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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Purvan(m): 10:53am On Nov 02, 2023
I bet it's because Nigerian men are just so much more charming, handsome, and successful than South African men. I mean, have you seen the way they walk? The way they talk? The way they handle money? No wonder South African ladies can't resist them.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 10:54am On Nov 02, 2023
luminouz:

She is just teasing you bro. Trying to set you off. It's rope-a-dope technique. It's a technique I'm familiar with concerning women. They talk a lot of shiit to see if you will lose your cool. I never lose mine. I just type a 'K' or ignore once I see the emotional yigiyaga.

The SA girl was very decent I must tell you. I didn't give her money. Infact, I don't give women money. She loves flowers so that was why I always got her flowers. So even if all SA women are prostitutes like Samantha is alluding, that particular girl wasn't and she is a Zulu babe
You don't give women money but on this thread you have admitted to giving her money over and over again which she rejected. Are we safe to believe your woman is a bush baby "egbere" because she has managed to make you go against your redpill principles multiple times. grin grin grin. Your confusion is confusing us already grin

So if she didn't like flowers you wouldn't have given her anything and still not put a ring.. grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by DND069: 11:12am On Nov 02, 2023
Lionessza6:


LMFAO grin grin. Very funny characters these online redi pillars grin. One thing I notice about the SA women on the vids mentioned is that they'll never say " I love Chike my boyfriend " or " these are the characteristics I love about Tunde" , it's always " i love Nigerian men, they take care of women, they'll pay your rent and give you gf allowance " grin grin grin grin grin. What happens when he cannot rent her " love" anymore? grin grin . " love" over grin grin. She bounces to look for the next Nigerian maga to rent her grin. Another thing, women with value will never go online to promote themselves as prize to be won by the highest bidder grin....they're are quietly enjoying their gbolas in peace grin grin. Broken women who need validation and attention are all over social media devaluing themselves. I remember another one who was heavenly bashed by SA women on YouTube for claiming we love Nigerian over our men in SA....I think the right term should have been hellishly bashed grin grin grin. She took down the vid and made another one claiming she was payed by Nigerian yahoo boys to make the vid, not far from the truth if you ask me, because another Kenyan one made similar claims some time back. Men with value don't need promos grin....their deeds speak for themselves, same with women.

This sums the argument up. Other women love Nigerian men because of the transactional relationship they engage in.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Fireoflife: 11:15am On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
Good boy...๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
your corrupt women are to us very decent women. Compared to Nigerian women that is. That's how low the bar is
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Farfalla(f): 11:22am On Nov 02, 2023
Oh not again.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Farfalla(f): 11:25am On Nov 02, 2023
youngsahito:
It is painng you because our men are dominating the lazy ass guyz in your country.

Have you ever been to SA? Just curious...
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by CallTheCops(m): 11:25am On Nov 02, 2023
Purvan:
I bet it's because Nigerian men are just so much more charming, handsome, and successful than South African men. I mean, have you seen the way they walk? The way they talk? The way they handle money? No wonder South African ladies can't resist them.
You're handsome and charming but you thief mulatto picture put for dp.
You're not so confident of your looks I guess cheesy

Werey grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Blitzking: 11:26am On Nov 02, 2023
KingCold:
Its really mind-boggling how stigmatized HIV still is in that zoo, and also show how backward you people generally are
it's the plan truth...no cure yet for the disease just trying to lower viral load... I love SA women but that my number one fear..can't just accept a random SA babe greenlight cos I fear them.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by KingCold: 11:27am On Nov 02, 2023
Blitzking:
it's the plan truth...no cure yet for the disease just trying to lower viral load... I love SA women but that my number one fear..can't just accept a random SA babe greenlight cos I fear them.
You regularly diss people that live with the disease in 2023? That's rather backward
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by KingCold: 11:29am On Nov 02, 2023
Blitzking:
it's the plan truth...no cure yet for the disease just trying to lower viral load... I love SA women but that my number one fear..can't just accept a random SA babe greenlight cos I fear them.
Anyway, fear must start with your own women that give birth to these babies not far flung SA women

Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Dyfynezz12(m): 11:37am On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
The title should be "reasons why most SA prostitutes and gold diggers prefer Nigerian men"....๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
Nairaland is beginning to make u toxic.
I suggest u take a break from the forum
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by AoifeNightfall: 11:45am On Nov 02, 2023
Lionessza6:


I don't think it's egos anymore, more like mental illness grin grin. I've never met men who are so needy, and who place their value on being liked by foreigners like Nigerian men. It's actually weird and nauseating to witness .

