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Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by vincenteger: 11:50am On Nov 15, 2023
Don't you get tire of sex

I wonder what you and your wife would be doing when you get married
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Barsote(m): 11:50am On Nov 15, 2023
Ola dips News never reach here? May Almighty God help us
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by NastiLord: 11:50am On Nov 15, 2023
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Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Iamsane: 11:50am On Nov 15, 2023
Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please
See your dirty legs. Mtchew
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Newton2024: 11:53am On Nov 15, 2023
Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please
Why not propose marriage to her and wed her as soon as possible? It is cheaper to have sex with a wife than with random girls out there.
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by alizma: 11:53am On Nov 15, 2023
Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please
She has made up her mind to be more serious with you than the other guy, so she want to change from being a sex machine into something else. However, while she is waiting for you to say something more serious, don't allow her to give you condition without genuine reason, if she does, evict her as soon as possible.
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by qtx(m): 11:54am On Nov 15, 2023
Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please
Are both of you married ? Chai! What a generation. We do this thing now without an iota of conscience. Na wa o
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Collins0609(m): 11:54am On Nov 15, 2023
Continue
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by waternogetenemy: 11:55am On Nov 15, 2023
The end is near.

Gen Z
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Atlantis585: 11:55am On Nov 15, 2023
It is a good idea to always bang whenever she comes over… unless she will stop asking for money everytime she comes over.

Do me, I do you man no go vex grin
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by FireUpNow(m): 11:55am On Nov 15, 2023
Una too like sex
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Taiwojon(m): 11:57am On Nov 15, 2023
I weep for you!

Dem don sell your glory.
Don't you know sex has a lot to do with spiritually, more so sex contain sweat, blood, water and salt including lot of energy

That is why bible say
Flee fornication.

I pity you because you are treading the path of sickness, disease and death.

Give your life to Jesus
Sex outside marriage is sins
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by jattopeter(m): 12:01pm On Nov 15, 2023
As a man with experiences before I married . Her relation with her BF has a serious or they have broken up and he is trying to have a standard relationship with you .The one thats not build around sex alone. She wants commitments , thats why she is trying to project her self as a wife material now. You will discover she now shows more care , reduces the rate at which she demands , all na strategy, her other relationship has failed.
Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by jayAjoku(m): 12:02pm On Nov 15, 2023
Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please
I would advise you to quickly define the relationship you want with her and keep it at that right now what she’s doing is she’s trying to Manipulate her way into Making you her boyfriend. If all you want is sex tell her all you want is sex and nothing more and secondly you’re fûcking up your sex only thing by seeing her too often . Stop seeing her every week start seeing her once every month . Don’t think she loves you o she’s only trying to manipulate you into giving her a relationship
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Lomprico2: 12:07pm On Nov 15, 2023
Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please
You be werey!

She now preferes you to her BF
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by scoobyblogspot(m): 12:08pm On Nov 15, 2023
Cant you just seat with her and talk , should be it SEX. There are signs that she is falling for you, i can see in your post. give her time and take it slow slow. Don't worry sex go taya you very soon
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Fiscus105(m):
MrDoGood:
Let me say this.

The way woman fall in love is quite different from man.

Women fall in love via process. That's why people criticize them when they cheat. Because it took process.

A woman with weigh your character, way of life, how you treat her. And if she enjoys sex with you, that's a deal breaker.

Then she starts feeling safe and secure with you. Love sets in. She's looking in the direction of long lasting relationship with you. If possible, marriage.


Men are wired differently.

A man can't tell if he loves you until he's cum.

Likeness could be an instant for either a man or a woman. But love takes different process
Read the story back, this particular girl not fall in love for whatever process, she loved a particular guy but hold on to OP, " for not only back up plan but also friend with benefits" as OP confirmed. Having realised no clear future with main boyfriend, she quickly reverse to established herself in Heart of OP. It easy for her because OP apartment is free for her to come and go at any time and money is also flowing from him to her pocket as well.
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by correctyourself(m): 12:10pm On Nov 15, 2023
Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please
It shows that both of you are free from financial responsibility to your immediate family of (Husband, Wife and Children) that is why you see sex as priority. When that time comes your body go tell you.
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by oracle009(m):
Nigerians and unsolicited advises. The page 1-2 of this topic just useless with comment unrelated to what the OP asked. Bunch of hypocrites!

