reddingtonblack:



And on a 2nd thought have you considered the possibility the guy can't afford that wig or you think guyz just enjoy denying there partners items they can afford

the guy said he couldn't afford the wig. But he could come up with options that could make up for the particular wig she asked for.
Well many guys deny their ladies what they can afford if they feel she doesn't worth it.

reddingtonblack:
I laugh whenever i see netizens reminisce sit her down nd have a communication, sounds reasonable BUT what gives you the impression he hasnt done that already

From her outbursts u would know he has done that already. Communication doesn't just boil down to sitting ur lady down and start talking. Even when she asked him for the wig, he could suggest something cheaper and nice too. This is also communication.

reddingtonblack:
Humans don't just wake up and get fed up, there is always a build up and we all have gauge, patience with a materialistic gurl is a waste of time she will serve you break the day she meet one yahoo boy or rich man that can pay premium subscription

I am very sure the guy is always not giving the lady many things she wants, (her outbursts clearly states that).
After all he didn't state she's materialistic because if she was, he wouldn't engage her.

The guy got fed up because he was so sure he couldn't maintain the lady even as a husband.
And when one have slept with a lady he's not married to several times wetin remain again?
Any small tin na to serve her hot breakfast. Which the guy did.





Well, i understand how guys shirk when a girl starts billing.
I have understanding to a level and i can relate since i am a married man.

Pecoleee345:


Spoke out of pain cos of wig??

Once again I think the problem is actually family base.

A lady well brought up and not from a hungry home won't behave such a way cos of nonsense wig.

You ain't financially stable as a woman and you disturbing a man to buy you wig isn't that an act of foolishness.


Lastly kindly Google the meaning of An Adult so you can stop calling anyone stingy.

Thank you. There's no book of law that says the man MUST buy wig for the woman.

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should have tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

Stfu!

Pecoleee345:


So once he can take care of her need at that point next thing Is to curse him??

Like is wig even something that important??

Abi o. Imagine if for some sudden difficulties the man cannot pay children's school fees 12 years into the marriage?

Na Okija abi Ijebu Ode the lady go go find correct Dibia/Babalawo/shrine to swear for the guy.

The guy made the best decision. Nor gree for any entitled nonentity.

OluwaSegun0509:
My dear, find a billionaire like your dad. No offence.

Guy I am telling you what my ex girlfriend told me, I am not the one saying that

Justkatty:
Truth be told, both were already tired of the relationship and by that looking for the slightest opportunity to end it .

Do you call that a slight oppourtunity? That is a very huge sign for any man that is not a fool.

This is the true reflection of our society, some men have already entered this trap and living in agony because they couldn't control their 3rd leg, relationship is not a meal ticket, we must educate the coming generation that cursing your partner because he couldn't afford to buy you a wig is wrong.


Seun

What a Perfect Topic to interview the new moderators, can you use this topic to examine your potential picks for the available position? Who will the moderator ban, which comment is improper and which comment should should be deleted and which we should be left

placeofallure:


Man, you did the right thing. What kind of entitlement mentality is that? She was so desperate she placed a curse on the man, no nah!

It feels good to collect money from your man, every woman loves that sense of financial security, but you won't have him break the bank for you. Especially when he doesn't have and it's not a life threatening situation. All through the yuletide season, I no make any hair o, I just comb my hair in a bun and I'm ready to go, it was my best Christmas ever cause I didn't lack anything. I just made the hair this Saturday in readiness for work this week. This is a big, huge, humongous red flag. Thank goodness he had the sense to leave.

Moreso, she should be able to buy the wig herself, that's what real slay queens do.

Women should be up and doing on their own. What if something happens to the man - sickness or death - will you go a begging for the rest of your life?

We will support women without entitlement mentality, this is the best comment ever, very reasonable comment.

Raphsays:


the guy said he couldn't afford the wig. But he could come up with options that could make up for the particular wig she asked for.
Well many guys deny their ladies what they can afford if they feel she doesn't worth it.



From her outbursts u would know he has done that already. Communication doesn't just boil down to sitting ur lady down and start talking. Even when she asked him for the wig, he could suggest something cheaper and nice too. This is also communication.



I am very sure the guy is always not giving the lady many things she wants, (her outbursts clearly states that).
After all he didn't state she's materialistic because if she was, he wouldn't engage her.

The guy got fed up because he was so sure he couldn't maintain the lady even as a husband.
And when one have slept with a lady he's not married to several times wetin remain again?
Any small tin na to serve her hot breakfast. Which the guy did.





