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Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by guobe: 8:46am On Dec 30, 2023 |
Most guys that their marriages crashed just few months after getting married are psychologically down and feeling the effect of the crashed marriage. They nolonger act normal again and feeling the effect of what went wrong. Imagine after spending millions of naira of your life savings to get married and it just crashes in less than 3 months after getting married, it's quite heartbreaking. There is a particular guy I know whose marriage crashed in 2 months currently the guy is so down that he hardly talks or associate with his peers as before. Most times you see him walking very fast and I have had to meet him and tell him to take it easy because there is always hope once there is life. He confided in me that he spent millions getting married and now this has happened. All in all ,life goes on. 1 Like |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Nebes: 9:12am On Dec 30, 2023 |
guobe: My cousin's marriage broke on the wedding day. The wife is remarried with kids. My brother never recovered. 4 Likes |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Toban855: 9:16am On Dec 30, 2023 |
Nebes:what was the cause of the broken marriage? |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Nebes: 9:21am On Dec 30, 2023 |
Toban855: My cousin's mother insisted that the new wife's family embezzled the money provided for the wedding food. That was how the wedding day turned to a quarrel-day and they parted ways till today. |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Karlifate: 9:44am On Dec 30, 2023 |
Nebes: The wife never liked the MIL and the husband isn't assertive. So much recipes for disaster. The signs would've shown before the D-Day, but I believe they continued because of "what people will say" 2 Likes |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Righteousness2(m): 9:58am On Dec 30, 2023 |
Marriage is an institution created and owned by God. It can only be sustained by following the laid down principles of the creator and owner. My admonishment to those thinking of going into marriage is this; Consciously seek God's face for your choice of partner. Until you have a clear conviction that GOD has approved that man or woman, do not enter!! It what GOD gives that HE sustains. If you do it without God, you will bear the consequences. In times like these where many guys and ladies out there are walking corpses due to the high ritualism in the quest for money, you need GOD clear direction before you say I DO . If not you are entering into deep trouble. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by guobe: 10:34am On Dec 30, 2023 |
Nebes:Eya so sorry. |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by TheDarkporeShow: 11:19am On Dec 30, 2023 |
this happens when people don't properly assess what they need to start a family: Tell yourself the truth about women's expectations because most marriages end up cause the man does not understand the expectations of the woman he has married. These two videos are essential viewing for anyone who intends to get married. This one explains the truth about women's desires as it applies to her expectations of a husband. You need to discuss with your wife your expectations about wages, housing , location and share of family expenses each person will handle. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHAn0vFXeek This one explains how you should ask her expectations about the marriage https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cl43qph3dWQ |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Franktom247(m): 11:34am On Dec 30, 2023 |
[quote author=Nebes post=127690875] My cousin's mother insisted that the new wife's family embezzled the money provided for the wedding food. That was how the wedding day turned to a quarrel-day and they parted ways till today. what did i just read lord have mercy |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by westlius(m): 11:42am On Dec 30, 2023 |
Nebes:Thats issue so many men makes Given the woman family money to cook and buy drinks. Na so one of my guy carry us from PH to bayelsa for his wedding We reach dere na only the woman people dey eat and drink We d men people be spectators. My guy para wella When he ask his wife mother for food and drinks she say e don finish. I just learn my lesson from dere 4 Likes |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Nobody: 11:46am On Dec 30, 2023 |
"If you don't have good character you will be dumped" .. Persephone 2023. No sensible woman will let a good man go. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Starz825(m): 12:08pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Persephone1:you are right... your statement comes in double... its either the lady is senseless to let a good man go or she is sensible to let a bad man go... |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Obierika(m): 3:05pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Don't go overboard when spending to prepare for a wedding! 2 Likes |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by guobe: 7:50am On Dec 31, 2023 |
Obierika:Most Nigerian marriages are. Expensive nowadays.It is difficult to not spend. |
Re: Guys That Their Marriages Crashed In Few Months Psychologically Down by Aaaaarghmed(m): 11:18am On Dec 31, 2023 |
Why will you spend millions to marry someone. |
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