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Re: What Can I Do About This by Vj15(m): 11:27am On Dec 16, 2023 |
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Re: What Can I Do About This by Larrydasilva(m): 11:29am On Dec 16, 2023 |
You still have a long place to go as an errand boy and a little earner to cope with a banker of that status. What if you approach her and she reported you to along the line, then you find yourself to be blame. It's normal to develop an interest but you just have to proactively consider the consequences. There are still lots of girls you will meet in the future when you are financially fit and ready to care for them. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by jice(m): 11:32am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Stay clear and concentrate on your future while you are there. Don't let emotions destroy your happiness |
Re: What Can I Do About This by obayendo1010(m): 11:33am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Offpointng:Lol, werey even bold the forest trade 1 Like |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Tealcrestmedia(m): 11:33am On Dec 16, 2023 |
It's not even advisable to date your colleague of equal standing. Be careful so you don't lose your job. You don't tell someone of love out of the blue, you must first build chemistry and everything will fall in place if it's meant to be. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Tonytonex(m): 11:35am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Focus. You are not there to fall in love. Can you take care of her needs. Without money, forget about love. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Superpack589: 11:35am On Dec 16, 2023 |
post=127510120:Monitoring spirit. Na everywhere them must see you? 1 Like |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Tonytonex(m): 11:38am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Stamina777:this is a childish question. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:38am On Dec 16, 2023 |
obayendo1010:He wan carry am go Express!!! |
Re: What Can I Do About This by SonofGod231: 11:38am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Exceed15:His advice was very lucid. The Op should work on himself first before chasing women and should be able meet the requirements of what he requires. Poor guys always come last. It's not like the lady in question was giving him greenlight. He should better wash this jonsin off his eyes.Smh 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can I Do About This by FinidiGeorge: 11:38am On Dec 16, 2023 |
aremubabs:Bad guy... Dangerous hunter I salute o. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Juniorangel(m): 11:40am On Dec 16, 2023 |
This Op get serious malaria... Pls someone close to him should go and check him. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by HOSTCOM(m): 11:41am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Don't do it...cos it may land you in mess. Get money first my brother and all other things shall follow. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by tonee45: 11:42am On Dec 16, 2023 |
That girl will reject you, don't insult yourself, every woman wants their man respected; so you want her to be seeing her other colleagues sending her guy on errands. Boy you better get your straight. Upgrade yourself, that should be your focus. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Leilami: 11:42am On Dec 16, 2023 |
All of you advising the poster to go ahead, if the banker was your sister, what advice would you give her? 1 Like |
Re: What Can I Do About This by iajour(m): 11:43am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Instead mk u learn how to spell school cert wey u spell as start, u wan toast womanπ€£π€£ 1 Like |
Re: What Can I Do About This by sylve11: 11:44am On Dec 16, 2023 |
TheFreshVanilla: Normal clickbait. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by garriAndsugar: 11:44am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Dennisochampa:He will definitely upgrade himself before thinking of marriage |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Leilami: 11:45am On Dec 16, 2023 |
spinna: Of course, he is not in love with the lady. He is just lusting at her beauty. If she was hawking under the hot sun, you think he would notice her? |
Re: What Can I Do About This by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:47am On Dec 16, 2023 |
FinidiGeorge:That's a different case, you can't compare female teacher and female banker. These are two different personalities. Teacher is nurturing, caring. The profession bring out the best quality of feminine nature But on the other hand, β most of the female bankers are downright rude, cocky, egotistical 3 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do About This by ufotunang: 11:47am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Try your luck...she can accept your love proposal...there are ladies that like handsome and cute guys no matter the level the guy is or whether you are a cleaner. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by MT: 11:48am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2: Even the Bible says iron sharpeneth iron. The dude is about to punch above his weight. He should concentrate on adding values to his life. He is about to self destruct. Too much of Nollywood movie will make anyone believe that a cleaner is deserving of a bank Manager . 3 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Leilami: 11:48am On Dec 16, 2023 |
garriAndsugar: So you would advise your sister of marriageable age to wait to put her life on hold and wait for a younger guy to grow up Financially Emotionally Mentally etc Knowing fully well age is not on her side and the young guy tomorrow may come to nairaland land and be advised to go for a younger lady. Very funny 1 Like |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Leilami: 11:49am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Dennisochampa: Thank you! I already asked this question before seeing you already asked. Don't mind them. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by SaintUlot: 11:49am On Dec 16, 2023 |
aremubabs: I was following this your suspense filled story with keen interest, until you decided to wrap it up hurriedly. Abeg we need the detail story. It is very important. |
Re: What Can I Do About This by vickydevoka(m): 11:50am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Stamina777:She will never agree. Unless she very old or ugly. Nigeria ladies dating are like business transactions. Only guys date blindly or solely on beauty. A very fine neighbour of mine have lots of handsome male friends that comes around sometimes to sleep with her when ever she's honey but when she wants to marry whe went and marry a 45 year old ugly witch men. Women apply sense die when it comes to marriage. Not all though, mostly the beauty ones 1 Like |
Re: What Can I Do About This by SimonRose(m): 11:53am On Dec 16, 2023 |
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Re: What Can I Do About This by SirLakes: 11:56am On Dec 16, 2023 |
pansophist: There are no other cleaners he can go chyke, na hin superior dey enter hin eyes Dey play |
Re: What Can I Do About This by madmelon: 12:00pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
You wan lose your errand boy job? Face your job post=127505414]Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though. So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect. Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time Please what should I do[/quote] |
Re: What Can I Do About This by madmelon: 12:01pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
You wan lose your errand boy job and the tips? Find your level Mr Man |
Re: What Can I Do About This by AfahaAbia(m): 12:08pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
TheFinesseKid: You sound American! Are you Nigerian or? |
Re: What Can I Do About This by Leilami: 12:08pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
nairalanda1: Even most men love younger women. It is a subconscious need to be older than your woman age wise and that need must permeates every other aspect which includes the financial aspect. Why do you think it is always said the man is the head? Anyone who is the head of a company is expected to have more experience and training., same with romantic relationships. It is how life is and I don't know why some people here are saying it is unfair. If you are the Head, normally the onus is on you to be better in almost all ramifications. I am even surprised most nairalander who would castigate older ladies are overlooking the age and telling him to go ahead based on sentiment. If he had said he was an engineer and he is in love with an older lady most people here telling him to go ahead would have told him to abort mission and get younger girls. That is because men deep down feel they have to be the older one but these same men suddenly are pretending like it is a crime that people are advising the poster to level up in other areas if he wants to be her husband. |
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