Well, i understand how guys shirk when a girl starts billing.
I have understanding to a level and i can relate since i am a married man.

Should a lady who isn't financially balanced be disturbing her man to buy her a wig??

Am also a married man and there Absolutely nothing wrong with what the guy did.

At some point in life only a lazy lady will curse her man cos he can't get her wig.

She not disturbing him to assist her in getting something to do.....wig is her problem in this current economy situation.


Lastly a married man like you should know sex is two people act and should stop trying make it look like it men that gains from it.

"One has slept with a lady "is a very wrong statement

Am happy to back to the Nairaland page. Congratulations !

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should have tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

A woman's loyalty is tested when a man is financially down and his faithfulness is when he's made it. Your comment lacks sensitivity. You thought the guy ended the relationship because of wig right? Well i believe you may have the same mindset and approach to relationships and that's wrong. She spoke from the depth of her heart which is frightening. Any man who overlooks such subtle outburst from a woman you intend spending your life with is doomed.

Dancebreaker:

Abi o. Imagine if for some sudden difficulties the man cannot pay children's school fees 12 years into the marriage?

Na Okija abi Ijebu Ode the lady go go find correct Dibia/Babalawo/shrine to swear for the guy.

The guy made the best decision. Nor gree for any entitled nonentity.

Brooo 😂😂😂

She doesn't behaves like a serious person , is the wig her problem? there are many good things a sensible ladies can demand from a man and if the resources are not there yet , we expected such lady to be considerate , let her go if the wig is her priority for now and is a total rubbish for her be cursing you join , my brother stay away from such woman. May God help us

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should have tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

I now see why you are old with no husband, you lack sense of judgment...

My baby mama was pregnant and cursed me all because I teased her of brushing abnormally.... We both suffered the consequences of that curse that I had to let her go at the long run, it was then ways and doors begin to open for me...
Let's assume it is a business she wNted, still understandable but a wig? A liability? Na wa

Justkatty:
Truth be told, both were already tired of the relationship and by that looking for the slightest opportunity to end it .

no matter how much I love you and can sacrifice for you, once curse Don dey enter., it is straight call off

Irupetepete:
I now see why you are old with no husband, you lack sense of judgment...

My baby mama was pregnant and cursed me all because I teased her of brushing abnormally.... We both suffered the consequences of that curse that I had to let her go at the long run, it was then ways and doors begin to open for me...
Let's assume it is a business she wNted, still understandable but a wig? A liability? Na wa

Keep quiet! Your misfortune was not From her curse but from the curse you placed upon yourself by living and fornicating with a woman you have not married. That was why you got liberated when she left . If it was her curse that was affecting you, it would have continued affecting you after she left.

Stop fornicating osim baby mama cursed him.

Justkatty:
A lot dey happen o for this so called relationship

where is Jennyclay and Siofra the leeches of men

Raphsays:


the guy said he couldn't afford the wig. But he could come up with options that could make up for the particular wig she asked for.
Well many guys deny their ladies what they can afford if they feel she doesn't worth it.



From her outbursts u would know he has done that already. Communication doesn't just boil down to sitting ur lady down and start talking. Even when she asked him for the wig, he could suggest something cheaper and nice too. This is also communication.



I am very sure the guy is always not giving the lady many things she wants, (her outbursts clearly states that).
After all he didn't state she's materialistic because if she was, he wouldn't engage her.

The guy got fed up because he was so sure he couldn't maintain the lady even as a husband.
And when one have slept with a lady he's not married to several times wetin remain again?
Any small tin na to serve her hot breakfast. Which the guy did.





Well, i understand how guys shirk when a girl starts billing.
I have understanding to a level and i can relate since i am a married man.

I Find your response amusing, gud but lets review it one by one

What if the gurl was insistent on her choice, judging from experience, ladies love to compete, maybe one of her friend bought peruvian she saw it and the urge to have it overwhelms her ... you think a lesser option will fix that

Some gurlz don't do cheaper, infact most naija babes want to slay on big level ... why do you think the rate of runz & aristo keeps rising ... what if he offered her something cheap and nice but she is insistent .speaking for men babes can be very unreasonable sometimes esp. when she wants to compete/slay


When you realize what you carry is above your "Capacity" drop it is right move ... if he didnt meet the gurl a virgin yet he dated her another guy will pick the lady up ... that thing no get meter

Nobody smiles at billing, nobody wakes up to pray for billing, everyone just try to live up to there responsibility. Guys shirk guyz tew if billing set in, not only gurlz are on the recieving end.

