ZIMDRILL:


their is nothing called SACRIFICE on things that you are meant to be doing, giving birth is not a sacrifice it nature their is no two ways about it if you want a
child

GO0DHardDick:


Shut the fck up!

Is a man supposed to give birth before? Does he have a womb? Madam there's nothing like SACRIFICE for something that's supposed to be natural. It is natural for a woman to give birth whether through CS or other means because she has a womb!

Do you know what it takes for a man to go out there hustle and make money to take care of his family? What sacrifice could be more than that? Do you know how many men lose their lives daily to put food on the table? So what's the fuss about? Are these things not supposed to be natural? Madam take this comment down ASAP!

Apart from sex, what are Nigeria women bringing to the table? Even the sex sef na dem dey enjoy am pass! So wtf are you saying

Lovelyn451:
I don't blame them na, it's the ladies that get stupidly overly excited once marriage is being proposed to them not knowing they will be making the most sacrifice.....I rather lose millions of my money than go through that pain

ZIMDRILL:


their is nothing called SACRIFICE on things that you are meant to be doing, giving birth is not a sacrifice it nature their is no two ways about it if you want a
child

jaxxy:


do u know female animals give birth? Its only humans thst complain about it and then try to complicate and glamorise it.

it is totally natural, there are women who do surrogacy for money. 18 year old girl don't make a these issues when they give birth..

I think complication are more likely when women give birth at older ages or go to quack doctors.

Lovelyn451:
I don't blame them na, it's the ladies that get stupidly overly excited once marriage is being proposed to them not knowing they will be making the most sacrifice.....I rather lose millions of my money than go through that pain

Lovelyn451:
thunder scater tha ur table there, women don't lose their lives during child birth abi, oh it's natural to give birth but it's not natural to provide for your family, after going through the pain of childbearing I should still bring to your useless table...that your table go break!! lazy bones... looking for women that will give them children and still provide for them...wateryoubringingtudtable yen yen yen....tchew

Nehyooh:
What sacrifice are you even talking about? Do a lady get pregnant alone?
You ladies are just fulfilling the way you're wired biologically.

GO0DHardDick:


Since a woman giving birth is now a big issue to U, madam produce sperm from yourself and impregnate yourself. 🤡

Apart from your overused damaged kpe.kpus what are you bringing to the table?

Fountainofyouth:



And you're educated, if educated people are told to raise their hand you sef go join, see the nonsense bolded you typed with confidence, you'd be disgracing your lineage thinking you're wise, western world with the best hospitals and quality doctors, women that get complications and die in the process of giving birth over there, what is the cause? The weather abi? Educated illiterate.

Fountainofyouth:



Why not start by asking your mother your questions, then come back and tell us the many curses you received on your head.

GO0DHardDick:



Ask them to send their account details, they'll do it without asking about your sisters and mother's well-being.

Tell them how beautiful they are, they'll smile without asking if you've appreciated your sisters and mother's beauty.

Buy them gifts, they'll accept without asking if you've bought for your sisters and mum.

But, tell them the bitter truth that they are hoes and prostitutes disguised as girlfriend, and that what can they offer in a relationship apart from their over used damaged kpekpus, they'll immediately remember you have sisters and mother. Why? Because they are naturally selfish, daft, clownish, and extremely brain damaged. The truth is bitter! Fuul

Fountainofyouth:



Can't sweat it, very easy to know children from dysfunctional homes lacking of love and parental care

Again, ask your mother and tell her your bolded, then come back with the feedback.

jaxxy:


Stfu if u have a point make the point. I didn't insult u or anybody so why are coming for me in that manner.

it is not news that old age or very early age can create complications in child birth and if im wrong show me don't tell me nonsense about ur illiteracy.

GO0DHardDick:


Since you're a 🤡 lemme rephrase everything for U. E-diiiot. If a man wants to send you Money, why not ask him about his sisters and mother's account number? Fuuuuul. E don reach question u rush dey type men sisters and mothers.

Ask them to send their account details, they'll do it without asking about your sisters and mother's well-being.

