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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Tonytonex(m): 7:35pm On Jan 09
Jeon:
No no no no, they can't.
It will inflict serious injuries to their egos. They can make the lady to go astray from hero to zero, grace to grasses and a mere shadow walking on the Earth, if care is not taken.
This wasn't meant for you. Are you one?

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Tonytonex(m): 7:36pm On Jan 09
bigpicture001:
..like the topic says, can you marry a ladywho is the success driving force in her family, one who has siblings nd parents depending on her..?

yes gat gat a good job!
Who no like better thing?
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Ejiakusmith(m): 7:37pm On Jan 09
For me I will Marry her 💞.... And I can't be scared or intimidated by her success that another avenue for me to challenge my destiny ............ So why are those feminist in the first 🥇 page running their mouths up their 🤷🤷💪🤷
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by ROYALMAXCLEANER: 7:37pm On Jan 09
madridguy:
Like Betta Edu?



Chai.. see someone bread winner here in one of the e f c c office today

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Funflipper: 7:40pm On Jan 09
Ravenna:
Yes I can

Please don't even think of it if she is Nigerian.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by frog12: 7:41pm On Jan 09
at TIMES you wish woman do not have money. the TROUBLES some of them cause is not worth it at all.

once some of them are breadwinners, or think they are, they destabilise everything. it's very BAD !
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Connected1: 7:42pm On Jan 09
Jeon:
No no no no, they can't.
It will inflict serious injuries to their egos. They can make the lady to go astray from hero to zero, grace to grasses and a mere shadow walking on the Earth, if care is not taken.
Shut up and allow men talk.
Your oversabi too much.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Mayplays(f): 7:42pm On Jan 09
frog12:
at TIMES you wish woman do not have money. the TROUBLES some of them cause is not worth it at all.

once some of them are breadwinners, or think they are, they destabilise everything. it's very BAD !
Hahahahahahaha


Men are something else
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Adrian9(m): 7:43pm On Jan 09
Before nkor
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by frog12: 7:44pm On Jan 09
it's true. we experience this. the woman go come dey do things behind your back. giving people money and it affects many things.
it's very BAD. and those woman don't understand their actions. at times, it's like talking to a BLACKHOLE.


Mayplays:
Hahahahahahaha


Men are something else
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Tallesty1(m): 7:44pm On Jan 09
bigpicture001:
..like the topic says, can you marry a ladywho is the success driving force in her family, one who has siblings nd parents depending on her..?

yes gat gat a good job!
NO
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Egoveen: 7:47pm On Jan 09
I go marry,country hard grin
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Connected1: 7:48pm On Jan 09
legba1:
Only a man with nothing going for him will be upset by a woman with such status. She is the bread winner to her parent and siblings, not to me and our children. And provided this will not in anyway intrude or disbalance the support arrangement at home.
That's the issue bro, it tends to intrude in your family arrangement because they will so bill you to even support her brothers to get married.

It's easy to know you haven't dated one talk more of marriage.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Fryx: 7:48pm On Jan 09
bigpicture001:
..like the topic says, can you marry a ladywho is the success driving force in her family, one who has siblings nd parents depending on her..?

yes gat gat a good job!

I will make her stop. If she love herself. But I naturally won’t do above my satisfaction, so even if you are dying and I have a personal project I am working on and you aren’t that useful to me… forget it, you can die in peace.

If she like she give her family her life. I will still demand that she do her responsibilities and cut off any thing not adding value to her life. I will convince her though. Not force her.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Postinor: 7:49pm On Jan 09
Jeon:
No no no no, they can't.
It will inflict serious injuries to their egos. They can make the lady to go astray from hero to zero, grace to grasses and a mere shadow walking on the Earth, if care is not taken.
I want to Bleep you, how much for a night
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Basicend: 7:49pm On Jan 09
Jeon:
No no no no, they can't.
It will inflict serious injuries to their egos. They can make the lady to go astray from hero to zero, grace to grasses and a mere shadow walking on the Earth, if care is not taken.

Bebebebebebbebbebe. . . Calm down, young woman.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by frog12: 7:49pm On Jan 09
SOME of those woman, it is just the MONEY STATUS that's driving them.
they no go listen to anyone after that. DIEZANI is one of them. BETTA EDU is also another one.

Connected1:

That's the issue bro, it tends to intrude in your family arrangement because they will so bill you to even support her brothers to get married.

It's easy to know you haven't dated one talk more of marriage.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Fiscus105(m): 7:50pm On Jan 09
saphiere:
Nigerian men are afraid of independent women.
They are intimidated by our successes.
They need women that are solely dependant on them so that they can use those women as they whish.


How many Nigerian men afraid of independent woman? How many afraid women's success?

.....be going out with good guy, u say no, why won't end in the hands of rascals?

I will advise you to look beyond hopeless urchins in outside world.

Several of ur peers are not only progress in their careers but also flourishing in their marriages.

