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Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by Basicend: 1:18pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
gadgetplanetng: She breaks up na. . Before nko. . |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by PepeXKermit: 1:18pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Imagine that society expects men to be rich before getting women, now tell me, a man who has beaten that cycle of poverty and made money, society now wants to dictate to him to be with one woman, how? If that is the criteria have women now, why should i stick with just one. 7 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by UnfairLife7(m): 1:19pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
[quote[b] author=ArcSEMPECJ post=126788359]I have seen a friend who was driving his Dad's toketoke car and was not rich then but he found a pretty lady and wedded her.... Today, they are residing in UK.....yes UK....[/b] Once it is Marriage issue ..... Poverty in marriage is different from a broke single guy ....or single girl... Marry because you saw talent, visions, humble, focused and a God fearing personality.... Proverb 22. 4.....With humility and fear of God, Riches and honor are granted to a man... Remember too, that I have seen a top GLO staff resigned from his work due to death threats he received .....and for years, he had to move from the city he was , down to the city where his parents resides., Because he couldn't pay his house rent again.... This was a man who has a duplex under mortgage, an official office car, and two other cars , his wedding was the talk of the Town then ...but today he is trying to build another personality in Agriculture.... That woman is either a toddler in life experiences or just an attention seeker.....[/quote]If this your point truly hold water, Nigeria will not be the capital of poverty and unemployment in the world. In other words, your case study is just one out of millions |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by greypencils: 1:19pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Where she go see poor man if she herself is not poor. Wetin Cuppy Otedola dey find for Ajegunle? Idiots everywhere. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by ukaface(f): 1:21pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Definition of poor is subjective |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by PepeXKermit: 1:21pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
KarinaSlim: Call family meeting because of infidelity? You are not serious. You and your sister. You botg will also be surprised that the grass is not greener the place you think it is. Women advicing women. Goodluck 5 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by UnfairLife7(m): 1:21pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
spencekat:keep decieving yourself. Under 21 girls are getting married every Saturday. The same men that claimed when they're fully ready for marriage, they'd go for the younger ones 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by jeff1607(m): 1:22pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
modernWays: Meaning a woman is married to a man's job or his source of livelihood, once it is gone , she has every right to leave because he becomes poor after a poor investment gone wrong or gets disabled of some sort right? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by CSTRR: 1:22pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
It's like these Ladies don't know the country they are in. Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world. How many men are even employed, let alone rich? 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by TimiRume(f): 1:23pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Ojagun:A white man would marry her for every reason you think no one should. She would get a good one in a western country |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by Lance008(m): 1:23pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Pauladex:Bad as he bad get money pay bills |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by NeoWanZaeed(m): 1:23pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
If rich man is marrying rich woman. Abeg.. Who go marry the lady speaking? Lol |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by KarinaSlim(f): 1:24pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
casualobserver: Let me correct 2 things u stated. 1) She will NEVER end up Single dear. She will still get married to someone better. 2) As for the husband, he will find it very difficult to stay married in life. Why? becos women will keep coming and leaving after discovering his adulterous nature. His Parents and family will also know that the reason he can't keep a wife is becos of his philandering nature so they will know the fault is from him anytime a woman leaves. After all, the first woman left for same reason. Even if they can't tell him his truth to his face. They will say it behind him. So he will remain alone in life. Like u said, Men are Polygamous in nature. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by ttobizz(m): 1:24pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Mhizzard: Oh no! The question should have been who is a poor man? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 1:24pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: NIGERIA is not a country to rely on.....am not using location as a data in my narration .... But with vision, fear of God, humility, and being focused, a poor man can still find favour in the sight of God.... 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by DanielAAA(m): 1:25pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
This one wan trend. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by BiGVEEN58(m): 1:25pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
The social media is a very unhealthy place. Protect your mental health by all means. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by TotoIsGud4boy: 1:26pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Psychopatheko:you're really ignorant... man up lol.. women are not supposed to work, are you a lazy man? I'm a man but I love to provide for my broke gf as long as she's LOyaL and provides me pussi 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by SirLakes: 1:30pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Let the poor breathe |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by UnfairLife7(m): 1:31pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
