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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Nobody: 3:50pm On May 01, 2011
ayosmiles:

intelligence is not gender based. however each sex is dispossed 2 diff aspects of intelligence. women tend 2 av better instinct while men are generally better intellectually, though there are exceptions e.g inked nerd

*errrrrm - clears throat and seriously coughs* undecided
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by ayosmiles(m): 12:28am On May 02, 2011
mzdarkskin wt happened 2 ur throat
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by DyingFetus: 2:04am On Sep 19, 2023
Men do not value intelligence in women. Men purposely settle down for dumb, old bags, boring, weak, neotenous, childlike, short, subservient women who only serve as pretty fuckholes (which is why male sexual selection is dysgenic and weakens a populace over time)

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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Anny69: 5:00am On Sep 19, 2023
DyingFetus:
Men do not value intelligence in women. Men purposely settle down for dumb, old bags, boring, weak, neotenous, childlike, short, subservient women who only serve as pretty fuckholes (which is why male sexual selection is dysgenic and weakens a populace over time)
Exactly.
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Sep 19, 2023
Why will they not be rare? Especially in Nigeria nowadays where all ladies nowadays think about is how much money they can milk from you. All that is available in Nigeria nowadays is cupboard love, asides nacking prowess, all women base relationships on nowadays is money. You can't even hold a conversation with many ladies today without them telling you about one cash-intensive issue or another
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Kimcutie: 1:20pm On Sep 19, 2023
DyingFetus:
Men do not value intelligence in women. Men purposely settle down for dumb, old bags, boring, weak, neotenous, childlike, short, subservient women who only serve as pretty fuckholes (which is why male sexual selection is dysgenic and weakens a populace over time)
I'm definitely not that man.
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Kimcutie: 1:21pm On Sep 19, 2023
Anny69:
Exactly.
We value intelligence, don't be deceived by what you see.
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Anny69: 4:55pm On Sep 19, 2023
Kimcutie:
We value intelligence, don't be deceived by what you see.
Few men do. Most care about what you carry as a woman (boobs and ass.)
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy: 7:34pm On Sep 19, 2023
DyingFetus:
Men do not value intelligence in women. Men purposely settle down for dumb, old bags, boring, weak, neotenous, childlike, short, subservient women who only serve as pretty fuckholes (which is why male sexual selection is dysgenic and weakens a populace over time)
You actually thought you said something intelligent lmao
It's female selection that destroys society and weakens civilizations over time
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Kimcutie: 3:08am On Sep 20, 2023
Anny69:
Few men do. Most care about what you carry as a woman (boobs and ass.)
Well, I do and I believe they do, however that's when marriage is in the picture. They care more about boobs/ass when it's just flirting etc
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Anny69: 8:56am On Sep 20, 2023
Kimcutie:
Well, I do and I believe they do, however that's when marriage is in the picture. They care more about boobs/ass when it's just flirting etc
I see.
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Mom007(f): 9:32am On Sep 20, 2023
Being intelligent as a lady doesn't make you very likeable. Most men like their ladies dumb and docile.

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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by segcymoor(m): 11:10am On Sep 20, 2023
harakiri:
@poster. . . In academics, women do well in assimilating what they thought and they pay better attention because the both sides of the brain function at the same hence the reason why women multitask easily (talking on the phone and feeding the baby at the same time. Memory retention is a big plus hence a lady can remember over 30 phone numbers while my humble self finds it difficult remembering 5. That's the good part. The "bad" part is since both sides of the brain focus on concentration, the ability of reason logically and make rational judgements is off. Instead,women act on how they "feel" at the moment. This could be disastrous in sensitive situations that require tact and sound judgement.

...Big respect to your view

But then intelligence has nothing to do with academic excellence... you may be brilliant yet stupid!

