If so, let us know. It could be casual text, could be anything.

Yes, I do. Almost everyday and anytime of the day. Although she's already married with a child, she's still in love with me. The cause of the separation wasn't as a result of fight or abuse. It just happened. She couldn't recover the shock until we reconnected back. She's coming to my place this weekend to spend some days with me. This is a reality and not falacy. She's my first love and likewise I'm her first love. We're madly in love with each other during our undergraduate days

No, she is no longer important in my Life.

I am happily married and i don't want to destroy my home and blame it on devil.

Yeah
I reply occasionally and I keep it very causal which pisses them off fortunately for me

Teeyoo:
Yes, I do. Almost everyday and anytime of the day. Although she's already married with a child, she's still in love with me. The cause of the separation wasn't as a result of fight or abuse. It just happened. She couldn't recover the shock until we reconnected back. She's coming to my place this weekend to spend some days with me. This is a reality and not falacy. She's my first love and likewise I'm her first love. We're madly in love with each other during our undergraduate days

So you're going to have sex with another man's wife because you were madly in love in uni?

SenecaTheYonger:


So you're going to have sex with another man's wife because you were madly in love in uni?

The First thing that comes to your mind is sex. I can't do that. Even we courted for 3 years and did not have sex or romance her. The respect is there. I'm a matured man and she's also matured (late 30's). So don't judge

Teeyoo:


The First thing that comes to your mind is sex. I can't do that. Even we courted for 3 years and did not have sex or romance her. The respect is there. I'm a matured man and she's also matured (late 30's). So don't judge

Weldone Mr maturity.
Like emotion respects maturity.

Teeyoo:
Yes, I do. Almost everyday and anytime of the day. Although she's already married with a child, she's still in love with me. The cause of the separation wasn't as a result of fight or abuse. It just happened. She couldn't recover the shock until we reconnected back. She's coming to my place this weekend to spend some days with me. This is a reality and not falacy. She's my first love and likewise I'm her first love. We're madly in love with each other during our undergraduate days

And you are proud to speak about another man's wife like this? It's only idiot or a dog goes back to their vomit, which one are you?

Teeyoo:


The First thing that comes to your mind is sex. I can't do that. Even we courted for 3 years and did not have sex or romance her. The respect is there. I'm a matured man and she's also matured (late 30's). So don't judge

You can't keep yam and goat in the same room and don't expect goat not to eat yam

I have three exs. The first two, i talk to them. In fact we relate so cordially that when we talk you will think we are still dating. But the last one, I hate to think of her or have her thoughts flash through my mind. It's not just because she's bad or horrible in behavior, she made me felt used when she walked away.

And what more, the last time i saw her congratulatory message when i had something good to celebrate, I felt like responding her with some dose of curses. I don't hate her sha. I just want all her traces totally erased.

Teeyoo:


The First thing that comes to your mind is sex. I can't do that. Even we courted for 3 years and did not have sex or romance her. The respect is there. I'm a matured man and she's also matured (late 30's). So don't judge

She’s coming to spend the weekend with you? A married man spending the whole weekend with another married woman. Chai. The fact you can’t even see how wrong this is shows how damaged you are. And most unfaithful partners are just like you.

Teeyoo:


The First thing that comes to your mind is sex. I can't do that. Even we courted for 3 years and did not have sex or romance her. The respect is there. I'm a matured man and she's also matured (late 30's). So don't judge

na so devil dey work he will give you false sense of control before you knowno it you are bed with her.

true maturity is respecting her husband boundaries , they your lane no scatter person marriage.

Teeyoo:
Yes, I do. Almost everyday and anytime of the day. Although she's already married with a child, she's still in love with me. The cause of the separation wasn't as a result of fight or abuse. It just happened. She couldn't recover the shock until we reconnected back. She's coming to my place this weekend to spend some days with me. This is a reality and not falacy. She's my first love and likewise I'm her first love. We're madly in love with each other during our undergraduate days

But bros why are you having a weekend getaway with a married woman with kids
It’s dangerous oh

Boondocxs:

But bros why are you having a weekend getaway with a married woman with kids
It’s dangerous oh

Thanks for your input. However, both of us are best of friends. We are age mate and few days older than each other. Let me talk in that level now, she's very close to 40 and likewise myself. There's sense of maturity between the two parties. If it's between two young opposite gender, it can be a different ball game. Before both of us depart, we do as if we've been friends from heaven. You won't know who's older than each other. Our spirit is far away from sex. We advise each other, give moral and financial support and even ask for each other's husband and wife. So, having sex is the last thing on our mind. Thank you.

