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Prettygirl200:
Am a human am aren't perfect, I can't be everything a man wants in a woman, I have my good and bad sides, I can't change but can adjust because I love and care for that person, tried to adjust to suit him that was when he told me I was pretending and acting up to love him which wasn't true. I was trying to adjust because I cared about him too even though am not as rich as those ladies supporting him financially.

DestinedForGrea:
She said he constantly complained that she didn't support him. Though she didn't explicitly state the kind of support, the context of her story deals with financial support.

She included that she did the best she could do, considering that she's still young and without a good means of financial support for herself. Shes just focusing on the financial and you guys are judging him based on that

So how is this a toxic trait from her, and how does that not add up? You're not making a point here. All I see here is sentiments borne out of your hatred for women.

judatech:
Christmas discharging... country hard for men with many chicks this period.

Mademan7:
You already know all these, then my question is for what reason did you create this thread in the first place. Since you already made up your mind on what you want

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Dminister:
I just want help

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

lordnkem000:
You haven't taken my advice before now in the comments so why take this one? Go back to your man and work things out since you love him. I can't tell him anything because I don't know him. These validation you are seeking here won't help you, you know the truth you didn't tell us and that truth will make you feel guilty as long as you ignore that truth

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?. Different people with different melancholy. However, you can move on with your life, your suitor will locate you soonest. My own issue was based on religion line, just that I am a realist and I think Humanity first before Religion. My own Girl jettisoned me cos I didn't follow her to Church after many commitment. Life is Film on its own in which no one can wash the scenario finish. Good evening fams.

TheWinterBird:
He cheated on you with two women but somehow flipped the script on you to blame you? Make that make sense. Girl, you should've done the breaking up. You need to up your standards and self-worth.

very4tune8:
I am glad you did block him for your sanity.
Those are the type that depend on women. Lazy bone.

Move on sis. Your perfect man will find you and you don't even need to support hm financially because he will be well- to-do.

Prettygirl200:
i am not feeling guilty of anything whatever i did what wasn't healthy for the relationship we talked about it and I appologised countlesss times and we had moved on i was trying to adjust and when he saw that I was doing so that was when he told me I was pretending or acting up just because of what I will gain. I have made up my mind this time around because have been through breaking up and coming back. But this time around I want him to be happy so its cool he's with a woman more mature and willing to support him just as he has always wanted. I can't have everything I can only amend and since he doesn't appreciate the fact that I was trying to amend he's now calling it pretence it's better I let him go. Am done!!

amadiama:
My question is are you the demanding type? If your the type that is always collecting and never supporting then I guess his tired of you...for him to be telling you wat other ladies do for him..but breaking up with him is d best for you..am a guy but according to your story seems the guy needs a sugar mummy and not a girlfriend

lordnkem000:
Did he tell you all this or you made it up? Did he tell you he wanted you to go so he would be happy? You shouldn't bring your relationship flaws here my dear, he didn't do well yes by comparing but you too should explain yourself to him. You clearly love him and I can tell he wants you too so why torture yourself? Your words shows he didn't treat you bad so it's not a major issue, try to fix it and chase that intruder away. Except you don't want because you have seen a better man then cool. All these men here talking are not better than that your man, including myself. Fix your relationship and you will enjoy your man

Prettygirl200:
i am not feeling guilty of anything whatever i did what wasn't healthy for the relationship we talked about it and I appologised countlesss times and we had moved on i was trying to adjust and when he saw that I was doing so that was when he told me I was pretending or acting up just because of what I will gain. I have made up my mind this time around because have been through breaking up and coming back. But this time around I want him to be happy so its cool he's with a woman more mature and willing to support him just as he has always wanted. I can't have everything I can only amend and since he doesn't appreciate the fact that I was trying to amend he's now calling it pretence it's better I let him go. Am done!!

Prettygirl200:
he musnt tell me am noy stupid mr man, i can read in between the lines and the handwriting is clearly written on the wall, i might be young but i know when someones dooesnt want me anymore, he doesnt want to say it so it wont look like it came from him. Relationship with him has been hectic and emotionally draining, am tired of the constant comparison with different women, the believe that because am trying to amend is now a pretence I can't deal with it as I have been doing so for months. I did the little I could do but if there was one thing I told him, the little I gave to him I didn't make prostitution to give to him.

Prettygirl200:
The times i demanded he never gave me alwaga telling me he doesnt have and when i get angry he calls me toxic, he tells me i dont respect him, he tells me that non of his ex ever talked down on him because of money, he starts telling me how all his exes where with him when he had nothing how theu supported him and all, making promsies of things he will do all that for over 9 months, the circle comtinued.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Jeon:
This happens when you placed love at the top of your life budget instead of improving yourself, you are trying to improve for someone.

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Remember this "Men can never be pleased no matter how good and dedicated you are" .


Not one lady, not two, but all the past ladies supported him before you came into the picture,yet he left the supportive relationships .Why did you not ask him why he left the supportive ones?.



You ask Wahala, you no ask Wahala.



Omo ,you don suffer for relationships since I know you for NL. Sorry dear. Next time open your eyes and don't love with all your heart

Love takes advantages of good girl.

TheMostComplex1:
Your below lines left me in stitches

Omo ,you don suffer for relationships since I know you for NL

Prettygirl200:
Am a human am aren't perfect, I can't be everything a man wants in a woman, I have my good and bad sides, I can't change but can adjust because I love and care for that person, tried to adjust to suit him that was when he told me I was pretending and acting up to love him which wasn't true. I was trying to adjust because I cared about him too even though am not as rich as those ladies supporting him financially.

BscHolder:
your Ex

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Anny69:
🐈‍⬛ Meow.