But the beauty of it is being intelligent and brilliant still
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by segcymoor(m): 11:32am On Sep 20, 2023
beejaei:


Are you stupid? Do you have a brain? These are important and valid questions that need to be answered to put your reply in context. Whats up with the whole attraction business? I have made clear that I was not attracted to any of these women. I only observed the abscence of intelligence in the majority of them. While women may make up the higher percentage of degree earners, the more pertinent question is what percentage of the whole women population are these women with degrees? Answer: a minuscule percentage. So, even if there are intelligent women, they are few and far between. Plus, since when did getting a bachelor's, masters, or PhD become any evidence of intelligence. I am[b] talking about the intelligence that is evidenced by a proper understanding of oneself and ones environment. Most women lack this I submit. lol
[/b]

But then..how many man does?

You are referring to intuitive intelligence here....far far from academic brilliant
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by segcymoor(m): 11:46am On Sep 20, 2023
Shanice111:
As a woman who was voted best graduating student for all her degrees, I will say women are indeed intelligent. My experience with men especially the under 30s (which I wont be looking at ever again) is that they are very slow learners. Put a woman of 21 with a guy of 21 no match in terms of knowledge and focus. There are different arguments as to why women act dumb, I will just lay 3 assumptions, gathered from friends and experience.

1.) A woman would act dumb to keep a man. Call me crazy but before I got to where I am now (that is confident in my sexuality and abilities), I was always more intelligent when compared to my boyfriends. They liked me because I am beautiful, funny and smart and I made them look good on campus, in church or in their family. In those relationships, I will hear my man make silly non factual arguments and I will many times let his slide to protect his fragile manhood. Its no secret that African men like to lead, howbeit blindly sometimes. When I tried to put my arguments forward, I lost the man. But these days this babe wont settle for mediocrity, because trust me many dumb men without vision or focus parade the streets. Albert Einstein is indeed long dead and now we left with Ray Js (with all due respect to him).

2). A woman will act dumb just to get married. My ex complained all the time he hates dumb girls. He loved me because I was different from other women. I had brain beauty and class (very funny). He cheated on me with a girl who dropped out of school, who used to worship him (in his words not mine). Gimme a break fellas "worship" really? I keep worship for God, who deserves it and rewards me for reverencing him. Anyways, we parted ways and even though we friends now and he complains how silly his girl friend is that she thought London was a country, he is getting married to her.

3). Maybe a woman is dumb just because she is, Like men we have some intelligent and some who quite frankly should be shipped to mars. Wasting off on this planet and leaving productivity and family growth in the hands of many a single mum (YA DIG?).

Anyways, if you are an intelligent woman with goals out there please emulate the Oprahs of this world. There is a man for you and there is no need to settle, hence, you promote threads like this. I met a brilliant lawyer who gave up her career for her husband who beats her non stop. She regrets now 7 years later as she is incredibly miserable. So all the S. David Borhas in the house ( CEO Stanbic IBTC is female), stay focused men who appreciate us are few but they exist, until then focus still,

Bravo!
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by AntiTerrorist: 5:37pm On Sep 20, 2023
BloodShed1:
The sexier a woman is, the dumber she is, generally.

Most of the "intelligent" women are either fat, ugly or both.
My observation too. What could be the reason.
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:02pm On Sep 20, 2023
YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:

You actually thought you said something intelligent lmao
It's female selection that destroys society and weakens civilizations over time

The bolded, how exactly does female selection destroy society?

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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy: 1:02am On Sep 21, 2023
Fountainofyouth:


The bolded, how exactly does female selection destroy society?
America
The women have the freedom to choose whoever they want
And who do they choose?
The irresponsible but tall, dark and handsome men that'd dump them the minute she gets a baby bump
And what happens next?
Explosion in the number of single mothers
And what happens next?
Increase in the number of children without father figures
And what happens next?
Increase in number of criminal elements (studies have shown that children from single mother homes are more likely to be problematic members of society in the future)
And what happens next?
Society becomes more chaotic and disorganised

Society was way better off in the olden days when the fathers picked the husbands for their daughters
There were low rates of divorce and society was more cohesive