Thank you very much. Nigerian men are so disgusting ๐Ÿคฎ
I wonder too. It's not normal again abeg. Nigerian men are damaged like their Black American counterparts.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by YorubaPrince: 12:21pm On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
It's funny you had to mention Xhosa ladies because there's this stereotype that Xhosa ladies love money more than anything...๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Madam, you're MADDD! angry
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Chemlite: 12:27pm On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
The title should be "reasons why most SA prostitutes and gold diggers prefer Nigerian men"....รญย ยพรญยดยฃรญย ยพรญยดยฃรญย ยพรญยดยฃ

What is the difference?
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 12:30pm On Nov 02, 2023
KingCold:
Anyway, fear must start with your own women that give birth to these babies not far flung SA women
I'm not surprised one bit! When a society stigmatize divorced women and encourage women to accept their cheating husbands as long as "he's providing and does not beat her" it's only a matter of time before children starts paying for the philandering lifestyles of adult men.

You will be surprised to know that most of these infected pregnant women are "wives" and they got the disease from the "horsebands" . Nigerians love to cover up a lot thereby exposing their wards to the unimaginable. Yet these same set of people (men especially) come online to act like they are the next best thing to air. Imagine acting glorious and proud because rejects of other nations want them for what they have to offer.

Don't waste your time here, they will only argue.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 12:46pm On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
If you want to know how dull these guys are engage them before a post or two they are already uttering gibberish and contradictions. I thought I read the post upside down at first grin So luminous who believe all women are the same and incapable of genuine love is here trying to convince Sam that her fellow South African WOMAN loved him genuinely. Like what's that? Inferiority complex? Anxiety to always proof everybody wrong or he's yet to get the full grasp of his redpilling shiit? Lol grin grin grin

These people are dumb no be small grin grin . Funny enough let him drop such post on the redpill thread immediately after posting that all women are the same, the fools there will still cheer him up. grin grin grin .


When you read statement like "All women are same" or "Gurlz" are useless" common sense should have told you such statement are targeted & directed at Nigerian gurl only.
This is NL were 98% of the female monikers here are Nigerians, common sense should have told you foreign ladies don't fall into the steroetype or name calling.
It is only a Nigerian gurl you will walk up to say Hi and immediately she assumes you want to toast her,
it is only a Nigerian gurl that believes you owe her money from the moment she gives you her contact and attention.
it only a Nigerian gurl that believes "SEX" denote doing men a favor.

Women share similarities, BUT mentality wise there is a huge gap between foreign women and naija gurlz, be guided

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 12:48pm On Nov 02, 2023
SuperOnyi:




shocked


I don't know about these "relationship rules" you mentioned above, I do know one thing: relationship shouldn't be built on such foundation which is why people get married outside the culture, social class or race.

I don't know what the heck is going on with this SA vs Naija. I wouldn't even know what SA means, if not for Nairaland; we call the country its full name (or so we thought) South Africa.



Apt ...



By the way, SA is also an acronym for Saudi Arabia on Nl ...

I just knew that yday...


grin grin grin grin
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 12:49pm On Nov 02, 2023
Oh not this Nl reject again! grin grin grin

Of all people to converse with lol definitely not you obsessed dimwit barging in on ladies' posts every now and then.

Boy swerve!

Allow adults converse!

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Blitzking: 12:49pm On Nov 02, 2023
KingCold:
You regularly diss people that live with the disease in 2023? That's rather backward
I don't prevention is the best option here...when a cure is finally out we will see it like malaria..where after a 3 day course of ACT D.S u are good to go.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 12:57pm On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
Oh not this Nl reject again! grin grin grin

Of all people to converse with lol definitely not you obsessed dimwit barging in on ladies' posts every now and then.

Boy swerve!

Allow adults converse!

