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Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Yankee101: 12:44pm On Jan 01 |
Then you don’t know the definition of a family A true family doesn’t care about your poverty They’ll help you come out when they can 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by CodeTemplar: 12:44pm On Jan 01 |
money121: What about cases where the poorest is actually a victim of witchcraft? A case where he or she is the sacrificial one on witchcraft altar. The one whose glory was used to appeal forces so the others can have seeds and continue the legacy of the so-called family name? 5 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by SWATMan: 12:47pm On Jan 01 |
BadBradley: It has nothing to do with SE bigot. You either accept or reject her opinion. We all see it around us except you have eyes but cannot see. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by keycash: 12:51pm On Jan 01 |
adioolayi: Plesse money is key bro quality relationship follows money sir I'm talking from experience.. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by poseidon12: 12:54pm On Jan 01 |
chidiakwari: For the average Nigerian woman, it's definitely all about money. They would deny it though. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Anticrime77: 12:55pm On Jan 01 |
Being poor is relative.. So far d person no dépend on u for survival. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by poseidon12: 12:55pm On Jan 01 |
tutudesz: Not in the South East. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by lendahand(m): 12:56pm On Jan 01 |
Nackzy:as a crypto baron, you shouldn't be the poorest, the opposite actually should be the case, well what do I know? Maybe you should reduce your nackanack to know whether divinity will open a big door for you sha... |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by poseidon12: 12:58pm On Jan 01 |
Focusmind: Exactly. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by PepeXKermit: 12:58pm On Jan 01 |
iuni: stop begging and go and find something to do, or if you want to beg, beg with your full chest and use your original account to beg so that we know how useless you are. Omoluwabi, the great tinubu supporter.. You just open account of Dec 27, you don dey beg. who teach you say the first thing to do with new acc na to beg if no be say you don dey do am before? 1 Like |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by poseidon12: 1:10pm On Jan 01 |
ahnie: Maybe all of you are doing well and financially independent. Problem arises when you are poor and can't contribute your own quota and probably have to frequently ask for help from the other siblings. In the South East, you typically will be disrespected. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by LooneyLester: 1:11pm On Jan 01 |
I'm the poorest in my family but my family respects me more No be to get family, your own day loving and caring ?? 1 Like |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by SWATMan: 1:12pm On Jan 01 |
tommy589: Wealth and privilege can insulate ones experience of how the world works and obscure the realities of marginalization. There is also some scientific evidence that wealth and privilege can reduce empathy and compassion for those less fortunate. The combination of assuming everyone has the same rights, privileges and opportunities, ignorance of differential treatment/exclusion/discrimination, victim blaming and a belief that hard work is always a path to success makes it easier to justify the differences between people and focus energy on policy that helps those who are perceived as helping themselves or contributing to society (and ignore those who are not). y. Before you argue about poor people who made it big - there is a big difference between temporary poverty and marginalization, so I’m not talking about the rags to riches crowd. Marginalization can be crippling, learn about it before you judge people. When you are poor you gat no power, and when you are powerless you become desperate! this is psychology not social studies 😝 Successful people are not better, they don’t work harder, and they are not more deserving, they are just lucky. Imagine a scenario where in your wisdom you have a family project that requires maybe a million naira and your idea is super but you can only make a maximum contribution of 10k do you think your suggestion would overide that of someone who will provide maybe 800k towards the goal? Please understand the lady's point and let's stop tribalising this issues. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by poseidon12: 1:12pm On Jan 01 |
Fatbam005: Wow! A Nigerian (poverty capital of the world) asking for the definition of poverty? |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by LucemFerre: 1:13pm On Jan 01 |
Speak for yourself. Our family move together. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by BadBradley: 1:14pm On Jan 01 |
SWATMan:I'm not a bigot. I have been in several geopolitical zones in the country and no where does money replace values, age, title than in the South East. It's no coincidence the OP is from that region. Quote me again and I will reply with real-life instances. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Enemyofpeace: 1:17pm On Jan 01 |
Nackzy:na who say make you no get money? It served you right. Next time you go hustle well well and be rich like us Prettygirl200 go like big boys with big plantains |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by spencekat(m): 1:22pm On Jan 01 |
tiswell:Not in all families o. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by spencekat(m): 1:23pm On Jan 01 |
Coldspice:Lie. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Azazyel: 1:23pm On Jan 01 |
This is so rampant in the south Eastern part of Nigeria. Everyone feels like oppressing and then parents aren't helping matters. Even when you as a man earns a decent salary, they'll be pointing to emeka that is raking in millions monthly. Poverty has eaten deep into that part of Nigeria so much. Some families there are good sha |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by o123456789(m): 1:23pm On Jan 01 |
money121:Lolo Nneka Ubani is simply telling the pure truth, don't avoid only your family gatherings also avoid community or village meetings... The highest disgrace is when you are educated and poor!!! Strive to make money this 2024 and also help others who deserve a supporting hand. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by SWATMan: 1:26pm On Jan 01 |
BadBradley: Wealth and privilege can insulate ones experience of how the world works and obscure the realities of marginalization. There is also some scientific evidence that wealth and privilege can reduce empathy and compassion for those less fortunate. The combination of assuming everyone has the same rights, privileges and opportunities, ignorance of differential treatment/exclusion/discrimination, victim blaming and a belief that hard work is always a path to success makes it easier to justify the differences between people and focus energy on policy that helps those who are perceived as helping themselves or contributing to society (and ignore those who are not). Before you argue about poor people who made it big - there is a big difference between temporary poverty and marginalization, so I’m not talking about the rags to riches crowd. Marginalization can be crippling, learn about it before you judge people it has nothing to do with tribe or region. When you are poor you become powerless and when you are powerless, you become desperate! This is psychology and not social studies.⁷ Successful people are not better, they don’t work harder, and they are not more deserving, they are just lucky. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Azazyel: 1:26pm On Jan 01 |
Enemyofpeace: You think some people hustle that much before they make it big? There are people who hustle so much throughout their lifetime but can't even build a bungalow. Most times, connection to the right people helps |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Enemyofpeace: 1:27pm On Jan 01 |
No wonder Prettygirl200 no dey attend meetings |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Enemyofpeace: 1:28pm On Jan 01 |
Azazyel:person no fit play with you again? Abeg no vex o |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by mufadem2012: 1:30pm On Jan 01 |
That is one sided mentality. I disagree with it because the same family you are running from can uplift you out of poverty. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Idaytesj29(m): 1:36pm On Jan 01 |
Nackzy: Bros, it's normal for them o. Some parental love is for sale. No mean say you no go dey okay ooo. When you dey alright, enjoy yourself and be happy. |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Nackzy: 1:36pm On Jan 01 |
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Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by adioolayi(m): 1:36pm On Jan 01 |
keycash: I have not said money is not good...I have only emphasized the need not to be so ashamed of associating with one's family members simply because of being financially backwards. I have tried to encourage being useful to them in other ways, so that they can be of help to lift such individuals |
Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by Nackzy: 1:37pm On Jan 01 |
Idaytesj29:I know I will be alright one day, my firm believe, thanks for the encouragement 1 Like |
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