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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by 1Sharon(f): 6:00pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
43Ronin: They do that because they are just not on the same wavelength of the western women that they want. Before leaving Nigeria, most of them had grandiose ideas of women that they would date. Only to travel and become incels. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by cococandy(f): 6:04pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
This is what they do and they’ll be lying to their families that they put their wives through school when they can’t even afford anything without credit. The ones talking about prenups as if prenups aren’t for people with assets to protect What are you going to put in your prenups? Someone else’s apartment that you’re renting? Lol. franchasofficia: 10 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Ishilove: 6:11pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Masterito:Shikena. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by chloride6: 6:15pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
360command: No one is attacking her for her acccent, but her backward thinking |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Tunagee(m): 6:23pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Truths9ja: She is saying the truth. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Enemyofpeace: 6:25pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
What we have now are oloshos Convincing a lady who came visiting to leave the living room to the bedroom is a skill that should be added to men's CV . 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Enemyofpeace: 6:26pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Tunagee:trueler than truth. Even Mynd44 knows that she is saying the truth |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by UncleKoboko: 6:31pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Mindlog:Another crap That Delta girl jaz must be very strong... 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by cococandy(f): 6:47pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
They usually yarn nonsense in the hopes that some ignorant mofos on here will believe them and run with the lies. Spewing lies about how marriage in the west is against men I personally know 3 women who are paying child support. In fact one of them was paying child support and alimony to the man because his income was way way less than hers. They just hate a system where they can’t freely decide to throw their wives out whenever they please. That’s the end of the world to them. If they can’t do that, then it must mean women are in control dominique: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Gerrard59(m): 6:57pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Mindlog: I dare say very few Nigerian males who emigrated enmass in recent times are the prizes to the native women there, especially in countries with a substantial black population. All na mouth. Nigerian men are not entirely highly prized, especially in the developed world. Same Uncle, who when he was a Masters student was always yabbing that marrying a Nigerian woman and bringing her over to the UK is suicide mission, is now developing cold feet getting into a serious relationship and marrying one from the millions of women from different parts of the world living in the UK .....there is always an excuse! Marry a Nigerian lady based here in the UK....NO, because they are too liberated and there would be "power struggle" in the marriage! Marry an Asian lady, he came up with excuses. Marry a lady from the Caribbean, he said those ones are streets. Oya, marry a Caucasian British whey go gree for you....brother man went mute! That is what most say once they leave Nigeria. At least, in case I said, I am open to anyone, whether Nigerian or abroad. I was not trained to yab our women. It was after a few experiences and thorough thinking that I realised marrying a black African, specifically a Nigerian woman, is much better than a foreign lady. These people forget that humans are tribal and prefer other humans who look, speak and think like them. The older an adult gets, the more the adult wishes for those like him/her. If I was much younger, it might have been different. His WhatsApp status, regularly have pictures of a particular Nigerian lady who I guess is based in Delta State based on the taxis I have seen in the background, he is already talking about getting an apartment that is bigger....I still dey observe. He is marrying a Nigerian-bred lady. Don't allow him to deceive you. Just be petty with him by always reminding him about his statements about Nigerian bred women. The mentality or belief that Nigerian men are prized abroad is what has deceived many into thinking Nigerian-bred women no be am. I am glad that belief has changed significantly. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Pharaohny: 7:02pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
i no dey interfare for family matter naa unna business so deal with it .................................birds of a feather |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Gerrard59(m): 7:08pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Metrofox: Then, they should marry Arabian, Indian or Chinese women. Nigerian men marry Chinese women while residing in the west? Even native African American blacks seldomly marry women from those groups, na Nigerian bred men go do am? 4 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Gerrard59(m): 7:10pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Mindlog: That dude you mentioned is really mentally deranged. You might think I am lying, but go through his posts. He is not mentally okay. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Gerrard59(m): 7:19pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
BigDawsNet: How MANY African American men do you know that married Chinese women? Let's start from there since African American men are the native blacks in the US, let alone immigrant black African men. I have read the marriage stats as it concerns Chinese marrying blacks. In the US, VERY FEW marry black men. In Singapore, in a survey, Chinese women chose black men as the last kind of men they would marry. It is only in China that there is a proportion of Chinese women who are married to black men. This is due to statistics as China is home to the Chinese. But in a racially diverse society, there exist very few Chinese-Black marriages. Inter-racial marriages are not the norm anywhere, including the US, Brazil and South Africa - the top three racially diverse societies. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by BigDawsNet: 7:45pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Gerrard59: So because Stats said few American Chinese may not consider African black men... that means its not possible or it can't happen?... Yes, the population is low... but if truly you ready to search... you will definitely find lots of them willing to settle... they literally everywhere here.... Other good options are the Philippines women |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by FireUpNow(m): 7:47pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
FinidiGeorge: I truly pity the guy because he lost his own house and everything to the woman . Now he is going through depression. |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Badmashii(m): 7:51pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
DKM123: Na that pride and ego go destroy you. So for your mind you better pass touts and iya basiras? |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by planetx: 8:02pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by harmony75: 8:14pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
No one will pray to help you have you as a sister inlaw! Thank God man no be God 🙏 |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by jedisco(m): 8:17pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Mindlog: Pharmacist is looking for a submissive lady |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by jedisco(m): 8:20pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Metrofox: Men from 'conservative cultures' do.. But for the average Nigerian man moreso a new immigrant to the west, your best bet of a 'submissive woman' is a fellow Nigerian woman |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by koolaid87: 8:27pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
descarado: Yes, nothing wrong with the word submissive. We both know its not a slave/master. So no need to twist it. Marriage/family is just like any other institution. There has to be orderliness (hierarchy) and everyone has to know their roles and responsibilities. Any reasonable Man should be the leader of his household. Plain and simple. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Gerrard59(m): 8:28pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
BigDawsNet: It happens, but what are the chances? That is the figure we rely on to tell us if the average person can do the same. Exceptions are not the standard in any society. The norm is. If the chances are low in places like the US, which is racially diverse, then it would be lower elsewhere except the dominant society the women live in. So, it is easier for a Nigerian man in the Philippines but not in the US, and way harder in Nigeria or elsewhere. The koko be say, Nigerian men and women will marry themselves no matter the sh!t both throw at themselves online. |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by jedisco(m): 8:30pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Mindlog: Hehe... u dey mid am... People wey never see airport dishing advice |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by koolaid87: 8:31pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Dennisochampa: Bro, don't forget your medication oo. Your sickness don dey show face again oo |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Dennisochampa: 8:33pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
koolaid87:.... Tell your mum to come and give me the medications she normally gives to your dad..... |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by koolaid87: 8:40pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
jedisco: I dont think so. The most submissive women that have been tested are Asians and Latinos. They've been exposed to the western culture, yet, many stood to their values and morals. Most of their women are also feminine. Nigerian women have not passed through those test yet, by that, I mean living in a western country and acting right despite the laws on their sides. |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by jedisco(m): 8:43pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
luminouz: Your anger says it all... Mr submissive woman 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by jedisco(m): 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
koolaid87: So why are Nigerian men not marrying those submissive Asian and Latinos? 3 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by luminouz(m): 8:50pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
jedisco:😘😘😘😘 |
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by koolaid87: 8:54pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
jedisco: You are butt hurt because someone shared his personal experience. You're crying as it doesn't match your expectations. Lame a55 |
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