I bet he hit his foot against a stone while rushing to quote you. Such a disgusting being. grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 12:58pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


One of the few women capable of love found her way into the arms of a redpiller and guess what, she's still an EX. She didn't get the ring.

Haqhaqhaq!!!


Maybe OP goofed, buh from a logical point of view are all women the same true true ??
using the samantha monicker, is there any semblance between how she responds and how a coccandy that even escape naija reason.

what about aunty linda claiming feminist/independent, how did she endup.

A whole africa bad gurl with all her money ended up in the studio crying "somebody son go love me one day"

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 1:00pm On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
You don't give women money but on this thread you have admitted to giving her money over and over again which she rejected. Are we safe to believe your woman is a bush baby "egbere" because she has managed to make you go against your redpill principles multiple times. grin grin grin. Your confusion is confusing us already grin

So if she didn't like flowers you wouldn't have given her anything and still not put a ring.. grin

As in. Where was his pride? He was literally begging her to chop his money.

I don't give women money indeed. grin grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 1:02pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


I bet he hit his foot against a stone while rushing to quote you. Such a disgusting being. grin
Judging by the way he articulate his thoughts, you are correct.

I wonder why he finds it difficult to respect himself. He is the only Nler I have ever told to refrain from quoting me. If anyone tells me such i will never quote the person again but look at him. No self respect or worth. Tah Tah Tah everytime like leaking tap!
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 1:04pm On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
Judging from the way he articulate his thoughts, you are correct.

I wonder why he finds it difficult to respect himself. He is the only Nl I have ever told to refrain from quoting me. If anyone tells me such i will never quote the person again but look at him. No self respect or worth. Tah Tah Tah everytime like leaking tap!

Nah. He is very dumb. He would say anything to be offensive. Even if it means calling black white. If you see him physically, you would be embarrassed, though not disappointed. He looks like a sorry case.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 1:10pm On Nov 02, 2023
luminouz:

She is just teasing you bro. Trying to set you off. It's rope-a-dope technique. It's a technique I'm familiar with concerning women. They talk a lot of shiit to see if you will lose your cool. I never lose mine. I just type a 'K' or ignore once I see the emotional yigiyaga.

The SA girl was very decent I must tell you. I didn't give her money. Infact, I don't give women money. She loves flowers so that was why I always got her flowers. So even if all SA women are prostitutes like Samantha is alluding, that particular girl wasn't and she is a Zulu babe
So if I want a non south African prostitute chic ... I look the Zulu way.


Thanks for the heads-up ..


Now it's zulu or nothing ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 1:12pm On Nov 02, 2023
SuperOnyi:




shocked


Thanks alot boss ๐Ÿ™Œ. I understand what she's doing. At least, except from knowing Nelson Mandela and Nasty C are from South Africa, I now know most of their women (especially those married to foreigners) are "prostitutes".
no no no .. there's an exception .. She has to be Zulu ...


๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 1:20pm On Nov 02, 2023
Lionessza6:


LMFAO grin grin. Very funny characters these online redi pillars grin. One thing I notice about the SA women on the vids mentioned is that they'll never say " I love Chike my boyfriend " or " these are the characteristics I love about Tunde" , it's always " i love Nigerian men, they take care of women, they'll pay your rent and give you gf allowance " grin grin grin grin grin. What happens when he cannot rent her " love" anymore? grin grin . " love" over grin grin. She bounces to look for the next Nigerian maga to rent her grin. Another thing, women with value will never go online to promote themselves as prize to be won by the highest bidder grin....they're are quietly enjoying their gbolas in peace grin grin. Broken women who need validation and attention are all over social media devaluing themselves. I remember another one who was heavenly bashed by SA women on YouTube for claiming we love Nigerian over our men in SA....I think the right term should have been hellishly bashed grin grin grin. She took down the vid and made another one claiming she was payed by Nigerian yahoo boys to make the vid, not far from the truth if you ask me, because another Kenyan one made similar claims some time back. Men with value don't need promos grin....their deeds speak for themselves, same with women.