Ballzproblem2:
na so devil dey work he will give you false sense of control before you knowno it you are bed with her.

true maturity is respecting her husband boundaries , they your lane no scatter person marriage.

Thanks. No one is scattering another person's marriage. Her family members knows me wella. I'm not an outsider to the family. Some of u may just be around few years old when the lady and I departed I mean 17 years ago during my final year days as an undergraduate. To this end, there's no scattering of family ooooo

Teeyoo:


Thanks for your input. However, both of us are best of friends. We are age mate and few days older than each other. Let me talk in that level now, she's very close to 40 and likewise myself. There's sense of maturity between the two parties. If it's between two young opposite gender, it can be a different ball game. Before both of us depart, we do as if we've been friends from heaven. You won't know who's older than each other. Our spirit is far away from sex. We advise each other, give moral and financial support and even ask for each other's husband and wife. So, having sex is the last thing on our mind. Thank you.

So what exactly is she coming to spend weekend in your house for.

Is her husband aware she's coming

U are just trying to justify your self. This is all shades of wrong.

Medianna:

Weldone Mr maturity.
Like emotion respects maturity.

Mrs. Maturity, u've responded well. But all the same, men differs. No matter the emotion or anything, nothing will happen. The lady and myself knows what we can do and what we can't do. For her to say she's coming, she knew very well that nothing like that will happen. For a matured male and female to date/court for 3 solid years without having sex or romance and sleep in the same room takes the grace of God. When you date someone (as best of friends). Nothing of such will happen and the thinking level won't even go towards that direction except iff any of the party has devilish agenda. It only takes the grace of God. She can vouch any time and any where with the respect we have for each other. I'm pretty sure if it's during this dispensation, ahhhhh, it would have been yam scatter scatter

Foodqueen:


So what exactly is she coming to spend weekend in your house for.

Is her husband aware she's coming

U are just trying to justify your self. This is all shades of wrong.

Smiles.... Thanks. She has good reasons to come and spend some days. It would have been better if she comes during the week but I'm a very busy type which is as a result of my place of work. I won't be able to attend to her when she comes around and the expenses will be on my neck. She's not coming here to play. We have plans on what and what to do which is personal. The husband knows and the family members knows as well. She's an elderly person. She knows the best decision good for her. And let me tell you, she's not wayward. I can vouch for that.
And another thing, if two opposite genders who are truly "best of friends" and value each other, the last thing that will come to their mind is sex. sex is not everything. You share business ideas, opportunities, you help each other if u see an opportunity that benefits the other party.
Thank you.

SenecaTheYonger:


She’s coming to spend the weekend with you? A married man spending the whole weekend with another married woman. Chai. [b]The fact you can’t even see how wrong this is shows how damaged you are. [/b]And most unfaithful partners are just like you.

Smile... Mind the way you construct your grammar. Between you and I, who's damaged? Learn from other people and don't judge. don't let me give you want you won't like to read early this morning cos it may spoil your day or week. If u go through my threads, I've never said such a foul word to anyone. Please mind you grammar. And if you think u can just say anything anyhow, you will know that you have a Master. And if u meet me, u won't be able to say such. Pls mind your words.

Anytime I talk to my Ex, Okafor's law of Congoelasticity would hit me hard.....

Okafor's law dealt with me mercilessly lastweekend and I'm still here trying to wash my hands clean before my present Banny gets to discover

Na because I talk to Ex oooo

Depends on the Ex.

Ex girlfriends.....YES(some of them)the ones with my contact, once in a while we check up on each other.

EX-WIFE......never don't even know her whereabouts don't care to know....I have no business talking to her...but I wish her well wherever she is

No relationship, no drama talkless of having a Ex.

Ciao

Wimkeh:
If so, let us know. It could be casual text, could be anything.

