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Not every family...in my own family no body send you...e go get as you wey get money mouth go drive ruff,na fight go burst out amongst us... no time

IYOO...

Depending on the poverty mentality we have.

Imagine the poorest person in Adeleke Dynasty.
Why will he avoid the gatherings when only his attendance can increase his net worth.

ONYE ANWULU!!!

Focusmind:
So true, especially in the SE. Not just among siblings but cousins and extended families. The intimidation no be here o from the super rich siblings. The competition and show-offs too much. I pity those struggling in the midst of their wealthy siblings and cousins. To talk or contribute in family gatherings is always difficult. For the married ones, the pressure from their wives increases when the wife sees what Oga's siblings and cousins are doing for their wives and children. May God prosper all men struggling legitimately.

Wealthy is power , it's a global phenomenon it's human nature

IjebuWarrior:
She be Igbo as expected... To them, money be everything. No morals, values or norms.

Retrogressive mentality. >:

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You are showing 1700s mentality ... isn't this retrogressive mentality? ... deep in the bush village mentality? What tribe has to do with the topic? A eg ... this is 2024 .... but then you can take the pig out of the mud but can't take the mud out of the pig.

@ topic ... too many people take their personal family issues and apply it to everyone else. A family takes care of each other ... blood is thicker than water. Some families are money worshippers... money above everything else ... you are not respected for your character but by your monetary value. How one got his riches doesn't matter ... and we wonder why robberies ... killings ... kidnapping and corruption is thriving throughout the country. Sorry for who will marry her and not be forever swimming in money.

Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight

We're in the same shoes my brother.... My dad is late shaa buh you see my mum, she respects my Older married siblings because of what they give her⚠️

But treats me like shit because I'm still struggling, she uses every minute she can get to remind me of how i have failed countless times in past, though I'm the youngest but I'm still hurt🥺

I have really suffered

Same thing with all Doz Students Re-union Parties.

If you no Get Money, just pem for one side or DON'T attend at all.

tutudesz:
Than you no get siblings be that O! You can hardly tell who is rich or poor among some siblings during family events. The senior will always be the senior and the junior will always be the junior

she has a messed up family

franconian:
Which kin family be that?

ONLY IGBO FAMILIES. RESPECT ONLY COMES WITH WEALTH...

This one can advice and push her husband to go carry drugs.

ahnie:
Not every family...in my own family no body send you...e go get as you wey get money mouth go drive ruff,na fight go burst out amongst us... no time

In that Fight, some persons will secretly Side the Rich person
And meet him/her later to beg for one Financial favour.

Never UNDERESTIMATE the power of money oo.

In Warri, many Pple Criticize Yahoo Boys all the time
But secretly beg them for Money.

GlobeTrotter2:
she has a messed up family

Yeah!

adioolayi:
Avoid and remain poor na..

You think anything on earth beats human resource and quality of relationships you have with other people

You think someone that is termed "poor" because he or she doesn't have money don't have other ways they are indispensable

There are problems money cannot and won't solve..quality relationship can do.

If you think you are poor...make sure you are useful in other ways...with that, luck and fortune can smile on you

Thank You bro you dey avoid your own family just because you no get reach them no worry now when then begin to trust outsider past you no ves naa soo... I think you getting invovle will make your sibling to reason your matter to be equal with them except if the family glorify riches irrespective of who first get

Vinnie2000:
Same thing with all Doz Students Re-union Parties.

If you no Get Money, just pem for one side or DON'T attend at all.

Bros i understand re-union but family especially siblings noooo noo, that family is Mess up big time, even if people wan talk say this one get money pass this let that come from outsider

South East lifestyle, u see the poster is an lgb0.

money121:
May God enrich our pocket

Amen 🙏

Rubbish and Radarada talk. We are 5 siblings. I am the first son, 3 ladies for my front and a junior as last born. To the glory of God, na me God dey use bless the family, but u no go ever know for family meeting at all say na me get money pass.

campbelljosh:
Or if you are the only unmarried among them.

Unmarried is not too prevalent like money

We Don't roll that way in my family... Anybody wey do anyhow go see anyhow....simply put everybody na king/queen for their own lanes. If you get money na for yourself....No body reason you.

Vinnie2000:
In that Fight, some persons will secretly Side the Rich person
And meet him/her later to beg for one Financial favour.

Never UNDERESTIMATE the power of money oo.

In Warri, many Pple Criticize Yahoo Boys all the time
But secretly beg them for Money.

money121:
If you are the poorest amongst your siblings or not doing well financially, avoid family gatherings until you have money - Nigerian lady says

Lolo Nneka Obani Wrote on her Wall:


If you know you are the poorest amongst yoursiblings or you aren't doing well financially, l recommend that you avoid family occasions or gatherings until you have money. If you must attend, kindly sit at a corner like a visitor.
Let the people that are serving the food and souvenir serve you like one of the guests, so you don't end up embarrassing yourself.
Do not go close to where the food and drinks are being served, sit at a corner and observe. Stop setting yourself up for insults.

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/if-you-are-the-poorest-amongst-your-siblings-or-not-doing-well-financially-avoid-family-gatherings-until-you-have-money-nigerian-lady-says/

No be sey you poor, na sey you no get where you good.
You no get coordination.

NwaNimo1:
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Nekwa

iuni:
Just do your best to make money legitimately and pretend you don't have. Nobody go reason you. You self will have peace


Abeg make person do small thing for my family. Make we fit chop better for new year. Xmas was too dull for us. We will appreciate anything. Happy new year

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fcx you and fcx off...

Depends on the family

money121:
May God enrich our pocket

ahnie:
We Don't roll that way in my family... Anybody wey do anyhow go see anyhow....simply put everybody na king/queen for their own lanes. If you get money na for yourself....No body reason you.

people who say this are people who are all poor in their families.

If you no get money hide your face

Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight

How did your dad settle the fight??
What exactly did your father do -- which settled the fight...??

egopersonified:
Not all families please.

Keep deceiving yourself. She posted nothing but the truth and it happens in most households. It's human nature and our shortcomings and not necessarily hatred for the disadvantaged person.

Though naturally, one can feel timid but that does not mean hiding. Also, what is her definition of being poor. Poverty gets levels.

May Allah provide for our needs and make us better Muslims.

PrincessofDSS:
Lmao

Happy New Year Everyone!

Back on the topic

Call me a Taurus! Its not personal. As a Taurean, been around people a lot is too stimulating. We like to stay on our own & in what we define as a luxurious comfort. We believe if you know everything about us, where lies the mystery or the rarity of our being! You see 💁💁💁

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ROTFL.

It's the parent especially the mother that encourages it.
The "poorest" relatively in my family is the most respected because his yes is yes and no is no. He is the encyclopedia of the family history.

He doesn't beg and make sure the right thing is done. If tradition demands one bottle of hot, he will insist on that one bottle and no more, even if you brought more than one, he will take his and tell you share the rest among your siblings or other relatives