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MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo



As a man, you are the Boss of the family. Just like a captain of a ship or plane. It is your responsibility to take control and lead.

The moment your wife start insulting you directly to your face, am sorry to say that you have failed, it will take God grace and hard work to gain your respect back.

Never ever give room to a woman to insult you directly to your face not even jokenly, women are like children.

None of my side chicks dare call me the name 'BABY' not even my wife, that is were disrespect start from, you are the BOSS not the BABY
They all refer to me as 'SIR', except my wife who mostly refer to me as 'MY EXCELLENCY, MY LOVE OR MY KING'

My Brother, Your wife don see you finish

SOLUTION: Look for a god fearing side chick, who will respect and be praying for you and start f*cking her. Ignore your wife, come home very late, some days don't even come home. Let her suspect that you are f*cking outside, but make sure she don't find out but let her be suspecting. When you come home play with the children, buy them gift and go to bed, don't even touch her. Provide for the family, always be happy for no reason, make sure you don't keep an angry face, start dressing nice, buy an expensive perfume and use it, start wearing nice jeans and T-shirts etc.

Stop talking too much, let your response be brief and straight to the point........

(REMEMBER AGAIN ) Always leave very early and come home very late


Within 3 months her brain will reset, If e no reset just leave her for God, because won other broda don the shine her Kongo well pass you

Coleman7:
Let your words be few. Stop talking much with her.
Grow your spirit man be alive. Do whatever you feel is good to her, be nice to her.
Proceed and open the boutique for her, but don't let your mouth be open for long, always act more and say less. Don't treat her bad, even when she does so. If the heat is so much, you can leave the house and stay off for days without her knowing your movement.

Let your words be few but treat her nice.

Obierika:
Someone you're feeding insults you at will and you tolerate it?!

Map1:
Kids are involved in marriage this days, When you see a growing up Man knee down for a Jobless lady to marry him this is what you get at the end,as a Man, you provide for shelter, food, clothes, education, health, transportation and many unforseen Bill,yet she still Insulting you because you can't create a business for her on time,then if i may ask, what is her own responsibility?My brother there are a lot of better women outside there who are well established and looking for a better husband to marry, when it gets to a stage that Woman don't appreciate your role,send her to her family let them feed her for a month,if she threatened to cheat on you,send her out , before any Man can give a woman 5k now,her Toto will cry for it

Cruise777:




Na joke I dey joke ooo

Organize Boys and thugs to break into her shop at night and let them pack everything in her shop, so that her business can collapse

Sell it off without her knowledge , let her return penniless under your roof

Let's see how she will insult you while she feeds off you, and get common upkeep from you


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Wannabenz:
Just leave her and travel or go and stay with one of your guys. Stop any communications with her till she comes back to her senses.

Namaster:
What your wife is doing to you is domestic abuse. Domestic abuse from men manifests in physical abuse. Domestic abuse from women manifests in verbal abuse.

Obviously, your wife neither respect nor love you. Her attraction to you is dead. You are the cash cow now.

You have two options:

1. Divorce her: This is your best option. It's the soft way out. Zero scandal. More peace of mind. Plus, you can use the money you're spending on the ungrateful b1tch to expand your business or investment.

Send her packing and bring in a new, fresh and young 23-year old girl with big yansh that thinks the world of you. You don't have to tolerate an aging, unattractive woman who belittles you.

This is one of the best parts about living in Nigeria. The bitch gets no alimony or child support. You don't have to give her a dime. Throw her sh1t out and let her fend for herself.

Let Renewed Hope engulf her in a tight hug without the benefit of your financial resources shielding her.

She'll understand why some women are going naked to pray for husbands.

2. Beat the shit out of her: Your wife is a bully. Bullies get more confident and empowered when their victims don't fight back.

And you sound like one of those men who vow to never hit a woman no matter what. That's a fine ideal. But brash people who wilfully take actions to harm you deserve whatever they get.

She's attacking you. You need to defend yourself. Take a cue from Israel and respond with overwhelming force. If she comes at you with sharp words and loud voice. Retaliate with hard slaps and heavy blows.

Fight fire with inferno. It's a FAFO world now.

She's playing to her strength by attacking you with words. You will fail if you try to respond with words. You can NEVER match her.

Your strength is physical. Beat the living shit out of her. She can NEVER match you.

The downside to this is that you could end up killing her. Your tale would become one of the ones we read on Nairaland.

Beating her is a solution. She'll come to fear and respect you. Plus, she'll no longer feel bored with being with you. She'll constantly anticipate the next direction the vawulence will come from. Also, make up sex.

This is twisted but if you still love her, you'll begin to whoop her silly.

That said, it's in your best interest to just divorce her and move on. Don't let her drag you into her twisted ways.

