You have been played bro, trust me she will still fvck that man over and over again and even other men, this is the one that she couldn't cover her track and u found out. Those tears are just emotional blackmail to Checkmate your mumu button, this is a serious red flag but because your mumu love no allow u see road, u will end up forgiving her, and eventually marry her, then she will show u shege pro max.

You are welcome, my advice will soon come with a pay, ayam tired of dishing out free advice to simps for free of Charge

ERCROSS:
Don't take back a cheating hoe, broh

na knife he suppose take back abi

Available9:
HIV loading

Dude

kelvinakproko:
Thank You Nairalanders for the counsel offered on my previous thread (link below).
So yesterday I threatened to quit the relationship if she doesn't tell the truth about the movement I spoke about in detail in the previous thread. She confessed that there's been a sugar daddy (he already has a wife). She said she didn't know what came over her. She had spent a whole week before with him some months earlier unknowing to me before the last movement that made me suspect something wasn't fine.

Now I guess where the financial support was coming from then. They both discuss me and the sugar daddy even give her tips on how to cover up after meeting him. From the chats she showed me, the sugar daddy always ask after me. She said he's been asking her out before we even began the relationship and that it was difficult for her to stop. From the chats she showed me, she had severally told the man that she wants to stop and she ain't cool with the games anymore that she loves her boyfriend.

I also discovered that since the day I suspected her movement, she hasn't been seeing him anymore and evidences from their chat thereafter supports that. She told him her guy is already suspecting her and that she doesn't want to lose her relationship because of several support or help he has given her in the past.

It's been hard to swallow the revelation but she's been crying since yesterday that I should forgive her that she's stopped everything with the man. She called the man that she's already told me about everything that's been going on. And she told him he's disconnecting from him in anyway and she blocked him on all communication channels she has with him.

I couldn't sleep last night. I really want to end it all up despite the fact that there's evidence she stopped the whole thing with the man after I suspected her movement. What do you think I should do?

Link To Previous Thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7961986/forgive-when-she-hasnt-said

Once a cheat is always a cheat, Think about it carefully before taking any decision

Follow your heart bro. Do whatever is on your mind.

You see.. manipulation plenty for women hand.

The day I caught a girl sending to another guy exactly the same sweet words and names she did call me...since then I'm not moved by "my love, my world, what will I do without you in my life, ọkọ mi, I can't live without you" bullshit.

They all part of the emotional manipulation shenanigans. She's making you to pity and believe that you mean a lot to her. But she's just gaslighting you.

Justkatty:
He should make quarter bah?

He should make do with half..🤣

kelvinakproko:
Thank You Nairalanders for the counsel offered on my previous thread (link below).
So yesterday I threatened to quit the relationship if she doesn't tell the truth about the movement I spoke about in detail in the previous thread. She confessed that there's been a sugar daddy (he already has a wife). She said she didn't know what came over her. She had spent a whole week before with him some months earlier unknowing to me before the last movement that made me suspect something wasn't fine.

Now I guess where the financial support was coming from then. They both discuss me and the sugar daddy even give her tips on how to cover up after meeting him. From the chats she showed me, the sugar daddy always ask after me. She said he's been asking her out before we even began the relationship and that it was difficult for her to stop. From the chats she showed me, she had severally told the man that she wants to stop and she ain't cool with the games anymore that she loves her boyfriend.

I also discovered that since the day I suspected her movement, she hasn't been seeing him anymore and evidences from their chat thereafter supports that. She told him her guy is already suspecting her and that she doesn't want to lose her relationship because of several support or help he has given her in the past.

It's been hard to swallow the revelation but she's been crying since yesterday that I should forgive her that she's stopped everything with the man. She called the man that she's already told me about everything that's been going on. And she told him he's disconnecting from him in anyway and she blocked him on all communication channels she has with him.

I couldn't sleep last night. I really want to end it all up despite the fact that there's evidence she stopped the whole thing with the man after I suspected her movement. What do you think I should do?

Link To Previous Thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7961986/forgive-when-she-hasnt-said

Forgive her this time and tag along with her in the relationship but be very observant and smart in dealing with her going forward.

Sorry OP, this one don cast.... Move into the next...

