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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by aswani(m): 1:59pm On Nov 07, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Oh, the world shouldn't revolve around me but it should around your half-baked responses? Genius (not) undecided

Again, Indeed life happens to all of us. So, when this happened to you, what kept you from taking up house duties to free your wife up to go out and work in your place?

▢ Was washing dishes, and doing your family's laundry equally too strenuous for you at that time?

▢ Even if you couldn't go out to do the grocery shopping at that time, was taking over the cooking of meals for your family equally too strenuous for you at that time?

▢ Was tidying up your own house equally too strenuous throughout the time of your recovery?
▢ Was sitting and carrying for your kids equally beyond you at that time?

What kept you from exchanging roles/duties with your wife, so she focus entirely on being the breadwinner in the house while you help her as the homemaker? undecided

Phargbemmy,

I no tok am, you go ansa kweshion tire.

Abeg, jus tap out now and let the allegedly emotionally damaged Anti scuttle off to go and find another unwary victim elsewhere.
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by eraglory: 9:12am On Nov 09, 2023
DaddyGngeess:
Money makes every woman happy and happiness makes her cling to were that happiness is coming from
Good morning sir.
Please help my situation. I know you owe me nothing. I beg of u sir daddy.
PLEASE
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by DaddyGngeess(m): 10:00am On Nov 09, 2023
eraglory:
Good morning sir.
Please help my situation. I know you owe me nothing. I beg of u sir daddy.
PLEASE



Is not you that is always talking about how you are spending money on bet and ashawo houses How i wan give u my money make u go waste am now?

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by eraglory: 10:08am On Nov 09, 2023
DaddyGngeess:




Is not you that is always talking about how you are spending money on bet and ashawo houses How i wan give u my money make u go waste am now?
I'm honored that u reply.

Those were my vices while I was jobless and frustrated.

Now I'm leaving a life of purpose having secured the job.

That was my past sir, I'm not happy that I was living that lifestyle back then.

I have change my life for good and I have dedicated my life to God.

Woe betide me and may heaven and earth work together against me if I should go back to that life style.

It's already in the past and sadly there is nothing I can do to change it. And I'm not proud of it.

If I ever misused any resources given to me by you then I'm bring curse upon myself

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Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by eraglory: 10:18am On Nov 09, 2023
DaddyGngeess:




Is not you that is always talking about how you are spending money on bet and ashawo houses How i wan give u my money make u go waste am now?
I was the one, but that was in the past.

I know I don't deserve any iota of pity. But for Christ sake and that of humanity. Please come to my aid. I'm on bended knees.

Even if it's borrowing with interest. I'm okay by it.
I just don't want to lose this job.

Thanks in anticipation of your positive reply.
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by DaddyGngeess(m): 10:54am On Nov 09, 2023
eraglory:
I was the one, but that was in the past.

I know I don't deserve any iota of pity. But for Christ sake and that of humanity. Please come to my aid. I'm on bended knees.

Even if it's borrowing with interest. I'm okay by it.
I just don't want to lose this job.

Thanks in anticipation of your positive reply.



Smile, how much do you say i should borrow u now when are u paying back?
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by eraglory: 11:15am On Nov 09, 2023
DaddyGngeess:




Smile, how much do you say i should borrow u now when are u paying back?
just anything to get food stuff to sustain me till month end.
God bless u richly sir.... I'm indebted to u sir.
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by eraglory: 11:16am On Nov 09, 2023
DaddyGngeess:




Smile, how much do you say i should borrow u now when are u paying back?
As soon as salary comes in, which is 30th of this month. latest is 2nd of the following month when the salary is being delayed.
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Truvelisback(m): 3:50pm On Nov 09, 2023
Dainy1:
But why?
Once she starts providing everything for the family, the se.xua.l attention becomes zero.

What's your opinion about a woman working hard to feed the family and depriving her husband intimacy?

Especially in a situation where she sees her man as a lazy man who is not putting on more effort to take on his responsibilities.

Does it mean she don't feel Hot some times as well?
You no lie. They start feeling like they are the Boss.
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by eraglory: 6:15am On Nov 10, 2023
DaddyGngeess:




Smile, how much do you say i should borrow u now when are u paying back?
Good morning Daddygngeess!.

Hope you slept well?. Do u still have me in mind?. I won't be able to be online until tomorrow. I've left my place of work where I have access to communicate with u...

I'm still hopeful sir. Have a great day ahead sir.
Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by MrSly(m): 8:26am On Dec 27, 2023
Ensa777:
Because it is unnatural for her to be the sole provider for her family. The man instead of having unnecessary erection should channel that energy into providing for his family.
The bad financial situation can make a woman develop resentment for the man. Its a huge mood killer.

The woman who has become the sole provider do not want to add another soul into the situation she found herself which could stretch their lean' resources the more.

What amazes me most is that in Nigeria particularly, the woman is expected to continue with all her wifely duties in addition to providing for the family while society makes excuses for him who at that time is supposed to help out in anyway to ease his wife and make her look forward to both of them 'destressing' later. They will tell you to be gentle with him that Any lil thing hurts the ego of the jobless man. So he'd stay at home all day pressing phone instead of at least cleaning the house or doing laundry or cooking dinner. No!
What about men who provide for the family, produce for wife's needs and fantasies, even help the wife at chores, still wake up in the middle of the night after a long stressful day to help the wife with the baby, run erranda because he assumes his wife could be weak for some reasons and still perform manly duties to the wife without a single complaint. Why is women's own different? Why must the world fall because you merely fulfilled your part of for better for worse? Truly, the only animal that loves sincerely is man( masculine) women have no love at all, what they have is just feelings. That's all.

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