for your maturity.

Westerhoffe:



Follow this advise…
Nothing more, nothing less.

When I once said during a discussion with some guys, that I can't marry a lady who is less intelligent than I am, they were laughing at me. But man, I know what I'm saying.

When you have with you a woman who is more intelligent, a fast thinker, man, you don't know what you have until you lose it.

Meanwhile, you should ready not to do any dirty shit with such lady.

If not, you will regret hell, u will face in marriage with such intelligent woman.

Such ladies know their rights and ready to fight for them to the last........"I am an african man" rhetoric, won't safe you from such woman.

As it stands now, can you give ur fiance(wife) unrestricted access to ur phone, ur social media accounts and ur ATM passwords.?

If not, u re not qualified for such lady , except you urself is average intelligent guy.

If you can find a 22-23 year old that doesn't use Social Media, that would be better. But any girl in that age range that uses TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat... Forget about it. She isn't ready for marriage. Look for a girl that's at least 26 and above.

Kobicove:
At the age of 35 what will you be discussing with an 18 year old girl?

What will you be discussing with a teenager

Ladech:
Weak erection and diabetes at 35 is not a common thing. Don't normalize it. Lot of Nigerians marry around this age.

Most young Nigerian men can't do without sexual enhancing drugs. It's concerning. Go to the sexaulity section

spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

Go ahead and marry her young. You will groom her to your taste and enjoy your marriage, hopefully she is from a good home and God fearing.

spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

You can marry a woman of consenting age, but mind you, you need to evaluate her level of tolerance, reasoning and bias, kitchen habit is secondary cus huge percentage of Nigerian females doesn't really know how to cook, you can eat their food but will you enjoy it? No offense.

PRO'S: Young, teachable and imprint-able, you'd probably be her apex lover if she's a virgin, more probabilities of her being a virgin and fertile. Remember, there's no perfect woman, you make the perfect woman. Women despise a man that has to be told to be dominant. So, you will most likely teach and impact her, you will have lots of patience.

CONS: Women in this age range are in their hoe phase. It's an undeniable phase. If she's immature, loose, lazy, unambitious, you will be cheated on. Infact, you can do everything right and still get cheated on. Women are dumber that we think: hypergamy doesn't care about male idealistic expectations of love, it's a natural hardwired firmware in their brain.

Did you do the Yahoo Yahoo scamming you wanted to do, or is this a false story?

Abusive, bad men always look for teenagers to "teach" and "mould" because they know that women their age will see thru their bullshit and evil.

Fiscus105:




If random ladies told you that ,they lost their wombs,.....how many of them will you take to the altar?

All. I don't intend to have kids.

I have seen some girls in their early twenties that are so matured and composed while some divorcees in thier late forties and even early fifties behave like children . It is rooted in their upbringing and family life. Poverty has made many homes to have no values and the outcomes are young ladies that stand for nothing and can fall for anything.

Fiscus105:




If random ladies told you that ,they lost their wombs,.....how many of them will you take to the altar?

Very bad analogy. Losing one's job and losing one's womb are not the same thing

Jeon:
You will have chicken pox.....



Now ask yourself what are the pros and cons of marrying yourself.

You need help

Ishilove:

In the years past it could have been considered, but this present generation of young people are a case study.

Allow her mature a bit more and gain more experience before considering proposing marriage to her. One of the worst things that can happen to a marriage is when one partner wakes up one day and starts resenting the other person for not allowing them enjoy their youth.

So a man shouldmore or less marry a woman with experience that's been run through? It is not a good deal for a man seeking a wife. There is nothing new reserved for the would be husband as he is paying the highest price for what previous guys got for cheap. That's why i like northerners. They still guard their patriarchy and have not allowed feminism mess up most of their women. If men wanted an experienced woman, all porn stars would be married. Men want a new, undamaged(physical, mental and emotional), low mileage woman for wife . Men may play the field with loose women but want a loyal wife.

madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.

For Sure... That's the main thing 👌

Fiscus105:




Oga , marriage comes with heavy responsibility, if u loose job unexpectedly and still expect wife to be loyal with you 100%,. It's only a mad woman will do that ok.


Dont use ur own yardstick to justify every other woman.

You dnt want to leave ur kids to hussle........indeed, be expecting manner. it would soon fall ok.

True,
A girl I had plans to marry broke up with me when I lost my job during COVID-19 lockdown. I was glad, God showed me her true colours outside marriage. I asked myself what could have happened if we were married and we went abroad and such happened to me.

ednut1:
Can you keep up with the sexual needs of that young woman At 35 most Nigerian men already have high blood pressure, weak erection, diabetes, pot belle etc . If she cheats inside the marriage you will still complain. Marriage is not sustained by youth too. So i can never understand men’s obsession with younger women

Fiscus105:




If random ladies told you that ,they lost their wombs,.....how many of them will you take to the altar?

Money can be lost and made
A womb once lost cannot be regrown.

Reason with your brain not your anus

spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

Most women that age aren't ready for marriage. That is the "bloom of Youth" (Read 1 Cor 7:36) when they want to taste life. If married, they may think their missing something outside. That may be one reason many married female corpers cheat.

Wait till they are 25 or older

TimT:

Nothing like beautiful and caring o...
Beauty will fade away oo...
How can she handle pressure?..
Is she the complaining type??
Check well o...

Gbam!!

Check if she complains at any slight opportunity

These ladies aren't ready for that marriage you talking about psychologically, they are not fully ready to handle responsibilities. So they will stress and frustrate you for a very long time until they are mentally prepared for the hard task that comes with marriages.

skywalker240:
In this modern generation, an 18 to 24 or even 25 and 26 years old girls are still in their hoe phases, only an idiot would venture into such investment

I married my longtime girlfriend of almost 13 year's when she is already in her 30s

What age is menopause