jeff1607:It is your responsibility as a man to provide for your family. It is expected to be smart as a man to divisify. Also establish your wife 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by Shikena(m): 1:33pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Also, for long and healthy life with good financial stability, men should avoid marrying women with no legit meaningful source of income unless she comes from a financially solid background. Enough of Nigerian men developing hypertension at age 40 because of someone whose family cannot afford basic things of life. 3 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by UnfairLife7(m): 1:33pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
ArcSEMPECJ:Thank God you said not in Nigeria |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by Antoeni(m): 1:34pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Nobody is Asking How Rich Was Her Father 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by Karleb(m): 1:35pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Same applies to a man |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by UnfairLife7(m): 1:36pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Antoeni:she didn't chose her father. She has every right to chose her husband and the father of her unborn kids 3 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by okwusdaddy: 1:36pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
The biggest mistake a man can make is to marry a liability.Gold digger,no go find work be looking for someone you would shift your whole family problem to. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by Shikena(m): 1:37pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
The fact speaks for itself. Her father's middlename is poverty & that's why she can't be blamed. She is a trauma victim Antoeni: 3 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by casualobserver: 1:37pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
KarinaSlim: If you are so convinced then feel feee to advise her to go ahead and leave her husband but I am telling you she will likely regret it in due course. When that happens just remmember you were among those who advised her. All you’ve talked about is beautiful, that in itself says a lot about you at least. I am a man, and I am telling you for a fact, beauty only attracts a man for sex. A man marries a woman for what value she adds to him. One of the 1st thing a man looks for in a woman when he wants to marry are character, purity and fertility. A man does not want to have children with a woman who has had children for other men. No man wants his child to be teased. A woman with a child no matter the beauty has her value drastically reduced. Your cousin will attract suitors if she is as beautiful as you say but again as a man don’t confuse desire for sex with desire for marriage. A woman with a child is as unattractive to a man as a man who is poor is unattractive to a woman. A man who is pulling his weight can never lack for women. A man worth his salt does not settle, a woman with a child is settling no matter how beautiful. She can only be a side chick to a good man with the eternal promise of marriage that will never come. You will be shocked the number of divorcees who end up becoming companions and side chicks to married men. You said you want advice, I have given you the advice I will give my own sister. If your husband is not abusing you, respects you, is not infecting you with STDs and is a good provider, better understand the grass is not greener. The same women he is cheating g with are queen g up to take your place and with a child you will likely end up the side chick to a married man. Let me sum up, if a woman has 10 men willing to marry her before she marries, if she divorces, of that 10, only 5 would be willing to marry her. Of that 5, only 1 would be willing to marry her once she has a child. What are the odds that that 1 man is one of the men she would have been willing to marry when she was single? Point is as a divorced woman with a child, if you are lucky to find a husband you would most likely have to settle for a man that was not not one of your top choices and you probably would not have considered if you were single and he 80% chance he will still cheat on you. You will then be forced to ask yourself how bad was the husband I divorced. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by shakdav(m): 1:37pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
KarinaSlim:And u think that is the best you can do to helo her.. Let discuss mature, do u think if she divorce him and move forward and u think the men out there dont cheap or what, men in married (some) cheap and their wives knows it but they bear or endure it, marriage is not something to joke with play and advice someone to leave by the way u are not married that is her first mistake of sharing the issues with u, while not confer on your older ones for advice or way forward, the outside world is not what she thinks there are people, ladies dieing to have a home and she has let her worl it out and stay before regretting and blaming u that u are the course of are broken marriage with your advice.. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by Ojagun(m): 1:38pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
TimiRume:Yes.,.an old or physically/mentally challenged white man.For whitemen,whitewomen come first then asian/latin women.Blackwomen are at the bottom for them for relationships/marriage.Nigeria is the only country where the men pedestalize blackwomen.Travel & see 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by searchlight: 1:40pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
modernWays:For me it is a sin to marry a broke woman. 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by hillaryfaith: 1:40pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
May God have mercy on you if you ever marry, some one will just wakeup and provoke misfortune on herself . |
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