Enemyofpeace:
person no fit play with you again? Abeg no vex o

adioolayi:
Avoid and remain poor na..

You think anything on earth beats human resource and quality of relationships you have with other people

You think someone that is termed "poor" because he or she doesn't have money don't have other ways they are indispensable

There are problems money cannot and won't solve..quality relationship can do.

If you think you are poor...make sure you are useful in other ways...with that, luck and fortune can smile on you

money121:
If you are the poorest amongst your siblings or not doing well financially, avoid family gatherings until you have money - Nigerian lady says

Lolo Nneka Obani Wrote on her Wall:


If you know you are the poorest amongst yoursiblings or you aren't doing well financially, l recommend that you avoid family occasions or gatherings until you have money. If you must attend, kindly sit at a corner like a visitor.
Let the people that are serving the food and souvenir serve you like one of the guests, so you don't end up embarrassing yourself.
Do not go close to where the food and drinks are being served, sit at a corner and observe. Stop setting yourself up for insults.

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/if-you-are-the-poorest-amongst-your-siblings-or-not-doing-well-financially-avoid-family-gatherings-until-you-have-money-nigerian-lady-says/
Yes when you have wealth you have siblings both biological and non biological. The late Ethnomusicologist Dr.Morocco Nwamaduka sang it in one of his music.Onye nwe ego onwe nwanne.

ibrutex:
No condition is permanent as long as you don't quit moving , if na to crawl ,just don't stop moving.....

Foodqueen:


What's your qualification

Focusmind:


Just keep pushing.....it could be depressing. I always feel for married men in this situation. They wouldn't want to let their wives or children down before their co-wives, cousins and distant relatives, thus increasing the financial pressure on themselves. Remain strong bro!

Foodqueen:


What's your qualification

Nackzy:
it is depressing already, but i am trying, I notice this days i get paranoid a lot i easily transfer aggression,

spencekat:
Not in all families o.

tiswell:
Yea,but most families

money121:
If you are the poorest amongst your siblings or not doing well financially, avoid family gatherings until you have money - Nigerian lady says

Lolo Nneka Obani Wrote on her Wall:


If you know you are the poorest amongst yoursiblings or you aren't doing well financially, l recommend that you avoid family occasions or gatherings until you have money. If you must attend, kindly sit at a corner like a visitor.
Let the people that are serving the food and souvenir serve you like one of the guests, so you don't end up embarrassing yourself.
Do not go close to where the food and drinks are being served, sit at a corner and observe. Stop setting yourself up for insults.

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/if-you-are-the-poorest-amongst-your-siblings-or-not-doing-well-financially-avoid-family-gatherings-until-you-have-money-nigerian-lady-says/

SWATMan:


Wealth and privilege can insulate ones experience of how the world works and obscure the realities of marginalization. There is also some scientific evidence that wealth and privilege can reduce empathy and compassion for those less fortunate.

The combination of assuming everyone has the same rights, privileges and opportunities, ignorance of differential treatment/exclusion/discrimination, victim blaming and a belief that hard work is always a path to success makes it easier to justify the differences between people and focus energy on policy that helps those who are perceived as helping themselves or contributing to society (and ignore those who are not).

Before you argue about poor people who made it big - there is a big difference between temporary poverty and marginalization, so I’m not talking about the rags to riches crowd. Marginalization can be crippling, learn about it before you judge people it has nothing to do with tribe or region. When you are poor you become powerless and when you are powerless, you become desperate! This is psychology and not social studies.⁷

Successful people are not better, they don’t work harder, and they are not more deserving, they are just lucky.

money121:
If you are the poorest amongst your siblings or not doing well financially, avoid family gatherings until you have money - Nigerian lady says

Lolo Nneka Obani Wrote on her Wall:


If you know you are the poorest amongst yoursiblings or you aren't doing well financially, l recommend that you avoid family occasions or gatherings until you have money. If you must attend, kindly sit at a corner like a visitor.
Let the people that are serving the food and souvenir serve you like one of the guests, so you don't end up embarrassing yourself.
Do not go close to where the food and drinks are being served, sit at a corner and observe. Stop setting yourself up for insults.

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/if-you-are-the-poorest-amongst-your-siblings-or-not-doing-well-financially-avoid-family-gatherings-until-you-have-money-nigerian-lady-says/

Nackzy:
I am a geologist bsc/msc

Nackzy:
hmmm okay ah don hear but funny enough I am not that type

Nackzy:
hmmm okay ah don hear but funny enough I am not that type

Johnjustice:

If you get money lift up your brother otherwise you be winch.

oluxy:


You don't expect every family to walk in the same trend or lift styles as your family.

There are family who shares bond despite they are not equal.
Deal with your family issue, don't extend your problem to us

SWATMan:


Keep deceiving yourself. She posted nothing but the truth and it happens in most households. It's human nature and our shortcomings and not necessarily hatred for the disadvantaged person.

Sammy101111:
I just pray God helps it not easy oh having younger ones richer than you in the family. They put you aside and put them in front of you that is call wealth but I know this year it will be different for me our last family gathering Na people way sponsor they serve oh 😂. If you no sponsor no complain say them give you one meat or small meat for your family house 😂

egopersonified:


Bros, when God picks your call, change the narrative. When they give you two pieces of meat as you have arrived, give your plate to the poorest and collect his. A life free of oppression is the best life. I made more money in 2023 and literally stopped going to parties. I wear my slippers to church, no more heels and I trek, I leave my car at home. People are asking me now what I am using or eating that I look younger. My brother, na peace of mind free from oppressing people and people oppressing me.

Lifeinlight:
You can't lift them up on your own. You no be Jesus Christ. Even FG no fit lift Nigerians out of poverty. Since no be ritual or drugs you do, there are limit to what you can do to help your siblings

Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight