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ubunja:
yes, and it's up to you my guy to use that opportunity to get what you want from the woman.

Problem is that men don't want to use women for anything other than sex.
A man who truly understands the power of his dick will go far in this world.
Just as how men are stupid when in lust, women are equally stupid when in lust.




When a woman chooses you in lust make the opportunity count. What does she do? Where does she work? What career opportunities can you get through her? Does she know industry insiders she can connect you with? Can she get a business loan on your behalf? Can she get you discounts on things you want that she has connections to? Eg, if a nurse falls for your dick, that's your chance to get expert health advice and service. The women will never say no.

The possibilities are endless.

Sex is the goal of the Beta because his woman is his fantasy.

Sex is the tool of the Alpha because he is his woman's fantasy.

While a Beta will do anything for his woman, a woman will do anything for her alpha.

Beta=uses everything to get women
Alpha=uses women to get everything

Your dick can unlock a world of blessings if you know how.
Guys don't have an idea just how much even 1 girl can change their life in this simping culture of ours. That 22 year old girl who's infatuated with you and has no experience in life and you don't really like cause she's not your type although she herself has a huge crush on you, guess what's happening in her DMs. Guess who's begging her for attention all day everyday? All types of men. Students workers, managers, businessmen, CEOs. They're all in there. Ready to do anything for her. All it takes is for her to pass your name to the right man, calling your her cousin, and your life will change. A woman knows more men than you. And total strangers are ready to do a woman favors that only your very best friends will do for you. That girl chasing you that you're totally not feeling cause maybe she's not your class, may just be the one girl who hands you the business opportunity of your life through some guy infatuated with her.

Next time you're tempted to feel like being valued for your dick is useless, think about what I just said today.

Philosopher1979:
An alpha who only sleeps with women and has nothing good going on in his life is not an alpha.
He is just an irresponsible Bleep boy. A boy in a mans body. that is total rubbish
Redpill is about development and improvement.
I once read an essay in my secondary school that said if women like you it
is not important because women are like children.
You see, women are like children and fucking them is not a big deal

Skepticus:
😂 😂 😂

Their inconsistent past would always come to haunt them. Bunch of jonzing, unreliable men.

heartofcity12:
The scammer got scammed, well played Ay 👏😂
As a redpilled man, you know not to send transport funds in the first place..

Meedon:
Would you be kind enough to shed more light on this

DonroxyII:
The society was never Sane in the past
It was communal Society not Mega City .... Everybody was a King in their Village Until You Enter City Life .... You Become Nothing in The Pool of Men!

Some life comes with Mega City ....

If You want same society travel 100km inside your state Capital & You would see Society your forefathers were living back in the days ... Now Can You Pick Your Wife from There

Nah, Your Hypocrisy is smelling because You Want City Girl with Village Brain .... What was The value of the economy Your Forefathers wey no go School was Championing compared to The Value of Today's Economy ....

Women Follow Through The Value System Because They Needed Stability in order to Prepare for Motherhood... This is Women's Natural Instincts... Once She Sees You Already Beat Her Economy, She will Lowered Herself for You Automatically But If She Sees You are Struggling, she Will Consider Her Odds ...


You are one of the Problem....


Made Men(Not Made Boys) are Cheating on their City Girls & She won't yearn Dust Because she knows she can't get better Men than Him Out There ... Everything Na Business ... Be a Man & Have Peace of Mind ...

Dem no dey Use Boyish Play Men's Game


Women are The most logical specie ... Immediately You toasted her, She has begin Mental calculations On Whether She wants to Fvck You or Not & What She Can get From You


The economies of olden Days was very local & Easier For Men "Not Capitalism of Today" ...

Just own some farms, Inherit Ya ageing Father's wealth Gbam ... You have Women floating around You from Village to village ... it still happen in agrarian communities till tomorrow ....

But To Own & Control City Girls, You Needed to Up Ya Games ... Graduate, Work in Blue-chip, Conquer The Capitalistic Economy By Earning in Seven figures .... Conquer the Inflationary Rate & Be a "Man" .... If You Wife Beyonce & Cheat On Her Several Time Here in Africa, She will Just See You for You & Keep Minding Her World & Children ...


No Matter what the Inflation Might Be, You are always 10times ahead of Cost of Commodities in the Market Thus You Can Afford any Fun ...

