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Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Nlanalyst: 1:15pm On Nov 05, 2023
burg93:



When are you leaving your own marriage?? just this morning you complained about your husband choking you! Ahnie
That one is nothing but an attention seeking faker. Going through the worst and unimaginable marriage but will be the first to preach divorce. Such a pity.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by chukwuebuka65(m): 1:15pm On Nov 05, 2023
LadyG05:



You must be a wicked man to think that 15k for 2 kids is sufficient a month. Even if you stock the house with foodstuffs, there is no where 50k will be sufficient.


You expect this woman to feed each child with #250 daily ( morning, afternoon and night)

You said one of the children is not yours so her mom should fend for her.


If you continue in this wickedness, Go.d will send help to them but your end will be miserable.

Is the lady handicapped? Can she add her own? The guy is already paying for rent plus school fees. Nobody is even asking how much the guy makes. What if he is not that buoyant. The lady should add her own as the children belong to both of them.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by AceVentura: 1:15pm On Nov 05, 2023
15k monthly to buy what?

You must be a joker! In this economy, What can that buy for even 1 child?

Go & make money my friend.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Uniquekriss(m): 1:16pm On Nov 05, 2023
Wetin konsain us... Run your home anyhow u wanna run it. There is no same adult who needs any advise on how to run his life except he needs prayers or he's under an attack. You have already taken your actions, what more advise do you want.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by vickydevoka(m): 1:16pm On Nov 05, 2023
LadyG05:



You must be a wicked man to think that 15k for 2 kids is sufficient a month. Even if you stock the house with foodstuffs, there is no where 50k will be sufficient.


You expect this woman to feed each child with #250 daily ( morning, afternoon and night)

You said one of the children is not yours so her mom should fend for her.


If you continue in this wickedness, Go.d will send help to them but your end will be miserable.
Na when the man die, she got appreciate 15k plus school fees, medical n rent money. Talking from experience. I no person way say de husband no de try. De husband come out en hand for bf thing come finally die. De lady suffer sotey she died. Omo!! De women refuse to drop her expensive lifestyle untill all her money finished. She went to villages to be selling okrika yet poverty finished her bcus she de owe all her friends, no help, no husband, husband brother say she kill their brother. Omo!! Appreciate watin u get no be until u loose am
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by horlahwaley(m): 1:17pm On Nov 05, 2023
15k monthly is 500 per day and you said its for children. Hope you will be supplying food stuff with that 15k and by the way you have to pay your wife too for taking care of the children untill she remarry. Pity someones daughter man. What if some guy is doing that to your sister?
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Ficeo(m): 1:17pm On Nov 05, 2023
You for make the story look real small.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Kollyman: 1:17pm On Nov 05, 2023
Henrydata:


From this write up. It's obvious you share majority of the problem in the union

15k what?..

Dash him the money .....

You can stay at your comfort zone and castigate your fellow man.

Do you think it is easy?

Wait for your time.......
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by macho44(m): 1:17pm On Nov 05, 2023
Handsomejok:



For my children upkeep
15K won't keep any CHILD(REN) up, it's more likely to take them down because na only GARRI and Sugar e go provide. You Be Bad Man, Very Bad Man🤣🤣

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Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by vickydevoka(m): 1:18pm On Nov 05, 2023
LadyG05:



You must be a wicked man to think that 15k for 2 kids is sufficient a month. Even if you stock the house with foodstuffs, there is no where 50k will be sufficient.


You expect this woman to feed each child with #250 daily ( morning, afternoon and night)

You said one of the children is not yours so her mom should fend for her.


If you continue in this wickedness, Go.d will send help to them but your end will be miserable.
Na when the man die, she got appreciate 15k plus school fees, medical n rent money. Talking from experience. I no person way say de husband no de try. De husband come out en hand for bf thing come finally die. De lady suffer sotey she died. Omo!! De women refuse to drop her expensive lifestyle untill all her money finished. She went to villages to be selling okrika yet poverty finished her bcus she de owe all her friends, no help, no husband, husband brother say she kill their brother. Omo!! Appreciate watin u get no be until u loose am.

90 percent of single mothers are into prostitution, hope u knw this. Men will fk u n give u small money. Nobody go pay u better money. Na 500 naira short time u go de do. Na single mother we the use hold body for here. Any amount them de collect
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by bekpo(m): 1:18pm On Nov 05, 2023
Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?


That's very good of u!
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Procashtips(m): 1:18pm On Nov 05, 2023
When a man doesn't have money, everyone around him becomes a suspect


Who knows maybe he hardly eat, the hunger ended up screwing up his mindset.

2 children chai.

Your problem is majorly lack of money.
Maybe you married a woman who doesn't understand how to manage, so everything came together to dagbaru your head.

Religious snakes then capitalized on the situation and further screwed up your head.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Hamurabik: 1:18pm On Nov 05, 2023
I am sorry about that brother, truly.

I know it can be pretty frustrating, Tunubunomic no come help matter.

