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Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by RussellRutherfo: 7:40pm On Jan 07, 2024
DenreleDave:
I Bash igbos bcox they bash my tribe as well but not anymore...

I have many good people in my circle ranging from all tribes especially good igbos...

So I'm off tribal fight... Peace
You dey fear Seun ban, tribal bigot?
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Katcall: 8:17pm On Jan 07, 2024
Mosba:
Believe that at your own peril. Money chasing you after marriage?
Single guys, they want to hook you down to their level. I was told the same thing, now it all regrettable listening in the first place
are you married
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by 1Sharon(f): 8:21pm On Jan 07, 2024
StrongAlphMale:
Yes it is. Esp for a Nigerian women.

They can literally commit suicide if they do not see any man to marry them. To A Nigerian lady, marriage is an achievement especially when she knows she's already an evening newspaper but a simp luckily crosses her path to marry her
Seems you think it's an achievement yourself. Because why would you call Unmarried women evening newspapers?
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Billy001: 8:22pm On Jan 07, 2024
One too many
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by BluntCrazeMan: 8:23pm On Jan 07, 2024
I don't want to say “DRUG MONEY”
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by DenreleDave(m): 9:04pm On Jan 07, 2024
RussellRutherfo:
You dey fear Seun ban, tribal bigot?
Same as you.. Tribal bigot tongue tongue tongue
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Yenitemidot: 9:40pm On Jan 07, 2024
Dey Play..... If poverty chase U inside Marriage Na depression go kill U...
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by RussellRutherfo: 9:42pm On Jan 07, 2024
DenreleDave:
Same as you.. Tribal bigot tongue tongue tongue
Tribal bigot so you sell?
Is that your whatsapp number there?
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Dybala11(m): 9:49pm On Jan 07, 2024
lexy2014:
if it is not his business whether their money is legal or illegal, how is it her business if people choose to marry or not?

if it should not be his business, why is she telling the world that her husband has built house?
I like your line of argument jor.
You see this year 2024, no gree for anybody o. 🤝
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Dybala11(m): 9:54pm On Jan 07, 2024
Ubdavis:
U should have disclosed his sauces of income too
Or she should disclose the ingredients for egg sauce. Say na SAUCES of income. 🤣🤣🤣
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Dybala11(m): 10:07pm On Jan 07, 2024
edunaragold:
Pls pardon me for sliding in I have don't alot of research,I marry my orlu wife with sone loan from a friend,less than 5months before she moves in,my salary was increased,am a yoruba boy,she took in immediately,while pregnant I bought a land ,she gave birth I started building,only for the wife to feel bad and thinking I did not by material things for her,trust me her Igbo people started seeing me as a fool,I am not sending anything for then back in imo,they started manipulating her to return back,they frustrated me ,I no mind them ,she said if I don't come to see her family ,as she done go report how we dey manage to them thanks to her busy body elder sister who came for omugwor,went to tell her mom am living believe the poor line,my guy as a Lagos guy I just dey manage dey chop small build ,chop small build,while she and her family were expecting me to carry money come dash them for village and claim one odogwu,I did like an Hausa man,dey manager my eba and soup treak dey go work,they said am stingy ,she told me to come and take my bride price back,she told me she will cheat on me ,I no mind them, because I know how igbo people behave,them go want make u come carry thier family problem,I luck up if them like make them Bleep the wife well well,oga my point is now I am now a landlord ,many people can't build after they have kids ,I could not built ,but the marriage gave me a blessing ,many of my friends that started before me wey carry family problems for head never build, marriage is a blessing,na for only East them get that mentality say if you never blow u go suffer, if u go marry,emeka Ike had all and marry ,still the wife japa like orlu woman carry pikin go back,if I was not married how would I have kid and still build,
Bro no dey reason am, northerns here are Also marriage and doing well,na now igbo boys eyes open say na east that rubbish dey wey u must get all before u marry ,even your wife can be a blessing ,I don't mean to insult you bro but encouragement ,if u date Igbo girl na them dey give una the choice say them no wan suffer oo,while a Northern Igbo man who is 25 already has two kids ,and one igbo boy in east dey wait till 45 he becomes a married man,oga go yoruba land ,go north ,leave that igbo land and see small small boys doing well in marry build a house with 50k salary ,na una said them dey want standard.even in west south , people are Young in marriage and doing well with 30k salary,na our igbo girls manipulate us that even if we old done make money we go see wife ,that's is bullshit,a yoruba lady or northern lady will marry you for 300k but igbo na lie,when I see my Igbo friends clocking 40 I always laugh say baba na when this una money go come me am already on two kids ,now most Igbo woman usually born when the man do one small invest ,they will born,but yoruba and hausa na lie o, after two yrs them born again , after 1yr plus them born again,come north or west here hold 300k I swear you go marry leave that amaka wey dey reach 40yrs wey wait for Jesus or Elijah make he make money first when old age is going,when the man die as she senor the woman,the woman will remain and enjoy the house with another man wey u done suffer build at 50, think about it, don't let igbo woman tie u down say make money first ,why you see most of them being a single mom,. marriage has its own blessings,na igbo woman dey wan distract our from marriage so we can carry thier family join our own family dey train,there by delayed one.oga family problem no dey finish no this and know peace ,in west and north and south,once u dey work na marriage ,leave the richest to God ,things will fall in place.
You should have done a better a better job of making your comments less disjointed sir.
Anyway, concerning the subject of discussion, I disagree with quite a lot of things written in your comment o. Your problem is that you're fixated on the money that'll be spent on the wedding and the bride price. How the hell do you expect a man that's making a meagre 50k to be able to take adequate care of his family??
That 50k is not even up to the school fees of many private secondary school per term. Yet you expect the man to cater for feeding, schooling, accommodation and other miscellaneous expenses from that meagre amount?
I'm not even talking about making your wife and kids to be exposed to a life of luxury o, I'm actually talking about the basic necessities fah. It's better to stay single than bring an innocent child into penury.

