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| Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by brabie: 9:20pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
I've been thinking about it for a while now and I don't want to spoil it. I've been dating my girlfriend for a couple of months now and everything is going fine she is a nice person, kind and cool. But for me am not yet financially strong enough to do what a bf is suppose to be doing, she's not complaining but I can see it in some of her attitudes towards me, I was thinking of telling her I want us to cut it off, more like taking a break off all this love stuffs so I can really work on myself and start doing what am supposed to be doing as her bf. I want to tell her that "I still love her and want her but I can't be with her like this anymore because it hurts me so much, that am not able to do stuffs for her, I know eventually she might start to see other guys, I don't want it to get to that so pls guys help me out WHAT SHOULD I REALLY DO OR SAY TO HER I still want to be with her but not in my current condition now 4 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by garriAndsugar: 9:22pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
she should manage with you 4 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Fahvvy: 9:22pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
OP sir... Can you please explain what you mean when you say "I'm not doing what a boyfriend is supposed to be doing"  ...23 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by yrhuhfy113: 9:24pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
You knew you were not financially capable before you wasted her time.... YOU SLEPT WITH HER O, now you are done using her and your eyes is clear.... YOU WANT TO QUIETLY LET HER GO.... so she will now become one of your FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS... HUMAN NATURE is wicked. THERE IS NO WAY YOU CAN DEFEND THIS.......... NO EVIDENCE.... you can not say, YOU JUST SUDDENLY REALIZED THAT YOU WERE NOT FINANCIALLY STRONG. You can't eat your cake and have it if you hurt her, things may go worse for you..... SHE WILL START DATING GUYS FOR MONEY AND CURSE YOU FROM HER HEART.... YOU CAN DECEIVE OTHERS but the truth is glaring.... YOU CHOP AM... you clean mouth.... NOW YOU ARE SAYING SOMETHING ELSE. 16 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Anabosee(m): 9:24pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
I dedicate p square " reason with me" to you alone. Go work on urself men 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by brabie: 9:25pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Fahvvy:what I meant is, like buying her stuffs, taking her out on dates, and so on you know the normal relationship stuffs |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by brabie: 9:26pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
garriAndsugar:how do I explain it to her, how do you tell someone to manage with you |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Dexy4yah(m): 9:30pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
"I was thinking of telling her I want us to cut it off, more like taking a break off all this love stuffs so I can really work on myself and start doing what am supposed to be doing as her bf" Soo you want to go out there and Hussle your ass off just to come back and please her? I pity your life 14 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by brabie: 9:30pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113:I feel really bad, tell me how I should go about it, am already starting to work on myself but I don't know how long it will take before I start yielding the fruits of my labour and will she still be around because I really want her to be the person that enjoys it What do I do now you seem to really get this well |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by izonborn098(m): 9:34pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
You have some valid points... I understand where u are going.. But all the same if both of u are feed well, that means u are trying and since u have good intention for her let that motivate you to work harder, keep on her trying and don't over streched ur self' because she is not ur child that you will take ur life in the process of impressing her... And to her part, many women always try to give us attitude we(men) when we are passing through some challenges.. But if she haven't complain openly then give her time, but have it mind that she might breakup with you anytime so that you will not be shocked... 1 Like |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Ballzproblem2: 9:42pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
| foolish man instead of you work to put yourself in a better position you are working to please your girlfriend, you think if a better man comes or she finds herself in a bigger position, you think she will stick around? some of you need to learn the hard way and I'm here for it 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by JustPowerApps(m): 9:42pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
I know how tough it is out there; how girls suddenly find fault with guys who don't spend on them, especially when they believe they've seen another guy who is foolish enough to exchange money for love. So far your girl is not complaining; you have nothing to worry about. Love should never be bought; it is a natural feeling. If, however, she changes all of a sudden, do not hesitate to replace her. You deserve to be loved without having to pay for it, just like everyone else out there. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Fahvvy: 9:43pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
brabie: Hahhahahahah  ...OP!!!!! You just want to put yourself under unnecessary pressure ...Please where exactly is it written that a man must do all the above for his girlfriend? Cause I must have missed the memo ...I get the whole idea of wanting to do nice things for your babe and all, but OP if e no dey, e no dey, no go kill yourself for woman wey fit leave you even if you give am heaven and earth ...And look at it this way, if she is already giving you attitude (aka disrespecting you) because of some fairy tale expectations, shouldn't that be a pointer of what could happen in future? ...Do you really want to be with someone who respects you only on the basis of what you can give? Is that the kind of person you want to build your life with? ...And besides, does she buy you stuff? ...Take you out on dates? ...I'm guessing the answer is NO! And guess what?! She prolly isn't even bothered about doing all these things, so why bother yourself? ...Or you think because you don't have much now, it means she's doing you a favor by dating you? Lmao ...OP... As long as you're nice to her and giving her your best, that's all that matters, if she wants to go, LET HER GO!! ...8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by yrhuhfy113: 9:44pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