But 15k per month?
This is only possible if:
1. The children are mice
2. They live in free accommodation, with limitless supply of rice, semo, yarm, beans, pasta, indomie etc with free water and power. And their school is next door to the accommodation.
3. They eat only pebbles.

Otherwise bros, think again. You can return to your family, ain't no shame in it. At least, you would keep an eye on wastages.

In reality, many men are suffering in marriages; they're often abused: verbal & physical. Worse, they cannot cry out.

God help all the men!
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by sweetkev(m): 1:18pm On Nov 05, 2023
Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?
The law says 10k per child after divorce. It was 5k before it was increased to 10k for one child. I don't know how many children you have plus don't listen to stupid comments by bringing back that demon of a wife back into your life except you want her to destroy you completely. Saying this from experience.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by sulaimania2003(m): 1:19pm On Nov 05, 2023
I believe you must have thought about this and evaluate every options properly.
Divorce sometime maybe the best happen to happen to someone .
Find a way to increase the monthly stipend.Continue paying the rent and other expenses.
With time you will truely know maybe you should go back to your woman and go your own way.
For now ,find your Peace !!!
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Idaytesj29(m): 1:19pm On Nov 05, 2023
Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

how much do you earn monthly?
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by ceejay80s(m): 1:20pm On Nov 05, 2023
duduade:
I don't understand why people being in children into this world and will still not take good care of them.. what will 15k do
So if u earn 20k as salary....how much do u spend at home?
U guys will be talking without sense as if u are in his account
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by doneback04: 1:22pm On Nov 05, 2023
slimjohn2k5:
15k monthly?
For children, not child?
In this economy?
You are the problem in the marriage not ur wife.
You either increase the money or hustle more


Do you know the state of the man income, for him to say 15k which means he is trying to live within his means, except you have other way for him to hustle more
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by JOHNBULLZZ: 1:23pm On Nov 05, 2023
Pain for you, pain for your wife and most pain for the children. Please seek a very powerful spiritual inquiry first. PLEASE.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by aktolly54(m): 1:23pm On Nov 05, 2023
Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?
which kind nonsense wife marry? Don't you see such behavior in her during courtship? So she don't have anyone she listen to?

Well hope you have gone court and do the divorce legally because you sound immature and not like real man
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Donyenye: 1:23pm On Nov 05, 2023
There is no quarrel that can't be settled. You both should come out and tell the full gist, let us know where to start from.
shocked shocked
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by tsdarkside(m): 1:24pm On Nov 05, 2023
i give mine 100k every month and we dont even have children yet sef...

she still complain its not enough, i should double it.... undecided undecided

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Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Tetraozonaitera: 1:24pm On Nov 05, 2023
Even people who no dey leave anything for house dey shout "15k for what?" grin

Internet. Internet, Internet, how many times I call you?
E no go better for you internet.

15k for what?
Did you ask how old the children are?
If they are 1yr and 3yrs old kids. Are you saying 15k can't take care of their food if spent well?

If the guy get money fine. 100k a month is not too much. But for Tinubu era? Don't mock the guy abeg.

Only encourage him to increase the amount.


My guy increase the amount abeg. Double it or kuku make it 40k if possible.

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Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by BirtherOfKings(f): 1:24pm On Nov 05, 2023
Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

15000 naira is too small unless she is working
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Babastrong(m): 1:25pm On Nov 05, 2023
[quote author=YorubaPrince post=126784220]

You're MADDD! angry[ Read the story of osogbo man. Who told you the kids are his. You are the bigger MADDD!]
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by silverkings: 1:25pm On Nov 05, 2023
YorubaPrince:


You're MADDD! angry
hahaha Hahahahah
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by kkins25(m): 1:25pm On Nov 05, 2023
tsdarkside:
i give mine 100k every month and we dont even have children yet sef...

she still complain its not enough, i should double it.... undecided undecided
Go and report yourself to sirdickson. grin grin grin grin
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by tsdarkside(m): 1:27pm On Nov 05, 2023
kkins25:
Go and report yourself to sirdickson. grin grin grin grin

who is sirdickson....
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by smasher1(m): 1:27pm On Nov 05, 2023
slimjohn2k5:
15k monthly?
For children, not child?
In this economy?
You are the problem in the marriage not ur wife.
You either increase the money or hustle more

On a normal day, for 2 kids and my wife if they are not around and I can afford it, the minimum is 20k a week.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by sheeda995(f): 1:28pm On Nov 05, 2023
Handsomejok:



Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small
The problem is poverty. I know you are trying your best,the country is just too bad. And I know your wife too is not happy and probably lazy. Please leave and take a break
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by ahnie: 1:28pm On Nov 05, 2023
No arse to lick today?
Nlanalyst:

That one is nothing but an attention seeking faker. Going through the worst and unimaginable marriage but will be the first to preach divorce. Such a pity.
Who nor know you for diary section?
Coward!
Ventriloquist Dummy.
You can take the floor...
It's all yours.
Worry not very soon I would give you some resounding slaps.
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Offpoint1: 1:28pm On Nov 05, 2023
Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?
15k for monthly upkeep? 😂 That hardly sustain a single guy in a week

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