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Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Basicend: 2:14pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Your advise is shallow. . |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by N3TRAL: 2:15pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:. Welcome, mon amour ❤️ |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 2:15pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
GetMeRight:So, do you also, out of this same "respect" ensure you include your wife in every business or project you are working on? Na to just dey carry mouth around without engaging brain most of you dey for. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Chuksy12(m): 2:16pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
You would have used the money you used in ordering the car and buying the watch to open a business for her. In that case she will also be earning and supporting the family. She will be responsible by then. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by lomprico(m): 2:17pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222: You wanted a rich gal, here she is. You should be thanking God they don't disrespect nor disturb you at all, they just do stuff for thier baby sis. There are some rich family were they will verbally ridicule you. Double your hustle and or meet one of her brothers to fix you up in their kind of business. You are still lucky though |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Berankis: 2:17pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Baba rest abeg. You no get problem, except you want to start creating some for yourself. In this current harsh economy, you are getting support from in-laws (you said you are not man enough). When I don use all my food money buy fuel finish, I don tire. I need support. God bless that your in-law family, let the support keep coming. You saw their standard before you married their daughter, shey you no ever think am that time. Yes, I am not man enough, I cannot die young, let them support me, if I really need the support. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 2:17pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
adexpa:The Nigerian master-slave configuration for marriage is not "normal" at all it is simply what the majority are raised to believe works, against all commonsense mind you. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by kajog: 2:19pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222:u saw all this b4 marriage didn't u? |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 2:19pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Miracle2020:Did Op tell you that she forced him into the marriage? |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by soundOsonic: 2:19pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222:This is the summary of all what you said. I feel less of a man because anytime I try and impress my wife, she doesn't go below her standard to worship me, and I get angry every time her successful relatives impress their own sister by meeting her standards or setting the bar high. You are not seeing the problem are you? I will be more appreciative to someone that gift me something that meets my standard than someone that give me something below my standard, especially giving me things that I have no interest for. And I am a guy. You are seeing it as a competition, your fight isn't against your wife or her family but your own ego, your inability to meet that standard. Her family seems to know her more than you, and it is strange. If you are Keen on impressing her, don't impress her with expensive stuffs, you will come back to square one. There are other ways to impress her, plan a date and surprise her by craftily asking finding out where she will love to snap pics and look sexy, you can get a beautiful fun place. You can learn to cook one of her delicious meal secretly, and impress her with a wonderful bottle of an expensive wine, remember tell her strange story on how you get the wine, just cock and bull. Surprise her with an appointment in a spa, use sense to find out if she is interested in a spa. Don't make her know, say a co-worker recommended a spa for you, you want to try it, and look at her reaction. When she complains of a stressful day massage her with oil without having sex. Learn it on YouTube. You guys thinks it is by buying them gift, gift is for the wooing phase, she is your wife, it's your thought and action that counts. Know what your wife likes. I know you are those people that just date woman to marry her. Be interested in her interest. That's how you impress woman. Don't compete with your in-laws it is unhealthy. Don't make them stop doing what they are doing. Do your own thing. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by gunners160(m): 2:21pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
olabrinks:rubbish. Why is that a lot of people are just so self centered and wicked? It is not like this is the money this man is giving his wife always but condition happens. He has 3k at that moment and if you ask me 3k will cook you a good food? That u can manage for a day . Sometimes things are rough but calling and telling people that this is what your husband gives you as a no for me. That kind of woman is a witch |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by world123: 2:22pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Sheistoopretty: You know that 3K will make nice honey beans with palm oil, Maggi, crayfish and salt. It will even make okra soup with fresh fish.😉 |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 2:22pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Obierika:Financial power isn't king at all. Sadly, to the average Nigerian , it is all that is enough to make one king. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by LookBeautifulPe(f): 2:23pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Men that like claiming they love independent and rich ladies, hope y'all see that when a woman isn't moved by your money, you literally have no use any longer. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by frog12: 2:23pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
so she is carrying the family. but the guy is trying Miracle2020: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by BigCowHornn: 2:24pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Marynwachukwu21: You don't understand life and igbo tradition |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 2:26pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