But we suppose dey log all these hoes details for future reference

rabiudon:
He should make do with half..🤣

Guy, you're not a peaceful man

See them special advisers advising the op to leave his girlfriend because she cheated with a Sugar daddy, as if their own girlfriends are saints and virgin Marys lol


Even the so called virgins are cheating; most do anal to reserve the hymen for their clueless obsessed virgin hunter boyfriends and future horsebands lol



The earlier you guys wake up to the reality that fidelity is dying a natural death as global population, unemployment, underemployment, financial lack, social media freedom and civilisation increases the better for you all.



Soon marriages will be expiring at most 10 years as couples will get tired of each other and desire new experience, new pleasure and new things entirely.



Prepare your minds for these things so that when your partner cheats you wont kill yourself over it.



The only thing you should always be preaching to everyone you know is safe sex, always use a condom if you want to do. Do it for your own health, for your own future and for your life not for anybody else because na only who de alive de enjoy life.



As for op, if you still like her, forgive her, dont mind all these sanctimonious people screaming fowl play as if their various girlfriends and fiances are saints. If they show you guys what your partners are doing behind your backs, you guys may never survive the heart attack, so make una stop worrying about these things because they are gradually becoming normal whether you like it or not, you can't change the trend


It's sad but without sugar daddies, a lot of ladies would die of generational poverty and hunger, a lot of ladies wont acquire higher education, many wont have the job they have today, many wouldn't have Japa to the country where they are now making it better than when they were in Nigeria.


You de form boyfriend, how have you helped that girl's life aside sex sex sex? Have you ever helped the poor girl from poor family pay school fees, pay house rent, go for shopping, get a job or promotion? Have you ever helped the poor girl start a business, help her poor struggling parents and siblings? If she mistakenly asks you for help you demonize her and tag her materialistic girl, how then do u expect a girl from poor family to ever get help in a world where men hardly help women for free, let's be honest to ourselves for once, What else do you offer to the poor girl aside promise of marrying her tomorrow that is not even sure and even when you marry her, how is she sure you can provide for her and better her life and that of her poor family financially?


Abeg make una leave the poor girls alone jareh, who go marry them go marry them at the end una go still marry another girl that was a side chick or mistress or sugar girl of another sugar daddy somewhere....even the so called virgins are doing worst but as naive young guys most of u wont understand lol

Ahmed0336:
Just do wetin you get for mind

You sabi.

U better avoid her,the moment you suspect a woman of cheating.Dont ignore, They love cheating and never forgive.breakup before she surprise you again.Sugar daddy don finish her

Sugar daddy don collect her Glory.

Know this and know peace.

drimzsmoke:
Marry her next week Saturday, this Saturday oooo, let the sugar daddy finance your wedding!!!

wicket.

franchasofficia:
See them special advisers advising the op to leave his girlfriend because she cheated with a Sugar daddy, as if their own girlfriends are saints and virgin Marys lol


Even the so called virgins are cheating; most do anal to reserve the hymen for their clueless obsessed virgin hunter boyfriends and future horsebands lol



The earlier you guys wake up to the reality that fidelity is dying a natural death as global population, unemployment, underemployment, financial lack, social media freedom and civilisation increases the better for you all.



Soon marriages will be expiring at most 10 years as couples will get tired of each other and desire new experience, new pleasure and new things entirely.



Prepare your minds for these things so that when your partner cheats you wont kill yourself over it.



The only thing you should always be preaching to everyone you know is safe sex, always use a condom if you want to do. Do it for your own health, for your own future and for your life not for anybody else because na only who de alive de enjoy life.



As for op, if you still like her, forgive her, dont mind all these sanctimonious people screaming fowl play as if their various girlfriends and fiances are saints. If they show you guys what your partners are doing behind your backs, you guys may never survive the heart attack, so make una stop worrying about these things because they are gradually becoming normal whether you like it or not, you can't change the trend


It's sad but without sugar daddies, a lot of ladies would die of generational poverty and hunger, a lot of ladies wont acquire higher education, many wont have the job they have today, many wouldn't have Japa to the country where they are now making it better than when they were in Nigeria.


You de form boyfriend, how have you helped that girl's life aside sex sex sex? Have you ever helped the poor girl from poor family pay school fees, pay house rent, go for shopping, get a job or promotion? Have you ever helped the poor girl start a business, help her poor struggling parents and siblings? If she mistakenly asks you for help you demonize her and tag her materialistic girl, how then do u expect a girl from poor family to ever get help in a world where men hardly help women for free, let's be honest to ourselves for once, What else do you offer to the poor girl aside promise of marrying her tomorrow that is not even sure and even when you marry her, how is she sure you can provide for her and better her life and that of her poor family financially?