Rapture2021:
Thank you,for long I stopped laughing much with her due to this her attitude,they was a time she threatened cheating on me. These ladies takes advantage of us christians who hold positions in church, thinking we cannot divorce. But I will shock her

edunaragold:
,my brother I dey your shoes too,my own wife pack her bag on her own and left to her late father house,went to tell them all sort of things,they invited me after I done pay bride price marry her,me I never went ,am a yoruba my mom is imo make me went there,now am looking for northern or yoruba ,be very careful o,orlu woman will take your child and japa if u care too much about the baby, always do as if nothing concern u,what pains me the most is her senior sister jealous as Junior done marry,but join hands together left, because money still dey road dey come ,since 2yrs I have not seen my daughter.me ma I luck up,now I have seen better better more ok woman ,I hate it when my woman insult me,just imagine my wife lay accusations on me that I was molesting my daughter a 3months old virgina ,it took the help of the northern woman who is bathing the child ,and told her this liquid coming out of your baby is like a pause from female child,not your husband,I know him ,he plays with my daughter ,he can't do this ,shame come catch my wife,pls be careful,I have let go of her ,make she stay that their isu njaba .and I came to notice that pepe body too full there family mind .not of them has called me for once to ask what went wrong ,since the elder sister who is not married came to distroyed our marriage ,I have been single since , using that medium to build and complete my house here in North.i may be remarrying from jos or yoruba ,those ones dey hear word for marriage,,and they will never tell u I want to go,I want to go to my father house, after all u never paid pride price ,she will then take the baby run ,come dey ask u for money ,till u get feed up,I tried it few times ,but I stoped ,let them have the baby,I can't be traveling to imo state like that ,see ipob,me am a soldier ,see seat at home ,make them no go plan for me ,fear orlu people,east woman are the only woman I came to understand no be everything one will tell them,she will discovered your weak point or if the baby is, then use it on u.

Therock5555:
Sir, with all due respect, lemme tell you a violent/non violent step to take.


When madam starts to para and she's all in your face saying trash, just grab her neck and push her to the wall.

Don't choke her but don't remove your hand either, just use your body weight to pin her to the wall then hoarsely whisper into her ears


"Baby girl (or what ever pet name you use to call her) respect yourself this moment, don't let me cross the line, trust me you won't like what would happen if you dare me next time, respect yourself."


Then let her go and walk out of the house, go and drink yoghurt and chop meat then come back and chill at home without a care.


Trust me, if she has a conscience, she'll have thought about her actions and felt sorry for herself. From there she'll apologize and y'all have mad make up sex.


Grabbing her earlier has proven to her that you could dish her a surprise beating anytime you wish and women don't like the fact that their mouth could cause a potential beating so she'll use it better.


I don't encourage violence of any kind but sometimes putting some people in their place is not just the right thing but the only thing to do.

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

nairalanda1:
All in all, we never do find out why the woman is yelling and abusing him

Stories like this always end up being 'My spouse suddenly changed'.

There is something OP is not telling us. Until he tells us what he is not telling us, there is nothing that can be done.

He has come to hear what he wants to hear.

Therock5555:
Sir, with all due respect, lemme tell you a violent/non violent step to take.


When madam starts to para and she's all in your face saying trash, just grab her neck and push her to the wall.

Don't choke her but don't remove your hand either, just use your body weight to pin her to the wall then hoarsely whisper into her ears


"Baby girl (or what ever pet name you use to call her) respect yourself this moment, don't let me cross the line, trust me you won't like what would happen if you dare me next time, respect yourself."


Then let her go and walk out of the house, go and drink yoghurt and chop meat then come back and chill at home without a care.


Trust me, if she has a conscience, she'll have thought about her actions and felt sorry for herself. From there she'll apologize and y'all have mad make up sex.


Grabbing her earlier has proven to her that you could dish her a surprise beating anytime you wish and women don't like the fact that their mouth could cause a potential beating so she'll use it better.


I don't encourage violence of any kind but sometimes putting some people in their place is not just the right thing but the only thing to do.

Watinhapen:
Men that can’t control their wives aren’t supposed to be called men. This is my personal view. They haven’t born a woman that will insult me in my own house. It’s either you’re ready to be a good wife or you get out of my house. If not I may commit murder. I don’t take rubbish. My wife thanks me everyday for being a good husband to her. I’m a good husband to her because she’s a good wife. I can’t deal with a bad woman at all. God forbid.

aysnoopy:
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Be like u never jam mad woman b4
Na that time insult go start. She'll tell u if u don't beat her, no be Ur papa born u.
I think you're still in your 20s and you're not married yet, if not u won't even say this

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Cruise777:




Na joke I dey joke ooo

Organize Boys and thugs to break into her shop at night and let them pack everything in her shop, so that her business can collapse

Sell it off without her knowledge , let her return penniless under your roof


Let's see how she will insult you while she feeds off you, and get common upkeep from you



Best remedy. I concur.
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Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Fredrickbill:
some men are so so weak I will always advisable don't get married if you can't control your home a weak man can't lead his home and laying your hands on a woman makes you weaker there are many ways do deal with her, anyway weak man carry your cross go and do what she want and keep quiet if she insult you apologize

Rapture2021:
She has been like this long before she gave birth,man is just managing and praying she changes. Not easy to be honest,not easy at all,the narrative will change once a man reacts physically. I pray God takes control of this one.

You cannot look into a man's eyes and call him an idiot,a fool etc,even as I type she is ranting on me,I wish I could record her voice and send it here.

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore