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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Silentgroper(m): 8:09am On Nov 26, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Did she force him into the marriage and into impregnating her? undecided
they both made the decisio6to get married and have kids, therefore the the responsibilities lies on both of them...

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by jonadaft: 8:09am On Nov 26, 2023
slimjohn2k5:
Na him go supermarket na
U think it's cheaper elsewhere? U no sabi anything...
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Wawelexy(m): 8:11am On Nov 26, 2023
ShugaSneh:
So this ídiot is a poor man and he has been supporting Ebola Thimbulu? Jeez, pathetic


Lol... Poor man get grades...

Portable is a bout man when compared to bigwiz, bigwiz is a poor man when mentioned alongside drake, drake is poor when talking about Elon musk, so you might be right tho, but God will make us bigger... cheesy I won't honour you with a mention again
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Silentgroper(m): 8:12am On Nov 26, 2023
adecz:


👶👶👶
In Baby Friendly system, you don't need
all this cow milk for your baby..

Don't fall for all these Western
propaganda. All a baby needs is mother's
breast milk. Even oyibo dey do Baby
friendly, but black man loves being
brainwashed by baby food marketing
companies.

Babies fed exclusively with mothers milk
hardly cry, disturb or have stomach
problems.

They grow bigger, stronger and faster. All
a man needs to do is simply feed your
wife very well.
The wife has a contribution to that too
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by matm: 8:14am On Nov 26, 2023
Bliss62:
Is the wife allergic to working?! Or even if she is on merternity leave she doesn't have any savings or income not even business

.Wise word.Many women earn more than their husbands.
Civil servants earn same salary, same level irrespective of gender.
Any woman who is not disable that doesn't hussle to sustain her family is a lazy nonentity.

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Exceed15: 8:14am On Nov 26, 2023
Wetin e dey find dere?
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Whiteways: 8:20am On Nov 26, 2023
Agreed

Wawelexy:



Do you know if he was the one who exhausted the wife's savings? Forget the internet picture about women, some are very supportive when you show them love, they don't mind giving you their last dime provided you do not pose as a threat to them either by cheating or maltreating them.
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Silentgroper(m): 8:27am On Nov 26, 2023
sandygechy:
Where’s the man’s savings He didn’t know he’ll buy baby food when he was sleeping with her unprotected.
did he put a gun to her head to sleep with him unprotected ..

if he doesn't buy it . she should buy it ..


🤨🤨

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Jewessgratitud3: 8:28am On Nov 26, 2023
Vinnie2000:


Ogbeni, The Answer is Straight forward!😏

When A Guy is ABLE to Foot all his Bills without Complaints or Depending on anyone,
Then he is READY for marriage.🤨🙂

Not a Guy who owes his Landlord Rent, can't buy news clothes, eats BREAD and FANTA, can't buy TV in his Apartment, etc
Now thinking of going to Pay his GF's dowry and hoping Marriage will bring blessings. undecided undecided

That's a Terrible Gamble some Young married Guys made and they are SUFFERING dearly for it! embarassed embarassed sad

You can now see what akamu has done to his brain. His cognitive capacity to comprehend a simple statement is very low due to lack of nutritious milk during his formative years.

Don't waste your time trying to explain to him because he will never understand.

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by cletz991(m): 8:40am On Nov 26, 2023
Before these baby food SMA, NANs and Co came onboard. Nor be Akamu and milk our parents take feed us and we all grew up fine. Make Oga cut e coat according to his size undecided
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by phemy36(m): 8:42am On Nov 26, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:


This is the average Nigerian man's reality skit or no skit. They force you into marriage and leave you to face it all by yourself.

Shey your babe go com dey wait for you? Na to marry man wey don set now. Hian!

Don't use what is happening in your family to generalized what is obtainable in other home. My father did not Force my mother into marriage. And mother is not a lazy woman that put all her problems on my father. Same things down to the children. So, check yourself very well.

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Justkatty(f): 8:47am On Nov 26, 2023
Mayflowa:


How old is your baby? Can I buy some baby food for your baby? Do you mind?
Thanks so much
Baby is 9months
Yes you can, I'll really appreciate
0797372861 access bank.
God bless you.
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by yommysure(m): 9:03am On Nov 26, 2023
Nobody fit do that to a Rich single guy…. 💯



olaztek:
The kind of pressure society put on single guys sometimes is unbearable.

People will look down on you, deny you opportunities, call you gay/impotent/irresponsible, constantly frustrate you, question you in every family gathering, sideline you, cut half the benefits apportioned for you just because you are not a family man.

May God favour all naija single men. Amin.

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Melonsmasher: 9:20am On Nov 26, 2023
Skit.. He walked into the supermarket with his camera man
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Tzar(m): 9:33am On Nov 26, 2023
Nigerians are such funny people. This is an opportunity to be innovative. There are better healthier and more nutritious options in our local foods, but HERD MENTALITY won’t allow Nigerians think. Everyone wants to give their children foreign made foods with likely dangerous or genetically modified ingredients.
Most Nigerians were raised with cowpies, maize meal, amala and ewedu, mashed beans, mashed sweet potatoes, mashed plantain, egg yolk etc. All you need is to fortify these foods with multivitamins and super foods like moringa leaf powder.
But as usual, typically lazy and entitled Nigerians will not think their way out of this problem. Instead they will be wasting their destiny complaining and begging others for money.

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Chicagograduate(m): 9:40am On Nov 26, 2023
slimjohn2k5:
Na him go supermarket na
They sell original and it is even cheaper than retail shops.Some supermarkets get supplies directly from the manufacturers while shop owners buy from middlemen.
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by silifat11(m): 9:53am On Nov 26, 2023
You leave Oja Oba market, dey go buy things from Supermarket haha
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 10:04am On Nov 26, 2023
Hustle ooo so u don’t cap rubbish online!!!
It’s ur duty to provide.So the woman will go through pregnancy,birth a child and u are asking for her savings to feed a child that bears ur name? Delusion at its peak!
Go and make money my friend!!!!!

Silentgroper:
did he put a gun to her head to sleep with him unprotected ..

if he doesn't buy it . she should buy it ..


🤨🤨

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by ufotunang: 10:06am On Nov 26, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Babies require nutrients from more than just breastmilk after just the first month alone. undecided
Women can only produce so much breastmilk to meet the baby's needs. undecided

2. People shouldn't be having babies if they can't afford to even provide the baby with all the necessary nutrition it needs to grow strong and healthy all around. undecided
.....in this world we are living they will be poor people ... even in other countries apart from nigeria they are poor people..they are poor people in USA, London, Dubai, France, Germany...so you want to tell me that these poor people should not have children because they cannot buy baby food then is very expensive nowadays I which they cannot afford..then how will they have children
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Sunkyapogee(m): 10:10am On Nov 26, 2023
slimjohn2k5:
Na him go supermarket na

You are still among the people that think supermarket goods is more expensive. If you no Sabi price goods, abeg go supermarket before Igbo man use you build house..

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by KEVIND: 10:11am On Nov 26, 2023
Anyone that has ear let him hear
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Silentgroper(m): 10:16am On Nov 26, 2023
sandygechy:
Hustle ooo so u don’t cap rubbish online!!!
It’s ur duty to provide.So the woman will go through pregnancy,birth a child and u are asking for her savings to feed a child that bears ur name? Delusion at its peak!
Go and make money my friend!!!!!

ok


It's both their duty to provide .. so if hubby cant do that at the moment, it lies on the wife to take over .. She's not going through pregnancy for the man alone, it's for herself too .. Besides, most kids when they grow up and are financially stable usually have their mums benefit from than their dad would ..

So why can't you the woman make thst investment since in the long run, you'd be favoured the most...

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by ExudeLoveToAll: 10:20am On Nov 26, 2023
id4sho:


Jokes aside, men are running from their marriages. Abandoning their young families. The cost of living is very expensive

You are right.

When there is no support system for men it will result to that.
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by endsarrrs(f): 10:21am On Nov 26, 2023
yemmit90:


Oga, super market price is far different to what you get in a normal market or provision shops around.

You can do some practicals by yourself, you will see the big difference he was talking about.

Yomi is that you?
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by condralbedez: 10:23am On Nov 26, 2023
SIXTEENTH:



The prices ain't the same, where I'm from there are 3 market places separately, first and second market prices of commodity defers from the 3rd market respectful.
Emerging first market are selling egusi 2 cups for 700 without grinding it for you but the 3rd market sold egusi 2cups for 500 with grinding included.

Last month a Chinese national send me to help and buy him a shaving stick using my money but will be reimbursed back once he got better (admitted for surgical appendicitis) so I got into a supermarket and pick 2 shaving stick, I now call the attention of the staff there which she confirmed the prices using their PC.

Guess the prices, one goes for 4k while the other one goes 9k like say na clipper I want buy.
Last last I returned back to a small kiosk adjacent the hospital and got one for 200

The man should even be thankful he got only a child to chartered for, unlike me whom God blesses with twins just last month, so how man will cope in this hardest mode?
So we grind harder or die trying
Congratulations, i want to have twins
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by bonnyhope: 10:24am On Nov 26, 2023
Nazgul:
Last time I checked, akamu is still very affordable. undecided

No mind them

Everyone wan chop oyibo food

Our parents brought us up with traditional made food, akamu is one of them

We used napkin instead of pampas
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 10:29am On Nov 26, 2023
The man is the provider! It’s not both their duty to provide.I’m sure the man wants submission from the woman that co-provides with him.In order words,the woman becomes a submissive provider!
Dey play….
Unfortunately,such world does not exist.
As long as it sounds absurd for a woman to ask a man to go through pregnancy and birth children, that’s how it sounds when a man ask a woman to provide!
A broke man should not impregnate a woman.

Silentgroper:
ok


It's both their duty to provide .. so if hubby cant do that at the moment, it lies on the wife to take over .. She's not going through pregnancy for the man alone, it's for herself too .. Besides, most kids when they grow up and are financially stable usually have their mums benefit from than their dad would ..

So why can't you the woman make thst investment since in the long run, you'd be favoured the most...

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by SIXTEENTH(m): 10:35am On Nov 26, 2023
condralbedez:
Congratulations, i want to have twins

Thanks I appreciate, don't worry your wishes is approved, look around you if you're privileged to see new born twins around your neighborhood try and dash them even it's 200 to sow seed in there lives then just believe.

Sometimes it's works that way

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Fatbam005: 10:40am On Nov 26, 2023
Nathaniel111:
I already made up my mind to go UBA on Monday go break my savings and withdraw for the sake of my baby as my wife has been singing baby food to my ears since yesterday.
I think say pressure no go dey till Month end as my woman don buy new pack of Daiper last week, But to God be the Glory Atletico Madrid over 0.5goal don bless me with 178k tonight🙌👌 everywhere wan stew
Be warned do not bring God into gambling. What you are happy for you have lost in multiple folds before now . This is not a blessing from God be warned .
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by hotwax: 10:43am On Nov 26, 2023
You better buy soya beans and make milk out of it.

Learn to combine multiple cereals together. Blend maize, millet, wheat and rice together.
Blend with crayfish.

Use the soya milk as milk.

This is far better than the shelve baby formular.

Cheaper and healthier.

Your baby’s brain will thank you for it

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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by condralbedez: 10:43am On Nov 26, 2023
SIXTEENTH:


Thanks I appreciate, don't worry your wishes is approved, look around you if you're privileged to see new born twins around your neighborhood try and dash them even it's 200 to sow seed in there lives then just believe.

Sometimes it's works that way
Thanks and God Bless your Family, you will never lack the resources to feed them!!
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by SIXTEENTH(m): 10:44am On Nov 26, 2023
condralbedez:
Thanks and God Bless your Family, you will never lack the resources to feed them!!

Capital Amen, have a wonderful Sunday

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