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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Oluwadarasimi19(m): 8:33am On Sep 21, 2023
Anny69:
Few men do. Most care about what you carry as a woman (boobs and ass.)
Intelligence is relative. I mean, how do we even start to define intelligence? I don't know. For example, lack of emotional awareness is not intelligence to me. I don't even like the way people throw this words all around.
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by IhateRetards: 8:57am On Sep 21, 2023
beejaei:


Are you stupid? Do you have a brain? These are important and valid questions that need to be answered to put your reply in context. Whats up with the whole attraction business? I have made clear that I was not attracted to any of these women. I only observed the abscence of intelligence in the majority of them. While women may make up the higher percentage of degree earners, the more pertinent question is what percentage of the whole women population are these women with degrees? Answer: a minuscule percentage. So, even if there are intelligent women, they are few and far between. Plus, since when did getting a bachelor's, masters, or PhD become any evidence of intelligence. I am talking about the intelligence that is evidenced by a proper understanding of oneself and ones environment. Most women lack this I submit. lol
I wonder why you are talking with them when you are getting your answer from the way they answer your question. Truly women have more degrees than men but ask them which invention or discovery has a woman made in this modern age that has impacted the whole world either negatively or positively.
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:57am On Sep 21, 2023
YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:

America
The women have the freedom to choose whoever they want
And who do they choose?
The irresponsible but tall, dark and handsome men that'd dump them the minute she gets a baby bump
And what happens next?
Explosion in the number of single mothers
And what happens next?
Increase in the number of children without father figures
And what happens next?
Increase in number of criminal elements (studies have shown that children from single mother homes are more likely to be problematic members of society in the future)
And what happens next?
Society becomes more chaotic and disorganised

Society was way better off in the olden days when the fathers picked the husbands for their daughters
There were low rates of divorce and society was more cohesive


So you're blaming mothers for the high rate of irresponsible men, blaming mothers for raising their kids alone instead of focusing of why there are so many deadbeat roaming the streets, why men are never there to raise their kids along with the women but instead choose to be absentees and useless, so women are the cause of wars, terrorism, bandits, corruption, yahoo, agberos, thugs, fraud, boko haram, failed economy that we are currently facing abi?

How you people think on this forum is so stinky it rubbishes any logical reasoning, instead of you men to create awareness for yourselves on how to curb evilness that sits pretty in your mind and heart, you are blaming it all on who they sleep with, women should not choose whoever they want? We shouldn't have freedom of choice? You are using America as the basis of what is happening in other societies? single mothers are not many in Nigeria compared to western countries, there are more children from married homes here, problematic kids dont come from these homes? so what exactly is the cause of the rampant kidnapping and other evil things I cited in my first paragraph? You Nigerian men are destroying this country on per minute basis yet you're blaming single mothers, something is definitely wrong with most of you here, you prefer to hide under females behind and blame them instead of facing yourselves head on and solve the constant rampant degradation amongst yourselves, are you scared of facing yourselves ni? Nigerian men are known for terrible things abroad yet you're blaming single mothers, check yourselves, cos this type of reasoning is not normal.

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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:01am On Sep 21, 2023
IhateRetards:
I wonder why you are talking with them when you are getting your answer from the way they answer your question. Truly women have more degrees than men but ask them which invention or discovery has a woman made in this modern age that has impacted the whole world either negatively or positively.


What invention has black/ African/ Nigerian men discovered in this modern age that impacted the world positively? Abi you want to hide under the white mens cloak to form equal as them? Don't get it twisted you guys are seen as bottom barrel, so if you want to boast of anything, make sure it's something you created on your own, even if it's toothpick.