Tell them how beautiful they are, they'll smile without asking if you've appreciated your sisters and mother's beauty.

Buy them gifts, they'll accept without asking if you've bought for your sisters and mum.

But, tell them the bitter truth that they are hoes and prostitutes disguised as girlfriend, and that what can they offer in a relationship apart from their over used damaged kpekpus, they'll immediately remember you have sisters and mother. Why? Because they are naturally selfish, daft, clownish, and extremely brain damaged. The truth is bitter! Fuul

Fountainofyouth:


You are an illiterate, an educated illiterate, because if you are not you will not ignorantly type the nonsense above, and you will know that there is no menu or specific age to childbirth complications.

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

GO0DHardDick:


Since a woman giving birth is now a big issue to U, madam produce sperm from yourself and impregnate yourself. 🤡

Apart from your overused damaged kpe.kpus what are you bringing to the table?

Acidosis:



The highest form of sacrifice you have encountered.


CS is the easiest phase in some TTC women's reproductive cycle.

Did she go through ovarian stimulation, where she'll risk hyper stimulation and the pain resulting from egg retrieval? Ever done myomectomy, i.e., uterine fibroid removal where you risk losing your womb? cervical cerclage where you'll risk bleeding and persistent spinal pain and headaches due to epidural leakage? Ever done the unbearablly painful HSG test?

If CS is all your woman went through, thank God. That procedure takes only 15-45 minutes max. Some people went through hell. Any woman that goes through any of the above phases is already a god on earth; deserves to be worshipped every hour.

GO0DHardDick:


Since you're a 🤡 lemme rephrase everything for U. E-diiiot. If a man wants to send you Money, why not ask him about his sisters and mother's account number? Fuuuuul. E don reach question u rush dey type men sisters and mothers.

Ask them to send their account details, they'll do it without asking about your sisters and mother's well-being.

Tell them how beautiful they are, they'll smile without asking if you've appreciated your sisters and mother's beauty.

Buy them gifts, they'll accept without asking if you've bought for your sisters and mum.

But, tell them the bitter truth that they are hoes and prostitutes disguised as girlfriend, and that what can they offer in a relationship apart from their over used damaged kpekpus, they'll immediately remember you have sisters and mother. Why? Because they are naturally selfish, daft, clownish, and extremely brain damaged. The truth is bitter! Fuul

GO0DHardDick:


Since a woman giving birth is now a big issue to U, madam produce sperm from yourself and impregnate yourself. 🤡

Apart from your overused damaged kpe.kpus what are you bringing to the table?

GO0DHardDick:


If e sure for you as a woman, produce sperm yourself and impregnate yourself na let's see Since your pûssy is all you have to offer

BlaqFaze:
it's obvious most women have nothing to offer so they try to make a big deal of basic natural processes a normal healthy female is supposed to go through.

If she doesn't give birth, who will...who gains more actually because it's on record that women love their children unconditional compared to their conditional love for other things

Ashawoman82:
there are more riskier " occupation" than giving birth, that's what he's saying since u see child bearing as an occupation.

Ashawoman82:
are u suggesting that women should only be seems as baby making machines, they shouldn't be giving any other responsibility as giving birth alone is an occupation?how do u want men to value women when most of u have this archaic mentality...

abbey621:


The bold part of your comment is highly subjective, for men it can be tricky asking what a woman brings to the table but I bet you 100% for most women, their main focus is what the man brings to the table. This is why most men get triggered when people use something like sex or childbirth and equate it to what a man brings to the table.

It's also kind of detrimental to women because we are at the age of empowerment and feminism, are we saying all women are good for is making babies like a factory? Society already tells men to be men by providing for their family, extended family, friends and still be a responsible member of society while it teaches women that all they have to do is have a banging body and be fertile......CAN'T IMAGINE I'LL SPEND SO MUCH MONEY TO GIVE MY DAUGHTER FIRST CLASS EDUCATION & ONE MAN WILL REDUCE HER TO BABY MAKER

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.