Check Again whether Women Wouldn't be floating around you like they did Your Great grandparents...... it's Takes a Man to Manned The Economies Before Women Would Floak around You .... Their Womb Would Automatically Be Churning to Mother Your Soul Because They Know Such Soul Would End Up to Become a "Power-Player" Like You Changing The Dynamics of Their Generations!

Nothing has changed about Humanities... what Changes is the "Economy" & How we "Responded" to it ....

Women of Olden Days are Still women of Today but To Tamed Her Wildness due to Today's Exposures, You Must Conquer Today's Economy as a "Man"(Do the Hard Jobs not Lazying around) as Your Forefathers Conquer Their Local Economy ....

An Emotional Man is The SIMP.......

A Reasonable Man is The Alpha!

Proudpolygamist:
Men of those days were Natural Alphas
What was needed to Navigate through the difficult terrains then as a man required one to be Alpha.
It is this reason why our forefathers could Marry several wives, birth several kids and still be in Total control of decision making. Infact their wives and children worshipped them as though they were gods. Our fathers operated with an abundance mindset polygamy, whereas we're operating from a Scarcity mindset today monogamy


Southern Nigerian Men started losing it when the Europeans came with Christianity and Western education.

For instance, they came and sold lies to us that polygamy is evil, whereas apart from economic problems polygamous marriages have proven to be the best form of marriage in Africa.

Have the current crop of Nigerian men started living longer than their Ancestors who practiced polygamy? NO

Did women's respect for the Men increase with monogamy? No

Have our women become more submissive with Monogamy? NO

Did divorce rate suddenly decrease with monogamy? NO

As if that wasn't enough, We left our own ways of life and started copying the westerners.
We wanted to speak like them, dress like them, sing like them, propose like them, be romantic like them, etc and those who dared to be different were tagged "Bush" and uncivilized.
Meanwhile the media, movies and music were deliberately being used as a tool to resharpen our Psychology
Slowly we began to drift away from our cultures just so we could look appealing, up-to-date and modernized

Our culture and traditions were one of the most important Dread tool that the Society used to hold women accountable, but having been through the four walls of the classroom we felt wiser than our Parents who used them.

Slowly we couldn't hold women to certain standards anymore and because Nigerian women began to see how weak Nigerian men have become began to exploit this weakness.
Thus disdain and disrespect crept in gradually.

Sometimes i don't even blame Nigerian women, i blame the men because a woman is a reflection of her man.

ubunja:
in a woman's mind she's doing you a favour by being with you cause she sees she has more men who want her than you have women who want you so she figures she is sacrificing a lot and you should be grateful.

Men are the prize only when they are looking for long term commitment post wall during the epiphany phase, why? societal stigma and shame for ladies being single, they need a life long beta bucking slave blinded by romantic idealism which will serve them the remaining parts of their lives till death and reward him with deplorable duty "I don't want to be barren" sex when she was engaging in the most outrageous sexual activities with her past alphas and exes,they won't settle down in their prime years when they are most attractive but will rather whoxre it up till they become leftovers and seek a gullible brother to commit to thrash that's why they flock religious gatherings post wall.

pro-marriage redpillers won't fall for their gimmicks, our eyes is opened, no matter the sexual scarcity one experience, bachelorhood is far better than commiting to leftovers.

heironymos:
Last last this redpill alpha thing no be by gra gra...ask the OGs or atleast learn from their personalities, you have a good take bro adding the fact that we must all level up if we want that life, but your delivery was condescending to say the least.

BIGGUP GUYS!!!

Philosopher1979:
Ubunja my friend.
Women need to be delivered from themselves.

In light cant we men organize psychological counselling or sex therapy for any woman above 25 are is not taken.
Religious bodies like the church can handle this therapy so as to save our women from sexual rascality due to their nature.
We men need to help them as women cannot be chaste without the help of men

SF123:
Greetings pals. Last week my girl friend sent me texts on facebook itemizing that she wants to break our relationship as a result of me not giving her my time, attention, nor chatting her frequently on social media. The things is, i am currently in school now and i barely have time for myself as my classmates i am to compete with are all brainics. and i intend studying the most prestigous course after completing a programme. my discipline is the toughest in the tertiary institution. Should i let her go or plead with her to stay since she requested for breakup.