Good to know you are marriage, If you jam some gurlz ehn you go relate better

Jewessgratitud3:


The words were said out of anger. If you check well, she may not really mean it as a curse. She acted on her feelings at the time. She only needs to be corrected not thrown out like that.

What if she didn't say it out and is cursing him behind his back? That one too dey happen and the man will never know.

Abeg the lady spoke out of pain. The man too stingy

She deserves it...she should learn when and how to speak.....why make such nonsense statement....it should never be accepted.

Intrepid01:
This is the story of the life of most people nowadays, you have to regularly renew your love subscription with cash and material gifts or else wives would withdraw their love or support. It is very ridiculous and disheartening as women are becoming crazy. I wish I could say more. The institution called marriage is becoming meaningless by the hour.

So true and very disheartening

Sonnobax15:
. . The way some of una dey reason sometimes dey make me dey wonder if na pap dey inside una brains or e just empty throway

So simply because I'm in a relationship with a woman,she should now see it as a MUST-DO something that I must provide all her needs? . Come on nigha, which particular pap dey inside your brain exactly? Guinea corn,or custard?

😂because custard can still serve as brain small, but guinea corn....kaiii

Nigerian girls are worst to date in Africa because every thing about them is money.

[quote

It feels good to collect money from your man, every woman loves that sense of financial security, but you won't have him break the bank for you. Especially when he doesn't have and it's not a life threatening situation. All through the yuletide season, I no make any hair o, I just comb my hair in a bun and I'm ready to go, it was my best Christmas ever cause I didn't lack anything. I just made the hair this Saturday in readiness for work this week. This is a big, huge, humongous red flag. Thank goodness he had the sense to leave.

Moreso, she should be able to buy the wig herself, that's what real slay queens do.

Women should be up and doing on their own. What if something happens to the man - sickness or death - will you go a begging for the rest of your life? [/quote] Wow, such a lady like you still exist? Blessed are you among women, wish I can know you better.

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the guy said he couldn't afford the wig. But he could come up with options that could make up for the particular wig she asked for.
Well many guys deny their ladies what they can afford if they feel she doesn't worth it.



From her outbursts u would know he has done that already. Communication doesn't just boil down to sitting ur lady down and start talking. Even when she asked him for the wig, he could suggest something cheaper and nice too. This is also communication.



I am very sure the guy is always not giving the lady many things she wants, (her outbursts clearly states that).
After all he didn't state she's materialistic because if she was, he wouldn't engage her.

The guy got fed up because he was so sure he couldn't maintain the lady even as a husband. FOR THE GUY, IT'S NO MORE ABOUT THE WIG, IT'S BECAUSE OF THE CURSE SHE WAS PLACING ON HIM IN THE NAME OF GOD.

FFIA:

where is Jennyclay and Siofra the leeches of men

What about them?

OKOATA:
Oga I can bet it with you that you are a broke ass nigga, so you like to be in a relationship with a Naija girl and you expect not to atleast spend? I'm not saying he should buy the wig but give her what you can afford. So if you were rich and your lady tells you to buy her something you won't because you are forming Mr red pill or what? No be everything you go dey form hard guy for woman Mr dadandidin.

Guy abeg why you mumu like this.?

Oooo. Tha k God sey una neva marry. Seek ways to move your life better and forward. God is your strength.

ExudeLoveToAll:



Guy I am telling you what my ex girlfriend told me, I am not the one saying that

OluwaSegun0509:
Oooo. Tha k God sey una neva marry. Seek ways to move your life better and forward. God is your strength.

Yeah , interesting im doing that..thanks

Two adults, planning to live out the rest of their lives together, and one coursing the other because of wig She still thinks she's talking to her sugar daddy...😕

Pecoleee345:


Spoke out of pain cos of wig??

Once again I think the problem is actually family base.

A lady well brought up and not from a hungry home won't behave such a way cos of nonsense wig.

You ain't financially stable as a woman and you disturbing a man to buy you wig isn't that an act of foolishness.


Lastly kindly Google the meaning of An Adult so you can stop calling anyone stingy.

God is our strength. 🙏🙏🙏

ExudeLoveToAll:


Yeah , interesting im doing that..thanks

pussyAvenger:


Guy abeg why you mumu like this.?

No spend for your lady. Another guy go spend knack am and your eyes go clear, you go later come nairaland come cry.

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should have tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

Keep denying her what exactly? If you need wig then you should go and buy it yourself. If your boyfriend decides to buy it for you then you should be grateful or else it is not his responsibility. Relationship is not poverty alleviation