@Keepamsafe, seems the babe has lost her bf and is trying to warm her way into a serious relationship with you. If you are okay with that, good. But remember, na so someone else go dey chop am while she be your gf too. So, make the best choice grin
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Taiwojon(m): 12:12pm On Nov 15, 2023
cjudy:
grin
She’s not your girlfriend yet and anytime she visit you both have sex.
God are you there? Thunder why are you far from reach.
And to think that one simp will be dating this girl and thinking he have a serious girlfriend not knowing the girl visit one guy to be having sex always.

Now back to you OP, if you date that girl, she will also be visiting one guy behind you and be enjoying sex with the guy or you think you’re the only one she’s having sex with? The girl is Ashawo, the BF found out and dump her now you want to continue. All those home work she’s doing is to draw you closer don’t fall for it. What goes around comes around. She will never change.
She can still change if she repent from her sins but it will take discipline and determination to overcome the spirit of lust and sex.

Jesus love them both still
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Bigmouth3: 12:13pm On Nov 15, 2023
Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please
Apart from sex ,wrtin she con do? WETIN UNA WAN TALK??

Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Jackipapa: 12:15pm On Nov 15, 2023
She's getting sense and sees you as husband material. Wake up!
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Pirosaw: 12:17pm On Nov 15, 2023
Sex is not just physical but far deeper than that. Any person you have sex with, you have enter an altar and a covenant with blood. Run away from sex for the sake of your life and future children.

If you must have sex, it must be with your wife or your husband. Many youths and married people have all destroyed their lives by having sex with persons that are not their wives and husbands (which they think they are enjoying now) but in real sense destroying their destiny and that of their children.

Sex is deep stop destroying your life. Be focus, you are made for a purpose, discover your purpose and pursue it and then you can marry and start having sex. You do yourself a big good by not having sex before marriage. A word is enough for the wise.
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by ezechi24(m): 12:19pm On Nov 15, 2023
FarmBusinessNG:
What if Jesus returns today and you are on top her having fun. Is it worth your eternity to through your soul into unquenchable fires for trillions of years. If it's worth the price of your soul, continue with the act undecided

7.40-43am on a work day and able body man is talking about sex. What kind of men is this generation breeding ?
If Jesus comes and cashes him, he might love to collect one round be fore going sef
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by yusluvad(m): 12:20pm On Nov 15, 2023
It's not okay. It shouldn't be all the time!
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by izubext007: 12:20pm On Nov 15, 2023
Yes as far as you did not force her
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by gigabyte13: 12:22pm On Nov 15, 2023
Werey dey vex
Wertin dey vex you gangan
You don see intimacy gadget
Una two dey madttttttt
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 12:22pm On Nov 15, 2023
Fornicator asking foolish question
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by jubrilELsudan: 12:24pm On Nov 15, 2023
AS E BE SO NA WIFE YOU DON MARRY OOOOO

Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by sslcrypt: 12:26pm On Nov 15, 2023
Is she a intimacy gadget? Don't you go home and rest after a hectic day? Don't you go home and reflect on how you can develop or improve your current state of finances? Why would sex always be on your mind when she visits?
Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by MamaletASO: 12:26pm On Nov 15, 2023
You are a born-foo*l...

Continue with the sex, if it's all you wanted...


Sex is only good when it's approved

Re: Is It Wrong To Always Have Sex Whenever She Comes To Visit? by Starhearts: 12:27pm On Nov 15, 2023
FarmBusinessNG:
What if Jesus returns today and you are on top her having fun. Is it worth your eternity to through your soul into unquenchable fires for trillions of years. If it's worth the price of your soul, continue with the act undecided

7.40-43am on a work day and able body man is talking about sex. What kind of men is this generation breeding ?
Who tell u say Jesus dey come backhuh
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