SF123:
Greetings pals. Last week my girl friend sent me texts on facebook itemizing that she wants to break our relationship as a result of me not giving her my time, attention, nor chatting her frequently on social media. The things is, i am currently in school now and i barely have time for myself as my classmates i am to compete with are all brainics. and i intend studying the most prestigous course after completing a programme. my discipline is the toughest in the tertiary institution. Should i let her go or plead with her to stay since she requested for breakup.

Aaron12:
your discipline is more important than that girl friend of yours,, focus on your studies, you will be glad you did the right thing

Survivor20:
Let her go, this is your chance to be a better man

DonroxyII:
I'm sorry Brotherly 😞...

Rizzputin:
Congrats! you have boyfriend zoned yourself. You might think it's a good thing but it's a terrible spot to be in.

Because going on, she'll delay sex. Delay relationship with you and literally waste your time as you try to seduce her.

You don't want to present as a bf material (which you just did) Rather, you want to present yourself as a Hook up Material. Meaning, each passing time she's not with you, she's thinking of you fùcking her.

Being a hook up material gives you an enormous edge over any guy she comes across because while she wants to use other guys for money etc. She wants to use your dìck for her pleasure. Great spot to be in if you ask me. Tonight I'll drop a post on ways you can become a hook up material so keep an eye out for it


Now... I'll break this post down into two. First, your mistakes. Then we'll switch to your next moves.


Your mistakes


- The girl was feeling you at first but you wasted soooo much time she started to doubt her attraction for you. You have to understand that girls want and fantasize about getting swept off their feet in the moment. Getting fùcked without realizing what happened

One minute she meets a guy and 4 days later his hands or fingers is fucking her. That's what she wants and craves. But this experience with her doesn't come from thin air. You have to present yourself as hook up material worthy. That is the essence of seduction. Fast, smooth knacks.


- You wasting time has already raised her doubts about you. Now, you worsened it by having that awkward call with her. At that point her attraction for you took a nose dive.

That was when her attraction for you started to really fade. At first, you were a charming man. But with the time wasting and awkward call, she's assumed you have no idea what you're doing or how to lead her into your bed.

Few things are more painful to a girl than when you raise her hopes up with good game at the beginning then start fumbling afterwards with boring bf tactics like the one you described.

The "babe" thing she calls you is meaningless if you haven't had sexual intimacy with her. Same thing with "My love" or "my husband"

Until your dìck or fingers have mercilessly fùcked her, do not take those name seriously

In fact, that's her signal letting you know that you're deep in boyfriend zone and you better do something about it. Here's the thing, you want her to see you as hook up material. Meaning, when she has that urge to get fùcked, you're the one she thinks about.


- Thirdly, when an average Naija girl says she wants baby girl treatment, she means spending on her. You do NOT want to accept this role.

Of course, you ignorantly fell into her frame (Read, trap) and told her you want to come over and show her. That's why she declined you coming over and even got disgusted and annoyed by it. Because you couldn't understand womanese..

When a girl says she wants baby girl treatment, you have 3 ways to handle it: ignore it, jokingly tell her to find it elsewhere OR use reframe tactics to paint it in another light.. (I'll teach how to do this one in a future post)

- Lastly, you nailed the coffin when you asked if she was dating. I don't know what other answer you were expecting.

She's most likely not in a relationship. And if she is, it's not a serious one. Cuz she's more than willing to get her pvssy fvcked.


Your Next Moves...


Your next steps are pretty simple.

- First, is to change your mindset: Go after sex before relationship. Your biggest problem is trying to get relationship before sex. This is a horrible strategy. And she will continue to string you along while fùcking other guys till she's "ready" to date you.


- Next, do NOT call again. If your business is dependent on going to her shop, then no p. Just be normal, casual, get your stuff and leave.

When you do this a few times, she'll start trying to chase. That's when your next move comes in....


- Slowly reel her back in. Don't make the mistake the first time of leaping happily like a dog on the first sight of food. Calmly reel her in and present yourself as a hookup material.

Because trust me, "I haven't found the man that'll give me the kind of fùck I want" is among the three biggest complaints I get from girls before I knack them.

And if these ones exist then there are many many many more longing to have a wild hook up with a competent seducer

So use this tips do your thing. Who knows, you might bend her over in her shop and pound her.

