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Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by ednut1(m): 11:23am On Sep 19, 2023 |
alphabbey1:cho cho cho. Talk the one you know about. The 10k own is for people still in Nigeria. Once you are already in the system it easier to get the care job. You can go on LinkedIn some students have gotten data analyst jobs too after graduating. Another Point is no go study useless course with no prospects 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by coverallroofing: 11:25am On Sep 19, 2023 |
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Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by blackgold2018(m): 11:27am On Sep 19, 2023 |
AllKnowing:my dear it’s nobodies portion. The way we pray on this earth like say some humans are better or luckier than another. God works in mysterious ways. It has happened to a lot people. Meaning those ones never prayed against it abi?? |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by maasoap(m): 11:27am On Sep 19, 2023 |
koonbey: It is very common in Nigeria. Most of Nigerians relocating abroad are in category of hustlers. Even if their papers are intact, they may still not be able to afford flight costs. Most rich Nigerians only travel abroad for vacations or shopping or businesses, they don't relocate. So, don't make this about him and his circles. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Khafsun: 11:28am On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:Guy UK is not US. You can't get a job if you don't a visa that allows you to work. I also don't understand this 10 to 15 years you're saying. It's not nollywood now. If you like spend 50 years, if you're illegal, you are going back. By the way, why would you ever need to spend that much on flight? Is it flight to heaven? 3 Likes |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by abobote: 11:28am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Even Lagos and Abuja here that doesn't need paper, some people won't still come back to see sick parents, let alone abroad. Moreover there coming back will not heal the sick, so save your emotion for other things 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by cocolacec(m): 11:31am On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot: When a relative's mum had cancer in Naija,the son arranged for her visa to USA to treat herself. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Nobody: 11:33am On Sep 19, 2023 |
dgee1: So many skills bro... there are demands in IT, healthcare, even in education depending on the country you're going to. People who have vocational skills like welding, plumbing etc also have opportunities if they can document their experience. 2 Likes |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by BabaIbo: 11:34am On Sep 19, 2023 |
englishmart: 😂 |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Onowu33: 11:35am On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:I will but you will never have one to take to hell even in the land of fools you and your entire family will still be slaves... 2 Likes |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Bakrabas: 11:37am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Okortor: Aaamin and I pray may the Lord bless you abundantly also, I know you're sending money home to her but pls double anything you're sending to her. You can't even comprehend how far she has gone for your betterment spiritually and physically from cradle to the position you're now. I love every responsible mother and that's why I'm a son of every responsible mother. I've something to tell you more bro 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by dgee1(m): 11:38am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Thanks so much! bigadler: |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Khafsun: 11:41am On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:So if they don't have money, why are you asking that will they or will they not come home when they already have no choice in the matter? |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by OmonnakOdapig: 11:45am On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:One could leave the UK and travel out to wherever one wants if you enter into the country legitimately. If you have the Biometric Residence Permit (BRP) as a student, worker or a dependant, you could enter and go out so far you have your money for flight and informed your school or took permission from your place of work ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS DESERVE DEPORTATION.. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by bukhety(f): 11:45am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Many stuck here cannot afford to help their dying parents because they don't have money to take them to the hospital. They are physically here but without money. If you have money you can make arrangements to help your parents even if you are not there physically. I'm not saying one is good or another is bad, I'm just stating the reality 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Sweetvie: 11:49am On Sep 19, 2023 |
folake4u:You dey mind Sukkot 2 Likes |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by OmonnakOdapig: 11:53am On Sep 19, 2023 |
ednut1: There are many Nigerians in the same Uk who got work permit to work as auditors, nurses, tech , doctors,HR etc directly from Nigeria. There is post graduate work permit of 2 years for students who graduated. Many that could not get job after studies settled for care work 5 years work permit. All these categories listed above can travel to Nigeria at will. Only people who cant leave are illegal immigrants whose visas have expired. Some of them could not come home for their own weddings talkless of burial. Abeg what is the big deal there now Person wey stay country illegally doesn’t have a choice na. This topic no follow. OP is encouraging illlegal.immigration. And violation of visa terms and overstaying visa. Normal legal.immigrant .person on .minimum wage should be able to Exit and reenter the country; take permission from work and afford $1000-$1800 for to and fro ticket. Once in 5years at least. If to just show face for house. I know people who go home every 3years. Precaution is not to exit country for more than 90days/3mo in a year if sb is still temporary status and not yet with green card. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Calitoscassius(m): 12:04pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