Sure i do still talk to my exes nd my wife is very much aware of it.. they are my ex and not my enemy

Qatar2022:

You can't keep yam and goat in the same room and don't expect goat not to eat yam

Lol my guy dis ur comment just sounds somehow to me oo, are u indirectly calling him a goat? hahaha kai @qatar2022 but world cup done finish now.

Foodqueen:
So what exactly is she coming to spend weekend in your house for. Is her husband aware she's coming U are just trying to justify your self. This is all shades of wrong.

Na too much of oyinbo film the cause this thing wey u de hear so

One of the reasons i never wanted to marry a single mother with exes.

This life get as e be. Dated a sweet girl for 9yrs. After she graduated from the university, she was already in her 30's. Along the line, I lost my job.

I was just managing to keep hope alive while she got a teaching job. We lived in different states here in Nigeria. At some point in time, she started mounting pressure on me to come see her parents. I was afraid and dejected cos guy man no even get job sef.

It was really kinda difficult to accept her requests cos I believed it would lead to marriage with basically nothing in my bank account. She offered me #300k to kick start the process of introduction and marital rites which I refused cos it's nothing but a bait.

I don't want a marriage that is replete with financial obstacles and her monthly salary is less #50k. I rejected everything entirely and next up? I lost my cellphone. About 4 months trying to get an NIN, without any communication between us cos I don't have her cellphone number offhand. Finally retrieved my simcard, bought a new phone through a friend, checked my Facebook page and to my consternation, I saw her on wedding gown

Long story short, I sent her best wishes in her new home. I moved on. A year later, I got another job and within 7 months, I got married too.

She saw my wedding pics on Facebook and started calling me, accusing me of not wanting to marry her. Told her we are now married let's not bother with calling and texting each other anymore to keep our marriages intact.

She kept calling and texting untill one day, I blocked her completely from every possible angle.

I've said it before and I'm reiterating it; any man who still keeps in touch with his ex (despite being married) is definitely playing with fire. Whether that fire will warm him or burn down his house, only time can tell.

As for me, na from childhood na him my Mama don warn me sey make I no dey play with fire. Hence, I've learnt to stay away from my exes.

My ex is always calling and asking me for money... Get in to another relationship na she will be saying she's an independent woman and she doesn't need any man for now! Move on na, she swill say can't she be calling to say hello!

Another ex of mine has been married for 4 years now. We saw again late last year. She's been wanting me to invite her to my house that she bored! Married men please I take God beg Una show more attention to your wives. How can a married woman be telling me she is sex starved!

Teeyoo:


Thanks for your input. However, both of us are best of friends. We are age mate and few days older than each other. Let me talk in that level now, she's very close to 40 and likewise myself. There's sense of maturity between the two parties. If it's between two young opposite gender, it can be a different ball game. Before both of us depart, we do as if we've been friends from heaven. You won't know who's older than each other. Our spirit is far away from sex. We advise each other, give moral and financial support and even ask for each other's husband and wife. So, having sex is the last thing on our mind. Thank you.

But it can happen and the regret comes later

Teeyoo:


Smiles.... Thanks. She has good reasons to come and spend some days. It would have been better if she comes during the week but I'm a very busy type which is as a result of my place of work. I won't be able to attend to her when she comes around and the expenses will be on my neck. She's not coming here to play. We have plans on what and what to do which is personal. The husband knows and the family members knows as well. She's an elderly person. She knows the best decision good for her. And let me tell you, she's not wayward. I can vouch for that.
And another thing, if two opposite genders who are truly "best of friends" and value each other, the last thing that will come to their mind is sex. sex is not everything. You share business ideas, opportunities, you help each other if u see an opportunity that benefits the other party.
Thank you.

Is that why you have to chat me up on Whatsapp.

Keep deceiving yourself.

Teeyoo:
Yes, I do. Almost everyday and anytime of the day. Although she's already married with a child, she's still in love with me. The cause of the separation wasn't as a result of fight or abuse. It just happened. She couldn't recover the shock until we reconnected back. She's coming to my place this weekend to spend some days with me. This is a reality and not falacy. She's my first love and likewise I'm her first love. We're madly in love with each other during our undergraduate days

Abort mission bro, how would you let another man's wife spend days in your house? It might get you in serious trouble you know?