1 Timothy 5:8 (KJV)
But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Dybala11(m): 10:12pm On Jan 07, 2024
edunaragold:
lol oga i too was afraid to marry ,when I married honestly my salary was increased,I bought a land ,I started building,the funny thing was that I borrow a loans from a friend and got married ,since I was working, surprising now am moving to my house here in osun state .if both couple know wetin them dey do ,they will be more than survival.
Bro, it was not the marriage that made you achieve whatever you did. It was your resourcefulness and being intentional about what you want, coupled with the grace of God that did. There are probably millions of married couples living in abject poverty and probably millions of parents that are unable to give adequate care to their children. This is evident looking at the number of almajiris we have roaming the streets in all nooks and crannies of the country, yet governors in the Northern part of Nigeria have kept up their act of conducting mass marriage for people in abject penury. Dey play o, just dey play.
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by emperor4love(m): 10:37pm On Jan 07, 2024
RussellRutherfo:
You sure her husband no be one of those 91m Naira kidnappers?
all am sure with such dress nd brings,nigga nd wife not in legitimate stuff plus na that woman motivate nigga to do whatever dat is bringing such money....na there type de push guys into shaddy stuff to pepper her friends...na wen e burst e go liv de guy to carry em cross
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by NewDea4: 10:50pm On Jan 07, 2024
adesegun121:
“Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady Says As She Flaunts What She And Her Husband Achieved In One Year Of Marriage

She wrote: “Yoh! Is my one year marriage anniversary/house warming. Anywhere you see God thank him for me

Marriage that brought lots of blessings just in one year. God I give you the glory.

This four bedroom bungalow was pulled up just in a month and two weeks. In the space of November 15th to this date.

Not just this, plots of lands, well furnished apartment in Enugu and Lagos all in one year. I’m that lady that found the grace of God in marriage. I declare more fruitful years and prosperity in our lives. Happy one year anniversary to us. Toast to many more achievements 🥂🍾

Tomorrow we party hard. Nwunye odogwu 🙌🤟”

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/stop-chasing-money-go-and-marry-money-will-start-chasing-you-nigerian-lady-says-as-she-flaunts-what-she-and-her-husband-achieved-in-one-year-of-marriage/
Only if you marry a good woman
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by DenreleDave(m): 10:56pm On Jan 07, 2024
RussellRutherfo:
Tribal bigot so you sell?
Is that your whatsapp number there?
Tribal bigot, so you buy?
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Konquest: 11:27pm On Jan 07, 2024
adesegun121:
“Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady Says As She Flaunts What She And Her Husband Achieved In One Year Of Marriage

She wrote: “Yoh! Is my one year marriage anniversary/house warming. Anywhere you see God thank him for me

Marriage that brought lots of blessings just in one year. God I give you the glory.

This four bedroom bungalow was pulled up just in a month and two weeks. In the space of November 15th to this date.

Not just this, plots of lands, well furnished apartment in Enugu and Lagos all in one year. I’m that lady that found the grace of God in marriage. I declare more fruitful years and prosperity in our lives. Happy one year anniversary to us. Toast to many more achievements 🥂🍾

Tomorrow we party hard. Nwunye odogwu 🙌🤟”