AllKnowing:If only prayers can solve problems Naigeria woulda been the most blessed and successful country on earth. Sadly, prayers do not work. You cannot achieve things just by praying. 1 Like |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by SIRTee15: 12:10pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Onowu33: Just ignore the guy. He's among the failed generation of Nigerians who went to UK in the 90s and early 2000s to date white girls and oppress those at home with fine pictures. Asians that came same time in the 90s have bought the whole of UK. Go to any private schools in UK, they are filled with Indians and not even whites. The Indian landlord of my former church own all the buildings on that street, up to 18 houses. In fact those guys are done with houses now. They are now buying care homes and hotels in the uk, they then import their Indians into the country to work in the hotels and care home. These Asians guys came into UK with nothing. What I will never understand is what exactly were Nigerians doing same time these Asians were doing the hard work and buying up everywhere. Black man has a long way to go. The way we lack vision at home is same outside the country. Very pessimistic and negative in thinking. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by SIRTee15: 12:14pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
NoToPile: ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS SHOULD BE DEPORTED. THEY HAVE NO BUSINESS IN THAT COUNTRY BECAUSE THEY WERE NOT INVITED. END OF DISCUSSION. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Mogajunior(m): 12:18pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
famousroland:Any reason why they withdrew? |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by ADORABLE1990(m): 12:18pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
So japaing too has a side effects too... |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Juniorangel(m): 12:19pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Two yrs ago cousin's mum died here in Naija and son was in Spain already for 5yrs with no papers yet he just had to lock up and send some money for burial, he watched most of the burial ceremony on live video call. It was not a good experience at all, don't pray for such even for your enemies. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by tshtsh: 12:22pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:I moved to Canada as a PR on May 12th 2022. Started working a job in my field on May 24th 2022 . Moved out of friend’s apartment on June - 1 2022 after receiving my first salary . Stayed at an air bnb house hunting till September 30, 2022. Moved to my apartment October 1, 2022. Traveled to Nigeria for Christmas/new year holiday on December 27, 2022. Returned to Toronto on January 18, 2023. Visited South Africa on holiday on June 16,2023. Decided to visit Nigeria from there on june 24th,2023. Returned to Canada on june 30, 2023. Godwilling I’ll be in Nigeria for Christmas 2023. All this it takes 15 years talk is BS. I know lots of people who moved to Canada via express entry that travel in and out . If you move abroad through the proper channel you’ll not be stuck anywhere. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Elxandre(m): 12:23pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:Why does he need 10k pounds though? People just pressure themselves unnecessarily. Why Airbnb when cheap hotels still abound. Is he the only born to foot all bills? 1 Like |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by luskysylver(m): 12:31pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
YOU CAN NOT STOP ANYBODY FROM DYING. THE ONLY THING U CAN DO IS TO SEND THEM MONEY THAT IS ALL FOR HER TREATMENT. 2 Likes |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by sukkot: 12:41pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
SIRTee15:i didn’t go to uk in the nineties or 2000s. I relocated back home from being born in the uk. And listen the Indian man can make anywhere his home and buillld anywhere, that’s his business but I choose to build in my own country. You sound like an idiot saying an Indian man is buying up the uk, but bro me I am in my own countrry buying up my country. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by sukkot: 12:46pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Juniorangel:he would always feel guilty and bad. But I hope it doesn’t break him 1 Like |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by sukkot: 12:52pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Elxandre:you come from jand to move into cheap hotels ? That’s how they kidnap you people and use you for ritual. So ticket cost, hotels, the whole process and settling people ? And hiring cars ? You better hold at least 5000k pounds if you don’t want to suffer |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by garriAndsugar: 12:53pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot: |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by sisisioge: 12:53pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
It is well.. UK too package themselves for us to come their country. Sebi if naija good we go stay home jejely.it is well o. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by SIRTee15: 12:53pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot: Indian man has his own home locked up yet buying up everywhere in other countries. Dumb black man, in case u dont know that's how your race dominates other races. By controlling resources both within and outside your country. The white man's reign was at his peak when they controlled the whole world. Typical black man with limited vision, I'm buying up my own country' which Nigeria are u buying...oniro. The people buying Nigeria are politicians and their few cronies. Then talk of Lebanese and Chinese who are in good books of the politicians. Better thank God a Yoruba man is now in control. At least, small riba will now leak to southern Nigeria. Otherwise, how many southerners get mouth for that country ? 4 Likes 1 Share |
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