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Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by KingLennon(m): 11:44am On Jan 01 |
Na u go open drink and serve food 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Mitsurugi(m): 11:44am On Jan 01 |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Cocolatti(m): 11:45am On Jan 01 |
The number one god in Nigeria is Mammon the god of money. 4 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by gratiaeo(m): 11:45am On Jan 01 |
This is absolutely rubbish, imagine advise like this from a supposed adult 8 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by drimzsmoke(m): 11:45am On Jan 01 |
money121: This is why I don't travel home for new year!!! 4 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by pukka5050: 11:46am On Jan 01 |
I can relate. You're even lucky your dad is by your side. What if your parents are on the side of your siblings who they feel are better than you today. God no go shame us this year. 4 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Jamie1000: 11:47am On Jan 01 |
Nackzy: This is common in African homes. They start to make decisions without involving you. My advice to you is detach yourself and contribute from far. Humans are wird 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Trustedpronet: 11:47am On Jan 01 |
That is in Igbo land predominantly, though it happens in other states but not as strong as that of Igbo land. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Lastmankc(m): 11:47am On Jan 01 |
Nackzy:God Abeg ooo |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by campbelljosh(m): 11:48am On Jan 01 |
Or if you are the only unmarried among them. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Coldspice: 11:48am On Jan 01 |
In Igboland, I have seen a father being told to stand up for his son to sit, simply because the boy has money. But you see this issue of money and respect, it wrong to say it is Igbos. Na everywhere. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by BigDawsNet: 11:48am On Jan 01 |
Davido claim is he was the poorest among his siblings... but niigaa be holding over 30b in is account 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Lastmankc(m): 11:48am On Jan 01 |
IjebuWarrior:So,you still carry dis demon enter dis year? 5 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Focusmind: 11:50am On Jan 01 |
Nackzy: So sorry. It does happen. I have seen lots of it. If you are the first son and not able to provide, respect will just vanish. I am not talking from the angle where younger siblings are richer than you. It is different. They may be richer but you are still doing well yourself, no problem....your respect remains. It becomes a problem when you are struggling and you are depending on handouts from younger siblings, my brother, na Oyo. 9 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by BadBradley: 11:51am On Jan 01 |
When I saw the heading I knew the op must be from the South East 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by victorDanladi: 11:51am On Jan 01 |
I knew it would come from a biafran child. TO THEM,MONEY IS EVERYTHING. In my own tribe.Money is the last reason to respect you.we have 1.KNOWLEDGE AND GOOD CONDUCT-BE IT ISLAMIC,BIBLICAL OR WESTERN 2.YOUR LEVEL OF EDUCATION 3.SOCIETAL TITLE 4.AGE 5.INTELLIGENCE 6.ELOQUENCE 7.WEALTH-ITS THE LAST!----Infact,instead of worshiping you they will start by questioning your wealth especially if their are similar people in your same line of business and profession that are still struggling!..... Among BIAFRANS ...WEALTH is number one 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Kay25(m): 11:53am On Jan 01 |
Nackzy:I pray God will lift ur head up and bless ur pocket but ur mom is doing the wrong thing tides do change |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by vickydevoka(m): 11:53am On Jan 01 |
Nackzy:My mama did worst. You just have to endure 1 Like |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by tete7000(m): 11:54am On Jan 01 |
It depends on the family 1 Like |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by BluntCrazeMan: 11:55am On Jan 01 |
Well.. She actually meant: “if you're really poor, whereas others are rich and doing very well”. Because, if all the persons in the family are all doing very well, and I happen to be the person whom other relatives are doing better than,, and yet I am not poor in actual sense,, (though considered the poorest in the family of well-to-do persons),, then she's telling a big lie,, and I don't agree with her. Unless she's actually referring to a family where the persons there are all averagely on the lower financial doings-and-makings,, then, the poorest of them is actually not sitting well financially,, and thus, she might be correct in that regards. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by owolabi5: 11:55am On Jan 01 |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by tunde1200(m): 11:55am On Jan 01 |
IjebuWarrior: It's their way of life no respect for anyone poor or financially not balanced. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by boom99(m): 11:55am On Jan 01 |
Nackzy: Stop wasting money on drinking and chasing women then before you know you get back to your feet |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by tunde1200(m): 11:56am On Jan 01 |
Kay25: Amin and you too |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by owolabi5: 11:56am On Jan 01 |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Stanislause94: 11:56am On Jan 01 |
There’s no need for all these 4 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by davidtemi(m): 11:56am On Jan 01 |
I am actually the poorest and I don't avoid the gathering. The are lifting me up really. Many thanks to them 5 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by lomprico(m): 11:57am On Jan 01 |
money121: There is no love in your family then. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Mubieey: 11:57am On Jan 01 |
Stop thinking that money is the only grace we have, we have so many blessings to be proud of be happy with your self were ever you find yourself, may be you more happier,healthier , educated than them 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by moseslarry(m): 11:57am On Jan 01 |
iuni: |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by tunde1200(m): 11:58am On Jan 01 |
victorDanladi: Especially that Number 4 is well-respected among us. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Bintasukai: 11:59am On Jan 01 |
I’m the poorest, na my mouth still loud pass. 4 Likes |
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