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/stop-chasing-money-go-and-marry-money-will-start-chasing-you-nigerian-lady-says-as-she-flaunts-what-she-and-her-husband-achieved-in-one-year-of-marriage/
An impressive bungalow building.
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Konquest: 12:02am On Jan 08, 2024
edunaragold:
Pls pardon me for sliding in I have don't alot of research,I marry my orlu wife with sone loan from a friend,less than 5months before she moves in,my salary was increased,am a yoruba boy,she took in immediately,while pregnant I bought a land ,she gave birth I started building,only for the wife to feel bad and thinking I did not by material things for her,trust me her Igbo people started seeing me as a fool,I am not sending anything for then back in imo,they started manipulating her to return back,they frustrated me ,I no mind them ,she said if I don't come to see her family ,as she done go report how we dey manage to them thanks to her busy body elder sister who came for omugwor,went to tell her mom am living believe the poor line,my guy as a Lagos guy I just dey manage dey chop small build ,chop small build,while she and her family were expecting me to carry money come dash them for village and claim one odogwu,I did like an Hausa man,dey manager my eba and soup treak dey go work,they said am stingy ,she told me to come and take my bride price back,she told me she will cheat on me ,I no mind them, because I know how igbo people behave,them go want make u come carry thier family problem,I luck up if them like make them Bleep the wife well well,oga my point is now I am now a landlord ,many people can't build after they have kids ,I could not built ,but the marriage gave me a blessing ,many of my friends that started before me wey carry family problems for head never build, marriage is a blessing,na for only East them get that mentality say if you never blow u go suffer, if u go marry,emeka Ike had all and marry ,still the wife japa like orlu woman carry pikin go back,if I was not married how would I have kid and still build,
Bro no dey reason am, northerns here are Also marriage and doing well,na now igbo boys eyes open say na east that rubbish dey wey u must get all before u marry ,even your wife can be a blessing ,I don't mean to insult you bro but encouragement ,if u date Igbo girl na them dey give una the choice say them no wan suffer oo,while a Northern Igbo man who is 25 already has two kids ,and one igbo boy in east dey wait till 45 he becomes a married man,oga go yoruba land ,go north ,leave that igbo land and see small small boys doing well in marry build a house with 50k salary ,na una said them dey want standard.even in west south , people are Young in marriage and doing well with 30k salary,na our igbo girls manipulate us that even if we old done make money we go see wife ,that's is bullshit,a yoruba lady or northern lady will marry you for 300k but igbo na lie,when I see my Igbo friends clocking 40 I always laugh say baba na when this una money go come me am already on two kids ,now most Igbo woman usually born when the man do one small invest ,they will born,but yoruba and hausa na lie o, after two yrs them born again , after 1yr plus them born again,come north or west here hold 300k I swear you go marry leave that amaka wey dey reach 40yrs wey wait for Jesus or Elijah make he make money first when old age is going,when the man die as she senor the woman,the woman will remain and enjoy the house with another man wey u done suffer build at 50, think about it, don't let igbo woman tie u down say make money first ,why you see most of them being a single mom,. marriage has its own blessings,na igbo woman dey wan distract our from marriage so we can carry thier family join our own family dey train,there by delayed one.oga family problem no dey finish no this and know peace ,in west and north and south,once u dey work na marriage ,leave the richest to God ,things will fall in place.
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Konquest: 12:10am On Jan 08, 2024
1Sharon:
Seems you think it's an achievement yourself. Because why would you call Unmarried women evening newspapers?
That struck a nerve with you... cheesy

Seriously though, that kind of stereotyping of unmarried women who are in their late 20s to mid-40s is unintelligent tbh. Having inner peace and financial fulfillment while staying married or unmarried should be the primary goal in life.
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Anny69: 12:22am On Jan 08, 2024
Jeon:
Stop forcing others to follow up with your steps.


What brought you out from grave can take others to that same grave.
You nailed it! Women who think they can't make it in life without men are so annoying.
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by 1Sharon(f): 1:06am On Jan 08, 2024
Konquest:
That struck a nerve with you... cheesy

Seriously though, that kind of stereotyping of unmarried women who are in their late 20s to mid-40s is unintelligent tbh. Having inner peace and financial fulfillment while staying married or unmarried should be the primary goal in life.
No it didn't. His hypocrisy struck me. If you're saying marraige isn't an achievement for women, why call unmarried women names?
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by usagee36: 2:34am On Jan 08, 2024
Haha loki.
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by ogbumosquito1(m): 7:38am On Jan 08, 2024
Get yourself ready before dabbling into marriage else,na one way flight to poverty be that.
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Ubdavis(m): 9:57am On Jan 08, 2024
Dybala11:
Or she should disclose the ingredients for egg sauce. Say na SAUCES of income. 🤣🤣🤣
Source, I meant to write
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Allisgud: 5:11pm On Jan 08, 2024
I really need to get married o,my tank don too full,I need a woman who Will always be available for me to dispose it steady
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Allisgud: 5:12pm On Jan 08, 2024
I really need to get married o,my tank don too full,I need a woman who Will always be available for me to dispose it steady grin
Re: “Stop Chasing Money, Go And Marry, Money Will Start Chasing You” — Nigerian Lady by Konquest: 11:04pm On Jan 08, 2024
1Sharon:
No it didn't. His hypocrisy struck me. If you're saying marraige isn't an achievement for women, why call unmarried women names?
Indeed, Sharon. After reading your dialectic feedback here, he'll learn to always THINK things through in a non-hypocritical manner before typing on a discussion forum like this. grin

Last but not least, it seems you work in the medical line as a doc or nurse?

Okay then, you take care...
Happy New Year (2024).
Ciao.
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