| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by REALretep(m): 4:55pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.
Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.
I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.
They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.
My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.
How do I handle this?
E Pele
Ndo
Sorry
Seems like you were expecting marriage to automatically change your wife from the person she has always been.
Are you indirectly telling us she hid all these traits of hers from you when you both were dating (if you both even dated) or most likely you saw signs of these traits but ignored them.
You will have to keep enduring this...Yes
Maybe one day... just maybe... your wife could come around and do as you desire.
Unless you want your marriage to crumble.
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| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by olawaley12(m): 4:55pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5:
U wanted a rich kid, u got one. Bros hustle hard 3k not fit cook pot of soup. day play o!!! 3k for a pot of soup, me and my girl used 2.5k for bread and scrambled eggs... Learn more |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Emmanuelemman3(m): 4:57pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Aside the fact that "SHE's always calling her family for financial support",
PLEASE, IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE ?
Infact, you really don't know what God has done for you... |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by achimendy(m): 5:01pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.
Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.
I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.
They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.
My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.
How do I handle this?
Who told you not to prepare yourself b4 marrying a rich man's daughter?? Somebody that cam from a rich home you're now trying to bring her level down with your average lifestyle. Am not insulting you o, but my point is that you should have known better that rich men's children behave that way whenever they get married to someone below their class. And don't even think the family help you by talking to their daughter, they'll continue to make you feel inferior in that marriage because you're not their level. Is only your wife that can cover up for you. Maybe they want you to help their daughter cover the marriage space. Did she even love you at all b4 you decided to married to her? 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by ibinaboonline: 5:07pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
It would've been okay to "sit as lord and master over his wife" if he had the financial means? Since he isn't rich enough, then he doesn't deserve the respect he craves. You see, such mentality is just as poor as a poor man. I do appreciate your point that he should've been prepared for the direction his union with this woman would go. In fact, I think he shouldn't try to restrain the woman and I've already said so in an earlier comment. But I can smell disdain for the poor in your comment. All this man is asking for is for his wife to not have a habit of airing his inadequate financial capability to his wife's family. I think that's very understandable, even if he's wrong. It's neither ego not lording and mastering over his wife. But your comment implies he has no right to feel embarrassed because he's not wealthy enough to match his wife's family. To that, I disagree. Kobojunkie:
Having an ego has nothing to do with respect. If OP had respected himself from the start, he would not have gotten himself into this situation expecting it all to go his way --- for him in his poverty to sit as lord and master over a wife from a rich family. Op let his ego lead him and now he is letting the same ego attempt to ruin his marriage. 
2. No, it isn't! Shame is not necessarily a product of an ego. Anger maybe, but not shame. . |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 5:11pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
ibinaboonline:
■ Since he isn't rich enough, then he doesn't deserve the respect he craves. You see, such mentality is just as poor as a poor man.
■ I do appreciate your point that he should've been prepared for the direction his union with this woman would go. In fact, I think he shouldn't try to restrain the woman and I've already said so in an earlier comment.
But I can smell disdain for the poor in your comment. All this man is asking for is for his way to not have a habit of airing his inadequate financial capability to his wife's family. I think that's very understandable, even if he's wrong. It's neither ego not lording and mastering over his wife. But your comment implies he has no right to feel embarrassed because he's not wealthy enough to match his wife's family. To that, I disagree. Respect is better earned, not bought. He had originally planned to "buy" her respect with his money but that backfired. A reasonable person would have learned from that rather than continue to insist she must admire him for what he is able to buy for her in his poverty. 2. I have no disdain for the poor, I just think this is a poor man with a major ego issue, an issue that may eventually ruin what seems a good and "lucky" union that he has going for him. |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by ibinaboonline: 5:23pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
He had originally planned to "buy" her respect with his money but that backfired. Are you certain he was trying to buy her respect and admiration? Maybe he was been romantic with his own wife? Oh well, he's too poor to even buy the rich man's daughter some poor gift that don't measure up. A reasonable person would have learned from that rather than continue to insist she must admire him for what he is able to buy for her in his poverty. Chai. You keep using that phrase "in his poverty, and yet you say you have no disdain for the poor. Anyway, just chai. It's not about the quality of the gift, you know. It's the gesture. I think a man should pray for a woman that will appreciate a gift for the gesture instead of weigh the quality of the gesture by the quality of the gift. I know very well some women from rich families too will even appreciate the gift more than million dollar diamonds just because of who the gift came from. He's "lucky", indeed, but he's still a man, period. That's my point. He's still entitled to his feelings, whether he's wealthy or not. The fact he isn't wealthy doesn't invalidate his embarrassment. Kobojunkie:
Respect is better earned, not bought. He had originally planned to "buy" her respect with his money but that backfired. A reasonable person would have learned from that rather than continue to insist she must admire him for what he is able to buy for her in his poverty.