brabie: you can build with her right? must you throw away the baby and the bathe water? 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by TreasureJunky: 10:12pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
You better leave women for now and focus on bettering your life. Focus on making money,, that should be your priority for now 1 Like |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Sonnobax15(m): 10:12pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
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| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by DCmaverick(m): 10:14pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Wahala be like bicycle. OP u neva chop bellefull u de fine woman, nw u wan japa abi 
ko e dafu e' |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by brabie: 10:35pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113:hmm I get it thanks alot I appreciate 🙏 1 Like |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by brabie: 10:37pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Fahvvy:you're right I'll thread more carefully and do my possible best |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Nicepoker(m): 11:21pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Stay away from them you will enjoy life better. |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by TrustNone: 11:48pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
brabie:what if she's supportive and also takes you out on dates? And also try get a job na |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Gadafii: 12:20am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Konji don clear your eyes, your brain don settle and decode reality😂🤣 This life sef, prickkk go put man for wahala, he go run go hide inside shorts, leaving the man to sort himself 1 Like |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by jeromestarks: 4:38am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Fahvvy:He is one of those small stupid street boys who still feel they need to provide for a girl they're not married to. The idiotic op was trained by a foolish mother who didn't tell him that when dating a pvssy, you are not responsible for her wellbeing. Her father is. 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by JOACHINpedro: 6:12am On Sep 10, 2023 |
This was me a year ago. You no go get peace, even the little you do seems it ain't enough. Nae i borrow sense tell am say I no do again, the relationship was just 6months. I told her I can't be broke and also be comfortably attentive to her. Na you dey overthink am bro, break up for your peace of mind. 1 Like |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by CJStarz: 6:47am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Fahvvy:Lemme help him explain: Like buy her bone straight weapons, gifting her the latest iphones, taking her out , creditng her aza on a regular,etv |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by brabie: 7:01am On Sep 10, 2023 |
jeromestarks:it's your mother who is foolish, what does my mother have to do with this now, alot of guys who says " woman no fit make me spend on her cause of pvssy and bla bla bla are the people who even spend on it the most, you guys just lie alot 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by jeromestarks: 8:54am On Sep 10, 2023 |
brabie:She didn't train you well. You're her mistake. Guys that spend on pvssies have what to spend and they don't do more than their power. My friend don't "take care" of his girl. He only buys suya and some drinks for her whenever she visits and he needs to fvck not you who want to pay house rent, send monthly upkeep, buy data, recharge her line, buy phone, give her t.p etc. Is she fatherless? Is she motherless? Is she a virgin? As you're trying to maintain her while your stupid mother who opened her legs to be fvcked for your sake has not received Koko from you, another guy is drilling that pretender you called girlfriend. The truth is, after you must have suffered for her, it's another man who will marry her. Not you. Again, your mother is stupid for not telling about pvssies. She's foolish for raising you a simp. All your foolishness is her fault. Her fault alone. So, I don't blame you. I blame the useless woman who gave birth to you. 1 Like |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by brabie: 9:26am On Sep 10, 2023 |
jeromestarks:I don't have to go on with you, your just a sad Human being, keep on going with this mindset and I promise you, you'll end up lonely and miserable. Every girl you meet was once with a guy that took care of her, I don't think you are married, or even in a relationship cause no one in a relationship talks like this, you were not loved at all, everyone will disappoint you at a time in your life, be it family,friends or lover, but you enjoy it while it last, wether I marry her or not I don't care, it's life. It is what it is. If you don't believe in love or companionship that's your problems , if you come from a home where both of your parents are still together in love you'll understand but I think you're from a broken home that's why you don't understand love and care. I pray you find peace in life. 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by horlahwaley(m): 9:45am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Guy if she is not complaining stick with her if she wants to leave let her go. But dont be the one to leave her first unless her attitude is saying otherwise. If you cut her off and went to hustle, after you have made the dough. Wallahi tallahi you wont see a girl who will love you for who you are it will be only cos of your money. 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Nobody: 9:51am On Sep 10, 2023 |
The truth is Nigerian women aren't materialistic, Nigerian men are the ones given to Materialism. Here is a very good justification for this notion. Op is with a lady who chose him irrespective of his financial ability unfortunately Op is not only insecure about his inability to provide material things rather he is also finding faults and attributing few humane reactions to his inability to Provide. There's this question that has been left unanswered for years till date. It is "As a Nigerian man how do you handle a relationship with an independent lady?" . Now we have a poster who wants to leave his understanding and not demanding girlfriend because can't buy her things And to top it he thinks he needs to pause the relationship and go hustle 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by SmellingAnus(m): 9:59am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Persephone1:so what is your advice to him? |
| Re: Guys,i Need Your Advice On My Girlfriend,what Should I Really Do Pls by Nobody: 10:03am On Sep 10, 2023 |
SmellingAnus:If the lady isn't giving Op issues or demanding anything then Op should work on his insecurity and enjoy his blessing. If she is doing otherwise,he should let her go. 3 Likes |
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