world123:See them.... magicians in poverty....3k for 4 people? |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Marynwachukwu21(f): 2:26pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
BigCowHornn:This doesn't relate to the quote |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by cutesharon(f): 2:29pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
I feel your pain but let me ask you one question - why you go marry rich man pikin? This is why the rich always wants to marry rich o. But you would have told the girl she will be okay. You go marry person daughter and cannot maintain the standards she de use to. Now you are complaining. No be love she go chop na. Her eyes don clear. Even poor man daughter de complain 3k. Them go soon collect their daughter plus children from you. Men, always marry your same status o so you can have mouth to talk oo.. But I do feel your pain as a man. Just follow her to de spend her family money....thatsall....as long as dem no say make she divorce...even network with her brothers for business and connection ooo....No lose both ways. My 50cents... marvellous2222: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by ibinaboonline: 2:31pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Nawa o. This one is deep. My brother, all I can tell you, and you should really listen to me, just double your hustle. You said they don't insult you, so that's a good sign. Is your wife's behavior good? No. Should you insist she deny herself and suffer? My loud advice is, no. Let her be. If you succeed at forcing her to be managing life when her family and friends are okay, she'll recent you for it. Remember, forcing her to not ask her family won't make them see you any differently than they see you now. The only thing that will make them see you differently is if you get to that level where you can afford the best cars and finest houses. That's why I said just double your hustle. I wonder what you were expecting marrying a rich man's daughter. In some ways, you're not being fair to her by expecting her to start cooking 3k soup when her family she came from cooks 30k soup. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Regie2bless: 2:31pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222:NA U GO MARRY WHO PASS U FINANCIALLY, FOR UR WIFE FAMILY TO GIVE UNA HOUSE IT MEANS NA UR WIFE FAMILY SPONSOR D WEDDING. BRODA NO THIS AND NO PEACE, NA UR WIFE MARRY U. DONT TRY TO IMPRESS HER FINANCIALLY. JUST BE THE LOYAL AND OBEDIENT HUSBAND TO HER, PROVIDE AS UR POWER REACH AND SHE GO COMPLETE AM BY CALLING HER BROTHERS. D VERY DAY U ACCEPT TO STAY IN DAT GIFTED HOUSE, NA THAT TIME U LOST D RESPECT. SO UR WIFE SEE NOTHING WRONG IN HER FAMILY ASSISTING BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONE WHO SPONSOR D MARRIAGE. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Quebec91(m): 2:31pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
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Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by world123: 2:37pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Hello Kobo. Nice meeting you😎 |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Neddyogu(m): 2:37pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Ur wife carry ur Mata go her family, u carry her Mata come public space like Nairaland. Who do wrong pass? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Highplains: 2:39pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
😂.just accept your fate.You knew what you were getting yourself into.You are talking about she should hide your shame,my brother there is no shame to hide..The family already knew your standing before you got married to their only daughter..Na overthinking wan finish you..Do your part,if them wan support their daughter make them support am. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by SweetDipBenny(m): 2:41pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
But u knew dis about her before u married her Go and hustle more... |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by ibinaboonline: 2:44pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
dominique: I can't agree more. You nailed it. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by xamodans: 2:47pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Hmmm! In my own opinion: 1. Yes, in this present economy, 3k can never be enough for soup, except you already have meat and other ingredients at home. Besides, your wife is from a rich home, who perhaps may not be used to such. I'm not blaming you, but I think you ought to have seen the red flag. There is nothing wrong in your wife's family raising you but it's the way it's being handled. 2. Maybe you can seat your wife down and explain how you feel about it. You know about the business they want to open up for her and you're happy about it but she should not use it to belittle you... Honestly, she doesn't understand what she does is wrong, it's the way she's being brought up. Don't use it against her. 3. Are you close to any of his brothers? |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by WantsandMore: 2:52pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
maivd:You can disagree without been salty, moreover my opinion is a reflection of the facts that human behavior has a repetitive pattern giving that the Quran was written some 700 years ago, you can not throw the baby away with the bathing water, while we take what's wise of the patriarchs we seek to improve on what we disagree on...Most modern behavioral pattern has a historical imprints |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by lamalang(m): 2:53pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Just work harder. And when she disobey you again just send her home |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by ibinaboonline: 2:53pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
should a poor man keep an ego about himself? I'm disappointed by this statement. So, poor people should have no self respect? You may say ego and self respect are two different things, then I'll remind you that OP's feeling isn't necessarily ego. In fact, it isn't. If someone saw your unclothedness, your feeling of embarrassment isn't ego. Or, is it? Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
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