In your own conclusion Nigerian men are paying foreign ladies to promote there image/identity cheesy
Even the Uk/US women that fly into Nigeria and end up at ikoyi registry, that was all promo to abi
Wizkid & davido has how many foreign baby mama, yet Dj cuppy with all her father billions can't even hold one foreign boy down.

Even if we use national budget do promo for naija gurlz, who wants them cheesy
Pocohantas does freelance how many foreign male client had made that horrible mistake of making passes at her

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 1:26pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:

Even if we use national budget do promo for naija gurlz, who wants them cheesy
Pocohantas does freelance how many foreign male client had made that horrible mistake of making passes at her

1) I don't freelance anymore, I work remotely for a tech/business solution firm in the UK. A fulltime 9-5 job

2) I don't have clients, what we have are partners as my firm is a B2B. So our interractions are professional.

3) They don't make passes at me. You are thinking the Nigerian way, not just Nigerian, but like a DUMB MALE you are. If you like, go make PASSES at a female in a professional workplace outside the country. You would get slammed with a sexual harrassment charge and learn to keep your feelings to yourself.

4) I am not here for white males to make passes at me. I am not like you guys that fall over yourselves or weigh your worth by white validation. My man is black, Nigerian and over 6ft tall. I am here for the money. I do my work and get paid. I am valued for my work ethics. That is what brought me this far, not passes. If e easy, make any of your female family members do am.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 1:27pm On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
I'm not surprised one bit! When a society stigmatize divorced women and encourage women to accept their cheating husbands as long as "he's providing and does not beat her" it's only a matter of time before children starts paying for the philandering lifestyles of adult men.

You will be surprised to know that most of these infected pregnant women are "wives" and they got the disease from the "horsebands" . Nigerians love to cover up a lot thereby exposing their wards to the unimaginable. Yet these same set of people (men especially) come online to act like they are the next best thing to air. Imagine acting glorious and proud because rejects of other nations want them for what they have to offer.

Don't waste your time here, they will only argue.
Men philandering lifestyle ...


grin grin

If them no just drag men into their bullshit ... Their life no dey ever balance ...

Women no get philandering lifestyle .. The ones hopping on numerous dicks out there in name of whocup no get philandering lifestyle ...


The day a situation will come up and these genders will own up to their shiit and not drag the men into it or even blame the men for it, it's that the day this world will come to an end ..


Yikes
angry angry
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 1:29pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:



When you read statement like "All women are same" or "Gurlz" are useless" common sense should have told you such statement are targeted & directed at Nigerian gurl only.
This is NL were 98% of the female monikers here are Nigerians, common sense should have told you foreign ladies don't fall into the steroetype or name calling.
It is only a Nigerian gurl you will walk up to say Hi and immediately she assumes you want to toast her,
it is only a Nigerian gurl that believes you owe her money from the moment she gives you her contact and attention.
it only a Nigerian gurl that believes "SEX" denote doing men a favor.

Women share similarities, BUT mentality wise there is a huge gap between foreign women and naija gurlz, be guided


WORD!

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by UmmuFarrah(f): 1:34pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


1) I don't freelance anymore, I work remotely for a tech/business solution firm in the UK. A fulltime 9-5 job

2) I don't have clients, what we have are partners as my firm is a B2B. So our interractions are professional.

3) They don't make passes at me. You are thinking the Nigerian way, not just Nigerian, but like a DUMB MALE you are. If you like, go make PASSES at a female in a professional workplace outside the country. You would get slammed with a sexual harrassment charge and learn to keep your feelings to yourself.

4) I am not here for white males to make passes at me. I am not like you guys that fall over yourselves or weigh your worth by white validation. My man is black, Nigerian and over 6ft tall. I am here for the money. I do my work and get paid. I am valued for my work ethics. That is what brought me this far, not passes. If e easy, make any of your female family members do am.
cheesy
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 1:36pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


Nah. He is very dumb. He would say anything to be offensive. Even if it means calling black white. If you see him physically, you would be embarrassed, though not disappointed. He looks like a sorry case.
Whoever dedicates years and different monickers to trolling female monikers will no doubt be a sorry case. I'm not surprised... I really don't want to be on his list. If sensible people are obsessed with me i will be happy but him Nahhhhhh, no one wants a mole

He should carry his attention and mention elsewhere .

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