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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by IhateRetards: 11:29am On Sep 21, 2023
Fountainofyouth:



What invention has black/ African/ Nigerian men discovered in this modern age that impacted the world positively? Abi you want to hide under the white mens cloak to form equal as them? Don't get it twisted you guys are seen as bottom barrel, so if you want to boast of anything, make sure it's something you created on your own, even if it's toothpick.
Cry me a river. I am not the cause of your frustrations, yes black men in Nigeria have invented things but because we are not given the same playing field as our white counterpart but you would not know this because you have come with an agenda. Better go and look for something better to do because Tinubu has not yet started with us yet if not your fountain of youth will become dryer than the Sahara Desert
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:32pm On Sep 21, 2023
IhateRetards:

Cry me a river. I am not the cause of your frustrations, yes black men in Nigeria have invented things but because we are not given the same playing field as our white counterpart but you would not know this because you have come with an agenda. Better go and look for something better to do because Tinubu has not yet started with us yet if not your fountain of youth will become dryer than the Sahara Desert


Oh so you know black men were not given same playing field but you were quick to degrade women that face same, then add yourselves to white men's achievement to prove a useless point abi? No wonder you hate your retarded self, Tinubu, a man same as you is destroying the country yet you think you can use that to insult me? Something everyone is facing right now? Go and look for something meaningful to do with your life instead of looking for ways to castigate women.

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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by IhateRetards: 12:43pm On Sep 21, 2023
Fountainofyouth:



Oh so you know black men were not given same playing field but you were quick to degrade women that face same, then add yourselves to white men's achievement to prove a useless point abi? No wonder you hate your retarded self, Tinubu, a man same as you is destroying the country yet you think you can use that to insult me? Something everyone is facing right now? Go and look for something meaningful to do with your life instead of looking for ways to castigate women.
You see why being emotional does not help, where did you see me attaching myself to the white man achievement and degrading women. Sis not everybody needs to be validated by the white man to feel alright but I will tell you as long as you keep on coming at me with an agenda I will drink your tears😭. Yes not all women are as intelligent as men just like it is the other way too and those women refused to answer his question instead they were bashing him while waiting for who will drop a point that they will hide behind and champion it talking about herd mentality just like how you came to this thread with an agenda but you will not get me and I love women so you saying that I degrade women is a figment of your imagination and yes Tinubu will deal with Nigerians and if your not prepared your fountain of youth will run dry.
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy: 8:07pm On Sep 23, 2023
Fountainofyouth:



So you're blaming mothers for the high rate of irresponsible men, blaming mothers for raising their kids alone instead of focusing of why there are so many deadbeat roaming the streets, why men are never there to raise their kids along with the women but instead choose to be absentees and useless, so women are the cause of wars, terrorism, bandits, corruption, yahoo, agberos, thugs, fraud, boko haram, failed economy that we are currently facing abi?

How you people think on this forum is so stinky it rubbishes any logical reasoning, instead of you men to create awareness for yourselves on how to curb evilness that sits pretty in your mind and heart, you are blaming it all on who they sleep with, women should not choose whoever they want? We shouldn't have freedom of choice? You are using America as the basis of what is happening in other societies? single mothers are not many in Nigeria compared to western countries, there are more children from married homes here, problematic kids dont come from these homes? so what exactly is the cause of the rampant kidnapping and other evil things I cited in my first paragraph? You Nigerian men are destroying this country on per minute basis yet you're blaming single mothers, something is definitely wrong with most of you here, you prefer to hide under females behind and blame them instead of facing yourselves head on and solve the constant rampant degradation amongst yourselves, are you scared of facing yourselves ni? Nigerian men are known for terrible things abroad yet you're blaming single mothers, check yourselves, cos this type of reasoning is not normal.
emotional response 100%
i explained how female selection destroys the foundation of society, not how it causes wars, famines and economical instability
stay on point

and i dont THINK single motherhood contributes to the downfall of society. i KNOW it does because newsflash, the numbers are in and they all say what i say here. look at the black american society. the single mom endemic has made their already bad criminal reputation worse

next time reply people based on what they ACTUALLY said without adding extra whilst being emotional
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by LarryCork: 11:47am On Oct 21, 2023
Fountainofyouth:



So you're blaming mothers for the high rate of irresponsible men, blaming mothers for raising their kids alone instead of focusing of why there are so many deadbeat roaming the streets, why men are never there to raise their kids along with the women but instead choose to be absentees and useless, so women are the cause of wars, terrorism, bandits, corruption, yahoo, agberos, thugs, fraud, boko haram, failed economy that we are currently facing abi?