Abeg make una leave the poor girls alone jareh, who go marry them go marry them at the end una go still marry another girl that was a side chick or mistress or sugar girl of another sugar daddy somewhere....even the so called virgins are doing worst but as naive young guys most of u wont understand lol

Op, if you read this comment reach half not to talk of actualizing it, then you're a big fool.


And to the person that wasted time to type this gibberish, you're the biggest fool ever liveth.



Look at the audacity in justifying evil.

If your dad had a sugar babe and neglected your mummy and siblings, you won't have come here to justify rubbish.

I'm disgusted.

Jewessgratitud3:


wicket.

Don't mind the guy jare, I told him to leave her the very first day he shared that his first story. I told him the lady had cheated on him and that he should leave her. Now after the confirmation, he still came here asking for advice again. It's because of men like this that made all those yahoo boys with sagging shorts/trousers to be calling themselves one nonsense redpillers!!!

Forgive her first. You know her better, so decide. Don't be moved by those tears. That man is a part of her wether you like it or not, and okafor's law still stands, especially if challenges arise in your relationship later.

you think its easy for a girl to call it quit with a sugar daddy that is giving her money and taking care of her in multiple ways. be smart, be careful and don't ever play yourself.

Therock5555:



Op, if you read this comment reach half not to talk of actualizing it, then you're a big fool.


And to the person that wasted time to type this gibberish, you're the biggest fool ever liveth.



Look at the audacity in justifying evil.

If your dad had a sugar babe and neglected your money and siblings, you won't have come here to justify rubbish.

I'm disgusted.

I am beyond disgusted, he's a fvcking simp advising another simp 😂

Forgive her, but don't marry her for your own sanity sakes...

It's not the conscience pricking her...it's because you suspected and found out the truth eventually. Forget all those crocodile tears.

Except you can live with the memory, then marry her and see if another thing she doesn't know won't come over her again and again with Oga Sugar daddy or someone else.

Your choice though

kelvinakproko:
Thank You Nairalanders for the counsel offered on my previous thread (link below).
So yesterday I threatened to quit the relationship if she doesn't tell the truth about the movement I spoke about in detail in the previous thread. She confessed that there's been a sugar daddy (he already has a wife). She said she didn't know what came over her. She had spent a whole week before with him some months earlier unknowing to me before the last movement that made me suspect something wasn't fine.

Now I guess where the financial support was coming from then. They both discuss me and the sugar daddy even give her tips on how to cover up after meeting him. From the chats she showed me, the sugar daddy always ask after me. She said he's been asking her out before we even began the relationship and that it was difficult for her to stop. From the chats she showed me, she had severally told the man that she wants to stop and she ain't cool with the games anymore that she loves her boyfriend.

I also discovered that since the day I suspected her movement, she hasn't been seeing him anymore and evidences from their chat thereafter supports that. She told him her guy is already suspecting her and that she doesn't want to lose her relationship because of several support or help he has given her in the past.

It's been hard to swallow the revelation but she's been crying since yesterday that I should forgive her that she's stopped everything with the man. She called the man that she's already told me about everything that's been going on. And she told him he's disconnecting from him in anyway and she blocked him on all communication channels she has with him.

I couldn't sleep last night. I really want to end it all up despite the fact that there's evidence she stopped the whole thing with the man after I suspected her movement. What do you think I should do?

Link To Previous Thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7961986/forgive-when-she-hasnt-said

Why do I feel like you just made this up, you just wanted us to say something bad about that lady of which a lot of people didn't and now u are coming up with she said this, she said that, let me ask do u think a woman is that dumb to say she's cheating when she's really doing so? My brother rest you hear?

Your next girl probably has a sugar daddy. If you can assist her financially ask her to stop. Some of the time the sugar daddy lure is financial inducement.

CheedyJ:
Forgiving her is the smallest thing but the real question is, can you deal with the residue of her deeds? For instance, you call and she no pick, wetin go fess come ur mind? Can u really forget wetin don happen, I doubt u can

Prettygirl200:
Why do I feel like you just made this up, you just wanted us to say something bad about that lady of which a lot of people didn't and now u are coming up with she said this, she said that, let me ask do u think a woman is that dumb to say she's cheating when she's really doing so? My brother rest you hear?