2. I have no disdain for the poor, I just think this is a poor man with a major ego issue, an issue that may eventually ruin what seems a good and "lucky" union that he has going for him. |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 5:34pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
ibinaboonline:
■ Are you certain he was trying to buy her respect and admiration? Maybe he was been romantic with his own wife? Oh well, he's too poor to even buy the rich man's daughter some poor gift that don't measure up.
■ Chai. You keep using that phrase "in his poverty, and yet you say you have no disdain for the poor. Anyway, just chai. It's not about the quality of the gift, you know. It's the gesture.
■ I think a man should pray for a woman that will appreciate a gift for the gesture instead of weigh the quality of the gesture by the quality of the gift.
■ I know very well some women from rich families too will even appreciate the gift more than million dollar diamonds just because of who the gift came from.
■ He's "lucky", indeed, but he's still a man, period. That's my point. He's still entitled to his feelings, whether he's wealthy or not. The fact he isn't wealthy doesn't invalidate his embarrassment. Read OP's own words. marvellous2222:
My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brothers sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always. 2. Well, that's what we say but do we mean it more than half the time? 3. If the woman had gifted him with a gift of the same value as the one he gave to her, would he have equally "appreciated" it knowing fully well she could have gone all out and gotten him say a Rolex or something snazzy? 4. Let's stop pretending we are in the movies for a second. 5. "Still a man"/feelings of a man do not put food on the table, a roof over one's head, or pay the bills. He knew he was marrying into a wealthy family to the only child and must have observed the general way her family treated her from the get-go. |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by bukatyne(f): 5:37pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
ivolt:
He probably overspend himself into poverty by trying to financially compete with his wealthy in-laws.
His ego will also not allow him accept life-changing help from his in-laws. This is a clear example of self-sabotage. If the story is true: Life changing help is not N250k wrist watch or changing a car to a more expensive one. Life changing help is introducing the OP into the family business or getting him a very good job so he can take care of their sister to their taste. While the story might be false, I think everyone should marry at their social level. You both would understand yourselves. If the OP's family was also rich and giving expensive gifts, he would not feel it and probably hound his in-laws for his own and vice versa. While it is easy to say he is 'ungrateful', every husband/wife wants to feel adequate in running their homes and families as they deem fit. It is this type of interference from MILs that also makes the DILs complain. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by frozen70(f): 5:41pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
[right][/right] marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.
Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.
I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.
They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.
My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.
How do I handle this?
She was spoilt by her family even before marriage So I think you should just do what you can and leave the rest If they want to open any business for her, let them go ahead Just maintain normal relationships with her family and don't feel less a man if they dont involve you with their plans You can't even fight them The only issue here is her calling to her family for financial assistance I don't think there is any issue if her family wants to raise her up by empowering her Though I think they should carry you along |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by greatefa1011(m): 5:45pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Another broken marriage loading... |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by blaise26abj(m): 5:48pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.
Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.
I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.
They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.
My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.
How do I handle this?
At least she married you . However she no try with not appreciating your efforts . But again na you go proposed and marry a pampered lady from a wealthy home . Remember that vow ? For better for worse ? Na part of the worse be this . It’s part of the marriage until it becomes better . Ndo |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by smasher1(m): 5:55pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Acidosis:
How did you transition from buying your wife a car and a wristwatch worth 75k to giving her 3k to cook for you and your two kids?
If your story is true (which I 100% doubt), then you have a bigger problem on your hands - the problem of financial stup*dity.
In 2023, a married man who afford to buy a car and expensive wrist watch for his wife is giving her 3k to cook for a family of four. How much do you spend in the market for beef alone, fish alone, tomatoes, egusi etc alone. He seems not ready. I do spend at least 30 to 40k to cook 3 to 4 soup at once, knowing it's cheaper to buy in bulk and not one one. Even fried rice or jollof rice alone would consume over 10k, unless it's not standard. And the fact is that the money is accounted for. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by ibinaboonline: 6:01pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:
Read OP's own words.
2. Well, that's what we say but do we mean it more than half the time?
Not the man's fault, then.
3. If the woman had gifted him with a gift of the same value as the one he gave to her, would he have equally "appreciated" it knowing fully well she could have gone all out and gotten him say a Rolex or something snazzy?
He should, that's my point. He should. But that's even if the woman thinks of buying him gifts.
4. Let's stop pretending we are in the movies for a second.
5. "Still a man"/feelings of a man do not put food on the table, a roof over one's head, or pay the bills. He knew he was marrying into a wealthy family to the
Well, that settles it, then. A man's feeling doesn't count since it doesn't put food on the table, a roof over the head, or pay bills. All a man is worth is food on the table, roof over the head, and bills payment.
only child and must have observed the general way her family treated her from the get-go.
I do not dispute this even for one moment. But to emasculate your husband to feed your excesses, well, you're who you are.
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| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by gidjah(m): 6:15pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Thank you for revealing the secret.tot it was a direct event on one of ours here on NLD, the case requires a lot of wisdom else one might slide while trying to give counsel.Toubreally need to be able to maintain a balance over this matter.Thays why I would just keep on reading comments. LadyPortable:
You forgot to add copied. Original story says 5k |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by reservd(m): 6:20pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.
Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.
I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.
They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.
My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.
How do I handle this?
It's wrong not to quote the source of this write up, this isn't your story |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Setursight(m): 6:34pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
A case of new money marries an old money…
Not even sure if OP is new money set.
Guy brace up for u go suffer a lot .
None of your efforts will never be appreciated. Either by your wife or her family. |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by slimjohn2k5: 6:42pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
olawaley12:
day play o!!! 3k for a pot of soup, me and my girl used 2.5k for bread and scrambled eggs...
Learn more Wait till una marry, u go know the difference between love n money |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by slimjohn2k5: 6:43pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
lordnkem000:
U really no Sabi cooking if so. My mom dey use 1500 cook okro soup I chop like mad. My ex dey use 2k cook stew and soup sef we manage that year. Few weeks ago I carry 2k cook egusi soup and my date that day no believe say na me cook or the amount. Bro go learn We r talking about married folks n not boyfriend n girlfriend. |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Novemberaura(m): 6:50pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
A man is Nada without his ego.
The lady's family are mad. Right thing to do is to help their inlaw level up since they don't question his love and devotion to their sister. Once he is as rich enough he will give their sister that same lifestyle d offer. If na me be d guy, I will walk out of the union. I have walked out of Union bank how much more a marriage union. |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Clinghton: 7:03pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
They nature of your cross isn't very bad, just enjoy it by mingling with the wealthy in-laws.
The problem is you're an independent man you should have tripled your hustle before marriage, no go kill yourself.
If you can't fight them join them. |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by bashlek(m): 7:05pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.
Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.
I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.
They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.
My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.
How do I handle this?
Marry second wife for your dear life. I have little experience from what you are going through. Please marry second wife. Everything will balance |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by darealez(m): 7:09pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:
Correction... OP is broke does not mean his wife is broke. The issue here is when OP is broke, his wife is able to dig into her resources in order to fill up the gap. I just spotted how quick it was for you to split them. Op is broke, wife ain't broke....RED FLAG!!! When he has money, we have money... Do I mean don't reach out to family? No. I mean, it has to be a unanimous decision. That was the oath they took...for better for worse!! I don't want anyone who sees home a two entity playing a game. Got to be us, as one, doing the deal. |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by okerekingsley90: 7:16pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5:
U wanted a rich kid, u got one. Bros hustle hard 3k not fit cook pot of soup. The man is something else. Does he want to claim he didn't know what he was getting his hands into before the marriage abi this story na fake ? |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by QueenDima47(f): 7:30pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
dominique:
The kind of whiny cry babies we have as men today ehn! Tufia! Marry a poor girl, he'll come and whine that she and her family wants to kill him with billings. Oya marry a rich girl, he will come and whine that her family is taking over his responsibility and making him feel less than a man. What exactly do you men want?
Now oga op, you gave your wife 3k to cook food for yourself, herself and 2 kids as per magician wey she be. What kind of food is 3k supposed to cook? Should she starve because she's married to you when she knows she has a financially comfortable family that can bail her out? Would you have preferred if she had gone to her ex, or one toaster eyeing her on the streets for support? You should be happy you're married to a woman from a comfortable supportive family. You have said it all.👍 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by trytillmake(m): 7:33pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Oga dis one hard o, she wants comfort and her people are ready to give her including her children as e be, e be like say na man she just dey find to marry and that's u.
Guy u just gat cope, nr let worry finish u, provide. For yr family and children do as u can, at least na her people no be another man. |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by trytillmake(m): 7:34pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
bashlek:
Marry second wife for your dear life. I have little experience from what you are going through. Please marry second wife. Everything will balance Make him marry second wife with 2 children already, na u go feed am abi |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by XXCASH: 7:36pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2:
seems like she came from well to do family, she's not use to "that kind lifestyle".
you knew what you signed up for
well there two things here , you either stop trying or you up your game . Well summed up. Good man |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Clazzone(m): 7:36pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
What do we really want as humans....  ? |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 7:36pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
darealez:
I just spotted how quick it was for you to split them. Op is broke, wife ain't broke....RED FLAG!!! When he has money, we have money...Do I mean don't reach out to family? No. I mean, it has to be a unanimous decision. That was the oath they took...for better for worse!!
I don't want anyone who sees home a two entity playing a game. Got to be us, as one, doing the deal. Stop lying! |
| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Tyktoker: 7:38pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
You have a good problem! marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.
Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.
I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.
They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.
My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.
How do I handle this?
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| Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 7:43pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
ibinaboonline:
I do not dispute this even for one moment. But to emasculate your husband to feed your excesses, well, you're who you are. No one emasculated him since he must have observed all of this before the marriage. He instead needs to find other ways to define his "masculinity" in his marriage if that is at all necessary. Money definitely aint gonna be it since his wife is about to get her own business. So he needs to "prove" himself some other way, deal with his insecurities, or divorce the woman. |