How you people think on this forum is so stinky it rubbishes any logical reasoning, instead of you men to create awareness for yourselves on how to curb evilness that sits pretty in your mind and heart, you are blaming it all on who they sleep with, women should not choose whoever they want? We shouldn't have freedom of choice? You are using America as the basis of what is happening in other societies? single mothers are not many in Nigeria compared to western countries, there are more children from married homes here, problematic kids dont come from these homes? so what exactly is the cause of the rampant kidnapping and other evil things I cited in my first paragraph? You Nigerian men are destroying this country on per minute basis yet you're blaming single mothers, something is definitely wrong with most of you here, you prefer to hide under females behind and blame them instead of facing yourselves head on and solve the constant rampant degradation amongst yourselves, are you scared of facing yourselves ni? Nigerian men are known for terrible things abroad yet you're blaming single mothers, check yourselves, cos this type of reasoning is not normal.



helo my uncles is a millionaire & he looking for woman who can do housegirl work & he ready to pay u a cool N25,000 naira cash a months (25) which including free house maid uniform, free cap plus free lunch & u all so have a shance to have free lesson teacher to up grade yor education so u can find a better jobs in future. are u intaresssted please? smiley
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Fountainofyouth(f): 6:51pm On Oct 21, 2023
LarryCork:




helo my uncles is a millionaire & he looking for woman who can do housegirl work & he ready to pay u a cool N25,000 naira cash a months (25) which including free house maid uniform, free cap plus free lunch & u all so have a shance to have free lesson teacher to up grade yor education so u can find a better jobs in future. are u intaresssted please? smiley

Shey eleyi gbadun bayi undecided

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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by LarryCork: 7:59pm On Oct 21, 2023
Fountainofyouth:


Shey eleyi gbadun bayi undecided


Sweet hat dont be rudes & no need for a attitude & stop a acting like goat..this is a shance for u to make moiney so don't be ungratefull.u want the housegirl job or not pay u a cool N25.000 naira a months ...cash. u want? Yes or know??(no oofencse) angry
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by okoroemeka(m): 8:08pm On Oct 21, 2023
beejaei:
Are women genetically not disposed to being intelligent? Why do they only have boobs and ass but no brains. I have been to Nigeria and almost ten states in the U.S. and it is all the same. It seems being intellectual is some kind of taboo among women, like if they were intellectual their vagina will be shut by divine decree. Women, what makes you guys averse to intelligence? Men, have your experiences been like mine or different?
you don't even need to ask such question because the answer is obvious,no matter how hard the feminist and the gender equalist will try the simple truth is that men and women are not the same intellectually,just go to the engineering department of any university and see the ratio of women vs men.
Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by Votukpa(m): 8:46pm On Oct 21, 2023
beejaei:
Are women genetically not disposed to being intelligent? Why do they only have boobs and ass but no brains. I have been to Nigeria and almost ten states in the U.S. and it is all the same. It seems being intellectual is some kind of taboo among women, like if they were intellectual their vagina will be shut by divine decree. Women, what makes you guys averse to intelligence? Men, have your experiences been like mine or different?


A disposition to intellectualism is a masculine trait. Women who are intellectual are usually very masculine. Masculine women are mostly unattractive to most men.

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Re: Why Are Intelligent Girls Rare? by MadarasBlade(m): 9:52pm On Oct 21, 2023
Anny69:
Few men do. Most care about what you carry as a woman (boobs and ass.)

Like women don't care about money. Does it mean every intelligent woman must be sexually unappealing?

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