THIS IS NEW YEAR OO, IS NOT TOO LATE TO MAKE AMENDMENT BY OPEN UR EYES WIDE, GOOD MAN IS FAR BEYOND SIX PACK OR LONG MAN.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Negroid001(m): 7:54pm On Jan 09
Jeon:
No no no no, they can't.
It will inflict serious injuries to their egos. They can make the lady to go astray from hero to zero, grace to grasses and a mere shadow walking on the Earth, if care is not taken.
Will you allow your brother or son marry one?
Given the nature of your gender.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by BadBradley: 7:55pm On Jan 09
Ejiakusmith:
For me I will Marry her 💞.... And I can't be scared or intimidated by her success that another avenue for me to challenge my destiny ............ So why are those feminist in the first 🥇 page running their mouths up their 🤷🤷💪🤷
it takes a special grace for a woman who is the breadwinner not to be toxic and useless.

Women generally cannot handle power and responsibility.
Here are some of the disadvantages of women with so much money.

* Her Family will not respect you even if you have your own money

* She will not seek your permission before making certain crucial and vital decisions

* Given how vulnerable and easily deceived women are, expect many idle men both family members, neighbours and friends to patronise her with false praises to obtain money grant or gift from her.

* Make no mistake, God made men to protect women not just with physical strength but with a key sense of caution, suspicion, and a bit of conservatism. The more money she has the less likely your control and protection will be.

* When she runs into trouble with her money either being duped by family members or friends, it becomes your responsibility to get it back or fight for her but not your responsibility to control how she spends the money.

* Remember making money takes time and effort, the more money she makes the less time she has at home and the less sex.

* Unlike men, when a woman comes into money she looks down on everyone including her husband except you're way richer than her.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by chiboycue: 7:56pm On Jan 09
bigpicture001:
..like the topic says, can you marry a ladywho is the success driving force in her family, one who has siblings nd parents depending on her..?

yes gat gat a good job!


Yes I can. There is no harm in marrying such lady.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Nackzy: 7:56pm On Jan 09
Naaaaaaaa i can't, women don't respect especially when they start spending their money on a man
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Franzinni: 7:57pm On Jan 09
She married you .... Remember jomoke the bread seller, as soon as she tasted power what did she do?


Women are naturally hypergamous... Don't dull!!!
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by frog12: 7:58pm On Jan 09
the BEST post so far smiley smiley

BadBradley:
it takes a special grace for a woman who is the breadwinner not to be toxic and useless.

Women generally cannot handle power and responsibility.
Here are some of the disadvantages of women with so much money.

* Her Family will not respect you even if you have your own money

* She will not seek your permission before making certain crucial and vital decisions

* Given how vulnerable and easily deceived women are, expect many idle men both family members, neighbours and friends to patronise her with false praises to obtain money grant or gift from her.

* Make no mistake, God made man to protect women not just with physical strength but with a key sense of caution, suspicion, and a bit of conservatism. The more money she has the less likely your control and protection is less.

* When she runs into trouble with her money either being dubbed by family members or friends, it becomes your responsibility to get it back or fight for her but not your responsibility to control how she spends the money.

* Remember making money takes time and effort, the more money she makes the less time she's has at home and the less sex.

* Unlike men, when a woman comes into money she looks down on everyone including her husband except you're way richer than her.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by AbuTwins: 7:58pm On Jan 09
Rara oo
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by BloomingDale(f): 8:00pm On Jan 09
Postinor:
I want to Bleep you, how much for a night

Describe your prick first?
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by id4sho(m): 8:01pm On Jan 09
fineboynl:
No, I have one she is the first daughter and bread winner.

She is begging me for marriage. But I can see so many things she is not seeing. I just refuse oh.

If she is from well to do home at atleast manageable. But from a poor family run oh you can't escape the billings.

The money she is making you are not seeing it in her body.
Good bless you
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Mayflowa(m): 8:04pm On Jan 09
Vinnie2000:


Who ask you? Are you a Man/Guy

OverSabi go Kill Monkey, one day! embarassed undecided

Because she cannot talk because you are the police here. Whenever women are asked questions on nairaland, men are mostly the commenters. This is a public space. Everyone needs to have tolerance for the next person.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Clara16(f): 8:05pm On Jan 09
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To the subject:

There is nothing bad about the woman been a bread winner. The man on his own should understand.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by pansophist(m): 8:07pm On Jan 09
Yes, they are the best kind of women. Any woman that takes care of others altruistically, will take care of you, if she loves you.

You can build with this kind of women, and you don't have to explain much about issue regarding finances because she understands, she has been there.

The only downside I can think of is the area of "spill over". You might have to assume her financial responsibilities when she can't, and you'll probably deal with issues regarding making her family responsibilities your responsibility.

But I believe such issue can be iron out in genuine discourse. But a woman that gives to her family is God sent, all things being equal.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by jubrilELsudan: 8:07pm On Jan 09
AS E BE SO I GO MARRY HER OOOOO CAUSE I DEY LIKE TO CHOP BREAD WELL WELL OOOOO

Re: Can You Marry A Lady Bread-winner..? by Stevosty: 8:08pm On Jan 09
you don't want a hustler but one that will sit at home cooking for only you, like you can take care of her, such ladies are rare gem, a little help from you, both families will be wealthy.

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