You think you're a smart cheater but when you get caught, you'll spill the facts. You didn't see the screenshots I added earlier. So just stop saying nonsense if you got nothing to say.

Girls are very cheap and easy to get.
I met a girl 5 days ago, beautiful and endowed. Many guys including doctors have tried to have sex with her but failed, so someone came to give me the challenge. I said it was easy stuff, give me one week!

I met the girl, talked with her and she became attracted to me. She followed me to my place the second day and I tried initiating some intimacy but I failed! This girl no gree, the third day I went to her place and we went to the market together to get some stuff and she cooked for me, after eating, I tried initiating some intimacy, she refused and left her house for me. Was I too quick in my actions? Was I taking things too far? She asked me the obvious question later in the evening, do I want to Bleep her? Do I want to just play around? I gave my usual answer and she said she isn't giving me anything that she's been celebate for three years that many guys have tried and failed!

Yesterday, she came over to my place and it happened by a stroke of luck! She rode me to the heavens and she had a crazy climax, she couldn't believe what happened and when I thought she would be angry with me, she confessed she loved me and that I shouldn't toy with her brain. She claims not to love guys. Funny enough, I didn't spend any money on her, infact I collected 1k from her two days ago to buy suya and I didn't give her back.

Getting girls is very easy.

In addition, her current bf is a doctor but they haven't bleeped yet. When she was riding me yesterday, the Mumu guy called and she said she's in the hairdresser's place. Ladies can lie ehn!

kelvinakproko:
...

Read this short post titled: The Only 3 Men That Forgive A Cheating Girlfriend Or Woman.

https://www.nairaland.com/7960515/only-3-men-forgive-cheating

This your story may not be true. How is the sex going that she has time to pick the phone after checking who is calling. She is celibate for 3 years and gave it up just like that to you According to you you did not take her out or spend anything on her infact you collected N1k from her and did not return it probably because you don't have. How do you even think of obtaining a girl your asking out?? You don't have ATM or transfer , you had to borrow N1k . Anyways your lies are porous. I wonder what you said to her sef in this your mumu story..

dontrulee:
Girls are very cheap and easy to get.
I met a girl 5 days ago, beautiful and endowed. Many guys including doctors have tried to have sex with her but failed, so someone came to give me the challenge. I said it was easy stuff, give me one week!

I met the girl, talked with her and she became attracted to me. She followed me to my place the second day and I tried initiating some intimacy but I failed! This girl no gree, the third day I went to her place and we went to the market together to get some stuff and she cooked for me, after eating, I tried initiating some intimacy, she refused and left her house for me. Was I too quick in my actions? Was I taking things too far? She asked me the obvious question later in the evening, do I want to Bleep her? Do I want to just play around? I gave my usual answer and she said she isn't giving me anything that she's been celebate for three years that many guys have tried and failed!

Yesterday, she came over to my place and it happened by a stroke of luck! She rode me to the heavens and she had a crazy climax, she couldn't believe what happened and when I thought she would be angry with me, she confessed she loved me and that I shouldn't toy with her brain. She claims not to love guys. Funny enough, I didn't spend any money on her, infact I collected 1k from her two days ago to buy suya and I didn't give her back.

Getting girls is very easy.

In addition, her current bf is a doctor but they haven't bleeped yet. When she was riding me yesterday, the Mumu guy called and she said she's in the hairdresser's place. Ladies can lie ehn!

N

Sucre6:


I am beyond disgusted, he's a fvcking simp advising another simp 😂

If I catch am for bush, I fit wipe am oraimo Cable

skj1377:
This your story may not be true. How is the sex going that she has time to pick the phone after checking who is calling. She is celibate for 3 years and gave it up just like that to you According to you you did not take her out or spend anything on her infact you collected N1k from her and did not return it probably because you don't have. How do you even think of obtaining a girl your asking out?? You don't have ATM or transfer , you had to borrow N1k . Anyways your lies are porous. I wonder what you said to her sef in this your mumu story..

I swear with my life that this story is true whether you believe it or not. If it's about girls, forget it, I'm a pro!

Her boyfriend called, at a point her mother called and she lied to both of them. And yes, I confirmed that she's celebate for three years. How she gave it up for me, me sef don't know the full answer. It just happened. And I didn't spend on her o because she said she doesn't ask guys for money, so it's a plus for me. About the 1k, I wasn't with my wallet at that point in time so I asked her to give me and I told her I won't give her back. That's how it went my gee