A fantasy, I'm sure she has

SF123:
Greetings pals. Last week my girl friend sent me texts on facebook itemizing that she wants to break our relationship as a result of me not giving her my time, attention, nor chatting her frequently on social media. The things is, i am currently in school now and i barely have time for myself as my classmates i am to compete with are all brainics. and i intend studying the most prestigous course after completing a programme. my discipline is the toughest in the tertiary institution. Should i let her go or plead with her to stay since she requested for breakup. I have already explained to her yet she called me on the same ideology of breaking up with her. If i heed to what she request for, i will fall out academically and it will endanger my life. She is also in school too but my course is more complex than her.

SF123:
Greetings pals. Last week my girl friend sent me texts on facebook itemizing that she wants to break our relationship as a result of me not giving her my time, attention, nor chatting her frequently on social media. The things is, i am currently in school now and i barely have time for myself as my classmates i am to compete with are all brainics. and i intend studying the most prestigous course after completing a programme. my discipline is the toughest in the tertiary institution. Should i let her go or plead with her to stay since she requested for breakup. I have already explained to her yet she called me on the same ideology of breaking up with her. If i heed to what she request for, i will fall out academically and it will endanger my life. She is also in school too but my course is more complex than her.

PinkNature:
MBBS? MBBS isn't the toughest course, try engineering and try graduating with a first class.

AyoII:
Let her go. Once her mind has been made up, it has..
Do not beg or show any emotion. Delete any form of contact immediately (that is if you cant control yourself begging) highest it will take a week or two depending on how attached you her to move on.
Then ask yourself the following questions:
-How has she been of benefits or added impact to your life since you have been together?
-What efforts did she put into the reletionship before it ended. Especially compared to your own effort
Those questions are for you to answer just in case your don't want to let go or feels like going back.

They (female) always come up with lame excuses to break up when they are no longer interested. All those reasons there are BS. Another ni..ga might be in the picture. Might be the lil breakup she initiated for no reason. Stand your ground.

SF123:
Greetings pals. Last week my girl friend sent me texts on facebook itemizing that she wants to break our relationship as a result of me not giving her my time, attention, nor chatting her frequently on social media. The things is, i am currently in school now and i barely have time for myself as my classmates i am to compete with are all brainics. and i intend studying the most prestigous course after completing a programme. my discipline is the toughest in the tertiary institution. Should i let her go or plead with her to stay since she requested for breakup. I have already explained to her yet she called me on the same ideology of breaking up with her. If i heed to what she request for, i will fall out academically and it will endanger my life. She is also in school too but my course is more complex than her.

SF123:
Greetings pals. Last week my girl friend sent me texts on facebook itemizing that she wants to break our relationship as a result of me not giving her my time, attention, nor chatting her frequently on social media. The things is, i am currently in school now and i barely have time for myself as my classmates i am to compete with are all brainics. and i intend studying the most prestigous course after completing a programme. my discipline is the toughest in the tertiary institution. Should i let her go or plead with her to stay since she requested for breakup. I have already explained to her yet she called me on the same ideology of breaking up with her. If i heed to what she request for, i will fall out academically and it will endanger my life. She is also in school too but my course is more complex than her.

heironymos:
we good bro

IAmHim1:
The only reason she knows you're not giving her your time is because someone else is giving her HIS TIME. Look back, cast forward

Understand this...there is no 'tall individual' Just 'tall compared to another'. There has to be a standard she's using to 'measure' your giving. You're not just tall...you're taller compared to someone else

And since ladies aren't logical creatures in the sense that they depend and rely on others for their experience, THEY CREATE THEIR EXPERIENCE THEMSELVES.

She knows you're not giving her enough time because someone else is giving her enough time. SO SHES COMPARING/ WEIGHING BRUV

there's someone else in the picture. She needs to feel justified to cheat on you. He's not giving me enough time= he doesn't love me

Mr x is giving me enough time COMPARED TO MY BOYFRIEND= Mr x loves me MORE THAN MY BOYFRIEND.

SO SHE bleeps MR X. It's the emotions

refer to ubunja definition of man and woman loneliness(it's on his profile) and also his writeup: that break-up she initiated for no reason

Good luck pal

Actually feminism is about the liberation and emancipation of females be it politically, economically, socially and all others facets not included in my definition. I don't know what you men are so paranoid about when it comes to feminism that you resort to cooking up blatantly false statements just to denigrate a movement. I think your problem is ignorance. Be it willful or not. There are so many branches of feminism and you have to specify the brand you have a gripe with.

It seems you lot hate feminism because gone are the days were you could get away with treating women like dirt under the shoe and there was no objection to double standards amongst others things. I'd leave you with this though: cope, my amigo.